How do you feel about spanking parties? Most of your comments were flagged as spam by Blogger. I guess B*D*S*M triggers the spam filter, but don't worry. I recovered them, and here they are:
Bonnie: That's not really our vibe. While I am intrigued by the idea, Randy prefers to handle our spankings at home and in private.
Dan: I haven't attended one. For me, I think it would depend to a huge extent on the composition of the party. A general spanking party doesn't have much appeal for me, but mostly because my spanking interest is so focused on disciplinary spankings. If there were a "party" for Domestic Discipline couples, and preferably a small group (probably no more than 4-6 couples), I could be into it.
Wendel: A spanking party does not really spark interest. We like to keep it with us.
Barrel: We have never been to one. It would take some open and candid discussion about the rules, limits, do's and don'ts, but maybe. It would also depend on where it was (far away from home is better), size of the group (smaller is better) and maybe others sharing how it might work. Hmmm????
Donn: My
perspective is very similar to Dan's: If it was a small group of
wife-led DD couples, who were together simply to socialize, or to trade
information and techniques, or one husband had incurred penance with
several wives (who wanted witnesses), I would certainly attend.
Somewhat
similar, there are periodic "trade shows" of vendors of spanking (and
other BDSM) equipment, where there are often "equipment demonstration
suites" in a nearby hotel. Not exactly "parties," but there is often a
group of people engaged in various "test and demonstration" spankings.
I'd be up to visit and learn more.
Roz: We went to a BDSM event years ago out of curiosity. It was interesting seeing the people there, the goings on etc. There wasn't much spanking though. It was a one off. I don't think a spanking party would hold much appeal.
Norse Cavalier: I find the concept interesting, but there are none in Norway, and I don't like the thought of having to leave the country. There's BDSM parties, and I've attended a few, but it's not the same. But yeah, if time and money were no object, maybe.
Graham: OK, I'll be the outlier going against the grain. When I was younger and single, I went to several and they were all great fun. Once I took a girlfriend who also enjoyed it very much. There was ZERO pressure to do anything. The people were very friendly. It might have been even nicer if we had known some of the people beforehand. There were of course toys and things for sale, but only on the first night. While there were some public events, almost all the real action occurred behind closed doors from what I could tell. What I've related here was over 30 years ago, so I can't comment on the current climate.
Rosco: I don’t think so, but I do have fantasies about being spanked by the whole sorority or, better yet, the women’s tennis team in their locker room.
Prefectdt: No I have never been to a spanking party. I would like to, but not alone. If I could find a Top who wanted to go with me, I would, but being a single, male spankee at a party, unaccompanied, no thanks.
cleveland_Tom: Gone to 2 SCONY, (Spanking Club of New York), weekends in the Poconos, joined a Spanko interest group that held events at a local/amateur dungeon that meets for about a year, a group spun off from that Cleveland Tanners Society that held in home events for a few year, mostly couples, (which I wasn't at the time), kind of Pot Lucks with spanking. All were interesting, mostly great people. Fun.
Ronnie: I am intrigued by the idea, and would be interested in attending one, but only as a spectator.
Hermione: I am currently reading 18 Months in the Spanking Scene by Anna J Skye, and in it she describes spanking parties, although she never attends one. The parties she was told about seem very structured, and always end with a round of caning all the females present. That type of party would not appeal to me at all! I might like to be a fly on the wall at a party, but have no desire to be spanked in public.
A.J.: "Have you ever been to a spanking party?"
No. But sometimes I wish I had.
There was one near me and I contacted the hosts. Like Anonymous wrote, they were all so friendly and ZERO pressure. This one would actually invite pro spankers in to give lectures on the do's and don't's of spanking. I remember they had one who would fly in from Florida for the get-togethers.
But I did get access to their private chats which were a lot of fun - but little talk about spanking, surprisingly. Most were about life experience but with a hint of spanking.
One of my favs was a couple (spankos) about to buy a new house. They found one but the wife wanted to take one more look before committing. She gets with the realtor for an early AM tour. And - she brings along her 3-year old, full of life and curiosity, daughter.
They tour the house and come to the master bedroom. The 3-year old is a fun whirlwind who winds up crawling around on the floor of the master closet. After a minute or 2, mom and the agent go find her. They do, finding her kneeling on the floor of the closet where she had pushed aside some of the clothing on the rack and saw what was hidden behind.
"Look!! They must have horses!!" said the 3-year old.
Mom and agent look and see what the home owners thought would be hidden - another rack with paddles, straps, riding whips, and ...uh...leather "accessories." All of which YOU KNOW were for only purpose! Strictly!
Mom and agent can't talk! The now desperate agent finally tells the 3-year old, "Did you see the back yard? Maybe you could have a swing??"
Girl laughs and runs off.
Mom and agent follow. Going down the stairs the agent breaks the ice, "Kinkyyyy...!!!!"
"Yeah. Kinky," said the mom while thinking, "If you only knew...."
There was one other great story, one I will never forget.
Another story? Please do tell!
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