My last post appeared on blog rolls just as it should, so I am hoping the Blogger glitch has been resolved. We are expecting some pretty bad weather over the next 48 hours so I have prepared this post a day in advance, in case we have no electricity on the day I usually publish.
It's not a subject we like to think about, but preparing for the future is something that we all should consider doing. This topic was suggested by a good friend and regular brunch attendee.
What plans have you made to dispose of your spanking goods (toys, books, implements, clothing etc) in the event that you can no longer use them because of age or infirmity? If you happen not to prepare, who are you afraid might find them and discover your secret passion after you are gone?
I invite you to leave your response as a comment, an once everyone has
had a chance to speak, I will publish the results of our discussion.
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The only way to assure no one found anything would be to dispose of it all now, as anything could happen at any time. But then if I live another 50 years...go without? Nope. Too many implements, links, homemade movies, photos, books both written by me and others, blogs, still have CDs, even old VCR tapes sitting around somewhere. So I guess at that time "someone" will just find everything and wonder "Who the hell was this guy"? and either be intrigued and fascinated, or offended and repulsed. :)
In our home in Ireland the paddle already hangs proudly in the kitchen for all to see and the strap hangs in the front hall closet. They will never be disposed by us even if we lose interest or can no longer spank. The hope is that when we are gone whoever collects them will continue to spank with them.
Already have. (Not that there were many as my preference is my/her hand.) But it was easy as the couple I did have were everyday items yous see around anyone's home.
Now working on the photos!
Note: Any pics on your computer, cell phone, etc., are probably duplicated - even if you have deleted them! - on the cloud. Deleting all your pics is a multi-step process.
A.J.
That's a great question. I don't have kids and a lot of people think I'm pretty strange. Paul has access to all my accounts -- so I guess he'll be stuck with my digital debris -- I hope the pictures get sorted. For my implement (mostly hairbrushes) and uniform collections, I think I'll look for a boarding school for wayward adult students. :)
PS. One of my great sadnesses is that when Alex Birch passed away his family took down his blog. I get why, I guess, but I did enjoy it.
I'm widowed, live alone. I don't have much in the way of paraphernalia but it'll give my (adult) kids something to talk about when I'm gone.
I have made no plans at all. Perhaps someone can pretend to be taking the pile of stuff down to the recycling park, whilst really thinking “YOOHOO! I am going to have fun with all this stuff”. Or at least the employees down at the recycling park can get a good laugh at what has turned up. :)
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At one time my wife/mommy did not want others to know that she spanks her husband other than her mother who encouraged it. Now, others know and so the bathbrush which hangs in the hall, need not to taken down. My wife/mommy wants others to know that naughty husbands/naughty little boys will be over mommy's lap for a very sound bare bottom spanking. Jack
We decided that when one of us departs this world, the other will have the responsibility to dispose of our spanko stuff. If I am the survivor, I would probably retain a few items as mementos.
If I go first, there's no telling what Randy might do. He jokes about selling thousands of our private spanking photos and videos on the internet. I could be the first posthumous spanking model. I care, but maybe I don't care. It would be his problem at that point.
If we die together, our poor daughter could end up dealing with the aftermath. I hope that doesn't happen.
I guess I assume one of us will go first and the other will toss them. Its possible we both go together and a child or someone would open the locked box and probably discreetly dispose of the paraphernalia.
I don’t know if they’d be surprised. I suspect they’d know who spanked whom, but maybe they wouldn’t be certain.
I've never thought about it until now. If she goes before I do, I will retain what we have in the hopes our arsenal can continue to be put to good use, unsure who will be on the receiving end. Then as I wane, perhaps offer them privately through a group like this? If I go first, I am sure my wife will dispose of them just as she did with the vhs tape and caning guide I bought from Aunt Kay when I bought our two delrin canes.
When our kids were young, I had an arrangement with a close friend that, if something were to happen to both my wife and I, she would take possession and dispose of a locked trunk that we kept all our spanking implements (and some other kinky stuff) in.
Today, I not only don't care if our now-adult kids find that kind of stuff when we're gone, it kind of gives me a chuckle thinking about the scandal. KD Pierre has a cartoon I've always loved that depicts a couple going through the wife's grandmother's stuff after her death and finding all sorts of kinky stuff. I think it's funny as hell and am fine with the prospect of my own adult kids having a similar experience.
Something my wife and I had never before seriously considered before Hermione posted this question. So the two of us talked about possible "kink inheritances" last night.
Her thought, if I might die first, was to toss everything except for one item as a memento. I thought that was a good way to deal with it, so that's also my plan. We did briefly discuss of either of us might resume DD with a future partner if one of us was gone. My wife was certain I would try, so she was happy with my plan to NOT use any her toys with any other woman. My wife was uncertain if she might resume with a different future husband, but she did say it certainly depended a lot on how he behaved toward her. Frankly, I would not want my wife using our toys with another man, so her disposal plan works for me.
What would happen if we both died in some a terrible accident (auto crash)? My youngest brother is appointed the executor of my Will and would be responsible for the final inventory and distribution of property. He is very "kink friendly" (for a long time he ran a BDSM Sensory Deprivation Group in a large West Coast City), so I'm sure he will find some appropriate "cause" or "charity," either here in LA or up the coast where he lives.
As a kid I confess to doing a bit of snooping into my parents stuff, and not so long ago my daughter confessed to doing the same growing up... so I don't think that there will be any surprises to her. Accordingly I've done nothing about it. If I go first, I expect that my wife will dispose of then.
Hmmm, perhaps I shouldn't admit this, but if someone went through my stuff, "spanking implements" would be of least concern. LOL Still, I'll be dead, so, it won't be an issue for me. If the person discovering things has an issue with what they find, I suppose it will be a 'them problem'. ;-) However, if my atheistic views are wrong, and my 'soul' continues after death, I suppose I could just haunt the hell out of whatever room has the most stuff, so that no one dares go in there. LOL
To Dan: Thanks for the nod. I actually sent that image to Hermoine should she choose to use it for this topic. It's nice to have one's work remembered fondly. Thanks again.
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