Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for June 22

Has your partner ever spoken about spanking to a stranger while you were present?

Anon 1: This isn't exactly what you asked, but years ago, I used to deliver stripping telegrams with a company called Strip-a-Gram. It wasn't unusual to entertain at ten or more parties every Saturday night. (I bet I've been to more bridal and baby showers than all of my female friends combined.) So, I performed for a woman's bridal shower, then went into a bedroom to put my clothes back together (there was Velcro along the seams of my pants so as to be able to rip them off suddenly), and the maid of honor came in to pay me. She said, "I should be spanked for all the naughty thoughts I'm having about you right now!" Surprised, I replied, "You have a taste for being spanked?" She returned, "More like a voracious appetite," and she started taking off her clothes as I was trying to put mine on. I was in my twenties and she was in her late thirties, but she was cute with a really nice butt, so I locked the bedroom door. "Your friends won't be bothered by the noise we make?" I asked as I helped her disrobe. "They're used to it..." she answered as she crawled across my lap. "Really spank me good, I've been a very bad girl," she said as she revealed her phat ass. 

This is my favorite form of foreplay (why I read your blog) so it didn't take long until my g-string looked like a tiny banner at the top of a tall flagpole. I thought that she was too easy to seduce so worried that a lot of guys had been where I was headed, so I refrained from fucking her, just let her service me orally. It was my last scheduled gig of the night, so I could have stayed and partied, but didn't. I didn't even ask for her phone number. Being a spanko like me, and now knowing how difficult it is to find a like-minded mate, I'd love to reconnect with her, if she happens to read this. 

A.J.: "They're used to it..." she answered as she crawled across my lap."

Really? Oh, c'mon. You can't leave us hanging like that!!!!

Anon 1: This is directed to A.J. In that this blog is operated by a lady, and a Canadian lady at that, I thought discretion was the better part of valor. I'm not sure what more to say... I think I redefined what constitutes a hard spanking for the recipient. I'm sure that the spanks were heard by all the other women in the adjoining room. She also made the most incredible, welcoming sounds throughout the spanking. (A few weeks ago, noises made while spanking was a brunch topic. I did not comment, but I thought about this incident in vivid detail.) Since that Strip-A-Gram job, I've graduated college and am now near retirement. I've been married to a woman who indulged me occasionally with my desire to spank her, and wisely divorced her stingy, cold-hearted ass. So I mean it when I say I appreciate a submissive female who enjoys getting a spanking as much as I love giving it.

Jack: Stranger or not, my wife/mommy will tell them that she is the mommy when I'm a naughty little boy and that I must address her as mommy. My wife/mommy will say this with me present and all I want to do his hide. She reminds me later that women share a lot, and so spankings is brought up a few times, not many.  

CEM: No. That would not be acceptable. I'd never be with someone that might do that...nor would they. Discretion is of paramount importance, especially with a Male Dominant/female submissive dynamic as too many PC idiots out there conflate domestic violence with BDSM. There is a proper time and place for discussions and activity, in public with strangers...is not that time nor place. 

Roz: There have been the odd occasion where spanking has been raised by someone else in a joking way, not by myself or Rick. When this has happened we both tended to be oddly quiet. Afraid of giving ourselves away I think lol.

Mark: My wife did it to me today... in front of our friends (her best friend and her husband) she announced that what I had done deserved a thorough spanking. I went very quiet and tried to kid it off. Definitely wasn't looking either of them in the eye! Makes me wonder what her friend knows - but I'm a little scared to ask.

Wendel: Like Roz, we stay silent on the subject. If only they knew. 

Rosco: Not exactly. Once we were cooking at a group/communal kitchen and Irene scolded me and gave me several sharp slaps with a wooden spoon which got the attention of all around.

Another time we’re having dinner at a restaurant when one of her friends told me she wanted to spank me. I’m guessing she knew. I told her she would need Irene’s permission. The subject was changed.

Anon 2: We would never inflict that on a innocent bystander. It would be nice if it could be openly shared, but that just doesn't seem likely. I have told my wife that if she wanted to share with her best friend, it would be OK. She hasn't done that...yet. We do share "coded" messages via text and email.

Prefectdt: You have got me on this one, it has never happened to me. Makes me wonder how I would react :)

By the way, I had to get into your blog through Microsoft Edge again. Sorry to be the one telling you about this.

That's a real mystery! Sorry Firefox misbehaves for you. I use it exclusively for blogging.

A.J.: "...she unexpectedly brought up spanking while talking to a complete stranger?"

Twice. I think I mentioned this before.

Mid-week took GF to a local mall for something to eat. After, she decides she needs something from the dreaded Bloomingdale's. I don't want go to Bloomingdales! Can we go...?

'Will only take a moment.' Off we go, and wind up in - ladies lingerie. Oy!

I'm hatin' life and decide - what the heck - it's almost closing time, dept. has me, the GF and a 20-something clerk so - time to play the fool. And I do. Make a pest of myself.
GF is checking out and tells clerk: What do you do with men like this.
Clerk: Darned if I know.
GF: I think I'll spank him.

Noooo! She used the forbidden "S" word in public, to a civilian. About me! That's not allowed. Time to double down - and I do!

A royal, teasing pest!!

Loaded with sarcasm: "A spanking? Oh, no! Not a spanking!"
Hugging and kissing her neck.

GF, not royally peeved, is scribbling her name on receipt as fast as she can and says: "Wait until we get home!"

Clerk is laughing.

She finishes. Turns and says: "Time to go." with the dreaded (not really) and emphasized: "We need to talk."

Takes my elbow and quick-walks me toward the exit.

Clerk is now really laughing and says, "And give him a few for me!""

She did. It was funny. We laughed about it often after - and wondered "What did that clerk tell her friends after we left?"

Second "incident."

We were at an empty antiques store and I foolishly as clerk if there was something I could us as a spanking paddle.
She found an antique bread paddle, used to put dough into a hearth for baking. Brings it to me and GF.
GF: What that for?
Me: So I don't hurt my hand if I have to spank you.
GF's face turns bright RED!
Clerk laughs; says it's OK. Besides, she says, "...a paddle doesn't know or care WHOSE bottom it is used on.... (Hint. Hint.).

GF now wants that paddle and has me buy it.
We drive home in silence. ("I was only joking!!!")
Once there she's ready to try out her new toy! On me.
She did. With the occasional eye-opening "emphasis" on some of her efforts.

Funny at first.
Not so funny later.
Then funny again. For her.
We never used that paddle again. 

Barrel: No, but I wish she would. The only way that could happen is if it was a complete stranger in a completely remote venue, like on vacation, and she had a few glasses of wine. I would be open to it, thinking something might happen.

KDPierre: Never bluntly. But Rosa has made a few teasing innuendos to 'strangers' (waitresses, salespeople, for example), but always within a vibe that it would be taken for what it was. It never bothered me.

Take that from 'stranger' to people we know and the conversations have gotten way more specific and open. Those don't bother me either. What I do find more embarrassing is when someone 'in the know' is told by Rosa that I was recently punished for something specific or that I had one coming for something I did. One conversation is more informational and the latter very direct and personal.

Hermione: Like Roz and Wendel, it hasn't happened and never will. We are too private about our intimate activities.  But sometimes I wonder what a friend's or stranger's reaction might be.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine