Our topic this week was when we first realized our interest in spanking.
Simcor: Oh, I was very young. My first actual memory, I don't know, but I
remember me that in a lot of fantasies I had people were spanked both in
a school or judicial setting.
Annapurna: For some things, I’ve a good memory. Spanking is one of them.
I
was two years old when I started. By the time I was four, I was into
self-spanking, and soon started using a hairbrush or something similar.
My
mother was to blame. I received only one punishment spanking from her
on the bare bottom, and even then, it was no more than a dozen swats
with her hand. I cried because I was young and felt violated and wrongly
accused. Later, when I was twelve, she pulled me across her lap, this
time I was fully clothed, and she tried to do the same thing. I’m not
even sure what I had done, probably nothing. I didn’t feel anything; it
was almost a joke and so out of place with reality.
However,
that wasn’t the main issue between her and me. It was all the other
times, and they were many. Whenever she hugged me, she slapped my bottom
using her hand, firmly but playfully. It was a daily occurrence. No one
seemed to notice, but me. That went on from birth up until I was eight
years old.
You see, spanking runs in my family on my mother's
side. Maybe it was also part of the culture at that time. When I was
five, for example, a nurse slapped my bare bottom before I received a
shot by the doctor. I guess the nurse couldn’t resist. Why is that?
What
wasn’t part of the culture, however, was my mother’s habit of our
getting dressed together in the bathroom. It was her idea, why, I don’t
know. That went on for about a year until I was four. I still remember
her standing naked in front of me before I became disassociated and
blacked out.
Despite its early onset and plenty of time for me
to grow accustomed to it, I still feel uncomfortable with spanking.
While switchable, I like the burn of wood or leather and enjoy being
taken, but being raped, beaten, or dehumanized is something else. I
couldn’t live in a DD relationship either; I would simply break into
pieces. Spanking is certainly arousing for me, but I’ve seen instances
on the Internet that feel a little too violent, or the submissive
appears to give away all of his or her will to the one in charge.
Dan: I don't recall having any interest in spanking at all until I was in my
mid-30s. And, I can remember the precise event that changed things. I
saw a segment of the HBO series Real Sex that involved spanking. I don't
think I had ever even thought about spankings as a sexual activity, yet
as I watched television that night I was just incredibly stimulated by
the whole idea. It was maybe a year later than I stumbled on the
concept of spanking as part of domestic discipline. The feeling was even
more powerful, unlike anything I had experienced before. I've been
hooked ever since.
Hobbes: The earliest I can remember having this fascination was about ten or
eleven years old though it may have been there earlier and I do not
remember. And I know now that I was not alone since a few of my male
friends had as much or more interest in it as I did; we spent plenty of
time talking about it and not in just a passing way. By the age of
twelve I was a definite, committed spanko!
Roz: I know my fascination with spanking started as a young child. Not sure
why as I was never spanked apart from the occasional slap on the leg.
Bob B: My First memory was when I was around 8 years old. I heard the neighbor
shout at his daughter who was older than me, something like you are
never to old for a spanking young lady. Even at that young age I was
immediately aroused. My addiction has continually increased from that
day.
Sir Wendel: Mom was a believer in spanking as punishment. She had an actual paddle
that kept me from sitting on many occasions. Once in a great while she
would use the belt. One summer day after I turned 13 Mom took me to my
room and gave me a whipping on the bare bottom. When it was over she
left closing the door behind her. I stood up and caught a glimpse of the
woman next door through the windows. I secretly watched her change into
her swim suit with my sore bottom still exposed. I have been fascinated
with spanking ever since.
Arched one: I was not spanked as a child, but somehow I found that there were a lot
of nerve endings on the cheeks and I began self spanking when I was
about 8 using a fly swatter. I've been hooked since. My wife has been
spanking me for the past 20 years and I love it.
Nina: I was never spanked as a child and I have only seen a few harmless
spanking scenes on tv, which I found funny, but not more. Hubby was the
one who introduced me to it while dating and courting and he made it
veeerrrry exciting for me. The first spankings I experienced were on the
very erotic side of life and not meant to discipline me. But the clever
man had done that on purpose to introduce me to the real deal step by
step. He was so good at spanking me that I think about spankings a lot
lately, because I can't have them until our baby is there.
D: At school we had a game in which the loser had to bend over, and get
whacked with a gym shoe by the winner. I enjoyed being the winner, but
also got a thrill from being the loser.
It as not until my late
teens, that I finally got a young lady across my knees, and was able to
give her a good spanking across the seat of her skirt. I loved every
moment of it, and I don't think the young lady minded too much either !
It wasn't much later that the skirt came up, and I spanked her white
cotton panties, and finally, a while later, these came down, and I gave
my first, and she got her first bare bottom spanking. I never looked
back!
Baxter: My parents did not spank me and my sister hated that because she did get
spanked. But it interested me probably starting around age 10 or so. I
would grab a bread board from the kitchen and self spank my bare bottom.
I would also enjoy reading stories in magazines about spanking and have
been a spanko now for over 45 years.
Respecting Mistress: I was ten years old and a boy in my year at junior school - as it was
called then - was sent to head for misbehaviour and the talk was he
would be caned. I was horrified to think what that experience might be
like - but also fascinated, even though I didn't understand why.
We
moved house that same year and I went to a different junior school and
I recall one teacher taking great delight in telling us how he got the
strap and cane when he was a child.... Again I was horrified, but
fascinated - and aroused.
I still didn't understand me feelings ,
but looking back, that was the foundation of my lifelong interest in
CP, even though I was never caned at school or spanked at home.
River: My earliest memory of anything spanking related is when I was 5 years
old, reading the
Little House on The Prairie books. I was fascinated
that there was a father involved and caring enough to discipline his
daughter. That started a lifelong fascination with male power and
responsibility. I didn't discover sexual spanking and Dd until after I
was married :-)
Bogey: I was spanked at home and school from the first grade on. I spanked girlfriends
from 14/15 on. But it was not until I was 19 that I got sexually
excited by spanking and that was at first getting spanked.
I
introduced Bacall to spanking before we married. But, it was over 10
years later until we discovered that I was doing it all wrong for her.
Easy change.
Jenny: As a teenager, I remember that I was embarrassed and tried not to reveal
my true interest in spanking scenes on TV and in movies (can't remember
which ones - maybe
Taps?). My first conscious memory of feeling a
sexual response to spanking was when I browsed through some
sociology reading materials in the college bookstore. Soon after that, I
discovered Nancy Friday's books about women's sexual fantasy and my
faves all involved spanking. Other themes did not interest me at all.
That was the start of the path to where I am now.
Pecan Nutjob: I was spanked as a child, mostly by my mother, including on the bare. It
was not very frequent, but let's say that if we did something really
stupid or harmful, we could expect being dragged to some bedroom, then
pants would come down.
So during childhood, spankings were
associated with shame... especially because if I got a spanking it meant
that I had done something really bad.
Some people say they
dreaded spankings when they were children. I did not (my mom used
moderate strength and no implement), but neither did I desire them,
quite the contrary.
My interest with spanking arose later during
teenage years, say age 15-18. I had fantasies of a governess of a loving
but no-nonsense kind, who would not shy away from spanking me if needed
or (oh the shame) from taking my temperature rectally (I had been
anal-sensitive since early teenage years, perhaps as a result of getting
suppositories during childhood) or other embarrassing treatments.
Needless
to say, such fantasies were impossible to convey to my girlfriends from
the time, and my early university attempts at hints that my bottom
needed attention were unsuccessful.
Ronnie: I was never spanked as a child as as far as I know none of my friends
were either so it wasn't until I was at high school when I heard about a
boy being caned at the local grammar school. Then it wasn't until later
when I met P that spanking actually came into play.
Hermione: I was around four years old when I first realized that spanking turned me on. My aunt and uncle had come for a visit with their son who was my age. During their stay I saw for the first time how little boys differed from little girls anatomically. I also saw my cousin being spanked by my aunt. She touched his bottom frequently as a sign of affection, and he tried to do the same to mine, probably because it was natural to do so in his family. The outcome of that summer was that I thought of spanking whenever I masturbated, and subsequently noticed (and saved) colour comics and cartoons of spankings, even though I was unable to read yet. The rest is history.
Thank you all for your recollections. Have a safe and productive week!