What happens once a spanking is over? Are there certain rituals that you and your partner enjoy? Is there a type of aftercare that you haven't tried but would like to?
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Slava Ukraini
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Since I prefer a DommyMommy f/m aesthetic, my preferred aftercare is lots of cuddling and forgiveness. All part of the roleplay. I don't need or want any soothing balms or lotions on my backside, the afterburn is part of the enjoyment.
If the relationship is just punitive, I wrap her up like a burrito in the comforter, get her some cold water and let her recover. If the relationship is more intimate...than, well, you know. :)
Most times when the spanking is in the kitchen the recipient has to stand in the corner showcasing their bright red bottom when it is over. After care for a paddling or whipping in bedroom may get a cold rag or zippy bag of ice applied to the sore bottom. We do not use creams or ointments. Occasionally I will paddle the Misses in the morning before she starts work. She works out of the house and has to get an extra cushion to sit on while working.
Mostly, but not always, spanking is followed by reverse cowgirl cunnlingus. Sometimes Irene will say she wanted to spank me again or for longer but she can’t wait. After the pussy licking, it’s intercourse then usually dinner.
Rosco
If not immediately followed by more intimate activities a spanking is usually followed by cuddles and a cold drink.
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Roz
Post spanking rituals tend to vary, for me, depending on the spanker. The only constant that I insist on is the application of horribly stingy alcohol gel, to deal with any skin breaks or micro lesions. There must be lots of aftercare that I have not tried. I would like to leave myself open to suggestion to trying some of these in the future.
Prefctdt
If it's for play, really nothing.....except maybe a quick cell phone shot for posterior posterity. If it's punishment? Well, typically there's a post spanking kiss to my Honey's feet to show no hard feelings and a kind of acceptance of roles and just deserts.
In the past when more 'people-in-the-know' were living with us and a punishment might be for something done to them, it was a house policy that I would formally apologize after a punishment to whomever was affected by my behavior. If the person was not in the home, this would be done by text.
With Nickki, our post spanking ritual was just a chat while Platonically cuddling....again just to show no hard feelings and to offer feedback about the experience.
In no instance, play or punitive, do we do any kind of alleviating treatment of my bottom, since the intention of either type of spanking is to cause a nice and lasting burning pain. Once accomplished there seems no logic to minimizing what was so painstakingly(literally) achieved.
Same as Rosco. Cunnilingus, intercourse and dinner or a drink. Graham
If a normal spanking, we are almost always intimate. If it is an extended session, I am unsteady on my feet, so we hug. We then have a drink or glass of wine and discuss what worked, what didn’t. I like to ask her what she liked most about it. What was her best implement? If it got her aroused? Then intimacy. Good topic this week!
My wife/mommy has me face the wall, my spankings are for punishment. She could care less if someone drops in. No rubbing, no talking, I stand facing the wall. Depending on what I did after Wall time, I could be told to put on my jammies, no matter time of day, given chores to do, or worse take her out to dinner, she enjoys me squirming part of the punishment and if asked will tell that she gave me a spanking to explain my squirming. Jack
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