tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post1937385123130604073..comments2024-03-25T17:49:20.811-04:00Comments on Hermione's Heart: Spanko Brunch 2.0 #11Hermionehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-40470944202925235802014-03-16T22:09:02.063-04:002014-03-16T22:09:02.063-04:00Addiction is such an unpleasant word. It suggests...Addiction is such an unpleasant word. It suggests a damaging loss of self and control over one's life.<br /><br />We don't have that sort of problem. We spank because it enriches our lives and keeps us close. Unlike any addiction, we can embrace this lifestyle without pause or qualification.Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-87975290710193378652014-03-16T21:31:19.089-04:002014-03-16T21:31:19.089-04:00Hmmm great question. I do believe it can be addict...Hmmm great question. I do believe it can be addicting from both ends of the paddle. It certainly seems to be the best form of stress relief for both partners at least in my case.<br /><br />*Bonnie*https://www.blogger.com/profile/03562643762751888827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-22092589411454330492014-03-16T20:40:51.382-04:002014-03-16T20:40:51.382-04:00My husband thinks I'm addicted. I suppose in ...My husband thinks I'm addicted. I suppose in a way, I am, but I don't see it as an addiction. Giving up spanking for me would be like asking a vanilla person to give up sex--maybe they're not addicted, but their life would not be fun without it!Autumnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10071247926710391470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-2679594674589391612014-03-16T16:00:51.441-04:002014-03-16T16:00:51.441-04:00I think that at times I get addicted to reading an...I think that at times I get addicted to reading and writing about spanking. Other times I have little interest and tell myself, "I can give this up at anytime." I think that means it is an addiction for me! But I have few vices, and this isn't the worst addiction I could have. <br />I also think that the psychological phenomena behind developing and maintaining a strong desire for s spanking are potentially addictive. See my posts, http://startingoutspanking.blogspot.com/2012/08/a-spanking-new-theory-of-spanking.html and http://startingoutspanking.blogspot.com/2012/08/opponent-process-pleasure-from-pain.html Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08975662606546664614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-87907716767374669612014-03-16T15:03:33.577-04:002014-03-16T15:03:33.577-04:00I don't know if it's an addiction or an ob...I don't know if it's an addiction or an obsession...or just an orientation. :)Renee Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01414212384941364401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-39723881941305203422014-03-16T14:31:48.889-04:002014-03-16T14:31:48.889-04:00Spanking a woman on her bare bottom, is part of my...Spanking a woman on her bare bottom, is part of my sexual pleasure. It turns me on. And I enjoy every moment of it. So does the lady who I give the spanking to.sixofthebestnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-70183097222505151412014-03-16T12:37:55.989-04:002014-03-16T12:37:55.989-04:00There are so many different elements to this stuff...There are so many different elements to this stuff, and I think it's possible to be addicted to one or more (or all!) of them.<br /><br />There's the physical sensation, the intimate contact, the power dynamic, the adrenaline and endorphins, the fantasies, erotica in stories and pictures...<br /><br />I think as with a lot of addictions it's often about escape from the pressures of everyday life. Spanking and being spanked are so separate from those things that worry us - they represent a special retreat, and quite often one that nobody else knows about. While we're engaged in them we're 'in the moment' - it's almost impossible to be anxious about something else when someone is busy tanning your behind!<br /><br />We also tend to become addicted to the <i>people</i> we share these very intense and personal experiences with. I know many play partners who seem to have little else in common but still can't get enough of each other just because of the intensity of the bond that develops between spanker and spankee.<br /><br />I also know people who become listless or irritable or depressed if they go too long between spankings.<br /><br />So I'm going with 'yes' - spanking addiction is pretty common. :)Underlinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796851292291694070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-83314292500499540222014-03-16T11:30:25.308-04:002014-03-16T11:30:25.308-04:00I am addicted to the peace that itbrings my marria...I am addicted to the peace that itbrings my marriage and the closeness it provides between my husband and I :-)River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-67612321321425645752014-03-16T10:37:49.674-04:002014-03-16T10:37:49.674-04:00I think it certainly could become an addiction on ...I think it certainly could become an addiction on either side. While I do not experience nearly enough spankings to be addicted...my thoughts of spankings can certainly be... <br />Interesting question...hugsTerpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-51967549714616078442014-03-16T08:57:50.697-04:002014-03-16T08:57:50.697-04:00I do believe it is possible and probable. I am cer...I do believe it is possible and probable. I am certain that it consumes many a thought for some each day!Minielle Labraunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206283897752166320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-68913787445708693262014-03-16T06:55:04.367-04:002014-03-16T06:55:04.367-04:00Addicted? Sure, but the addiction is in the mind, ...Addicted? Sure, but the addiction is in the mind, not the result of being spanked. I could never see another person in my life and I would still think about spanking.Our Bottoms Burnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11365742469460740718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-30609835686319937222014-03-16T06:50:52.795-04:002014-03-16T06:50:52.795-04:00I can't say 100% that spanking is or can be be...I can't say 100% that spanking is or can be become an addiction but I think it's possible on both sides.<br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-799988193305459782014-03-16T05:05:06.474-04:002014-03-16T05:05:06.474-04:00I guess it is possible. When I get a spanking I of...I guess it is possible. When I get a spanking I often experience that I can let go frustration and guilt. And if I don't get spanked I have sometimes problems with putting these thoughts aside and am a little restless. Therefore, maybe it could be addictive, the positive way.stay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-21609655059759653672014-03-16T02:52:48.280-04:002014-03-16T02:52:48.280-04:00I certainly think that, for me, it is an addiction...I certainly think that, for me, it is an addiction. I can live and breath it, i could even do it as a job. I also do not think it is harmful but it is a lot of fun.<br /><br />BOB Bx bobbsroomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03926085355521677731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-9007383159625437372014-03-16T02:41:19.926-04:002014-03-16T02:41:19.926-04:00Not sure if it's an addiction or not. If it is...Not sure if it's an addiction or not. If it is, it's a nice addiction. For me it's something I need and crave from my wife, and she enjoys spanking me. I try and remember that every time I'm feeling the paddle, belt or other implement Ouch.<br />archedoneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-59226368928518476842014-03-16T01:15:43.860-04:002014-03-16T01:15:43.860-04:00I've wondered the same as it seems to be the b...I've wondered the same as it seems to be the best source of stress relief.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08858642432841882311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-15502504919434910432014-03-15T22:55:00.179-04:002014-03-15T22:55:00.179-04:00Addictive seems like such a big word. But maybe I ...Addictive seems like such a big word. But maybe I am. I need and enjoy being spanked. The spanking seems to keep me balanced, happy, feeling loved and keeps my husband happy since he loves to spank.Blondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-39656113141820225452014-03-15T21:07:03.260-04:002014-03-15T21:07:03.260-04:00I think I am addicted to the thought of spanking, ...I think I am addicted to the thought of spanking, both giving and receiving. I seem to think about spanking a lot when at work and think about some of the chicks and what they might do if I was over their laps OR if they were over my lap. There are quite a few I would love to see their scrumptious ass bare over my knee and experiment with reddening them. I am addicted as I love to look for potential implements wherever I am whether in a cooking store, a hardware store, or a general merchandise store like Target.So yeah the whole idea of spanking is an addiction, but a fun one in which I am not a danger to anyone,as other addictions can be. <br />BaxterBaxterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04746017492426748867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-16577245031298381972014-03-15T19:14:15.251-04:002014-03-15T19:14:15.251-04:00Great question! I think it is possible to become ...Great question! I think it is possible to become addicted to the endorphins. For me I think it's the overall dominance, including spanking.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-3011083724361047692014-03-15T18:33:43.118-04:002014-03-15T18:33:43.118-04:00Great question! I've actually wondered the sa...Great question! I've actually wondered the same. I'm thinking that one can become addicted. Many hugs,<br /><br /><3 KatieKatiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09502903951761571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-23164151092169018112014-03-15T16:44:44.415-04:002014-03-15T16:44:44.415-04:00The endorphins are definitely a lot of fun but a l...The endorphins are definitely a lot of fun but a lot of people get this high from roller coaster rides, bungee jumping and other thrill activities. So is it addictive? Possibly but if it is I do not believe that it is a harmful addiction. Except to my poor reddened rear end that is :)<br /><br />PrefectdtUSEDTODO SPANKEDHORTIC IIhttp://spankedhortic.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-46181674199221163722014-03-15T16:37:18.911-04:002014-03-15T16:37:18.911-04:00I think it is possible to be addicted to spanking....I think it is possible to be addicted to spanking. But, often we just do not have the opportunity to be spanked often. I can have alcohol any day, but I must wait weeks for a spanking.<br /><br />Hug,<br />joeyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-77756573304958624802014-03-15T15:29:13.769-04:002014-03-15T15:29:13.769-04:00I think it's entirely possible on both sides.I think it's entirely possible on both sides.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-21251550234770397892014-03-15T15:23:44.806-04:002014-03-15T15:23:44.806-04:00I think I'm addicted to my husbands dominance,...I think I'm addicted to my husbands dominance, spanking included. I can't imagine my life without it. It consumes my every thought. turnaroundbendoverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15977014015852086656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-20763094440143952892014-03-15T14:41:34.261-04:002014-03-15T14:41:34.261-04:00I think it is possible to get addicted to the endo...I think it is possible to get addicted to the endorphins. Am I addicted? You will have to ask Dragon that question. I am positive that he is addicted to spanking me. Dragon's Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17464199139125994128noreply@blogger.com