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What about marks? Here's what you said:
Bonnie: There are
marks and then there are marks. I always have some residual redness on
my bottom after I receive a proper spanking, but it often dissipates
fairly quickly. There are some spankings, though, where Randy’s
combination of implement, technique, and duration leaves me owning a
more lasting set of marks.
I love my marks and the accompanying
ouch back there whenever I sit, stand, walk, or bend. They remind me
that I was recently punished, and to a certain degree, that the corporal
punishment is still ongoing. These are exciting notions for me.
Inspecting my visible marks in a mirror afterward makes the whole
experience real.
Anon: My ex was surprised by marks the first time I spanked her, despite it being just surface marks and a few handprints. She got used to it.
Roz: I used to love having marks and being able to feel the spanking after. A lasting reminder. Rick also used to enjoy seeing the evidence of his handiwork. In the early days we were surprised at the amount of marking on a couple of occasions.
Rosco: Irene likes
to tease me about them. She’ll say I deserved them and more. That she
hopes I learned my lesson, but she suspects I haven’t.
The most
visible marks occur when she uses a switch - tiny welts that sting like
crazy when they’re administered but satisfy like cold lemonade on a hot
day.
There have been a few errant blows over the years which have
caused Irene a bit of remorse, but I’ve always healed in a couple of
days.
Prefectdt: I don't mark much now. Sometimes welts from a very hard caning, but that is more that you can see a furrow along my bottom, with no or not much bruising. I did start bruising again, some years ago, when I started taking a medication for my sticky blood syndrome, but that stopped happening about 18 months after starting the medication. I did used to like looking at my marks for a few days after the spanking, and miss that a lot. Still, there is usually swelling of the buttocks now and that is nice to feel for 3 or 4 days after the spanking, but it is not as good as having proper marks.
Red: Cindy is very happy to see my bottom a bright red, but not happy if any bruising or bad marks. However, a nice grey surrounded by red on my bottom shows a rather very intense and deserved spanking. I like to take pictures of my bottom when it is quite red, but the lighting does not show the deep red. Wonder why on an Iphone. I blogged recently also, but need to re-learn everything, like how to put links to blogs I am starting to re-follow.
Welcome back, Red. I've added your link to my blog roll.
Hermione: I love seeing marks, but sadly, I don't mark much these days. Redness that lasts a day or so, but nothing dramatic. I'll have to find out how Ron can up his game :)
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This week we discussed quiet spankings and this is what you said:
Wendel: No quiet spanking here. The sound of the bottom being smacked is wonderful and I love to hear the Misses cry out after each whack.
Roz: No need for quiet spankings but I am always paranoid about what neighbours might hear.
Glenmore: When the kids were home we would schedule a lunchtime meeting for lunch and spanking.
With the nest empty we just have to make sure the windows aren't open!
We
had a noisy one in a hotel room. Once and got some amused looks in the
elevator the next morning.We didn't know them so didn't really care.
Fondles: Tappity taps with the cane... it's the quietest option we have.
Prefectdt: There are quiet toys, rope floggers, for example. But realistically, having to keep it hushed is one condition too far. Better to find a place where noise is not an issue.
Bonnie: No. Our nest is empty now.
Hermione: There's no need for us to be quiet, but we put the television on for the dogs and give them stuffed Kongs to enjoy so the noise won't bother them.
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Does the spankee say "thank you"?
Graham: Absolutely! I not only thank her verbally, but she almost always receives a well-deserved oral orgasm usually followed by penetrative sex. Lots of fun!
Roz: I don't usually thank Rick for a spanking and it's not generally expected however I have on the odd occasion.
Fondles: I don't, usually, but I *have* said thank you when we have a Dd/lg session of playing (and spanking) - which I only mention here specifically cos sometimes the dynamic is less obvious.
Prefectdt: After a spanking I always offer a full formal, thank you. Usually in at least one full sentence. This is accompanied by a small bow. I never offer or seek a hug after this, but I often do get a hug from the other party, A hug is most welcome, but only if it is genuinely meant. I would not like it if I felt that the other party felt they had to hug me.
FL: Often, sometimes immediately following as part of roleplay, sometimes a while afterward, thanking her for enthusiastically indulging me. It's just good manners.
Jack: When my wife/mommy is done with the spanking I must say I will be a good little boy Mommy and sorry for being naughty.
Rosco: I’ll often
apologize for the behavior that led up to the spanking - that I’m sorry
for being such a recalcitrant naughty disrespectful pouty boy and that I
need to learn to follow all her rules. Then I might thank her for
spanking me because I know I needed it.
She’ll agree and usually say she needs to spank me more often.
A
few times Irene has demanded that I thank her as she’s spanking me.
I’ll refuse at first just to be a little annoying then comply.
Barrel: Yes, I do thank my wife after any spanking. After a long session, when I am totally drained, I give her a deep hug and thank her for taking me into that realm where I feel a total release of any stress. I absolutely love those moments.
A.J.: "Do you thank your spanker after a spanking?"
No. Not really. Does telling her "Oh. That was a good one!" count?
Has she ever thanked me for rendering the "honors?"
No! (That bitch!!! Kidding.)
"As a spanker, do you expect or demand such a courtesy?"
No. Never.
And that seems to me like a ritual or formality, one that I don't care for.
We thank each other in "other" ways, if-you-know-what-I-mean- and-I-think-you-do.
Wendel: The Misses has never thanked me for spanking her and I do not look for it. Consoling with kisses and sex is all that is needed.
Hermione: I agree with Wendel. No thanks are required, just some intimacy.
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Welcome back, friends and visitors alike. Our dear friend Erica Scott has posted again, so please visit her and say hello. She shared her interviews on the Spanko! Podcast; the links are here to part one and part two. It was a pleasant surprise to me because I had never heard of the Spanko! Podcast, but I'll be returning often.
Now on to today's discussion, kindly supplied to us by our good friend Barrel.
As a spankee, do you thank your spanker after a spanking? As a spanker, do you expect or demand such a courtesy?
Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion after everyone has had a chance to weigh in.
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