Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for March 2

What is your favourite fantasy?

Dan: I tend to have a lot of fantasies about being taken to a literal woodshed or barn and given a very hard punishment spanking.

Rosco: I have several with very similar themes, usually involving girls I knew between ages 15 and 25. I’m caught peeking up their skirts or maybe in a locker room. Then I’m spanked, lectured and otherwise punished by the group of them.

Some of these fantasies take place in a single afternoon. Others are played out over many months. I may write some of the up some day but I don’t know how much interest there would be.

Wendel: For the last year or maybe more my fantasy is to be taken to the kitchen by 3 naked older ladies (65+) and paddled with my pants down by each one.

The Misses mentioned that her fantasy spanking is to be spanked naked at the top of the Eifel Tower. I am thinking it is more of a dig to take a trip to Paris than a desire to be spanked. 

Mark: Mine is to be pulled up on something by my wife when she has her two best friends visiting, and be forced to get naked and take a hard caning. Ideally be put into the corner afterwards while they carry on their socialising.
This is not a fantasy that I have when being punished, definitely other times... such as when awake in the middle of the night, or when said ladies are visiting.

Prefectdt: I have a lot of fantasies that tend to come and go, as my fancy changes. Recently, ever since I got a butt plug tail, that I still have not used in play, some have revolved around this. Mainly, they go along the theme that the tail is symbolic of myself being temporarily owned by the person spanking me. Myself becoming some spanker's “Bit of Tail” for a defined period. Meaning that I must follow every whim and instruction of my Top, from the time that the tail is inserted, until it is pulled out, when I regain the right to free will.

FL: The scenario details change from time to time but the underlying theme is always strict maternal-style discipline.

A.J.: Fantasies are all (almost all) fine. We all have them. As long as you don't frighten the dog!

I think what triggered this was a common fantasy by many woman I know to be taken otk, bottom bared, then "spanked like a little girl." My first spanking GF had this fantasy.

Here are two of mine:

1. Being spanked by a woman with another woman watching, enjoying it, and then getting in her turn. On the flip side, me spanking both of them as the other watches.
That's not so hard/freaky is it?
And one shared by Roscoe, Wendel, and Mark above.

Fun fact: It happened! Twice! Two wonderful women let me live that fantasy. Both spanked me, I spanked both them, than I got to see them spank each other! In between - we talked. It was enlightening!

2. A girl I was with asked about my fantasies. I told her I wanted my GF (her) to TAKE ME to a pretend couples therapist for counseling because I was a neglectful of her sexual needs. (See? Fantasy.)
In her office and after hearing I was neglectful of her needs, the therapist was shocked and - there is only one cure for that! And she would spank me as the GF watched.
Then she would spank the GF for also being neglectful for not doing this herself!
Then the therapist would have us make love as she directed, her instructions encouraged by her use (on both of us!) of a small strap.

The GF loved the idea! (I can still hear her voice go deep and looking right at me, "I would so do that...!")

Now to find a playmate! GF then pulls out her iphone and goes through the photos of her GF's, trying to find one who might play.

(I pointed out one really cute I liked and was told no; While she would be perfect, but she would want to jump in and and be "serviced" too. And I'm looking at her saying, "Yeah...And? And the problem is...?")

It was left for her to pick on of her friends and sound her out.

Sad fact: It never happened. She found a couple girls, but they were "rules" and conditions, then life got in the way. It never happened.

There will be tears on my pillow tonight.

 Ronnie: To be spanked after a riding session, I would have to be correctly attired and so would he, I would have failed to impress in some way, or been disobedient or lazy not tending to my horse properly, something along those lines. It would perhaps have been a repeat offence for which I'd been warned and now I'd gone too far. He would deal with me firmly in the stable, bending me over a hay bale or something and giving me a good cropping.

Hermione: I have several variation of my favourite fantasy, which I hope to put into print and submit to LSF someday. They all involve being spanked by a parent OTK. There is almost always a third person in the scene: Aunt Mary. She usually provides the hairbrush for the finale, and sometimes she is the disciplinarian. 

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #580

Welcome to March! I'd say it came in like a lion, with plenty of snow last night. But the pizza delivery came through, so it's all good.

Today's topic was suggested by our good friend A.J.

What is your favourite spanking fantasy? Is it something that you imagine during a spanking? Or is it for other times?

Leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak I will publish a summary of our discussion.

 

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Say What?

Some interesting warnings, and menu translations that make you wonder if you should order something else.

 

 

 

Bon appetit!

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for February 23

What does the spanker wear?

Wendel: Normally the spanker is just wearing whatever at the time. We do like dressing up for Halloween and for Comic Con conventions so on the rare occasion we might wear one to administer the spanking. The Misses did buy a few vintage 1960 and 1970 outfits. On the days she wears one of those I know I am about to get the paddling of my life. 

Rosco: Irene normally will dress up before spanking me. She’ll often spank me, order me to stay where I am or tie me up, then change her clothes before spanking me again. Often she’ll wear a third outfit.

Lots of variety. Miniskirts, almost dowdy midi skirts, short shorts, dirndls, sorority girls outfits, cowgirl clothes. She doesn’t have a huge wardrobe but she gets creative. Usually her accent will match her outfit as the lecture always accompanies the spanking.

Prefectdt: My main concern is that the spanker feels comfortable and confident in what they are wearing for the play scene. For some spankers, they are happy in their everyday clothes. But for others, they like to dress up a bit, sometimes in something of a costume or just by wearing more formal attire. I have always suspected that the spanker who like to dress up are creating a play persona that separates them from their everyday selves.

FL: Honestly, I was always just grateful to be spanked but given a choice, there's nothing quite like being taken over a lap clad in silky smooth nylons or pantyhose.

Wolfman: The most important part is for her to be in a dress or skirt as they are more easy to lift versus taking a pair of pants down. Also they enhance her femininity and vulnerablity which in turn enhances my my masculinity and domination desires. Ditto for bare legs or stockings rather pantyhose, tights, or leggings, and if her panties are satin, frilly or with a bit of lace, oh my God what a pleasure!!

Hermione: Ron is comfortable in jeans so that's what he wears. I don't care what he has on as long as he gives me a good spanking.    

Glenmore: If I'm lucky , Stockings and suspenders!

Anon: Same as Glenmore. S&S really does something special for me.  

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #579

It's time for some comfort food and good conversation with like-minded friends. In the past we have discussed what the spankee wears - or doesn't wear - during a spanking, but what about the person on the other end of the hairbrush?

In your relationship, does the spanker dress in a certain way for a spanking, or wear anything special to indicate that a paddling is imminent?

Leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak I will publish a summary of our discussion.

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Fun with Food

 

Is anyone hungry yet?

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for February 16

What time of day is best for spanking?

Bonnie: If I get a choice, and I usually don't, please book my spankings for the evening. It makes a nice segue to whatever comes next.

Marie: I don't much prefer a specific time of day though I *do* love a bedtime spanking. That's a specific type of spanking for me, though. I suppose we tend to play most often, mid-morning or early afternoon and that works - but I'm not sure I really have any preference other than wanting time for it to not feel rushed. I do recall pre-parenthood that we were most often lazy weekend late morning players. No such thing now lol.

Dan: Ours are heavily weighted toward late evening. Every once in a while one will be in the afternoon. There have been a very few in the morning, and I generally have tried to delay. It takes several cups of coffee for me to get going.

Graham: It most often happens very late afternoon or in the evening. Just the way life works out, as many of us are quite busy earlier in the day.

Sage: Whatever time we can both be there for it. On weekends, late morning, as my partner is most awake then. I'm with Marie about the most important thing being making sure it's at a time when we won't be rushed.

Wendel: Spankings can occur at any hour of the day. The Misses has given out a few good ones in the middle of the night. No reason other than she felt like spanking me. There is nothing quite like waking up in the middle of the night, having my pants pulled down and then getting whacked with a paddle. 

Betsy: During the week, spankings are usually in the evenings. During the weekend, it can be anytime.

Roz: Spankings usually occur at night. Morning would be the least favourite time for me.

Jack: My wife/mommy will spank anytime of the day, it does not matter, I mess up, it is over her lap. There times when I've really been a naughty little boy that I will be given a bedtime spanking, which is the worst.

Prefectdt: I do not like mornings. The reason for this is that I like to have a little colonic wash out before I go to play, so that everything is nice, shiny and clean back there. I have never been very good at doing this, and it takes up to 2 hours sometimes. So jumping out of bed and playing directly is off the cards. Any other time of the day is fine for me.

Rosco: If it’s before sexual activity, I’ll get three spankings, each about a half hour apart - say 4:30, 5:00 and 5:30. Between them, if I’m not tied up I may be massaging Irene’s feet.

If a spanking is not followed by sexual activity, it could be anytime. Bedtime spankings can be deliriously relaxing but are rare.       

Glenmore: When we were both working we would have lunchtime rendezvous which included a spanking which sent me back to work with a red bottom. These days spankings are less frequent and are usually during the day sometime when our energy levels are higher.

KDPierre: They happen when they happen......but I prefer mornings so I can enjoy the aftereffects all day.

Barrel: We usually play late in the afternoon when a glass of wine may be involved. Mornings are off as that is our peaceful togetherness. We occasionally do early afternoons when in a session and we go out for lunch or early appetizers then home for the thrashing.      

CEM: Evening or late at night. I don't even get up til about noon so... :)

Ronnie: They happen when P decides. I don’t mind afternoons or evenings. Don’t like morning spankings.

Hermione: In the morning, right after a nice, hot shower, a brisk paddling is a fine way to start the day. It might mean standing up to eat breakfast, and the sting is a day-long reminder to be good.

 

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