Tuesday, July 16, 2019

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 14

Have you ever given or received a spanking when a third person was present?

Roz: Great question Hermione. We went to a BDSM function once and Rick decided to spank me. There was nobody else in the room to begin with but a few started watching from the doorway or came in briefly. I just kept my head buried! I didn't want to eyeball anyone lol. Other than that, there has never been anyone else present.

QBuzz: I attended a couple of spanking parties with three men and two ladies in attendance. The men spanked all the women and the women spanked each other (all done in front of everyone else of course).

I love the idea of a third party being involved and either watching or participating. Not sure if it'd work in reality though

Wendel: Never had anyone watch and not really interested in having spectators.

Anon 1: If wife is going "blister me raw" for a real screw up she will have a witness, of her choosing, present. And trust me the person is not there to save my ass in any way. It's usually female friend or relative, but sometimes it's an elderly male friend to add to humiliation.

Anon 2: My first spanking as an adult was such a case. Shortly after we started dating I was told I best improve my language and attitude or she would make wish I had. Well I went to far and one Saturday morning I found myself across her lap, thinking at first this was a joke, but soon learned otherwise, kicking, pleading, when her Mother dropped in. Please stop I said, no more, her mother said, about time and left the room, when she came back she handed her daughter a hairbrush, does wonders, and it sure did. I danced around the room rubbing, I had kicked off my underpants and could care less all was on display. It was facing the wall, the two talked, I just wanted to get dressed.

Yorkie: That would be a big, fat no and there never will be.

Anon 3:  The worse spanking I got, the one I dreaded the most, was in the presence of her best friend. The spanking was happening when she dropped in, my wife said nothing and applied that paddle fast and hard.

Joe: No so far there as not been a third party present during my spankings but I am hoping that will change. My wife only spanks me because I ask her to and it has taken some time for to learn how as she was afraid of hurting me in the beginning and had to learn the difference between hurt and injure. She is a very private person so a third party may not happen, just hope the spankings continue and keep getting better.

Prefectdt: Yes but that was due to certain circumstances back in the 1990's. I was happy for a third party to be present but not to interfere. The interaction had to be solely between the top and myself.

Welcome back! It's lovely to hear from you again!

Barrel: We have never had a third person witness or participate in our spankings. I would welcome it...I think. My wife, I am skeptical. She has an ideal candidate in her divorced exercise instructor who is quite a flirt, active in the nightlife scene and comes across as a bit edgy. Nevertheless, I am not holding my breath as our sessions almost always conclude with intimacy.

Liza: No. My husband and I have no interest in a third party present.
I've been curious about something. I've noticed quite a few comments about men being spanked by their wives and there are one or more women present, and a lot of times the mother-in-law spanks the husband. I've never seen a comment about a wife spanked with the husband's friends present or being spanked by the father-in-law. Does this ever happen?

Readers, does it?

Ronnie: I think I would like to watch someone getting spanked but wouldn't like anyone watching me getting spanked.

Red: Yes, I have been watched by Danielle's husband Tom, and by Cindy being spanked. However, I really never wondered what I looked like, or how I was seen to be reacting, nor what they were thinking, because Danielle is such an effective and dominant spanker that my mind only was with what she was stating, or the spanks I was receiving.

In addition, we did attend a week-end spanking party, but it had wonderful times, but some not so wonderful also. One must be careful with whom one "PLAYS". Most people were great. I would like to watch someone else be spanked, and that did happen at the party.

I would like to meet other spankers, but most in North America are too shy to meet. (hint hint)

Realblueyes: A couple of years ago I did something really stupid and my GF decided to spank me in front of a couple of her nurse friends. I was blindfolded in our bed room then led out to our living room were her friends were enjoying a glass of wine. I was draped across C's lap and she began. Started off gently but got serious quickly. It was the hardest and longest spanking I have ever gotten and ended with a round of applause from her friends. I wanted in our bedroom till friends left then C came in and rewarded me with a nice session of passion. I still don't know who the spectators were tho I suspect who one was.







Hermione: Yes, as a child, (sorry, no details, as this is a blog about adult consensual spanking) but never as an adult. Like Ronnie, I would enjoy watching someone else being spanked. but our spanking activities are strictly between the two of us.

Thank you all for your revelations.

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 14, 2019

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #287

I hope everyone had a good, productive week, and that you are ready to relax with good friends and enjoy a discussion about spanking. Speaking of friends, that leads us nicely into today's topic.

Have you ever given or received a spanking when a third person was present? If so, did that individual assist in the spanking in any way, or was s/he simply an observer? If not, how would you feel about having another person watch or join in?

If you would like to add your voice to the discussion, please feel free to leave a comment. Once everyone has had the opportunity to speak, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
From Hermione's Heart

Friday, July 12, 2019

Friday FUN

Have you ever seen a sign that didn't make sense, or one that was begging for a response? Here are some that made me laugh out loud. Click on the images to make them larger if you are having trouble reading the notes.


























Have a great weekend!
From Hermione's Heart

Wednesday, July 10, 2019

From the Top Shelf - The Wrestling Ladies, part 5


This final instalment of Rollin's "The Wrestling Ladies" reminds me of a similar oscene in Anne Rice's Exit to Eden.

It was Jen who led Bruce to the house. “Let’s go Bruce,” she said. “We’ll get you set up to be our houseboy for the day.” He’d somehow managed to pull his underwear back up over his swollen bottom and now he trotted after her, wondering what new humiliation was in store.

The new humiliation was the outfit. It was a sheer frilly apron tied with a bow at the back, a pair of nylon panties – and nothing else.

“Now what you do is do what anyone tells you. If they want a drink, you go get them a drink. If they want a foot massage, you do that. If they need suntan lotion rubbed on, you do that. Follow Gina’s lead. At the end of the day you’ll be graded and if you’ve done a good job there will be a reward. If not, well, whoever was not pleased may add a few spanks to that glowing behind of yours.”

Bruce froze. More spanking? After that? He clenched his cheeks and a moment of terror gripped him. I need to get out of here, he thought in a panic.

“But the reward is quite nice,” said Jen in a whisper. She lowered her hand and brushed it against his penis, gently rubbing it up and down. Then she knelt and kissed the tip through the nylon panties. “I know several of the girls would just love to have a go at you,” she purred. “I’ll bet you could go a long time.”

So once again Bruce’s libido trumped his common sense. When he emerged from the house in the humiliating apron, his erection bulged at the front of the panties. Jen had added a collar that clamped around his neck with a little chain dangling from it. He felt everyone’s eyes on him as he made his way back to the pool area. There were both apprising looks and chuckles as he was introduced around.

“Now, you know Trina, I think,” said Jen, indicating a buxom blonde sunning in a lawn chair. Bruce nodded. “And I think you know Tess,” she said, referring to a stunning redhead who was busy spreading suntan lotion on her arms.

“Why, yes,” she said. “I do believe this boy saw me lose the paddle challenge the other night.” She looked at Bruce. “Wasn’t that you, boy?”

“I, um, yes. I did see that,” said Bruce. “You looked very sexy, Tess.”

She sat straight up and put her hands on her hips. “Well, of all the nerve! That’s MISS Tess to you. The houseboys address us as ‘Miss’ and you say ‘yes, ma’am’, understand?”

Bruce was taken aback at the sudden shift in attitude. He licked his lips nervously and said, “Er…yes, ma’am.”

She frowned. “That’s better. The next time I hear such rudeness you’ll be across my knee for a sharp lesson in manners.” She stood up. It was hard for Bruce not to stare at her lush figure, barely contained in a little white bikini. “Lay this recliner out flat, then you can rub suntan lotion on my back – and you better not miss a spot.”

Thus, Bruce began his day as houseboy to Lara’s stable of gorgeous female wrestlers. Along with Gina, also in servitude for the day, he waited on the ladies and the few male guests. Bettina, a voluptuous brunette with her dark hair in bangs demanded a foot rub. Bruce had never done that before but he did his best, constantly having to respond to instructions from Bettina. “Not that hard! No there, that’s it. Now do it that way.” She kept firing commands at him. Debbie, a short stocky girl with a muscular build wanted a shoulder and back massage. He tried to accommodate, but he didn’t know what he was doing. Everyone wanted drinks and food. Bruce found himself hustling back to the house to fetch them, and trying to remember who had ordered what. As a result he got some orders wrong and had to go back.

There were also distractions, and Bruce found that he was not the only male with his ass on the line so-to-speak. It seemed some of the ladies were fond of challenges, and it was apparently a breach of etiquette to refuse. A slender guy named Paul was made to arm wrestle Bettina. If he won, Bettina’s was his for the next hour, but if he lost it was ten swats on the bare with a paddle someone had thoughtfully produced from inside the house. It looked like a standard frat paddle, long and solid. Paul put everything he had into it, his muscles straining, beads of sweat popping out on his face, but he was no match for Bettina. He had to drop his trunks, grab his ankles and hold still for ten searing whacks with the frat paddle. Bettina lined up behind him and let him have it while everyone else crowded around and loudly counted off the swats one by one.

The other two men were led off into the house by one or other of the ladies, only to return an hour or so later, the man rubbing his backside and the respective lady looking smug and satisfied, like the cat who had caught the canary.

The girls were not immune either. Debbie challenged Tess to an arm wrestle. Bruce overheard commentary to the effect that there had been an ongoing quarrel between the two. The loser got a belt whipping. Tess managed to win this one and Bruce was treated to the sight of Debbie, sprawled over Tess’s knees as she sat on the pool diving board, bikini bottoms off, while Tess whipped her bouncing bottom with a folded belt for several minutes. The belt popped and snapped, leaving red welts in its wake. Debbie wriggled her bottom and yelped lustily with each smart lick. When it was over Tess dumped her into the pool. “That should cool you off,” she said. “And stop borrowing my things.”

*****


As the day began to fade, Lara announced it was time for supper. Caterers had arrived and Bruce was subjected to fresh humiliation as he had to return to the house time and time again to fetch drinks and now, canap├ęs, all the while clad in the embarrassing frilly apron and nothing else except sheer nylon panties. He caught the smirks and slow shaking of heads from the caterers as they looked him over. He blushed head to toe when he heard someone say, “Looks like somebody has been a bad boy.”

After dinner had been served, it was growing dark but tiki torches at poolside came on, bathing the area in a warm light. Lara gathered everyone together.


“Time to evaluate our new houseboy. What did everyone think? Thumbs up or thumbs down?”

Bruce listened anxiously as the ladies chimed in. It was both pro and con.

“He got my drink wrong.”
“He does a pretty good foot rub.”
“He has no clue how to give a proper massage.”

Jeez, what now? wondered Bruce.

“But he tried hard to do his best, right girls?”

All agreed that he had done that.

“Well, this is what I think. I’ll give him to two of you. Take him inside and do what you will. See if he has the right stuff. Just no permanent marks, ok?” said Lara. “Who wants him?”

“I do,” said Jen.

“Me too,” said Debbie.

It all happened so fast. Bruce was trying to process it. He was being given to Jen and Debbie, but for what?

“Come on, Honeybuns. You’re coming with us,” said Debbie.

Before he could voice a protest, Jen came up and grabbed one arm, Debbie the other. He was marched off toward the house, caught in the grip of the two strong lady wrestlers.
They led him in through the back patio and went down a hallway. At the end of the hallway was a door. They opened it and went downstairs. At the bottom Debbie flipped on a light and Bruce almost fainted.

He’d seen pictures of places like this in smutty magazines, but he’d never imagined they were real. Everything was painted black and red. There were mirrors everywhere. A huge bed dominated the room. There were also curious trestles with buckling straps, upright posts with manacles at the top, and a bar with cuffs hanging from the ceiling. An X-shaped cross was bolted to the wall. A padded stool with handcuffs and leg straps stood in a corner.

“What is this place? What are you going to do?” Bruce could only squeak feebly.

“This is our playroom,” said Jen.

“And sometimes our punishment room,” added Debbie with a wicked smile. “So let’s play.”

Bruce found himself stripped and shackled to a bar that dropped from the ceiling on a chain. Jen and Debbie had been wearing brief bikinis, but they now stripped them off, revealing their bodies in all their glorious nakedness. Jen was taller, more lithe, Debbie, shorter and more voluptuous. Both were gorgeous, and despite the dry taste of fear in his mouth, Bruce found himself becoming erect.

“Well, well,” said Debbie, “what have we here?”

“Ummm,” said Jen, sidling up to Bruce. “It’s nice and thick.” She fondled the swelling cock, sliding her hand over it, stroking him gently. The jolt of pleasure was so intense, Bruce felt his knees buckle. “Be careful with that thing, we want to save it,” said Debbie.

“You’re right,” said Jen. She let go and strode over to the wall, leaving Bruce’s erection bobbing up and down slowly. He tried to catch his breath.

Bruce watched anxiously as she fingered various implements hanging from the wall. There were whips, paddles, straps and canes, all of various sizes and lengths. He clenched his buttocks in anticipation of what she was doing. The sting in his behind had largely subsided but he still felt tender. To his dismay Jen selected a whip with a number of short leather thongs.

She walked toward him flicking the whip against her leg. “We’re going to teach you about pleasure and pain, Bruce. Did you know the two complement each other?” Bruce shook his head. “No? Well then, you have a lot to learn.”

“This is a deerskin flogger, Bruce,” said Jen, swooshing the whip. “Stick your ass out.”

“What?” said Bruce.

“I said stick your ass out. I’m going to whip you.”

“Please,” said Bruce. “I’m sore already.”

“I don’t want to have to tell you twice, Bruce. Now stick it out like a good boy.”

Bruce saw no alternative. He didn’t want to make Jen angry and he really had no choice but to obey. He bent slightly at the waist, thrusting his bottom out. The tails of the whip stung him right across the crease of his bottom and he let out a howl. Four more came in rapid succession causing Bruce to dance from foot to foot.

“Ow! Ow!” he yelped. On his tender behind, still glowing from Lara’s spanking, the whip was a real stinger. Fearing the worst, Bruce turned to look over his shoulder, but Jen had come up behind him and was mashing her breasts against his back. She snaked her arm around his mid section and took his penis in her hand.

“Now it’s all better, isn’t it, Bruce?”

Debbie came over and dropped to her knees in front of Bruce. Jen relinquished her hold and Debbie took Bruce into her mouth, sucking noisily, running her lips back and forth along the length of his erect member. Bruce groaned. Jen ran her hands all over his chest and kissed his neck and Debbie continued, now running her tongue around the head of Bruce’s cock. But once Bruce had been teased nearly to the point of climax, Debbie stopped and Jen stepped back.

“This time, ten, Bruce. Bend over.”

Bruce gasped. Ten? And this time he saw her select some sort of long single tail whip. She stood several yards back and flicked it, testing the length. Then she drew back and swept her arm forward. The whip curled in a long lazy loop.

Crack! It felt like liquid fire.
Whoosh…crack! Another searing stripe.

“Ahh…ahhh…ah!” He yelped.

Each lash was a stripe of pure heat across his bottom. She laddered them expertly, covering his butt from the juncture with his thighs to the crowns of his cheeks. Bruce cried out lustily and danced on his toes. Then the pair repeated their previous ministrations, once again bring Bruce nearly to the point of climax. Then they let him down. Jen unhooked the cuffs and allowed Bruce to rub his flaming behind.

“Enough of that, Bruce,” said Jen, grabbing his erect penis. She led him by the handy appendage over to the big four poster bed. Debbie was already there, on her back, legs spread. Bruce did not need an invitation. He climbed up onto the bed where Debbie grabbed his erection and guided him down. He sank into her wet vagina and she pulled his hips until he was in her up to the hilt. He began to thrust and pull back, the rhythm managed by Debbie pulling on his hips.

“Not so fast, Bruce. Go slow.” He felt a sudden sting across his ass and looked back. It was Jen with a riding crop that had a larger leather flap at its end.

Bruce would have never believed he could go that long, but the combination of the stimulation and the damping power of the whip kept him on the boil for an eternity. When he finally came it was as if a dam had burst and he was in danger of flying apart.

Then they renewed him again, this time with Jen as the sexual partner and Debbie regulating his orgasm most effectively with the riding crop. In the evening’s finale he took Debbie from the rear. He pumped away, urged on by Jen with the riding crop. Then mercifully she stopped and put the crop away....

*****


Monday morning there was the expected ribbing and kidding. There was even a pillow waiting for him on his desk chair. The hooting lasted until he told them how he’d been invited to a very special pool party the following day at which all the gorgeous wrestling girls were there swimming in the nude. They all wanted to know how they could get in on that.

“You have to get up there and wrestle like I did. Then they might just invite you.”

Skepticism was rampant and few believed Bruce’s story, but Bruce didn’t care. He’d been invited to come over next Sunday and this time somebody else would be the houseboy.
From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, July 9, 2019

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 7

What is your favourite part of spanking?

Jack: The scolding, long, especially if someone else is present. Standing there pants and underpants around your ankles, saying nothing, wanting to get the spanking over.

Peter: I think Jack says it all. When we began a few year ago, it was a private spanking followed by corner time with a bare bottom and nose against the wall. Slowly she demanded more and we both found it arousing. I have been spanked in front of a few friends, and earlier this year my best buddy revealed that he too was spanked by his wife. When we spent a weekend in May with them at their place by the lake, he and I were spanked by our wives at the same time We both stood naked and were standing side by side. Witnessing his paddling then his mine, was very intense. Later he agreed it was good feeling to be able to have a buddy you can chat with about this topic.

Thanks, love this site.

Roz: Great question Hermione! For me it's the anticipation and preparation and how it makes me feel afterwards.


Amy: Lately it's being over Eric's knee. The secure feeling of my body across his legs, pressed against his chest. I listen as he lectures or scolds or reminds, all with the loving intention of keeping us close and me, strong. I know what's coming and then when he starts to spank, the initial pain kills me but that warm burning sensation that comes afterwards is incredible.

QBuzz: Definitely the spanking itself if it's OTK. The mixture of pain and intimacy is unbeatable.

Barrel: I agree with Roz, it is the build up to a long and serious punishment session. In our case, that build up takes place over several days, usually culminating in a date lunch when my wife lovingly tells me what she has planned. She has learned to torment me with the anticipation knowing the only way I can end it is by laying down on the bench at the foot of our bed to be thrashed.

Domhnall: That moment when my fear of the next stroke changes to a fear that the next stroke will not come.

Rosco: Interesting question. It’s the relaxation. Some people meditate, I get spanked.

I love the sensation- the sting (like tart lemonade on a hot day) followed by the warmth.

But mostly, the whole experience is relaxing. It takes me entirely out of daily worries and focuses me on my body and Irene’s body. Not just the spanking but also the lecture, the cunnilingus and whatever else we’ve added to the scene.

Often I’m tied up and blindfolded after the initial spanking and “put down” for a nap, which works well to my surprise.

Bonnie: For me, the best part is being able to live my fantasies, dreams, and aspirations in real time. It's the chance to experience every sensation, feel every emotion, and indulge every passion. And to do so with my one lover.

With the passage of time and grudging acknowledgement of the aging process, our spanking adventures have become less ambitious. But our imaginations and ingenuity remain as strong as ever. I still speak the words, "Yes, sir," as I climb onto our spanking bench.

A.J.: As I have said before, I have no interest in punishment spankings. I/we spank only for the eroticism and what it leads to, if-you-know-what-I-mean-and-I-think-you-do....

Best part for me on the receiving end? Like some of the above comments, the anticipation of what's to come. Her look and "I'm in charge" attitude she shows. The nervous dryness in my mouth when she is seated and ready to begin. The warmth from her body as I go OTK. And THE BEST - when she lowers my shorts baring the target. There is just something about those few seconds....! (Vulnerability?) The moment after when she rests her hand on one of my bare cheeks is also nice.
After that it is just the spanking, not hard - but not soft either.

And when the roles are reversed? Pretty much the same thing. Feeling the warmth of her body over my lap, followed by my slowly pulling down or off her panties baring her bottom, and hearing her little "Ummmm...". There is something about that moment, too.

The 2nd part of your question: "Has it changed over time, or has it remained constant?"
Constant. From day #1, too many years ago.

Wendel: I enjoy watching the Misses pull down her pants before going across my lap. Also enjoy watching as her bottom turns red during the spanking. When the Misses does the spanking I enjoy the spanking.

Tomy Nash: These days it's the memories. And those memories are a treasure trove of her love, dedication, generosity, and all she did to build me into the person I am today.

Aunt Kay helped change the world and I am grateful for the way she changed mine.

Yorkie: I think it is everything, but I especially like the spanking itself. Anticipating and then experiencing each implement and the unique feeling each one gives is intoxicating.

Anon: I'm Jack wife and he is allowed on this site because I have no problems with it, other sites I do. This needs a woman's view and with Jack he looks so cute and little when it comes to a spanking. I normally just bare his bottom and make him stand and get his scolding....So this is how I enjoy his spanking, in this house I'm in charge, and this Mommie spanks her naughty little boy on the spot no matter who might be present.

Ronnie: Everything - the anticipation, emotion, sensation, intimacy, the spanking itself and the words P uses.


Hermione: At one time it was the anticipation, never knowing exactly when it would happen, or watching the clock when I did know when. Now my favourite thing is the point at which the spanking stops hurting too much and starts feeling just right and oh, so good.

This has been one of our most popular topics. Thank you all for sharing.
From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 7, 2019

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #286

Welcome to another summer brunch—for those of us in the Northern hemisphere, anyway. For the folks down under who are in the middle of winter, here's a hearty dish for you to help you stay warm.

We are all here because we have a special interest in spanking, so let's share what we think about it.

What aspect of spanking do you enjoy the most? Has it changed over time, or has it remained constant?

Please feel free to join in the discussion. I will publish an edited summary of our conversation once everyone has had a chance to speak.
From Hermione's Heart

Friday, July 5, 2019

A Summer Meme

This meme comes to us from PK at New Beginnings, and I couldn't resist!

Do you like blue cheese?
I love it! Danish blue is always in the fridge.

Coke or Pepsi?
Diet Pepsi please.

Do you own a gun?

Not now, but when I was in high school I belonged to a gun club, learned to shoot a rifle and had one of my own.

What flavor of Kool-Aid?
I don't drink it, but lime would be my favourite.

Hot Dogs?
They go for a dip in their kiddie pool.


Favorite tv show?
Currently running - Doc Martin. Past shows are Breaking Bad and The Sopranos, and comedies Seinfeld and Everybody Loves Raymond.


Believe in ghosts?
Yes I do.

What do you drink in the morning?
Water to take a calcium tablet, then coffee with breakfast.

Can you do a push-up?

Only the easy kind.

Favorite jewelry?

Three silver rings.


Favorite hobby?
Right now it's iPad games, but I also like gardening and crochet.

Do you have ADD?
No. I can concentrate on a task without difficulty.

Do you wear glasses?

Yes, all the time.

Favorite cartoon character?
Bugs Bunny.

Three things you did this morning?
Let the dog out, ate a bowl of cereal and washed last night's dishes.

Three things you drink?
Tea, water and beer.

Current worries?
None at present. I was worried about our sick dog, but sadly that worry ended last weekend.



Do you believe in magic?
Sleight of hand? yes, it's very clever. The Harry Potter kind - no.

Favorite place to be?
Our cathedral.

How did you ring in the New Year?
Had cheese fondue, and celebrated early with Prosecco then bed.


Favorite color?
Blue.

Do you like sleeping on satin sheets?
I haven't tried it, but soft cotton flannel is very nice.

Can you whistle?
God no, and I HATE being near anyone who does.

What are you doing right now?

Typing this meme, listening to online radio and playing Wild West on the iPad.


Where would you rather be right now?
I'm perfectly content to be where I am.

Favorite food?
Pizza! That's a combination of foods, so if I have to choose a single food it would be cheese.






Favorite sex toy or spanking implement?

Rose paddle.

That was fun! Please try it too!
From Hermione's Heart