Slow and steady or rapid-fire - how do you like your spankings?Graham: Depends on the scenario but generally slow at the start and faster at the end.
Bonnie: Each has its place. A fast and syncopated spanking makes me feel a loss of control. I know I'm really in for it this time.
But
the slow and measured approach can be even more intimidating. When he
is completely under control and concentrating on systematically
delivering a hard punishment, I know my butt is going to hurt.
Jean Marie: Bonnie answered this question with an eloquence that I cannot approach; she said it all perfectly.
Still,
I have to be playful with some of the ideas suggested... I "prefer" a
pace that is so slow one can hardly call it a spanking, more love-pats
than swats, full of caresses and butt-busses. Most often, this will not
suffice; wrongs must be righted, consequences faced (even though I'm
face down and with ass upturned). I benefit from spankings that are
measured not in minutes of length but in moments of barely contained
electrical excitement, breathtaking in the spanking's duration and
shocking in its severity. ("Surely he's wrapping this up, it'll all be
over soon!" I tell myself, only to have it go on and on...) This brat
needs her well-upholstered bottom blistered with frequency. I need to be
marked, be brought to tears, to be brought low and humbled.
I love that
word the question used, "unrestrained." Sometimes I need to fear that I
won't be left able to sit comfortably for a week, to be worn-out.
"Safe, sane, and consensual" go out the window at such times. I need a
maniac, a loving monster to thrash me, reset my internal gyroscope and
set me on the straight and true path with a righteous butt-whupping!
I'm
writing this with tears in my eyes because there is no one special in
my life at present to give me what I want and need. Is a spanko worthy
of the label if one is reduced to spanking one's own ass for
stimulation/satisfaction? If you have a special someone in your life,
count your blessings as they make you count the strokes out loud.
Norse Cavalier: I spank hard and fast, but that's partly for practical reasons; the sub I
play with has a really high pain threshold, so it usually takes an hour
before she's had enough. I've given her three-hour-spankings in the
past, but we rarely have time for that, so hard and fast it is.
It's also very fun to watch her squirm and moan as I strike her sit spots.
Roz: For me each has its place, depending on the situation. My preference though is slow and steady to start building up from there.
Rosco: Definitely slow and measured. I like it intense, but I like to be able to savor it and breathe between strokes.
Honestly
while I appreciate her enthusiasm, when Irene goes too hard and fast
with the whip, crop or switch it just hurts too much to appreciate.
Mary: The point of a spanking is for my wife to assert her authority. So it
is not so much the pace of the spanking itself as the length of the
spanking. So there is generally period of reflection in the corner
during the spanking. Often there is a flurry of spanks, time in the
corner, and then a stern lecture with me over her knee with each point
accentuated with very hard methodical smacks with her paddle. By the
end, I am very aware of her expectations in the future.
Jack: Who gets to choose? Not me. My wife/mommy depending on what I did, will
start off slow sometimes, just to get my attention. Most of the time
it is fast, rapid spanking, I'm soon kicking, squirming, which tells her
she is getting through to me. When I start pleading, begging for her
to stop, she applies the bath brush harder. The results she wants is a
very red spanked bare bottom, a spanking dance, and seeing me facing the
wall so she can enjoy her work. Bottom line, no pun, Mommy decides.
KDPierre: Slow and measured for sure. Too fast and my heart races and I can't
catch my breath, which is scary and not the point of a spanking. Sore
buns are the goal, not a coronary. LOL I wonder if fast is 'a thing'
when the spanker uses their hand? I could see that being effective and
have even administered spankings like that to others. But with a sturdy
paddle? No way. I think it's just too much pain to process if delivered
rapidly.
Barrel: I think it depends on the implement, the more intense, the slower the
pace. With a hand spanking, brisk is appropriate. Our hard plastic
paddle and hairbrush are delivered at slightly slower pace. The riding
crops require a more deliberate offering in order to be precise and
intense, as is the tawse. When whipping with the single tail, patience
highlights each stroke. Finally, our two canes are the most intense
toys we have. Her pace with each stroke includes a measured pause,
allowing the burning fire to sink in just long enough time to realize
there is another one coming.
A.J.: OK; but before I put in my $.02; Jean Marie - What are "butt-busses?" (Do I have to get out more often?)
"What spanking pace do you prefer, slow and measured or fast and unrestrained? Why?
Which brings up another question: Is that question for the spankee - or spanker?
Cuz' I get a kick out of being on either side of the lap.
I'm going to assume spankee.
Since I only accept sensuous, hand-only, loving spankings, "slow and measured." To again quote Jean Marie, at "a pace that is so slow one can hardly call it a spanking, more love-pats than swats, full of caresses and butt-busses (What are they???)"
Start
out like that, easy with loving caresses, then up the game to firm but
not too hard swats, at a 2-per-second pace until a nice hot pink (not
bright red) is achieved. A pause. Caresses. And then I properly thank
her!! Whoo-Hoo!
Option - IF I WANT IT, and sometimes I do - is to end with a REAL spanking!
Years
ago, after a WONDERFUL woman I was with thought we were done (and she
had done a good job) I asked to go otk one more time, but this time - a
real spanking. I asked her to imagine I was her BF and I had royally
pissed her off. Told her to give me The Angry Girlfriend spanking.
She was "Really? You want that???" Maybe she really knew me.
Told her yes. I had never been spanked for real and want to try it.
"Give me the Grande Finale! So I could experience it.
She, a bit reluctantly, agreed. But then said she would cap it at 50.
Back otk, she put her left arm around me to hold me in place, and then let fly!!
After
50 she stopped, I got off her lap and on my knees in front of her,
while rapidly rubbing my burning tush. And then she asked me,
"Well...?"
Told her, "Wow!" Then, after we talked a bit, I asked, "One more time."
I got another 50 and then she said that was it. No more. And I agreed. Boy, did I agree!
Her opinion on why I took the first 50 so well was because of the 300-some moderate smacks prior to the Grande Finale!, I was, in sports terms, warmed up.
So, I got SPANKED! Capitals with an exclamation mark. I got to see what it was like.
I
think what made it so wonderful was, on my multi-hour drive home, it
was all I could think of! My tush still tingling, and all I could think
of was HER!
How wonderful she was, and what a great spanking experience I had!
I
was glad my bottom still tingled by the time I went to bed that night,
soon lying on my stomach, imagining I was back over her knees. By
morning that tingling was all gone. Shucks.
PS: We still keep in touch!!!
Wendel: Depends the implement. Whippings with the belt are slow and measured.
The slower pace gives time for the pain to kick in after the initial
smack.
The paddlings can go either way but I typically spank the
Misses at a fast pace. I love to see her squirm as her bottom rapidly
turns red. Fast spankings also leads to tears. I love to wipe the tears
away as I console her after the paddling.
When the Misses paddles me
it will vary based on why I am getting spanked. She also likes to see
the tears so I will get some very fast and hard spankings. I try very
hard not to but once in a while the rapid-fire paddling breaks me down
and I will let the tears flow.
Hermione: I prefer slow, measured swats so I can savour each one. But as Barrel said, it also depends on the implement. Ron flicks the dogging bat very quickly from cheek to cheek, and that's a fun sensation.
Loki_Darksong: For spankings where I use either my hand, or a brush, I
favor a mid pace. Fast enough to be effective but slow enough to not
make me tired too quick.
For when I use implement such as a strap
or a paddle or a cane, etc, I do favor a slow pace with varying
strengths depending on the situation. With the option of speeding up
that pace as necessity dictates
Slow or fast, spank on!
Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine
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