Monday, July 31, 2023

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 30

Would you allow an image of yourself to appear in a relationship simulation AI app?

Graham: Count us out!! 

Wendel: Nope. Not even if the AI app image made us look fit. 

Bonnie: I'll say a definite maybe. I'm a little bit intrigued, but I would never want virtual me to be used for porn scenes, humiliated, or portrayed as a victim of abuse. Nor would I want her to be identifiable as me.

But if she were presented as a consensual recipient of corporal punishment and/or loving spankings with realistic responses, that might be all right. I like the idea of presenting a positive role model for people who share this interest.

Roz: Very interesting question. I don't think it would be for me.

Ronnie: Pref, good question. No, not for me.

Prefectdt: Looking at myself, in photos from family weddings, when I am all suited and booted, I do (at least visually) give a good representation of a strict, Headmasterly type of guy. I think that if my aim was to make some money from the project, as a Top to naughty adult boys and girls would give me the best chance of getting the tills ringing. They would be buying my image, not my personality, after all. However, as there are those one in a hundred thousand people who cannot separate what they see on a screen from reality, I think that I would have to insist that the sale of my image be restricted to the continents of North and South America. Several thousands of Kilometres away.

As myself between 18 and 25 years old, I might get some interest from a few strict Mommy and Daddy types, who needed some cyber boy butt to keep in line. And I do not look anything like I did back then, so worldwide use would not be a problem. Looking at the competition that I would be up against, I do not think that this image of me would be very popular, as a bottom. It would be interesting to see if there were any takers, though.

Thank you for using my question, Hermione.

Jack: No, No, and No.

Anon: No to AI but idea of a spanking machine still fascinates us.

A.J.: Not a chance!!!!!! (Extra "!!" for emphasis.)

Just another portal into your life, privacy, and your wallet. I got a call a couple days ago from my bank asking if I just spent $350 in a restaurant - in Australia - and another $500 minutes later at a place in Ohio.

You give up anything to a still-new technology like AI - you're fair game.

Barrel: If the image could be tweaked just enough to be close to me but not me…maaaaybe. I do like Bonnie’s thought to be a bit more out there in our realm, but not far enough to be attacked, scammed or held hostage.

S: I have one of those faces that is pretty generic, everyone is always telling me that they know someone who looks exactly like me, so I would not have a problem having my likeness on the site. Of course, I would still take the money. I would be a switch.

Hermione: It's an interesting thought, but my face isn't appealing enough to be featured in an app. The faces of other people, specifically those I have had less than pleasant encounters with, might be an option. Then they would be on the receiving end of my disciplinary skills.

Thank you so much, Prefectdt, for giving us such a thought-provoking question.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 30, 2023

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #498

Artificial Intelligence (AI) is all the rage now, with apps for generating stories, poems, resumes, works of art, and even virtual companions. That inspired Prefectdt to come up with this week's topic. I guarantee it will make you think.

With the rise of AI chat and relationship APPS, what if someone came up with a Spanko or BDSM simulated relationship Bot, similar to EVA AI, but for people like us. Would you be prepared to have an image based on yourself used on such an APP? Either as you are now or were in the past (but still over 18). Would it make a difference to you if you got $10 (US) for everyone who paid to use the APP with your image on it for at least one year? Would it make a difference if the image was used as a Top, Domme or Sub? 

Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has had the opportunity to consider this, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, July 27, 2023

Where will I shop now?

My favourite site for spanking implements announced some time ago that it was closing. I still receive regular emails from Cane-iac with special offers, and they seem to have the usual full range of products, but I can no longer go to their site. This message turns me away:

You are not authorized to access this site.

Aww, please let me in. I was one of your best customers. Is anyone else having the same problem?

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, July 24, 2023

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 23

Have you found inspiration from other spanking blogs?

Wendel: The Misses bought a lexan paddle once because an internet story talked about how it stung more. It was ok but not a favorite. One story I read explained how the woman was spanked every night for a week. I paddled the Misses after dinner for a whole week. The anticipation was fun and exciting. 

Roz: No techniques or scenarios but we have in the past got other ideas from blogs. Particularly when we had a domestic discipline dynamic such as alternative discipline techniques, expectations etc.

Prefectdt: Yes, wooden spoons spring to mind. That was many years ago, when I was only reading blogs and not blogging myself. And Wheelbarrow position is next on the list of things to try, I think that I saw that on another blog first.

KDPierre: On this I can't say that we have. Rosa doesn't read blogs of any kind, and I don't think I've ever seen anything that sounded enticing that I hadn't already tried. And in all honesty, other than Dan's place, not too many blogs (that are still around) even deal with F/m domestic discipline, and even then, there are so many different approaches to even that singular topic, that finding something that resonates that again hasn't already been thought of personally is rare to nonexistent.

Now as for getting ideas from images found on the internet, well that's a different story. ;-)

A.J.: No. Not really. (God, I'm boring.)

Besides, I have a filthy mind!!!

Bonnie: Thank you for your kind words. My answer is an unequivocal yes. We're always in the market for new ideas and new spanko experiences. Fortunately, it seems that we still haven't tried everything yet. Not every experiment is successful, but enough are good to sustain our relentless pursuit of science. The best techniques are added to our rotation.

Barrel: I don’t believe we have. I do get encouragement to continue to peek out of the closet and move into this community of like minded people.

While I really enjoy a thorough thrashing, I have learned from folks at brunch to shy away from trying heavy rubber and lexan paddles. Those sound really nasty.

Rosco: Well, Irene and I both peruse the Internet but we rarely share what we read and see.

Sometimes she’ll mention having been inspired by something. Several years ago she started tying a narrow scarf around my balls all of a sudden. I could ask her where she got the idea but I haven’t for some reason.

Some of the scenarios I’ve always fantasized about have been enhanced by stuff I’ve read online - one of StrictJulie’s earliest post involved humiliating her husband in a panty boutique. I haven’t mentioned that to Irene but I’ve included the idea in our role play.

Mark: I've also got an idea from StrictJulie's blog. She regularly talks about a Muskoka Paddle. Not available locally so I emailed her for dimensions. She kindly responded and I have now made one. It is our primary wooden paddle! Very painful but not too damaging.

Ronnie: Yes we have got a few ideas from blogs. I can't remember which blog it was, but we saw the leather rose paddle and had to buy one. It's my favourite leather toy.

Hermione: I liked Bonnie's idea of wearing a shirt with a thong underneath, so her bottom is always ready for attention. However, Ron would think it odd for me to wear a skirt, since I haven't worn one in over three years :)

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 23, 2023

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #497

Welcome, everyone. It's nice to see you all again this weekend. Even though our good friend Bonnie has hung up her keyboard and retired from blogging, she has a great many stories and experiences to share. I hope you have dropped by My Bottom Smarts from time to time to read them. But that's only one of many great spanking blogs that could give us inspiration to add variety to our spankings.

Do you and your partner ever try spanking techniques, scenarios, or implements that you read about on blogs?

Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has had the opportunity to speak, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, July 20, 2023


These signs will make you think twice. 


Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, July 17, 2023

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 16

Kicking during a spanking, and causing an interruption? Here's what you said:

Bonnie: Yes and yes. Spankings hurt!

I once accidentally kicked a hairbrush out of Randy's hand. This may have interrupted my spanking, but it sure didn't get me off the hook. Quite the opposite, I remember being very sore on that occasion.

Mark: Yes and no :-). Spankings hurt.

I definitely wriggle and kick when I am struggling to cope with the pain, but I'm not sure if it actually helps! I far prefer to have my arms and legs restrained. I do love being spanked or paddled over my wife's knee with her holding my right hand bent up in the small of my back and her right leg capturing both my legs. It is a lovely helpless but "connected" position.

Other than having to wait briefly whilst I get back in position my kicking hasn't interrupted a spanking. 

Anon: It's delightful watching my spankees kick and wiggle. 

Roz: Yes, there is wiggling and kicking on occasion. I'm more likely to interupt a spanking more by wiggling out of position than kicking though.

Jack: With the hairbrush warming my bare bottom, kick, yes, and a lot. It does not ease the pain, but is a reaction, along with squirming and pleading. 

A.J.: My GF spankee used to kick and wriggle, but I believe it was more an act in our role-play than her trying to escape "theblows."

Roles reversed, I rarely kicked - but wriggled a lot! It was fun!

KDPierre: Initially? Absolutely! After a while though I tend to stop. If it's a second spanking a day later? Hell, I'm not just kicking but thrashing about like a tuna on a deck.

The reaction to this from my spankers is mixed. If it's not too wild and therefore uncomfortable for them, they say they find it a good sign that what they are doing is having a genuine effect. But if it's too much and they find my kicking painful, they will either tell me to calm down, or change to a off-the-lap position where it doesn't affect them physically. 

Graham: My wife is stoic but I kick quite a bit. Maybe she spanks harder than I do! 

Prefectdt: I used to, a lot, but I have mostly disciplined myself not to. It does still happen, now and again, making me very disappointed in myself.

Ronnie: Me wiggling too much can interfere with a spanking. P tells me to stop wiggling or he'll spank me harder and he does.

Hermione: I try to be stoic and endure what I can, so I rarely kick. If I do, it doesn't interrupt the flow.

Thank you all for having fun together. See you next time!

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Saturday, July 15, 2023

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #496

I'm always searching for new brunch topics, and am delighted when someone suggests a topic we haven't discussed before. So it is with this week's topic, courtesy of our dear friend Bonnie.

Do you or your partner kick legs in response to being spanked?  If so, does kicking ever interfere with the spanking?

Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has had the opportunity to speak, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, July 13, 2023

Time to Laugh

Let's travel to Montreal and see what the Just for Laughs Gags team is up to. There are some butts in big trouble.

Arrow to the bum 



Where's my phone? 

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, July 10, 2023

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 9

What spoils a spanking?

Abby: Hi Hermione! My answer specifically regards spanking as foreplay or sensual impact play. As a bottom, the one thing for me that has ruined a spanking is if my reaction is maybe a little over the top to a particular stroke or series of strokes, and then the spanking ends because the top feels bad and thinks he was playing the wrong way or feels that I am being unreasonable and not in the right head space. Sometimes, even when a spanking is a sexy spanking, the body over-reacts! This hasn’t happened in a very very long time, but I really wanted to respond to your brunch so I had to think back to when a spanking has gone wrong. Fortunately, I’d say they are about 99% always right! 

Bonnie: There are many unwelcome interruptions - doorbell, phone, kid coming home early, kitty puking, misplaced swat, skin break, broken implement, misunderstanding, muscle cramp, and more.

Wendel: Phone ringing and doorbell will stop a spanking. Whether we answer it or not we always check who it is. 

Rosco: Yeah, like others have said, the interruptions.

I was tied up recently when visitors arrived an hour early. Also, once we had an intruder in the backyard. I had to quickly escape my submissive mindset, throw on some pants, and chase the ne’er do well away. Sometimes the grandchildren call. But that’s only a slight delay.

Roz: Yep, interruptions door knock, phone etc. Also my own reactions to the spanking, particularly if I feel I slightly overreact, or my mindset changes.

Ronnie: Like others have said, many interruptions, mobile ringing, door knocking and unexpected visits from family.

Prefectdt: I am with Abby on this one. I aspire to take my spankings in a Stoic and self-disciplined manner. But I am by nature a bit of a dancer and mover when the swats are coming in, and I feel disappointed with myself, if I have not maintained my position and composure, during a spanking.

KDPierre: Here's one that hasn't been mentioned but has happened to me more than once: a spontaneous nosebleed from the face down position and straining.

Barrel: As previously mentioned, a wrapping stroke from a cane will cause me to flip from where I wanted to be to tapping out. I hate it when I do that but, for some reason, that sensation is a buzz killer for me.

Hermione: I too hate wrapping, but it rarely happens unless the switch or dressage whip are used. If I were to be given a punishment spanking, I would be very disappointed if it was not accompanied by a lecture and "Naughty girl" types of phrases.

May all your spankings be long and uninterrupted.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 9, 2023

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #495

Greetings everyone. I hope you have all manged to stay cool and escape the extreme heat of this week. It's too bad spankings only heat us up even more. Maybe being spanked with an ice pack would be the solution. And that brings us to today's topic.

Depending on the reason for the spanking, what would really spoil an otherwise perfect, acceptable or necessary spanking for you?

Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has weighed in, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Friday, July 7, 2023

Better Late than Never

Sorry I have not been around this week. We've had family visitors, an ailing laptop, and major renovations around our front door, so things have been quite hectic. For  those of you who responded to the brunch question after I posted the recap, my apologies. Your responses are there now.

Whenever I hear this song by Sarah McLaughlan, I can't help but think of someone, bottom bared and draped over a disciplinaarian's lap, being told to "hold on to yourself, for this is gonna hurt like hell." 



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, July 3, 2023

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 2

What evidence is left behind after a spanking?

Bonnie: By this stage, I imagine no one wants to hear me say, "It depends." But it does. The spankings I receive are seldom what I expect. So it is with the skin damage. I can have marks from a spanking I didn't think was that bad and just a nice red glow from another session I thought was brutal.

If I have to describe "usual" marks, there probably aren't any, just two reddish pink ovals on my sit spots. I am more likely to see marks after Randy uses a solid hairbrush or bath brush. The edges of these implements can leave dark red welts, especially when used repeatedly and with emphasis. Wooden paddles also create distinctive marks - sometimes a little bruisey-looking.

I like the term rhino skin. I've had that, especially after getting the paddle. I've had skin breaks, mostly from whippy implements, but we try to avoid it.

I love a good afterburn where my bottom still feels hot and throbbing hours later, but that's not the norm.

Luvinhub: I've had two occassions worthy of posting about; all others I have been pink to red and tender for an hour or two.

The first experience I had that was not the norm for us was early on in our lifestyle. My wife used a hearty flip flop for an extended period. While the coloring was not the red the effect on my butt was. My butt burned/stung for hours; we had guest over for dinner shortly after the spanking. I kept fidgeting in my seat looking to lessen the pain. Sitting for the next day and half was tender.

The second time and worse spanking I got was when I had really upset my wife. She used her hand, a ping pong paddle, then my extremely heavy and braided leather belt. I was very red and bruised. I struggled to sit that evening and was tender for days. The bruising was not completely cleared for two weeks. 

Rosco: Well today’s an interesting day to ask this question. Irene has suddenly developed a methodical, extended prevalence for the devastating two-tailed strap with a round handle. It’s been a week since she used it and my bottom is still sore indeed.

Sometimes I’ll cut a switch, which often in our area is a shoot from a wild plum tree. These leave welts, even small cuts - a delicious sting that lasted however only a few hours. The welts are pretty much gone the next day.

The serious impacts, however, have been hurting my back and neck from getting carried away during these passionate shenanigans. Hopefully I’ve learned.

KDPierre: Implements certainly matter and in all these years I have had my share of welts, nubby blisters, bruises, cuts, and those characteristic whitish dry spots in the center of the larger pink areas. But for me I would say that because I have been doing this a long time and have been mostly spanked with heavy paddles, I do get 'rhino butt' most often.....which is like having your regular flesh turn into a kind of swollen, leather, fake-feeling thick skin....which is also hot and red. ( by coincidence I'm actually sitting on such a butt right now as I type this! LOL and ouch)

After a heavy spanking that is my most usual degree of damage.....but the WORST I've ever experienced was one time having the skin literally (and intentionally) spanked off my two cheeks resulting in twin oval wet spots of abraded flesh about the size of an egg. On this particular occasion I had to wear feminine napkins inside tight underwear to keep from leaking clear fluid through my pants....which happened on my drive home from the house of the person who delivered this spanking. The pain was horrible and it took a couple of days to finally scab over, and way longer for those two spots to return to normal. After that experience she has been careful to avoid that level of damage, but on occasion I still get abraded by my wife, but at the first sign of it, she avoids that spot or stops and it scabs over in a very short time without the extended period of leaking or healing. But like I said, this is VERY rare and seems to occur only after a very heavy paddling.

I have also had some minor stippling of tiny dots of blood on occasion, but while one would think blood was the worst, it's actually very minor compared to wet, abraded patches. 

Wendel: The Misses will paddle the hell out of my bottom right before she leaves for a girl’s night out. This is so I remember to behave while she is gone. I will be sore for hours and marks for a couple of days. Whippings with the belt or strap leave me sore for a couple of days and marks for about a week.
I have given the Misses a few paddlings that left her sore for the day and bruises the next day. She will complain for hours, even a day later after whippings. She will have strap marks on her bottom for days.

Roz: It varies from pink cheeks that I may still feel the following day to some, at times very dark bruising, marking and welts that could last for a week. It depends on the nature of the spanking and implements used.

Rick is a fan of nipple play also so I also often have very sore nipples for a day or two post spanking. 

Prefectdt: As I get spanked by different people, the end results depend very much on the Top handing out the spanking. This I like, as variety is the spice of life and Tops usually give a better spanking when they can spank in the way that they like, with what they like. I can end up with anything, from nicely pink all over that was gone in less than two hours, to swollen and welted, where I can feel the welts with my fingers, for up to 10 days after the event. I have never had a blister from a spanking.

As for the second part of the question. That was related to a change in medication for my blood condition. Just after which I was hand spanked, strapped and caned by Femke Vandendijk, a very challenging spanker. After that, I was black and blue for nearly 6 days, with good cane welts that outlasted the bruising. I am not sure that I would describe this as one of the worst post-spanking experiences but more of one of the most long-lasting and the best post-spanking experiences, that I have had :)

Jack: My wife leaves no marks, but my skin is very red, stinging, warm to touch, and walking is hard to do. I mouthed out to my mother-in-law, she arrived to see me in the corner. Well I was soon over her lap, and it was as close as my bare bottom has gotten to having marks. It was red for at least a week.

Jean Marie: As others have said, it depends. I will say that I feel disappointed if there isn't sufficient bruising evidence on my bottom after a sound punishment. I confess that I have intentionally bratted while OTK to insure that there will be evidence for days left behind on my behind. I think that I hate wooden implements so much is not solely because of their infernal sting, but also due to the ashy gray skin their application results in. I vividly remember complaining about this once, and my lover rubbed skin lotion in, only to paddle me more right after on moist buttocks, which REALLY hurt! I would be remiss if I did not acknowledge that it was the elation I felt from the heavy bruising on my butt that made me realize I was a confirmed spanko. I am happiest if it hurts to sit. I do not wear thong-type bathing suit bottoms, preferring bikini bottoms. And I'm proudest when a little corner of rounded, brightly-bruised cheekiness peeks out for all to see.

Dan: My current average post-spanking state sounds a lot like KD's -- very swollen, with ovals of grey-ish discoloration in the center. But, I rarely bruise much; maybe a few egg-sized bruises now and then. In the early days, I would get very, very bruised from a wooden paddle. Regarding how long the effects last, for a really hard spanking, sometimes it might last five days, but usually more like three or four.

Ironically, the worst condition my butt has ever been in was after a fall on some concrete stairs. It left a huge bruise across both cheeks that looked identical to some of our early spankings, but the pain went much, much deeper and lasted the better part of two weeks.

Barrel: Our usual remnants are deep pink, think skin with welts, usually from the strap which is her favorite. Those effects are gone in a day or so. The worst comes from two implements. First, her hairbrush. It is heavy and made of oak. The back of the brush has 6 or 7 grooves that run lengthwise along the back of the brush. When sternly applied, my skin will bunch up into the grooves, resulting in long blood blisters. After 30 or 40 swats, my skin takes on a coarse striped look. The blood blisters hurt for several days and will last for just over a week.

The second and by far worst implement is the thin delrin cane. She rarely wields it with full force, preferring to toy with accuracy and drive up quantity. However, she has caned me once or twice at full force. Both times have resulted in deep red welts. Often times such a severe thrashing spills unintentionally over on to my right hip and thigh. I have worn those welts for up to two weeks before they heal.

appleTom: My worst/best spanking was at a spanking-centric group that had meets at a local, somewhat amateurish dungeon. The groups organizer, a women, had put together a game for the night's opener. The object of the game was to produce the reddest bottom from an otk hand spanking delivered to an eight song playlist of oldies. As one of about 4 un-partnered male bottoms in the group that was mostly M/F, I figured I would be watching from the sidelines, however, a woman came up late who, mostly played on the bottom side, but this night, wanted to try topping. We drew straws for the "honor", and I won.

I had seen her once at a pre-event munch and thought her very pretty with a lot of potential as she was a large women with big biceps, but figured that she was a bottom as most of the women in the group. I ending up missing the event as I needed to hit an ATM and lost track of the group that I need to follow as this was my first time and I didn't know where the dungeon was!

While waiting for the game to start, she warned me that her friends told her that she had a "heavy hand". For some reason, I just wasn't getting what she was saying, even though I asked her to repeat it a couple of times. I think my intelligence drops when I get into such a "deer in the headlights" situation.

The game started and I found myself getting quite a spanking. She further informed me and demonstrated that she was completely ambidextrous! For the seventh song, the host handed out wooden spoons! I was so into this that much of the pain was offset. My only complaints where I wish she would have held me in position more forcefully, and half masted my underwear rather than gathered the back to bare my cheeks.

To pick the winner, the spankee's lined up and show their spanker's handiwork. My butt was judge the reddest.

A glutton for punishment, I got her to give samples of her tool bags implements. She had two sizes pig slappers, which I had always found kind of weak, but not so in her hands. I also found it somewhat humililating, that they were decorated with a nubile woman recipient, yet here I was, a male getting beaten. Lastly, she got out a large holed flexible paddle and gave me some swats. The endorphins were doing a bang up job of keeping this all in a fun kind of state, but still being greedy, I suggest we take it over to one of the spanking knelling benches. That amped it up a bit, but then the guy paddling a woman the next bench offered her the use of some of his wooden paddles, and with those she was able to put me in some real pain.

Went home to find some real bruises that went from brown to yellow-purple over the next week, though I only felt sore for a few days. However, about a week later, my urine turned purple and got me concerned enough to have a embarrassing visit to my doctor.

Hermione: In the past, I have had a few bruises from wrapping, and on one occasion a blood blister. I've experienced rhino butt several times. Now that by bottom is quite used to attention, there's usually only some redness and tingling for a few hours.

A.J.: "What is the usual level of damage after a spanking? Pink skin, rhino skin, swelling, blistering, welts, abrasion/wet spots, bruising, sore for an hour or two, a day or two, a week or two? What was the worst post-spanking butt-condition you've experienced?"

I have come to the conclusion I am the brunch wuss in these conversations.

My answers:
On the receiving end: Pink skin, sore for an hour or two, or eight.
On the giving end: Son-of-a-bitch!!! Pink skin, sore for an hour or two!

No rhino skin (I may have to look that one up), swelling, welts, or bruising.

I'm a romantic/erotic spanker so it is always hand spanking (NB: There have been exceptions!) When she gets off my lap her cute tush is a nice hot pink. If off the lap and kneeling in front of me, she is enthusiastically rubbing her bottom, smiling, with maybe giving out a "Whoooo!" With that part over, I...well you know; 'comfort' her. Hey! It's the law!

Really laying into the cute tush that over my lap is just not my thing. At the moment, I consider that tush MINE! My 'property.' I compare spanking her hard with a paddle or strap akin to polishing my pristine BMW with a ball-peen hammer.

A nice pink or almost red is fine and, maybe, if I do it right - I'll get asked to do it all over again!

"The worst post-spanking butt-condition I've experienced?"

OK. On the receiving end. There have only been three. But the worst was a to-die-for huggably cute brunette with slender well-turned legs that went all the way to the top. And was a switch; so I got to spank her kissable tush too! (And I did kiss it)

I had her otk, but the majority of the time it was me otk. About 300 firm smacks before the break and then me spanking her, followed by my getting her 'grande finale' of 200-300 more. When it was over she took a pic of my tush so I could get a good look at it! Ho-Lee.Shit. RED!!! With exclamation marks red! I could really feel it, and this was going to take some time to heal. (If she wasn't so damn cute...) The sting-in-the-tail would still be there late into the next day. So would the memory!

And, oh shit! I had a critical medical exam coming up in 4-days! And could not re-schedule! Would it show? If he sees and asks, what do I tell him????? (I had an answer ready, but the red and pink were pretty much (I thought) gone by then. And he never asked. Whew!)

Fun fact? That spanking was all from - her bare hand.

Ava: I often get the large whitish areas which usually do not last that long. I also get red welts from the cane, and these can last a day or two. Very occasionally there will be a small break in the skin from the cane. I have had bruises that last a few days but that’s rare. My inner spanko likes having marks, they are like my husband’s signature!

Ronnie: It definitely does depend on the type of spanking and implements used.
It varies from pink to very red which can last and I'll have a sting in the shower next morning to welts from the cane.


Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 2, 2023

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #494

Our good friend and retired blogger KDPierre will introduce this week's brunch topic: "OK, so you've done 'frequency' and 'amount'. It seems the next logical question is 'damage'."

It is indeed the next logical question, so here goes.

What is the usual level of damage after a spanking? Pink skin, rhino skin, swelling, blistering, welts, abrasion/wet spots, bruising, sore for an hour or two, a day or two, a week or two? What was the worst post-spanking butt-condition you've experienced?

As always, please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has weighed in, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Saturday, July 1, 2023

It's Canada's Birthday

July 1 is the date we here in Canada celebrate the birth of our country. No, it's not our "Independence Day". It's the date of Confederation. On that day in 1867, the four provinces--Ontario, Quebec, New Brunswick and Nova Scotia--united to form the Dominion of Canada. To celebrate, here are some interesting facts about our country.

Impressive, eh?

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart