Sir Wendel: When we were dating I threaten to spank the misses for misbehaving. She
smiled continued acting up. I put her across my lap and started the
spanking. She enjoyed it and asked for more. Shortly after I learned she
enjoyed dishing it out just as much as taking it. Spanking has been a
part of our relationship ever since.
Yorkie: Way before we were married I told my wife all about me, even the kinky
bits. She knew right from the start and she still married me. She still
spanks me too!
Roz: Great question! If I recall correctly we had both brought up vague
references to spanking from time to time in a fun way teasing each other
or joking and one night one light hearted reference led to a more
arched one: Many times during sex my wife would pat my bottom and once in awhile
give me a good swat. One evening in bed I mentioned it to her and asked
if she would spank me. She replied she never really thought of actually
spanking me but if I wanted one she would. we discussed what she could
use and I ended up giving her an old belt. She loved using it and I
loved getting it. After the spanking we had wonderful sex. Later we
discussed the spanking. I told her I enjoyed her spanking me she said
she liked giving me one and it turned her on and she would spank me any
time I wanted one. That was over 20 years ago and she still spanks and
uses more implements.
Bogey: I was keen to spank every girl I dated and Bacall liked the attention.
After we were married I suggested that she paddle me. She took to it
like a duck to water. She put a paddle in my Christmas stocking our
second year together. We still have that paddle.
Leigh: It was me - Ray was receptive as long as it was a "fun" thing. Although
I always thought I wanted more, the truth is it would never have worked
and luckily Ray knew that. It's not in his DNA any other way.
his slut: Our relationship is BDSM based so spanking was assumed from day 1.
However, I'm pretty sure I want to be spanked more than He wants to
cutiebootie: When my guy expressed that he liked me a lot and wanted to date me, he
did so over Skype about five years ago. We talked for a while, which was
important in getting to know each other.
One day, we went into
talking about sex and what I was into. I was hesitant at first to tell
him that I liked being spanked and was a switch. I didn't know what his
reaction would be. He wanted to know, so I told him. I felt at ease when
he said that it cool and that he was game to give spanking me a try. It
has been a wonderful part of our relationship. He continues to get
better at spanking me, which has strengthened our sex life and our
Ronnie: P's I suppose. It started with playful swats Then much later I read some
throwaway paperback on holiday, I think a Jackie Collins, in which
there was a brief account of a girl getting spanked and I told him about
it, I remember him reading the extract and telling me so and saying it
seemed to have done her some good. I think that was probably the first
time P ever mentioned it, I mean the actual determined act of spanking,
and told him I agreed then later the same day he spanked and has ever
Hermione: I had always longed for it, but it was Ron who first initiated it. He is a man of action, not words, so we never discussed it. He simply spanked me one evening during an erotic encounter. We were both amazed at our reactions to it, and we have never looked back.