Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for December 8

Have you written any spanking stories?

KDPierre: I would like to hope that most folks here know the answer to that question for me is a definite 'yes'. Besides the Seuss-like piece you kindly published here last March, I have around 50 or so stories, serials, and even poems over on the LSF, all under my author name, "KDPierre". Many are very closely based on actual experiences in my own life.

I am currently working on a futuristic semi-sci-fi piece which deals with a corporate lab that uses orphaned twins for their experiments and a particular twin who skews the results of the experiment he is subjected to. I can let you all know when it's finished and up for publication.

(I also have a few e-books available through the LSF.)

Glenmore: Really miss your stories and artwork KD as your website is now gone but will check them out at the spanking library.

Yes I am somewhat of a prolific adult spanking story writer and have a complete library of FM and MF stories that you can access at Patreon.com/ glenmoretales by becoming a patreon for a small monthly fee.
All stories are illustrated with my own artwork and my library includes many adult spanking cartoons and comics also.
For a free examples of some of my work you can go to my blog.

Wendel: I have written a few spanking stories but have not gotten around to publishing them.

Jean Marie: Yes. Years ago I discovered a blog out of the United Kingdom. The publisher liked some comments I made to his posts, and encouraged me to write a story. He published this autobiographical tale to good response. I had a different job then with more free time, so I started a kinky blog. Hermione and others were encouraging. I published it for about a year, sometimes with multiple posts in a day, drawing lots of looks from around the world. I loved the stimulation of writing, and with the colloquy it engendered with my followers. Life took an unexpected turn, a boyfriend proved unfaithful, which took the wind out of my sails. But it was fun while it lasted.

Donn: Yes, I have recently written two very short stories (4.5 - 6.0K words / each).

They both involve establishing and using Domestic Discipline in relationships, emphasizing the importance of mutual commitment of the couple for success.

One involves the effects of various interpretation of religious doctrine and how those can both interfere and enhance the establishment and sustenance of a wife-led DD dynamic.

The other involves the realization that for DD to truly work, it must involve more than simply punishment, behavior modification and the assuagement of guilt. That there must also be the important elements of true contrition, as well as restorative (and sometimes retributive) justice.

Both stories were based on real life events of two different couples who choose to remain anonymous (not my wife and self). Neither has yet been published, but I'm hoping for sometime soon, maybe this Spring '25 (if I have time to polish them).

CEM: Books, stories, blog posts, missives, diatribes, forum posts, yes indeed, have written a plethora of content on this subject.

Sore is More: Dear JM, so glad to see you here! As many others, I would too be happier if your blog was still online, but I know what a hassle it can be to manage and maintain, not to mention post as much as you did, back in the day. Your encouraging words and your support always meant so much to me. Your words about "divine smut" became my mantra and pushed me through time and time again: I, Sore, write divine smut.

Yay, finally a question that is easy for me to answer! Nothing bring me more joy than writing my spanking stories, you know where to find them - on my blog Sore is More, of course, close to a hundred original stories.
I know I haven't been posting on my blog for many months, for which I'm so sorry. But now at least I have a good excuse - I've been writing a lot in the past few months, and I blended the vanilla part of the story with many of my spanking stories, and now in the process of editing the second draft of my book. If anyone here had good publishing experience and willing to share, please write to me, there is a form on my blog to send me an email.
I hope you will be hearing more from me soon.   

Wallace: Yes. Shared only with a couple folks that I knew would enjoy them.

Norse Cavalier: Like some others here, I have a blog where I publish my stories.  

Roz: Only blog posts some years ago for me. I haven't written any stories.

Prefectdt: Having read some of the best authors in the world, Judith Kerr, Emma Smith, Terry Pratchett, and so many more and then looking at my drivelling attempts at pros, I have to conclude that I am no wordsmith. I think that I will stick to looking at illustrative and photograph representations of our little world. I think that I am good at that. I did once put some spanking scenarios through an AI thingy, to see what came out. I think that was the closest that I came to publishing a spanking story, on my blog.  

Jack: Yes, a blog had stories and so I did one. It was well received and was ask to add to it a couple of times. Never published, just on this site.

Luvinhub: I have written many stories. My stories have been written for my wife and so that we could interact through the stories, as I write a paragraph at a time to share. My stories have been a piece of reality and a piece of fantasy. While I think most of my stories have had spanking in them they have all fallen under the Wife led Marriage catagory. I have a few stories on Fetlife.

Rosco: Yes, I have written a few albeit in haste and they mostly were not as good as they should have been.

I have written my wife Irene a dozen “letters”, ostensibly from other women reporting on my bad behavior, as part of our roleplay. They’ve been fun.

And I wrote “Panty Boy Publicly Humiliated at the Boutique” when Miss Jenn Davis turned into a podcast that I thought came out really well.

I’d like to write more and should, but it takes time for me to get it right and I feel like I’d be writing for a pretty narrow audience. One potential story involves being appointed manager of the women’s tennis team at college by happenstance, doing more and more menial tasks for them over the course of the season, then being spanked and teased by several after the season ending party.

Barrel: Thanks for asking my question this week.

Yes, I have published 3 stories on Literotica. Actually a trilogy. I wrote them over 3 years while sitting on airplanes traveling for business when the seat next to me was unoccupied. Other Literotica readers and authors offer editing support which I needed. I have started another story but don’t have those creative juices flowing quite yet. 

A.J.: Kinda'.

I was diagnosed with a serious health condition a few years back. The treatment was months long nausea and fatigue. When in bed I would try to think of other things to get me through the day/night - one of them spanking. The women I had actually played with. And then fun fantasies.

I thought I'd put them in writing for others to enjoy. Maybe this will be an incentive for me to get going on that.

If I do, I'll send it to Hermione for her critique.

I would love to read it!

Hermione: I have written exactly one story, published on the Library of Spanking Fiction under my author name "Hermione". I wrote it as part of a competition to write a story about peeking through a keyhole. I've written many more in my head, just haven't gotten around to putting pen to paper.

Slava Ukraini
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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #569

Welcome one and all, large and small, to our weekly spanko brunch. I've had a treasure trove of brunch suggestions this week - thank you, everyone! - so here's one from our good friend Barrel.

Have you ever written a spanking story for your own amusement? If so, have you published it on a site so like-minded people could enjoy it too?

Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for December 1

This week we discussed clothing. If your comment didn't appear after you posted it, don't worry. I checked the spam folder and made sure all comments showed up on the post.

Jack: I do not think it ignites me, but pajamas or jammies as my wife/mommy calls them. If I have really crossed the line, the spanking really hurts but being told to put on my jammies, no matter time of day. 

Graham: I love my wife spanking me when she is wearing suspenders and stockings. Incredibly exciting.

Norse Cavalier: I find the idea of spanking a woman who's wearing pyjamas appealing, but have never done it.

CEM: Clothes on women that make me want to spank her? Yes. That *is* my answer. Any sort of clothing on any woman I find attractive, makes me want to spank her. I don't do Black Friday as it's just ridiculous but Thanksgiving went well. Have a tryptophan hangover, fat, bloated, and I need emergency liposuction. :) 

Roz: I love this question. No specific items of clothing, however certain lingerie sets are more likely to result in a spanking ☺

A.J.: I wasn’t going to comment then read Roz’s response.

Since all my spanking fun is sexy erotic it’s simple: She should wear my dress shirt. And nothing else! Except high heel “Do me!” shoes. And maybe glasses.

The attitude she brings wearing that determines who gives or gets!  

FL: Not specifically a spanking trigger but I've always been partial to full slips. Modest enough for daytime television but with the erotic allure of hidden promise. Otherwise, the classic woman executive look or form-fitting dark skirt with a white blouse does it for me. Though to be honest, if she was wearing a burlap sack and holding a hairbrush I'd be equally into it, lol.

Luvinhub: When I was spanked it was all punishment, no funishment. So really nothing really ignited the spanko. I was always naked and most of the time my wife was as well, usually I was to provide her pleasure afterwards. For me it is seeing items laying somewhere that could be used for a spanking that gets my mind going. 

Rosco: Our “dates” usually last about 2 hours, involving a few spankings and other disciplinary measures followed by reverse cowgirl cunnilingus and then intercourse. Irene will dress up a bit and also often change her clothes. Skirts, dresses, tight shorts - conservative, provocative - American, Mexican, Bavarian, British with accents and stories to match.

I prefer getting under her skirts than having her naked for sexual activity. I used to wonder why. Now I just enjoy. 

Barrel: Like Roz, lingerie, especially white stockings with a garter belt. I know when she puts them on, I am headed over her knee. If she puts on the seamed pair, I am destined to be restrained and thrashed.

S: Women in aprons do it for me. I love how aprons frame a woman's bottom. A pretty woman in an apron ignites all of my spanko tendencies. It takes all of my control not to reach out and pat and pinch her rear, but what I really want to do is put her over my knee for a good old-fashioned spanking.

Prefectdt: I am usually happy with a spanker wearing what helps them to feel comfortable and confiden, in their role in the play. That is my first priority. But if you thrashed me until I fessed up. I would be telling you that a tailored blouse, cotton, not a shiny one, closed to the neck, with a tie or broach at the neck and a long loose skirt, combined with flat shoes, floats my boat. Not sure why, but it is an outfit that just emphasises both femininity and authority. I cannot abide high heels. Why would a female Top or Domme deny themselves good flowing movement with these? 

Loki_Darksong: A woman wearing a skirt, leggings, or tights is a guarantee to gain the attention of my Spanker nature. 

Wendel: The Misses has several drop seat pajama onesies. They look very comfy but also make her look very spankable. Also, jeans, shorts, skirts, dresses and the birthday suit just to name a few others. 

Hermione: Many years ago, Ron and I worked in the same office before we became a couple. Each morning, he would go to his desk, take off his jacket, unbutton his shirt cuffs and roll up his sleeves. The thought of those hands...Ooh!   

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #568

I hope all my American friends are enjoying the long Thanksgiving weekend finding Black Friday bargains online and in the stores.

I'm always pleased when I open my Inbox and find suggestions for brunch topics, and this week was no different. Here's a topic sent to me by a reader I call "he who shall not be named". I hope you enjoy it.

Is there a particular item of clothing, worn by either the spanker or the spankee, that ignites the spanko in you?

Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

In the Kitchen

While I rarely have cooking mishaps, some people aren't so lucky.

Wait! Where's the yolk?

The early breakfast eater thought this was Cinnamon Toast Crunch cereal. Turns out it was a bowl of Cheezits crackers.

Oops!

How's that working out for you?

 

Finally, a recipe from a reader that you're sure to love.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for November 24

We discussed punishment spankings in an otherwise erotic spanking relationship, and here's what you said.

FL: We had been trading teasing texts all day, where I was threatened with a good spanking. She had an engagement that evening and wouldn't be home until very late, so I went to bed my usual time thinking we'd pick up at a later date. Around midnight I was woken up by being harshly told to fetch the hairbrush and meet her downstairs, NOW! I did as told and received two separate, very hard spankings over her knee. This wasn't a fun, sexy session, it was real and it hurt. And yes, I loved every minute of it, particularly the spontaneity.

Mark: I've discovered, since we agreed that my wife could punish me at her discretion, that she really hates the coffee machine being dirty. She had warned me several times, but it rocked me back on my heels when she appeared with the cane and told me to drop my pants and bend over the table. She proceeded to cane me harder than she ever had before. Coffee machine cleaning is now a priority!

Graham: Yes, I have on several occasions asked for a strictly disciplinary spanking. They also served as great stress relief, though that was not the primary purpose.

Jack: Spankings are a great stress relief, but I also learned that my wife/mommy is a woman who knows that it is the wife that keeps the marriage together, and was taught by her mother that a wife will be the Mommy also, they go hand in hand. My wife/mommy will spank me for being naughty, she will also spank me when my attitude is not acceptable. If I come home from work with a bad attitude, she will allow me to calm down, but a bed time spanking will happen, and nothing worse then going to bed with a very sore spanked bottom.

CEM: I see it a different way. For me, all spankings have to have an "erotic" vibe, whether that is the sole objective or if they are punitive in nature. Without that element, it would be just abusive. So playful, disciplinary, foreplay, or whatever combination of the above, without some sort of sexual or erotic component I would not be administering one as it would seem like assault. 

Wendel: Our spankings are meant to be fun. Obviously things we do may spark the other to give out a spanking but the fun factor is still present. There are times when the Misses misbehaves and will ask to be spanked because she was a bad girl. I paddle her fanny much harder. Occasionally If I do something that annoys the Misses she will announce that I am getting a whipping. She will retrieve the belt and let me have it.

Roz: Our dynamic has gone through many changes over the years and spanking has been both solely for play and also as a consequence at different times. There have been both times I have suggested a spanking and been surprised by a spanking over the years.

Rosco: Irene has never used and perhaps never heard the terms sexy or punishment spankings. I see them as sexy because at any moment I could say I don’t want to do this. But I never have and probably never will.

I rarely know what I’ll get. Sometimes it’s as few as twenty swats before cunnilingus. Sometimes it’s an hour or more of intermittent intense spankings on the bottom and more sensitive spots, bondage, maybe ice cubes in my rectum and other sorts of “torture”. So far I’ve endured and relished all the discipline and never used a safe word,. It’s only been 44 years.

Prefectdt: I don't really have a relevant answer to most of the question, so I thought that I would just answer the part that goes…

Or as a bottom, have you ever been genuinely shocked by a spanking your Top decided you had coming?

Someone decided that I needed a punishment caning once and gave me my first crusher caning. A crusher caning is when a male spankee is bent over a hard surface, in this case a table, and has their legs stretched out straight away from the table, so that they cannot support any body weight. As the spankee bends over to get into this position. The spanker uses the cane to lift the male genitalia onto the table. So that the old boy tackle is between the body of the spankee and the table and not left dangling free. I was given an extensive caning in this position, during which I got a good buzz and ended up enjoying the scene. Then I was instructed to stand up and the blood returned to my testicles that had been repeatedly crushed against the table, as my body was driven forward by the cane and my natural reaction to the strokes. Almost immediately, I was on my knees and fighting the desire to throw up. The type of pain was horrible, and it was about 3 hours before I could stand up straight again. Then I found out the real punishment part of this type of caning. I did find this experience both shocking and surprising, in its effect.       

Marie: Interesting Q. My husband and I have a bit of a kink mismatch - despite both being spankos - he prefers them to be more as foreplay or true play, where discipline is at the core of my kink. That's not to say I don't enjoy play or sexy spankings or more lighthearted ones, it's just not at the top of my list, so to speak. He definitely prefers them be mostly fun and since he's doing the spanking, that's how most of them default. I have asked for a more true punishment before, but it's me driven, not his decision so to speak, but if he agrees, then he's in control of the "how". Recently, I was teasing him though, clearly trying to provoke a *bit* of bottom smacking, and he came into my office where I was tidying and put me over his knee and spanked me so hard, probably the hardest hand spanking he's ever given me, cold, right from the start. It was amazing but caught me so off guard! His hand is pretty large and heavy to begin with so he's a firm handspanker, but I remember being so (pleasantly - ha!) surprised by his response. Those moments are truly lovely.

Barrel: We always spank for pleasure and foreplay. But we also use a session when called for due to behavioral needs and certainly stress relief. We are both working to use our tawse to reach the more intimate and tender areas which are being exposes with careful arrangements of restraints. When properly delivered, the results are amazingly intense. We have added a protective cup which allows uninhibited access. Genuinely shocked…yep, in a good way.

KDPierre: Thank you for posting this topic. Rosa and I are kind of a multi-purpose spanking couple, but genuine discipline has certainly been a core motive. Given how long we’ve been doing this there certainly have been times when she has told me I had a spanking coming that took me by surprise, though, to be honest, I usually know when I have screwed up and am not generally surprised by most punishments.

One time that does stand out dates back many years when Rosa and I had just roughed out what our domestic discipline policy would be. For those familiar with my blog or past writings, you may recall that the key tenets were that Rosa would have authority over my domestic behavior, and that she did not want our lifestyle to be kept hidden out of fear or shame, but rather be an open demonstration of one possible alternate way that a couple could choose to live. As such, those in our house (her three kids) and anyone outside of the house deemed worthy of trust, would know that she had this authority allowing for no hindrance in her exercising it. I was initially surprised she wanted to be that open, having chosen the secret route in my prior household with my own kids, but she seemed to think there would be no downside with it and I trusted her, and therefore agreed.

One day we were all having dinner together as a family and there was some playful teasing going on that emboldened me to poke some fun at her. At one point she warned me that I should be careful about what I was choosing to say, but I continued anyway thinking it was all in fun. At one point she just flat out announced in front of everyone that she found my teasing to be inappropriate and disrespectful and that I would be punished for it. She then told me to kindly follow her ‘to the room’. I still thought she was kidding until she insisted she certainly was not, stood, took me by the hand and said “Let’s go.”

Confronted with the reality of the lifestyle I had chosen to live, and obligated to honor my word, I blushed mightily and with an expression of disbelief and embarrassment, followed her behind closed doors still not believing this was happening. Our bedroom was mere yards from the dining room where my stepkids all sat a bit surprised yet amused. And there I got a serious paddle spanking that would be impossible not to hear.

Later I thought that Rosa might have been using my teasing (which wasn’t anything THAT bad) as an excuse to clearly establish a precedent for what things were going to be like; when asked, she admitted with a smile that was precisely her intention. 

Hermione: Our spankings have never been for punishment, and as Ron is a guy who prefers routine, there are no surprised in our spankings.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #567

Our good friend KDPierre came up with this week's topic, so I'll let him introduce it.

"We all know that some people spank for sexy play and others for punishment, and others yet for a combination of both, yet everyone kind of recognizes that regardless of the REAL reason for a spanking, they all have a certain punitive 'vibe' to them, whether genuine or role-played."

To those who spank only for sexy play, have you, as a Top, ever suggested a genuine spanking for something that bothered you? Or, as a bottom, ever had such a suggestion put to you by your Top? And for those who do use spanking as punishment, have you ever suggested one that took your bottom by surprise? or as a bottom have you ever been genuinely shocked by a spanking your Top decided you had coming?

Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine