Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for September 15

How do you think about spanking when not actually engaged in the act? 

Bonnie: I like to write about our special interest when I get time, energy, and motivation..

CEM: Your question was: "Do you read spanking stories, watch videos, fantasize, or do something else?" My answer is....yes. :) 

Betsy: My answer is the same as Chronic Excessive Manliness. 

Norse Cavalier: Read and write stories, occasionally watch videos. There's also some video games made on the subject, mostly on the website AnimeOTK.

Roz: Mostly all in my head, fantasizing. Occasionally reading stories. 

 FL: Mostly just fantasize, occasionally write scenarios for my use only, browse a few blogs for inspiration.

Jack: Over time I have read 'Strict Julie Spanks', she gives a full view of spankings, especially when it is the female giving.

Rosco: Yes to all. It’s great to have so much in the internet. I find, however, that I’m a little fussy in that there’s a lot of stuff I need to just scroll past that doesn’t appeal to me.

With Irene’s permission I did write a story that Miss Jenn Davis then recorded. I was very happy with the way it came out. I have many rich fantasies, all based on real people, that I’d like to flesh out even though I don’t think the audience would be large.

Prefectdt: When I am on a train or in a waiting room, or anything like that, I would rather have a nice little fantasize about spanking, than be a slave to my phone. Watching videos and having those more involved fantasies (the type that might cause a bit of a stir in the trouser department) is reserved for time at home. I used to like to get some real life books about spanking in the past, but since I had problems with a thrombosis in my right eye, staring at predominantly white things for a long time can give me a sort of visual meltdown. So I don't read nearly as much as I used to, kinky or vanilla.

Anon: I do all of the above and more. I also like to listen to spanking podcasts on long drives. I visit antique and thrift shops to search for implements. Over the years I have collected a number of beautiful hairbrushes and paddles. I even found one treasured paddle that is signed by females on one side and males on the other. In addition, I make spanking implements for myself and others, including some well known mistresses. I spend way too much of my waking hours thinking about spanking.   

Barrel: I do them all as well. I have written three stories that I uploaded to Literotica and received favorable comments. It takes a lot to write and even more to proofread and edit. I did this when I was traveling for work, but now being retired, I devote my time and energy elsewhere.

Wendel: If we see a nice bottom passing by we will fantasize about spanking it and then compare notes. 

Mija: Fantasize.
Read.
Write

In that order. Sadly for productivity sake, I too often stop at fantasy. 

Hermione: I love the stories in the Library of Spanking Fiction. There's such  wide variety to choose from that I can pick stories that push all the right buttons for me. Fantasizing on the day of a spanking is a must.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #557

It's nearly the end of summer for us in the northern hemisphere, and there's plenty of garden cleanup to be done. After a busy week outdoors, I'm glad to sit down with a cool drink and discuss an aspect of spanking suggested by a regular reader and correspondent.

How do you spend your time thinking about spanking when not actually engaged in the act? Do you read spanking stories, watch videos, fantasize, or do something else?

Please leave your response as a comment, and I'll publish a summary of our discussion in the next post.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for September 8

What (if anything) do you dislike about spanking?

CEM: "Dislike"? I don't understand the question. But it *might* just be...blasphemy. :)

Wendel: When the spanking ends.

Roz: Ooh, great question! Um, not much to dislike. Maybe the anticipation if a spanking is anticipated but we have to wait for one reason or another.

Jack: The long scolding, standing there, my pants and underpants around my ankles, all on display, seeing the bathbrush in wife/mommy's hand. If someone is present I really want it to be over quickly, it never is.

Prefectdt: The very start of the spanking, when it just hurts a lot, before the magic starts happening. It is just something that has to be endured, until that wonderful, mental conversion from pain to "Dancing with the fairies", kicks in.

KDPierre: Something I truly dislike, but also appreciate, is when the number of spanks in a decreed punishment is so large that it necessitates breaking up the total into somewhat smaller, but sequential spankings. For punishments I get spanked hard (as anyone who used to frequent my old blog knows LOL) and the soreness the next day is significant. Having to then get spanked all over again on that very tender bottom is pure hell. Multiply that by another day or more? Well, as much as I like "spanking" I am absolutely dreading being called to the room for those next installments.

BUT...BUT...and this is important...while I do truly dislike the very intense pain involved, I very much admire my Honey for sticking to her guns, and spanking without much regard to prior soreness. (She sees that as part and parcel of having earned a long, high-numbered punishment. And also knows that while it absolutely hurts way more getting spanked on a sore bottom, it doesn't really cause any more damage than any other spanking.) These are PUNISHMENTS after all, and are supposed to be dreaded. So, yeah, a person (even me) can love "spanking" as a thing and still 'dislike' a particular spanking. ;-)

Anon: I love everything about spanking. The thing I do not like is that since I think about it everyday all day, it takes up a lot of time and energy. I always wonder what I could have accomplished in life, if I had channeled all of that energy into something productive. 

Rosco: Like everyone else, I love spankings - being spanked that is. (The last spanking I delivered was in 1979.)

As a submissive, I savor the experience. Sometimes I get two or three spankings a half hour apart, before cunnilingus followed by intercourse. Mostly, I just go with the flow as a submissive but sometimes I’ll whine or complain to encourage a harder or longer spanking.

Sometimes an errant blow will fall on the far hipbone or nether parts that hurts simply way too much.

It’s hard to enjoy the spanking fully if I’m not comfortable. I like my bottom elevated at least a little and my face down, but my nose gets in the way. If I haven’t set up the pillows right, it can be tough on my neck. And if the spanking causes me to thrash around, it can be hard to regain that comfortable position.

Finally, as long as I’m whining about minutia, the perfect spanking would allow me to breathe, to exhale after each blow. Often they come fast and furious. I enjoy the intensity but cannot savor each whack the way I’d like to.

But I don't want to diminish Irene’s passion with too many specifics. It’s wonderful the way it is.

FL: The stigma. It would be so wonderful to come out as a spanko on a first date and not be judged as a weirdo, just have it accepted. 

Bonnie: I wrote an entire post about dastardly spanker tricks. I have experienced all of these and they are unpleasant.

Hermione: I like a long, slow spanking. If it's too fast, it is over too soon.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #556

Hello and welcome back to our regular readers. If you are a newcomer, we are all happy to see you here. Today's topic is one that might make you stop and think before answering.

What, if anything, do you dislike about spanking?

Please leave your response as a comment, and I'll publish a summary of our discussion in the next post.

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Strange Translations

At the grocery, the buffet, and a pretentious menu item. 

 

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for September 1

We discussed the topic of the reason for your spankings exactly ten years ago, and back then I had 24 responses. Of those who answered today, only Ronnie and Bonnie were in that group of 24. How our membership has changed! So, what's it to be? Erotic enjoyment, punishment, stress relief, or other?

Rosco: Oh golly. Funny you should ask this just now.

Yes.

Most of my spankings begin with discipline on some (role playing) trumped up charge. Then I’m instructed to take a nap - often tied up. Then reverse cowgirl cunnilingus followed by intercourse. So all 3 in one.

Right now, however, I’m sitting in a chair with a very hot bottom, gagged for mouthing off. Irene doesn’t want to hear me whine and pout any more.she’s threatened to put me to bed without supper. No pussy tonight. But it’s still oddly relaxing. So tonight, it’s 2 out of 3.

Betsy: Most of our spankings are for erotic enjoyment. Spankings for discipline is rare.

Norse Cavalier: Most of the spankings I've given are for mutual enjoyment. A few of them have been for discipline, but I think we both enjoyed them despite that.

Roz: Over the years our spankings have been for fun, discipline and role affirmation. Nowadays they are mainly for fun.

Luvinhub: When we were living a WLM it was all maintenance/discipline/punishment. The only spanking I have received since ending our WLM I asked for and for me it was to see if it would help with stress. The feeling was a bit strange because I was not in trouble.

Jack: Discipline, my wife/mommy informed me that I'm no different from other husbands, the naughty little boy comes out from time to time. Unlike most wives she will become the Mommy, and her naughty little boy will soon be across her lap, and his bare bottom being properly spanked with a bath brush.

KDPierre: All of the above!...and maybe more as well.

FL: Yes. :)

Anon: Funishment is the reason for my spankings.

Bonnie: Let's check all the boxes, draw some new ones in between, and check those too.
 

Donn: My wife primarily thrashes me for discipline, punishment and role affirmation.

However, it is not unusual for her to apply quite vigorous/extended therapy with her implements when I display a bad or deteriorating attitude, or sometimes when she believes I've become disthymic.

(Thrashings in our home are never for any erotic and pleasurable purposes, except when needed for my wife's own needs or possible stress relief.)  

CEM: Discipline is the objective, but I surmise the other elements are inadvertently included.

Wendel: Our spankings are for fun with a bit of erotic excitement. We spank each other for misbehaving but it is meant for fun.

Barrel: We get all of the above. First, we find intimacy is enhanced. Second, always stress relief, mostly for me, but increasingly for my wife. And with a session, there is always a time for discipline and punishment due to events that are deserving. 

Ronnie: All of the above. 

Hermione: Our spankings are for fun, relaxation, and stress relief for both of us. They are always erotic for me as well. We don't do them for punishment, because, as Ron says, what would be the point? I enjoy them too much.

Loki_Darksong: While my busy schedule has reduced the spanking time in my household, something I really have to fix, it is for every reason listed with the posted question.

Although I believe I'll be making more of a stress relief due to the amount of high amount of stress as a direct result of the current political environment.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #555

Welcome to another weekend brunch, where we gather for good food and good conversation about spanking. We all enjoy it and do it - spanking, I mean. But why?

Are your spankings for erotic enjoyment, for stress relief, for discipline, or for some other reason? 

Please leave your reply as a comment and I will publish a summary of our discussion at the end of the long weekend.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for August 25

This week we contemplated the merits of pickle ball paddles.

Donn: I have no personal knowledge, as all of our paddles were professionally made for paddling (butts).

My general feeling is that most pro butt paddles are both heavier and much smoother than sports paddles. Heavier would generally mean less sting (compared to deeper thud), while smoother might tends to increase sting (for a comparable level of friction/abrasion).

Just my theoretical speculation. (I don't intend to buy a sports paddle for experimentation.)

Bonnie: Yes, we had to try one. The nature of the sport is such that the heavy paddles we prefer for spanking would be difficult to swing quickly enough to smack a speeding pickle. So those paddles tend to be thinner and lighter by necessity.

But like smaller ping pong paddles, they are usable for disciplinary purposes. When delivered in rapid fire fashion, this paddle can produce considerable.sting and redness. It has found a place in our toy chest.

Dan: We haven't, but I did buy my wife a necklace that has a pickle ball paddle-shaped pendant. It seemed like something she could wear that would look innocent but would have a secret meaning to just the two of us.

Wendel: We have no experience with pickle ball or the paddles. I did see one coated in carbon fiber. Guessing that probably packs a good wallop. Doubtful will invest in one.

Roz: Interesting questions. We haven't tried a pickle ball, or other sports paddle, but I imagine they can produce a good sting.

Prefectdt: I had to search Pickle Ball, as I had never heard of it. I found only one club and one location where it is played regularly in Belgium. As I have never seen a Pickle Ball Paddle, I will reserve my opinion for the present. I would happily try being spanked with one, should the opportunity arise.

S: Thank you again for hosting this wonderful brunch and using my question. I do not have any experience playing pickle ball but I am intrigued by the idea of so many paddles. I do not think my wife would like to be bent over on the court in front of me. She would know it would be more of a temptation then I could resist.

Hermione: We haven't tried one of these paddles, although the game is really popular here. We make do with a ping pong (table tennis) paddle, and it works very well.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #554

Wow! That week went by quickly, and so it's time for another discussion. Our good friend S suggested this week's topic.

With the rise in popularity of pickle ball, there are a lot more paddles around. Have you or your partner utilized a pickle ball paddle to give or receive a spanking? Is there a difference in the sting level of an expensive paddle made of exotic material versus a cheap paddle made of wood?

Please leave your response as a comment, and when everyone has had a chance to speak, I'll publish a summary of our discussion.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for August 18

This week we discussed preventing skin problems on the nether regions.

Roz: Interesting question. The only thing we have used is some arnica cream post spanking on the rare occasion to help with bruising.

Barrel: We have not. But an interesting thought.

S: I like to keep a bottle of aloe in the refrigerator. It can be applied to the naughty bottom pre, post or during a spanking.In addition to moisturizing the skin, it also makes the target sticky which increases the sting factor.

Prefectdt: Every day, my back bumps get a dose of skin lotion, except on days when I am going to get spanked. Nothing expensive, just standard stuff. It seems to help keep the fellas in good order. After a good spanking, the first thing that goes on is alcohol gel (not pleasant, but it puts my mind at rest about micro abrasions) and after that skin lotion again. But now it goes on three times a day, until the marks and any hardness has gone. I find that creams and lotions just before a spanking seem to do more harm than good.

Wendel: We do not use anything before spankings. They are hard enough.

Ronnie: On the odd occasion we've used arnica. Never tried it or any other lotions before a spanking.

Hermione: I use a daily moisturiser on my bottom each morning after a shower, to keep the skin soft and to reduce any residual hardness from a spanking.    

Donn: My wife directs me apply a 50:50 mixture of White Mineral Oil (USP) and CeraVe Moisturizing Lotion to my butt if she has decided to cane me. She has me personally apply it and rub it in about one hour before the she starts with the cane. (This is the only time she requires a moisturizer, so her directive is a forewarning I can soon expect very serious discipline.)

I take several blood thinners, so I have a tendency to bleed from even slight abrasions or tears. My wife has found that a good moisturizing before a caning strongly reduces such damage. Particularly reduces such damage and bleeding from where multiple strokes of the cane overlap one another; basically, damage from compound weals, one weal overlaying another weal.

We don't used any aftercare lotions to ease the pain or hasten healing. However, my wife does insist that she spray my butt with isopropyl (rubbing) alcohol after all thrashings that have caused any abrasions, cuts or tears, to make ensure there is little chance for an infection to start. (Similarly, I'm required to clean and then sanitize all of her implements with either alcohol or dilute hypochlorite (bleach) solutions for the same reason.)

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #553

Welcome, one and all, to our weekly brunch. Inspired by last week's topic, a reader suggested this week's.

Have you ever used lotion, creme or oil on the buttocks to reduce the tendency for skin to excessively abrade, stretch and split, blister, and otherwise suffer physical damage that might limit the duration of a spanking?

Please leave your response as a comment, and when everyone has had a chance to speak, I'll publish a summary of our discussion.

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Cartoon Fun

A bit of bum-related levity to start (or end) your day.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for August 11

Have you ever used anything like capsaicin to enhance your spankings?

Donn: No, we have never used any embrocation creams (e.g., capsaicin, "tiger balm(R)," etc. . .) to simulate the heat of a spanking.

We have used capsaicin concentrates for other, punishment, purposes, but capsaicin usually needs to be applied to mucus membranes or other sensitive skin to have truly punishing effect.

However, it is an interesting question: Since capsaicin drastically lowers the temperature threshold at which pain neurons fire, and spanking/paddling/thrashing dramatically raises skin temperature (through both mechanical-friction-impact action, and capillary dilation), the combination of heated-skin + capsaicin could be quite intense. A simple butt roasting with a hairbrush might feel like someone is applying a blowtorch, an even hotter strapping or paddlin" might feel like someone is applying molten lava.

I think it would be good idea to go very slowly in any experiments applying embrocation creams to areas subject to spanking / external-heating. (Do we have any spanko/capsaicin-test dummies in our audience? Of course, for "data collection," solely for "scientific purposes" ;- ).

Dan: I've never tried it, but I would probably be interested in it to the extent prolonged the after-effects of a hard spanking.

Bonnie: Yes, but I'm not a fan. It's just not the same.

There are some types of lotion that can increase skin sensitivity before a spanking. That has happened.

Rob Allen: Never done it, but would consider it if a partner wanted it.

Wendel: We have tried spraying ice cold water on the fanny before spanking. It definitely increased the paddle sting but did not do much for hand spanking or the belt. We are not really interested in creams to enhance the effects. Spankings sting enough already. 

CEM: Nope and nope. I'm a purist. Food stays in the kitchen. I know nothing about any creams, body washes or lotions that enhance anything. I know about Bondo, grease and guy stuff...but I've never felt the need to use a product to add to the event...and based on the wailing and squealing from the recipients, neither have they. :)      

Roz: This is something I used to hear a lot about, either in addition to a spanking or as an alternative to spanking when spanking isn't possible for one reason or another. I used to wonder what it would be like but we have never tried it.

Prefectdt: No, and I think that these things might be off the menu for me. Because of some other medications that I take, I cannot use things like Deep Heat for muscle pain, as they do not mix well with the medication. So I am not going to risk using rub on creams. Just in case.

Rosco: Never thought about it. It doesn’t sound necessary. Intensity can be determined by implement, and if I’m seeking a harder-than-usual spanking, I might get out a certain whip (we pretty much stick to leather) or just whine and complain.

Alan: It works to reinforce a punishment spanking a la Aunt Kay style when it is rubbed into a just-spanked bum. That effect can also be increased by adding 20 minutes of corner time while the creme begins to work. The burn can last for hours.

 Anon: I love using capsaicin cream to simulate a spanking although the burning sensation can be a little overwhelming especially if the bottom is damp. As an alternative punishment I like to use stinging nettles that I grow in my garden on a naughty bottom. They give a most wonderful tingly sensation that is long lasting and not at all unpleasant.

Hermione: No, the spanking itself is sometimes more than enough.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #552

I'm glad you could make it to our popular weekend brunch. This week's topic is a one that first appeared here exactly ten years ago. I thought it was worthy of a repost.

Have you ever used a skin preparation or ointment containing capsaicin or similar ingredient, either to simulate a spanking or to enhance the effects of one? If so, what did you think? If not, is it something you might consider trying?

Leave your response as a comment, and when everyone has had a chance to speak, I'll publish a summary of our discussion.

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Fun at the Office

Working from home does have its drawbacks. You can't play pranks like these on your co-workers.

 

I see what you did there.

Happy hump day!

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for August 4

What is your experience with mouth-soaping?

Bonnie: No, when Randy decides I deserve additional punishment, he spanks me again.

Donn: No, my wife "cleansed me" of (mostly) my bad language years ago, with one of her straps. She has only rarely needed to "reinforce" those earlier lessons. She trusts her strap in such matters.

Wendel: Never used it. A good butt whipping is administered for bad language. 

B: The idea has never come up, even in jest. Like Bonnie, if I deseve more punishment, it is in the form of additional spanking. 

CEM: Mouthsoaping, cornertime, even writing lines...yes. Depending on the dynamic and person. Anything that might be psychologically damaging, no, never. But for the most part, pretty much everything else *might* be on the potential "menu". 

S: I am a life long spanko. I love a good funishment role play, but I like to emphasize the fun aspect. Fun as in spanking, why waste time doing anything else? No mouthsoaping please.

Norse Cavalier: I've never mouthsoaped anyone, but I'd like to try. It seems quite fun. I have done some research into how to do it safely, in case I ever get the opportunity.

I discussed it with a spankee, but she had some bad memories of being mouthsoaped as a child, and was also worried about her skin condition returning, so we didn't do it.

Roz: Additional punishments over the years, and depending on where we were with our dynamic at the time have included writing lines, corner time and early bedtime but mouth soaping has never featured, or been discussed.

Anon: Once many years ago, along with the back of her hand. Permanently deleted a lot vocabulary from my hard drive. 

FL: Love the idea and the whole maternal discipline ritual around it but the reality is unpleasant and more of a turn off than turn on. Still, I would like to be threatened with it.

Jack: My wife/mommy said after that first spanking, if I act like a naughty little boy, I will be punished as such. The first soap mouthing I got was the first time she used the bath brush it hurt, I pleaded beg. Standing facing the wall I say as she calls them naughty words and I was soon in the bathroom, bar of soap in my mouth, and my bare bottom feeling the sting of her hand. She has used it since then, very few times, but she will not tolerate naughty words at all. 

KDPierre: It's been infrequent, and certainly not appropriate for the majority of offenses, but we've done it a few times, and I even had it done by Nickki (my friend with disciplinary authority) for an offense that was caused by my mouth since soaping is usually associated with offenses of speech. I even made a fake box for the bar we use that advertises the contents as being specifically made for mouth soaping punishment. 

Barrel: An interesting thought, but it is not in our play book. Would we consider it, probably, as we are open to trying new things. I would need to do some investigation to do it safely. But my preference would be another implement for an additional round of spanking.

Prefectdt: I have been spanked, whilst biting into a cake of soap, and would be prepared to do it again. But it would be to please the other participant in the play scenario. I am tolerant of it, but do not find it so much fun for myself. It is not so bad at the time, but if I have been made to bite hard into the soap, I can still taste it 3 or 4 days later, no matter how often I brush.

 Hermione: It isn't  something that I would ever want to try. One story, however, comes to mind, with a twist to the usual method. Instead of a bar of soap, each naughty culprit was forced to eat something that they hated, prior to being spanked. The items I recall were licorice and liverwurst. If I had been ordered to ingest either, I would have eagerly complied since for me, these are yummy treats.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #551

It's the weekend, and that means it's time for another discussion on our favourite subject. Some of the stories that I read on the Library of Spanking Fiction have additional punishments besides the obligatory spanking. There's one such punishment that seems to be popular among writers and therefore, I assume, readers.

What is your opinion of mouth-soaping? Have you ever included it in your spanking activity? Is it ever used as a threat, but not followed through?

Please leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of our discussion.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 28

What about the spankee's attitude? Let's see what you said.

Jack: Remorseful, knowing what is to come, I plead, beg, promise to be good, all to no avail. My wife/mommy is going to spank me no matter what I say.

Bonnie: It depends upon the scenario. If it's a fairly routine spanking, my attitude is typically something like, "All right, let's do this." But if this is an unexpected serious punishment style paddling, I am more likely to be thinking, "Whoa, wait a minute. This seems like more than I need." In either situation, and everything in between, my opinion is a secondary consideration. When it's time for a spanking, I get spanked.

CEM: Scared. I would say that would be the most accurate description of their state of mind. 

Wendel: There are times when I just decide to spank the Misses. No reason other than I want to spank or paddle her bare bottom. She will always put up a fuss and whine wanting to know why she is getting spanked. The Misses’ protests and complaints turn to tears as the spanking continues. Afterwards she will pull up her pants and continue on still asking why she was spanked.
I do not put up any fuss or act up because that just leads to a longer spanking. 

Rosco: I’m never really defiant but often a bit mischievous. Irene will say she’s heard that I’ve misbehaved and I’ll deny it, and make excuses to egg her on. If I want to be sure she spanks me thoroughly, I might reach up her skirt and try to cop a feel. Usually I go with the (her) flow, but sometimes I really crave a long hard spanking and will be disobedient enough to make sure I get it. She’s not seriously dominant outside our “dates” but she does like to make it hurt.

But I don’t misbehave for long.

Eventually I’ll apologize profusely and promise to behave (until next time).

Once we’re into our role play, we seldom break character. But we’ve more or less agreed on a code. The more I complain and resist, the harder and longer she spanks. We’ve never used a safe word. On a rare occasion if she wants to spank me and it’s not the right time, I’ll ask if we can do it later.

Roz: It depends on the situation. Over the years our spankings have occurred for many different reasons. Punishment, role affirmation and pure fun. Nowadays mostly always for fun. If punishment, apologetic from the start. I can sometimes whine and pout insisting I don't want a spanking, but it happens regardless and the attitude quickly changes.

Prefectdt: All of the above, depending on what role is desired of me :) I like it best when I get to be verbally bratty, but follow instructions on what to do physically, to the letter and without resistance.

Barrel: For us, spankings are a stress relief and a re-balancing of sexual tension. My mood slowly changes between spankings, going from carefree, to grouchy and in need of a long, hard spanking. Several days before, I am wanting it to happen. The day of, I am reluctant and apprehensive. As the session progresses, I become very remorseful. Afterward, I am relieved and carefree, proud to wear the marks.

KDPierre: We don't like 'bratty' even when it's "fun" so that isn't ever part of the mix. Funny? Maybe, but not bratty. For the 'real stuff' it's the latter set of emotions that most often come into play. Resistance is sometimes an aspect, but it's more internal and mental than actual.

Hermione: No bratting here. I'm usually of the "Let's get it over with" mindset. 

Thank you, Rosco, for the great topic. I'm always on the lookout for new topics that my readers are interested in, so please keep them coming.

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