tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post6725104714071870993..comments2024-03-25T17:49:20.811-04:00Comments on Hermione's Heart: From the Top Shelf - HighlightsHermionehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-3308482877698777852010-07-16T11:16:02.054-04:002010-07-16T11:16:02.054-04:00Thanks for pointing this book out, Hermione. I...Thanks for pointing this book out, Hermione. I'll have to see if I can dig up a copy!indyhttp://innocentindy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-13416654166055097142010-07-14T20:18:29.169-04:002010-07-14T20:18:29.169-04:00Someone once said to me that in a good scene/relat...Someone once said to me that in a good scene/relationship, the bottom is really in charge, because s/he is getting exactly what s/he wants. I think this comment has always stuck with me because of how true it seems. For me, the wanting to not want it is the fun part. :)Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06734158295884957309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-31994477675645844682010-07-14T17:09:36.804-04:002010-07-14T17:09:36.804-04:00I don't need the theatrics. Whatever makes yo...I don't need the theatrics. Whatever makes you happy, that's great for you & your partner.<br /><br />But all I need is to be draped over my honey's knee, my bottom exposed, caressed, spanked, maybe lotioned, more spanking, more caressing, rinse and repeat.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-57835695541681833892010-07-14T02:28:18.384-04:002010-07-14T02:28:18.384-04:00I think perhaps both are servicing each other like...I think perhaps both are servicing each other like Ronnie said... after all they're both getting something from the experience, so both participants needs are being met in some form or another.<br /><br />I find it interesting how so many people are into the role play aspects... especially since I love role play, but not in the context of TTWD. I like my "play" spankings to be more on the serious side... more of a meditative spiritual experience I guess is the best way to describe it.<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />turiyaturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611694817150215324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-45544675460446659032010-07-13T13:57:49.946-04:002010-07-13T13:57:49.946-04:00Prefectdt - Yes, that's what I gathered.
Ronn...Prefectdt - Yes, that's what I gathered.<br /><br />Ronnie - I must explain about the highlighting in the next post. And I agree about it being mutual rather than one servicing the other.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />HermioneHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-31160960523633716252010-07-13T09:23:52.559-04:002010-07-13T09:23:52.559-04:00Very interesting Hermione that you highlighted thi...Very interesting Hermione that you highlighted this passage so many years ago.<br /><br />I think I can see why the writer would liken it to a theatrical production, with planned rituals. I think it's true, when you break it down doesn't most spankings - punishment, fun, sexual appetisers whatever - have similar elements? As for the sadist just servicing the masochist, I hadn't thought of it like that either, personaly, prefer to think there is mutual satisfaction probably more or less evenly balanced, but in most spankings the top is expected to take the lead and instruct, chastise, dominate etc, it probably seems weighted in his or her favour. <br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-2899129224047727622010-07-12T17:12:51.865-04:002010-07-12T17:12:51.865-04:00The "theatrical" thing seems very valid....The "theatrical" thing seems very valid. All of the best roll play scenarios have a strong amateur dramatics vibe to them.<br /><br />PrefectdtSPANKEDHORTIChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01555647356077533450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-89021715110131402762010-07-12T15:55:06.660-04:002010-07-12T15:55:06.660-04:00Scunge - I suspect it all depends on your perspect...Scunge - I suspect it all depends on your perspective and whether you are doing a scientific study or are actually in a relationship.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />HermioneHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4178998232488314107.post-40165024403150321392010-07-12T11:46:44.268-04:002010-07-12T11:46:44.268-04:00I have often read that the bottom is actually the ...I have often read that the bottom is actually the one in charge,um not sure who "these people" are but I know who is in charge in our relationship AND it is NOT me!Scungehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16287510459310365276noreply@blogger.com