Our good friend KDPierre came up with this week's topic, so I'll let him introduce it.
"We all know that some people spank for sexy play and others for punishment, and others yet for a combination of both, yet everyone kind of recognizes that regardless of the REAL reason for a spanking, they all have a certain punitive 'vibe' to them, whether genuine or role-played."
To those who spank only for sexy play, have you, as a Top, ever suggested a genuine spanking for something that bothered you? Or, as a bottom, ever had such a suggestion put to you by your Top? And for those who do use spanking as punishment, have you ever suggested one that took your bottom by surprise? or as a bottom have you ever been genuinely shocked by a spanking your Top decided you had coming?
Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.
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We had been trading teasing texts all day, where I was threatened with a good spanking. She had an engagement that evening and wouldn't be home until very late, so I went to bed my usual time thinking we'd pick up at a later date. Around midnight I was woken up by being harshly told to fetch the hairbrush and meet her downstairs, NOW! I did as told and received two separate, very hard spankings over her knee. This wasn't a fun, sexy session, it was real and it hurt. And yes, I loved every minute of it, particularly the spontaneity.
I've discovered, since we agreed that my wife could punish me at her discretion, that she really hates the coffee machine being dirty. She had warned me several times, but it rocked me back on my heels when she appeared with the cane and told me to drop my pants and bend over the table. She proceeded to cane me harder than she ever had before. Coffee machine cleaning is now a priority!
Yes, I have on several occasions asked for a strictly disciplinary spanking. They also served as great stress relief, though that was not the primary purpose. Graham
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