Today's topic came from a question posed by a reader as a comment on one of my recent stories from the top shelf. I will leave it up to you to interpret it in any way you like.
Why do so many women enjoy F/M (female spanking male) stories?
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While there are a minority of women hardwired toward F/M spanking (and that number is possibly increasing among younger women), my impression is that most women come to enjoy and even lust for it after being introduced by a male lover or spouse.In short if a woman is not introduced to F/M by a partner, trying it doesn't occur or appeal to most women. But the experience including the power exchange ( and behavior change where spanking is disciplinary) convinces many women ( not all by any means) that it is something they want to continue.In my first DD relationship my previously vanilla girlfriend often told me she could not be in a relationship with me without that "sanction" which was how she sometimes referred to spanking. My present DD relationship with my wife ( who had earlier been introduced to DD by a male) has followed the same lines with her becoming firmer with her commitment to DD as time goes on. If it appears more women are embracing F/M it is because more are being exposed to it
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Hi Hermione,
ReplyDeleteMy preference is M/F in stories. I don't know why, but it seems sexier to me.
Hugs
Roz
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ReplyDeleteI am attracted to the husband spanking the wife, but I don't read much spanking fiction because it doesn't appeal to me, for the most part.
However, about once a week, I ask Storm if I can spank him because he makes me mad. (Laughing) His answer is always a big fat NO, as I fully expect. But, I don't truly want to spank him ever. It is M/F for us. Hugs, Windy
I'm not sure. M/F spanking is what appeals to us, whether in a story or in our own play.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely only M/F here, I'm afraid. Whether it's reading, writing or visual.
ReplyDeleteGlad there are F/M spanko's out there though for those men who need them in their life.
Kanga
Maybe it’s a way for the woman to take out her frustrations/irritation/annoyance/anger on the man without going through argument/disagreement/sulking etc
ReplyDeleteHow much simpler to “thrash” (joking) to her hearts content without justification/debate
My wife says “ go upstairs and put your things on( she knows I enjoy being a humiliated cross dresser while she “punishes”me)
Ah the joy!
Can't really answer that one. Not sure
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Ronnie
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As a male writer of predominantly F/m stories, I have to say that women are not the majority of my readership. Even the comments here tend to support that trend. Most women into TTWD tend to prefer M/f. In fact, I can't think of any mainstream F/m book that anyone has a big female fan base. The LSF is full of stories and has a huge readership of all genders and orientations but I can't say I've ever noticed a preponderance of female F/m fans.
ReplyDeleteI’m not qualified to answer as I’m not a female. But I do know my wife is growing in her enjoyment of our F/m thrashings, partially based on her limited reading on line. She gets satisfaction over the tension I give her...I get emotional, mental and stress relief. Exactly the reason I encourage her for more frequent, longer and harder.
ReplyDeletePs: Sorry I missed LOL. But a year ago, y’all helped me accept who and why we are are the way we are...and now comfortable being a member of this family.
There is no way that I would speak for women on this subject. I think that this is one for the female side of the population to answer.
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Not my area of expertise I'm afraid. I personally prefer M/f stories.
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