Monday, May 20, 2019

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for May 19

What is the biggest turn-on for you in a spanking?

Bonnie: When I read this question, I was curious what my answer was ten years ago and whether I agreed today. Back then, I said it was the element of voluntary submission. I had to choose to be spanked.

That still works for me today, but there is another element. I am enthralled by the whole punishment headspace. When Randy tells me that I will now be spanked for my misbehavior, my pulse races. A hundred memories flood my consciousness. My hands involuntarily reach back as if it were possible to prevent the coming onslaught. When the paddle appears in his hand, I gasp, even though I have seen (and felt) it many times before. As I take my place over his lap, I feel small and yet fully deserving of the fiery discipline he is about to dispense. Afterward, I am sore, but totally ready for just about any adult fun he wants to explore.

QBuzz: I think the intimacy of it - being close to my partner and feeling our bodies against each other, along with the pain and heat we deliver to each other's bottoms.

Windy: His words and the way he touches me during the spanking........ YOWZA!

abby: The sound/tone of His voice, the feel of His He claims every inch of me before the spanking starts...and when it is over, being pulled in close to Him....

Yorkie: I don’t think there is only one thing that turns me on but if I use my body’s reaction as a guide, it would have to be the spanking itself. We don’t do punishment or role play so it’s just the act itself that supercharges my libido for the inevitable lovemaking afterwards.

Anon 1: The fact that he is in control.

Wendel: Taking the pants down and baring the bottom is one of my favorite parts.

Roz: This is a great question. The biggest turn-on's are the anticipation then my pants being removed/pulled down.

Anon 2: The waiting, standing there, scolding, the pants and underpants pulled down. My girlfriend is so good, that my erection is throbbing, she really enjoys that. She spanks just enough for me not to come and still with a warm, stinging bottom, she reaps the rewards and so do I. The turn on for me is being a naughty little boy and my girlfriend being the Mommy who spanks her naughty little boy.

Rosco: I’m not sure exactly how to answer, but giving up control for me is wonderfully relaxing.

After a spanking, Irene will generally leave me for awhile (to reflect on my behavior etc). I’ll often doze off while waiting and I rarely otherwise nap. Sometimes I’m lying on the bed and sometimes I’m tied to it. Last Thursday she instructed me to sit in a chair in her dark closet with my hot bottom. Even there I kept falling asleep.

Some people relax by meditating. I relax by getting spanked.

Ronnie: There isn't just one but a combination. The anticipation, his voice, his hands and the way he touches my body during the spanking.

Hermione: I too went back to my original answer and it's pretty much the same today. Thinking about being spanked is actually more of a turn-on than the actual act which, you have to admit, is quite painful!

This topic was just as much fun the second time around!
From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, May 19, 2019

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #279

The sun is shining here (finally!) so let's have brunch out on the patio as we discuss a topic originally presented by Bonnie in a long-ago brunch. I hope we have as much fun with it today as readers did back then.

When thinking about your spanking experiences, what single aspect do you find to be the biggest turn-on?

Leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has weighed in, I'll publish an edited summary of our discussion.
From Hermione's Heart

Friday, May 17, 2019

Friday FAIL

Isn't it ironic? Hum along with  Alanis Morissette as you scroll down.

Happy Friday!
From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, May 14, 2019

What, no discipline?

We recently traded in our 10-year-old (but still perfectly reliable) car for a brand new luxury model, and Ron let me choose the colour. I call it a computer on wheels. It has so many bells and whistles the noise is deafening! Besides the heated seats (ooh!), it has two display screens, two clocks (analog and digital), a backup camera, and very clever windshield wipers that adjust their speed according to the amount of rain coming down. The steering wheel itself is a mini-control panel; heated and padded, it contains a host of buttons that control the sound system (I think). I've learned all I need to know—how to make it start, run and stop, and how to find CBC on the radio—but Ron will spend hours sitting in the car with the instruction manual, learning about all the fancy features.

There are lots and lots of lights, both inside and out. The dashboard display lights up like a Christmas tree, and various cryptic letter combinations appear, in a rainbow of colours, to warn you of impending doom or reassure you that a safety feature is in place. Recently I noticed a group of letters I hadn't seen before: BDSM. Was that a warning that a spanking was imminent? Or maybe the reassurance that this car, along with everything else, was kink-friendly?

But wait. On closer inspection the letters turned out to be BSM. What, no D? No dominance or discipline? This car wasn't going to be as much fun as I thought.
From Hermione's Heart

Monday, May 13, 2019

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for May 12

What are the reasons for your spankings?

Bernie: The only reason is my need to get one, or my partner's desire to give one.

Yorkie: There is only one reason - because it feels so damned good!

Roz: Spanking doesn't happen here now days, but when we did they were for fun/foreplay, discipline or to reinforce our roles in our dynamic.

Arched one: 1. I love to be spanked.
2. She loves giving me spankings.
3. I love the sting.
4. she loves the way I wiggle when spanked and my bottom turning red.
Reasons Fun/foreplay, discipline, maintenance.

Willie: The most common reason for spanking here I would say is to reinforce our dynamic. There are also punishment spankings that happen ( I'd love to claim rarely but if our dynamic is not reinforced they sadly happen more frequently). Spankings in and of themselves are not used as foreplay but sex can and does happen after often enough ;) . B also does what he calls 'taking'. Basically a "just because I feel like it" spanking- for him.

Jack: Punishment for behavior problems, attitude, being self centered.

QBuzz: Usually for foreplay, but also often just for pleasure, as sometimes we spank each other on the spot without having sex afterwards.

Bonnie: I wrote an article on this topic thirteen years ago. My answer remains a complex mixture of these ten reasons.

Rosco: Irene spanks me as part of foreplay, though she make up a story that it’s discipline. She takes on any one of dozens of personas - schoolgirls, teachers, senoritas, debutantes, British, French. Often I’m being punished for peeking up a girl's skirt or through a keyhole or into a kicker room.

The spankings are intense though not too serious. She’ll often put me in the corner after or tie me to the bed, making me wait. She go off and do something, take a shower, then dress up. Usually she’ll spank me again, before instructing me to please her orally. Intercourse comes after.

There are variations within that routine, but it works well for us, incredibly well.

Sometimes I’ll just get a spanking w/no sex. And sometimes she’ll make me do chores or errands after.

We both love the game and get into it, but we don’t take it too seriously.

Ronnie: A number of reasons. To name a few - sexual, foreplay, pleasure, discipline, stress relief fun.

Joe: Foreplay, pleasure and stress relief are the main reasons. T does not want to be spanked but will spank me because I want it. Sometimes when I come home from work stressed she will tell you need a spanking go get ready then spank me long and hard until all my stress is gone. I will thank her for the spanking and some incredible sex is next. Other times it is playful just because one of us wants to.

Barrel: Always as foreplay. However, the intensity varies widely as we play out various scenarios. While I would like to say our spanking is maintenance, discipline and punishment, I have to admit it is always a prelude to intimacy. Some of our planned sessions are “staged” as punishment that play out as serious intensity and extended duration. Those are truly as stress relief and deep caring for each other, for which we are grateful.

Asteria Noci: Mostly for discipline and punishment, but also because it helps me with stress. And because I like it :)

Liza: 99% of the time it's foreplay. Rarely is it for discipline.

Wendel: We do not need a reason to spank each other. They are just fun (but sometimes painful).

Hermione: Ours are for maintenance and stress relief...oh, yes, and for fun!

Thank you for that interesting discussion. Have a safe week!
From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, May 12, 2019

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #278

Welcome one and all! You're just in time for some freshly baked cookies, so help yourself.

We are all here because spanking interests us in one way or another. Spankings happen for many reasons: punishment, maintenance, stress-relief, foreplay—to name but a few. So why do you spank?

What are the reasons for your spankings? Does every spanking have (or even need) a reason?

Leave your response as a comment, and I will publish an edited summary of our discussion when the weekend is over.
From Hermione's Heart

Saturday, May 11, 2019

You Completed the Caption

Anon 1: Who ever came up with this contest, must have been my wife.

KDPierre: At "The Regular Guys Strip Club" the dancers leave the ladies little question on where to tuck their dollars.

Anon 2: There's not enough spackling paste in the world to repair those cracks.

Hermione: The local diner's "Which plumber fixed my sink?" contest was always won by Hazel, who was a crack connoisseur.

There's no room at the counter, so come on over to my place for brunch, coming up next.
From Hermione's Heart