This week we discussed disposal of spanking toys and the possibility of heirs discovering them.
CEM: The only way
to assure no one found anything would be to dispose of it all now, as
anything could happen at any time. But then if I live another 50
years...go without? Nope. Too many implements, links, homemade movies,
photos, books both written by me and others, blogs, still have CDs, even
old VCR tapes sitting around somewhere. So I guess at that time
"someone" will just find everything and wonder "Who the hell was this
guy"? and either be intrigued and fascinated, or offended and repulsed.
:)
Wendel: In our home
in Ireland the paddle already hangs proudly in the kitchen for all to
see and the strap hangs in the front hall closet. They will never be
disposed by us even if we lose interest or can no longer spank. The hope
is that when we are gone whoever collects them will continue to spank
with them.
A.J.: Already
have. (Not that there were many as my preference is my/her hand.) But
it was easy as the couple I did have were everyday items you see around
anyone's home.
Now working on the photos!
Note: Any
pics on your computer, cell phone, etc., are probably duplicated - even
if you have deleted them! - on the cloud. Deleting all your pics is a
multi-step process.
Mija: That's a
great question. I don't have kids and a lot of people think I'm pretty
strange. Paul has access to all my accounts -- so I guess he'll be stuck
with my digital debris -- I hope the pictures get sorted. For my
implement (mostly hairbrushes) and uniform collections, I think I'll
look for a boarding school for wayward adult students.
One of my
great sadnesses is that when Alex Birch passed away his family took down
his blog. I get why, I guess, but I did enjoy it.
FL: I'm widowed,
live alone. I don't have much in the way of paraphernalia but it'll
give my (adult) kids something to talk about when I'm gone.
Prefectdt: I have made
no plans at all. Perhaps someone can pretend to be taking the pile of
stuff down to the recycling park, whilst really thinking “YOOHOO! I am
going to have fun with all this stuff”. Or at least the employees down
at the recycling park can get a good laugh at what has turned up. :)
Jack: At one time
my wife/mommy did not want others to know that she spanks her husband
other than her mother who encouraged it. Now, others know and so the
bathbrush which hangs in the hall, need not to taken down.
Bonnie: We decided
that when one of us departs this world, the other will have the
responsibility to dispose of our spanko stuff. If I am the survivor, I
would probably retain a few items as mementos.
If I go first,
there's no telling what Randy might do. He jokes about selling
thousands of our private spanking photos and videos on the internet. I
could be the first posthumous spanking model. I care, but maybe I don't
care. It would be his problem at that point.
If we die together, our poor daughter could end up dealing with the aftermath. I hope that doesn't happen.
Rosco: I guess I
assume one of us will go first and the other will toss them. Its
possible we both go together and a child or someone would open the
locked box and probably discreetly dispose of the paraphernalia.
I don’t know if they’d be surprised. I suspect they’d know who spanked whom, but maybe they wouldn’t be certain.
Barrel: I've never
thought about it until now. If she goes before I do, I will retain what
we have in the hopes our arsenal can continue to be put to good use,
unsure who will be on the receiving end. Then as I wane, perhaps offer
them privately through a group like this? If I go first, I am sure my
wife will dispose of them just as she did with the vhs tape and caning
guide I bought from Aunt Kay when I bought our two delrin canes.
Dan: When our
kids were young, I had an arrangement with a close friend that, if
something were to happen to both my wife and I, she would take
possession and dispose of a locked trunk that we kept all our spanking
implements (and some other kinky stuff) in.
Today, I not only
don't care if our now-adult kids find that kind of stuff when we're
gone, it kind of gives me a chuckle thinking about the scandal. KD
Pierre has a cartoon I've always loved that depicts a couple going
through the wife's grandmother's stuff after her death and finding all
sorts of kinky stuff. I think it's funny as hell and am fine with the
prospect of my own adult kids having a similar experience.
Donn: Something
my wife and I had never before seriously considered before Hermione
posted this question. So the two of us talked about possible "kink
inheritances" last night.
Her thought, if I might die first, was
to toss everything except for one item as a memento. I thought that was
a good way to deal with it, so that's also my plan. We did briefly
discuss of either of us might resume DD with a future partner if one of
us was gone. My wife was certain I would try, so she was happy with my
plan to NOT use any her toys with any other woman. My wife was
uncertain if she might resume with a different future husband, but she
did say it certainly depended a lot on how he behaved toward her.
Frankly, I would not want my wife using our toys with another man, so
her disposal plan works for me.
What would happen if we both
died in some a terrible accident (auto crash)? My youngest brother is
appointed the executor of my will and would be responsible for the final
inventory and distribution of property. He is very kink friendly
(for a long time he ran a BDSM Sensory Deprivation Group in a large West
Coast City), so I'm sure he will find some appropriate "cause" or
"charity," either here in LA or up the coast where he lives.
Mark: As a kid I
confess to doing a bit of snooping into my parents stuff, and not so
long ago my daughter confessed to doing the same growing up... so I
don't think that there will be any surprises to her. Accordingly I've
done nothing about it. If I go first, I expect that my wife will dispose
of then.
Hermione: If I go first, I assume Ron will dispose of everything. If he goes first, or we become unable to remain in our home due to physical issues, I'll dispose of our things. The books will be placed in the various Little Libraries that have sprung up in our neighbourhood. The old laptops with all my blogging stuff will go to an electronics recycling place. The implements will go to a thrift shop, perhaps in several shipments, to give the employees some fun. If we suddenly go together, Ron's son will have to deal with our kink.
KDPierre: Hmmm,
perhaps I shouldn't admit this, but if someone went through my stuff,
"spanking implements" would be of least concern. LOL Still, I'll be
dead, so, it won't be an issue for me. If the person discovering things
has an issue with what they find, I suppose it will be a 'them problem'.
;-) However, if my atheistic views are wrong, and my 'soul' continues
after death, I suppose I could just haunt the hell out of whatever room
has the most stuff, so that no one dares go in there. LOL
Slava Ukraini
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