Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for October 5

How much force does the spanker use?

Bonnie: When Randy spanks me, he's all over the map in terms of force exerted. He'll lull me into complacency with a rhythmic tap tap tap, and then light me up with fierce syncopated paddle smacks randomly distributed across my bottom. The worst, though, is when he strikes hard and fast. I can't tolerate that level of immediate punishment pain that for long. Fortunately for me, he usually changes tactics after a while.

wolfman7446: I use a moderate force over a longer period of time. This ensures the lesson is being learned without running the risk of damaging her. If I did anything close to the force I am capable of, I can guarantee that injury would result. Since I love her, this would be the last thing I desire.

Marie: It can really vary. It shouldn't take much force, but I like being spanked hard (and firmly) so that requires a certain amount of effort be put into it. I don't really enjoy being spanked lightly so I don't seek that out - I find it irritating. My husband typically spanks me pretty hard but there's variation even within that and I will tease him a bit if it feels like he's slowing down - usually that's when we move to implements.

Jack: My wife/mommy applies the bath brush soundly, it lands hard and switches from cheek to cheek. Once I start to squirm and kick my legs she stops, secure my legs and the bath brush lands hard and fast. 

Anon: Full force? I can't imagine anyone ever using "full" force. Hard, yes. Very hard, also yes. Probably 80% or so of "full" force. But, then again, my wife is very athletic. Maybe small, weaker women would use closer to full force. Full force would be hard to control and maintain accuracy.

Roz: The intensity varies during the spanking, but I know Rick always has more in reserve 😊 

Rosco: I asked this question because Irene’s preferred implement recently changed, from a long leather strap to a small wooden paddle. A short pop with the paddle stings as much as a full swing with the strap, albeit the sensations are a different.

I thought she would miss taking that full swing, but that doesn’t seem to be the case.

A.J.: Giving or receiving - Never "full force."

We only do fantasy and fun "play," so that would be out of bounds.

Prefectdt: That can vary a lot depending on 2 factors. 1/ Who is the spanker? 2/ What kind of mood am I in?

KDPierre: Rosa's default is upper moderate. Nothing is ever lighter than seriously solid and crisp. No wimpy whacks here! LOL Depending on the circumstances the force can go up from there, all the way to what feels like full force. However, I would say her force level is not as widely variable as quantity. So usually it's always good solid forceful swats and the situation then determines how many of those I'm going to get. But this is an averaged out kind of answer. Reality plays out with exceptions on different occasions.           

Hermione: Ron uses a moderate amount of force, which is what I require. For two of the ouchiest implements, I know he's not using any more than mild exertion, but it still feels like a lot more.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #611

It's great to see you all again this week. Last week I promised you more topics submitted by my readers, and our good friend Rosco's suggestion is up next.

How much energy does the spanker in your sessions exert? Does the spanker like to take a full swing or use full force when they’re administering a spanking? Or do they prefer not to work hard so long as the spankee gets what they need and deserve?

Please leave your reply as a comment, and once everyone has spoken I will publish a summary of our discussion. 

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for September 28

We discussed intense spanking sessions this week, and here's what you had to say.

Rosco: Irene is not much a planner, except to the extent that we’ll decide to have a “date” on a certain day- usually late afternoon. Whether she decides to go especially hard or long is mostly a whim. Usually a date includes 2-3 spankings, 30 minutes or so apart before more traditional intimacy ensues.

Usually I’ll go with the flow. If I want more, I’ll whine and beg her to stop (that’s code for more that we developed long ago; “enough” is our safe word,that’s never been used and “later” is our code word for later).

On a few occasions, I’ve written a letter - ostensibly from another woman or girl whom I’ve offended. Usually I was trying to peek up her skirt or maybe peeping into the female locker room. She’s written Irene who is some sort of authority figure, sometimes a teacher or librarian but usually undefined. The letter will suggest rather intense punishment and Irene will take the hint and give me what I want/need/deserve. 

Anon: Wow, Rosco, that last paragraph gives me all sorts of ideas...thanks!

Roz: Spankings for us now are purely for fun so are usually in the moment and not pre-planned. 

Prefectdt: I do not have a solo spanking partner, and so am not sure if this question is relevant to myself. I do, very often, arrange with a spanking partner a code for, "You can bring it on harder", during play. This usually takes the form of me thanking the spanker for being so lenient and considerate in dealing with me. This can often lead to a more intense session. So the answer to your question would be, yes, but only when I am feeling like it and the frequency of these sessions tends to be random.

Bonnie: We plan for spankings on Friday evenings. These are more involved, more choreographed, and generally more severe than what we do at other times of the week.

Randy likes to come up with something unique for holidays and special occasions. Today, as it happens, is one of those days. My confidential sources suggest he is going to paddle me.

Happy birthday, Bonnie! I hope Randy came through in grand style!

Wendel: All of our spanking activity is meant for fun and pleasure. We do not get too rough. Not much planning is needed for a spanking. When it is time, it is time.

Our house in Ireland has a large shed in the back yard that we refer to as “The Woodshed”. It is mostly for storage, but we do have a bench in the middle just right for bending over. If one is sent to the woodshed, a rather severe whipping with the strap will be given. I guess it is a bit harder than most spankings. 

Graham: Fun spankings are just that and continue without much plot until we are ready to move on to other things. Disciplinary spankings are more involved, and she may have a definite plan. They almost always involve some intense most-orgasm caning, which clearly separates the fun from the serious!

KDPierre: Since we do both punishment and fun spankings, in the spirit of what I believe is the gist of this week's question, I would like to make a distinction between intense and elaborate. Some punishments can be very intense, but not necessarily elaborate and requiring lots of planning or time, but some fun ones can be.

Probably our most elaborate fun spanking sessions are our "pool tournaments". We have a pool table and every few months Rosa and I will play a best 2 out of 3 tournament of 8-ball. There are elaborate rules which I've written into a little poster that we put out so we can refer to it, all involving spanking penalties.

To make it fun, the rules are absurdly slanted in her favor, so in practical terms, no matter how well I play, by evening's end I am likely to have received literally hundreds of swats spread out over the course of the tournament, leaving my butt red and swollen and residually sore for days. 

Hermione: Our planned spanking is Saturday afternoon, but I can't say it's severe or intense. It's only for fun, and is a prelude to wink, wink, nudge, nudge, know what I mean?

 

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #610

Welcome! Come on in and help yourself to an appetizer. Suggestions for brunch topics have been flooding in. Thank you! Our good friend Barrel's suggestion arrived first, so here it is. I hope you will enjoy responding to it.

Do you and your spanking partner ever have a more intense spanking session?  If you do, how often are these intense sessions?  How far in advance does the planning begin?  And what does the planning include?

Please leave your reply as a comment, and once everyone has contributed I will publish a summary of our discussion. 

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Vintage

Today I'm roasting sweet red peppers from our garden. For many years I was unable to let the green peppers mature and turn red because the slugs would snack on them before they were ripe. We haven't had slugs for several years now -- I don't know why they suddenly disappeared -- so I can let the peppers ripen. I freeze the roasted peppers for use during the year in various recipes.

Speaking of recipes, do any of you remember the good old days when gelatin salads were a staple at family gatherings? Jell-o was used in a variety of ways back then. My grandmother often served Jell-o and cream as a dessert. If you were as really good cook, you would follow these guidelines:

I think I'll pass on a serving of the last ones.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for September 21

Is the spanker talkative? Let's see...

Jack: My wife/mommy applies the bath brush at first with the reason I’m getting a spanking. It lands very hard and I at first try not to react. Then the spankingis very hard, fast and switching cheeks to  ensure sitting afterwards is very hard. When she is nearing the end, the spanks are really hard and one at a time, "Are you going to be a good little boy?" and I must respond "Yes Mommy", "are you going to do as told"? "Yes Mommy". "You will stand in the corner." "Yes Mommy". "No rubbing." "Yes Mommy".

Barrel: Generally she talks to me a little bit. Yesterday, during a long awaited session, she mentioned she was delivering "strokes in 10's" as opposed to the normal 6's. As I was secured to an overhead suspension bar in our garage, she lowered the bar enough and instructed me to "present my bottom" for her. When I started to breathe heavily, she told me to "breath deeply but slowly". She told me she hadn't achieved the color or texture she wanted just yet, so on she went. When she asked me if I "was done" and I responded that I was, she told me I "failed to let her use all her implements", including one of her favorites. So on came the tawse plus "extras" for forgetting her favorite.
If warranted, my wife will reprimand me for bad behavior during a session, while making her point with the cane. 

Wendel: Aside from the announcement that one of us is getting spanked there is not much talking. The paddle and belt do all the talking.

Norse Cavalier: If it's a punishment spanking, I scold her severely. The spanking alone isn't always enough to make her regret her actions, but the right words can have a nice effect.

If it's a fun spanking, I tease her for the cute little grunts and moans she's making - which makes her blush even more. Also, I ask her how she's doing, if she'd like it harder or softer, and whether there are any implements she'd prefer. Stuff like that.

Roz: Nowdays spanking is for fun. There is usually a bit of banter or he may tease a bit about my reaction to the spanking if there are a few ooh's and ouches. He may also ask the odd question which I am somehow supposed to be able to answer.

Rosco: Pretty much always a lecture. Spanking is told play for us. I’ve been caught peeking up girls’ skirts or doing something similar. Maybe I’ve been reported to the teacher or maybe the girls simply punish me themselves. Irene will sometimes play different roles, even changing her clothes over an hour or two. At any rate, the lecture is an important part - almost as important as the spanking itself.

Irene has counted a few times or instructed me to count. But it’s rare.

She doesn’t joke per se, but she laughs at me for being the silly naughty boy with the red bottom that she’s going to let all the other girls see - and maybe take a turn spanking as well. 

Bonnie: There is generally some banter as Randy spanks me. The content varies depending upon how he chooses to present the session and to a lesser extent how I respond.

I love a good corporal punishment scenario. This involves a lecture about my real or imagined transgressions and why a very long, very hard spanking is necessary and how sore my bottom will be when he's finished and how sorry I should be for being a such an unruly girl. Sometimes, I play along. Other times, I protest or pose impertinent questions. The result is pretty much the same either way.

In other cases, it's sexy talk. I like this too. He tells me how beautiful I am and how much he loves to give me what I need. I lap this up. Eventually we move on to what's next.

We laugh and joke a lot. When Randy takes his stern disciplinarian role over the top, I can't help cracking up even though I am hurting.

He occasionally counts out the swats and less frequently, requires me to do so. For reasons I do not understand, this seems to make it hurt more.

One aspect I don't like is having to answer questions. When I am across his lap and in the middle of getting spanked, my brain doesn't work very well. Wrong answers earn me extra hard whacks. So do responses like, "How the &*#@ should I know?" The Spanking edition of Trivial Pursuits is totally not fair.

That's the long way to say YES.

Prefectdt: As I have experienced multiple Spankers, I can say yes to all of the above, for this question. I like it when a Spanker has her own style and does it her way.

I think that one important type of Spanker style has been left off this list. Those that play with your mind. I remember once, when I was already well on my way to dancing with the fairies. The other person in the room started telling me that it was different days of the week. I ended up utterly confused, and once we were finished (this was the days before mobile phones) I had to buy a newspaper, just to find out what day of the week it was.       

S: Sometimes during a funishment spanking while she is OTK, I will make her ask me to spank her harder by having her say, "I am a naughty girl, please spank me harder!" To which I will respond, okay if that is what you want. 

FL: A good scolding is a crucial element of a thorough spanking.

A.J.: "...is the spanker talkative? " Sure. On either side of the lap.

"Is there a lecture? Quips or jokes? Counting?" No lectures. Quips about my tush becoming red and (usually) more to come? Yup!

"Or is there just an eerie silence?" In a spanking???? Does that ever happen?

I'm just a fun spanker/spankee, so there is a lot back and forth. 

Anon: The spankee is told beforehand what it is for, and often directed to count spanks along with stating with each one a line indicating what behavior must not be repeated. If she does not clearly speak as directed, a lengthy extra hair brushing follows.    

Hermione: Ron sometimes makes jokes, when the mood strikes him. He never lectures because our spankings are not for punishment. Sometimes he will tell me to adjust my position or stop making so much noise. Often, though, he remains silent.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #609

Greetings from all of us to all of you. Let's get started on a topic that we first addressed ten years ago today. I hope you will still find it entertaining. 

There's often more to a spanking than just the percussive action, and more sounds than those the spankee involuntarily makes. Let's see what the person on the other end of the paddle has to say.

During your spanking activities, is the spanker talkative? Is there a lecture? Quips or jokes? Counting? Or is there just an eerie silence?

Leave your reply as a comment, and once everyone has contributed I will publish a summary of our discussion.

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