Our good friend S alerted me to a site that specialized in all things related to my favourite position.
The logo is discrete but meaningful to those in the know.
S asked if I would wear a hat like this:
Or carry this bag
Would you?
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Spanking to music?
Norse Cavalier: In order to
make sure my neighbours heard nothing, I often put on the combined works
of Sabaton while entertaining a spankee who used to visit me. Not sure
whether it was necessary, as the walls are quite thick, but decided not
to take the chance. We also both enjoy Sabaton's music anyway.
Can't say that the music reminds me of her, though.
Barrel: I distinctly recall the back ground music from Aunt Kay's DWC website. Mesmerizing! I found a link to it a few years back but can't find it. It would be the perfect music for a seriously intense session. Might any of you know where I can find it?
A.J.: If the music is “Flight of the Bumblebee” - Run!!!
Roz: Great question Hermione! I love it.
I remember years ago posting a list of spanky songs on my blog.
We
may have had music in the background during a spanking, but it would
have been more incidental than deliberate. We have however had music
accompany other activities on occasion 😊
Luvinhub: Nothing necessarily during a spanking but I do have as an alarm setting John Mellencamp's song "Hurts So Good".
KDPierre: We love music here, but not for spanking. Most are punishments anyway and music hardly seems appropriate for something like that. Fun ones have their own 'music and beat'. ;-)
Prefectdt: Yes, there have been plenty of times that music has been played. Mostly to spare the blushes of those in neighbouring houses or apartments. I would like to say that classical music did the job, but I would be lying to you if I told you that, as classical music tends to have too many quiet periods. Strong Rock or Heavy Metal tends to work best for noise covering, Motorhead is highly recommended. There is also one song, that is very rarely played in real life, but nearly always gets played in my head, when I am trying to get through the pure pain part of spanking, early on before the magic starts. That is "Be My Enemy" by The Waterboys.
Wendel: Nothing really. There might be something on at the time but it is not by design.
A.J.: No music. But I have had the TV on a bit louder than normal if the spanking is in a hotel room. But that doesn't count.
In my mind I have 3 classes of spanking.
Class 1 - A 'nice' spanking, both are enjoying. Nice pink bottoms and smiles.
Class 2 - 'A good hard spanking!'
This is a spanking!! But not vicious. Bottom has moved past pink and
will wind up almost-bright red. It's a 'let's clear the air, or
'maintenance', or whatever spanking.
Class 3 - You don't want a class 3!!!
Back to today's question - it's about the pace.
Class 1 - One smack per second, 60 or fewer per minute, interspersed with caresses and 'searching' (if-you-know-what-I-mean-and-I-think-you-do!)
Class
2 - It a REAL spanking so the pace is picked up! It's DOUBLED! Two
smacks per second or 120 smacks a minute. And because it is faster, it
is also a bit HARDER.
120 beats per minute is a marching cadence. Think - soldiers marching.
Also think - College fight songs!!
"You're due, honey! Get OTK and let's sing your alma mater's fight song!"
On Wisconsin, on Wisconsin!
Plunge right through that line
(Whack, whack, whack, whack! ....)
Works with every college fight song I can think of. Even military songs!
Anchors Aweigh, my boys,
Anchors Aweigh.
(Whack, whack, whack, whack! ....)
Fun
part: The smile on the face of the spanker! And (spoiler), at
120-whacks per minute, the spanking is probably over in under 4 minutes.
YMMV.
I mentioned this to a girl who didn't mind the occasional
and loving otk spanking. She was a U. of Michigan alum. The thought of
her otk getting spanked to that song made her laugh. Here it is.
This
is CONSIDERABLY fasted than 120 per minutes; this is 180 per minute!
The most recognized part of the fight song kicks in at the 0:52 mark.
(Note: Class 3, is double Class 2! Three to four per second or 180-240 a minute!!! My nickname for it is "The Angry Girlfriend!" Another time you might use it is at the conclusion of a Class 1 or Class 2 spanking with about 50 whacks in what I nicknamed "The Grande Finale!"
Donn: Hi Barrel:
Yes, some of Aunt Kay's soundtracks (over the years) were very interesting.
The two most commonly used background music were:
"haveyouever1DWC.mid"; and
"DWCff3cells3.mid" (most common).
They are both available on the Internet Archive at:
web.archive.org/web/2007/www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/sounds/haveyouever1DWC.mid
web.archive.org/web/2007/www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/sounds/DWCff3cells3.mid
There is also a "library" of other music that Aunt Kay experimented with at various times, here:
web.archive.org/web/2007/www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/sounds/
Enjoy,
-- Glad to Help!
Hermione: We just leave on whatever music is playing on the laptop. However, I'm going to check out the links Donn supplied above. I'm very intrigued.
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Welcome, dear friends. It's lovely to see you all here again. I was just thinking how important music is in my life. At home, we have internet radio playing on our laptop most of the time, and Ron is always on the hunt for new stations. Music is the
background to most of our domestic activities.
Are your spankings ever accompanied by music? Do you have a special song that reminds you of spanking?
Please leave your reply as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion at the end of the weekend.
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Last week I received an email from Cane-iac, my go-to online shop for implements. The business has been up for sale for quite some time, but new owners Archer and Alex have taken over and they seem like a good fit. Here's the latest news.
Archer and Alex are extremely familiar with the domestic discipline / spanking community have been active in it for over 25 years. They are gifted crafts people with a passion for wood and leather. Archer and Alex bring a commitment to maintaining CANE-IAC’s quality and pricing philosophy while delivering great customer service. They've loved one of our core concepts from the beginning, making spanking and kink toys accessible to the entire community for a reasonable price. They are very quick learners and are learning how to make all of our most popular “implements” - including the Best of the Best – Rattan Canes.
CANE-IAC is moving to the beautiful state of Arizona. The grand reopening will be September 2nd with Archer and Alex taking over on August 16th. They are committed to keeping the store open during the transition and only expect a brief delay in shipping. All items will be shipped from CANE-IAC's new Arizona home starting August 16th.
Right now, we are all working on making things like Rattan Canes, Spencer and assorted Wooden Paddles, Acrylic and Lexan Canes and Paddles, Rubber Items and Leather Goods. We are committed to get CANE-IAC restocked for all your fall spanking needs.
Sadly, I cannot access the site. It's still restricted to customers from the US. Maybe once they are settled in their new location I'll be able to shop there again. Oh wait. Tariffs. So maybe not.
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This week you were asked to define a spanking.
Jack: If the spankings are foreplay I suppose you can break it down to defining. In my case foreplay is far from it, my wife/mommy considers spanking only when I've been a naughty little boy.
Bonnie: Yes, your first question aligns with my definition. If it occurs multiple times in succession, I consider those to be a series of spankings (ouch!).
Wendel: For us a series of spankings would not be switching from the hand to the paddle and then the belt. That is just the same spanking with different implements. A series of spanking would be when I spank the Misses in the morning before work and then give her another spanking in the evening after dinner. It would be when the Misses whips my butt ever night for a week.
Roz: I agree with the definition above, a spanking is a series of swats. A series of spankings to me is where a session ends, there is a break then another spanking.
KDPierre: Interesting
question of semantics. The purist in me would agree with what seems like
the consensus that one session of whacks, however given is "a
spanking". However, the notion of a break muddies that definition. Let's
say my wife says, "I think you need to be punished for XYZ. You are
going to get a good long spanking of 600 smacks." She then gives me 300,
decides her arm needs a break, and we stop for a few minutes, walk
around maybe even have some water, and then go back and finish the
second half. Is that one spanking with a break in between or two?
Let's
take that further with something that has happened here often enough. I
am sentenced to a punishment spanking of 1000 or more smacks. Even the
person issuing this knows they can't be done in one go. Then, instead of
a 10 minute break, a part of the overall thousand is done the next day,
or even two days later, and then the next installment a day after that.
Is that one spanking in several installments, or one punishment of
multiple spankings?
Here's one more. I am sentenced to a
punishment spanking for something that my wife is very angry about. She
gives me the spanking that she declared but upon completing it feels
more punishment is needed and gives me another sometime later. I would
say THAT is one 'punishment' consisting of two separate spankings, but
is it? ;-)
Ain't werdz phunn? ;-)
Prefectdt: My congratulations to Rosco for coming up with such an interesting question. Before I read this question, I used to consider the whole time that I was playing with someone else as a spanking. Since reading this question, I have been thinking. As play with a fellow amateur spanking enthusiast can take place over several hours, it would be impossible to continuously spank for such a period of time. So now am thinking that scenario would be better described as a series of spankings within a period of spanking play. The best questions are ones that make you think and challenge your own, perceived conceptions.
FL: This is more a linguistics question than a spanking one.
I
would define a spanking as a series of spanks given in a single
position, with no significant break in the delivery. The spanker may
pause very briefly to change instruments but the spankee remains in the
same pose throughout. Changing position - regardless of how quickly the
spanks resume - signals the start of a new spanking and what had been A
spanking is now a SERIES of spankings. Lucky duck.
Rosco: Thanks to Hermione for posting this question.
I
get a spanking, often at bedtime, a few days a week. Irene will usually
switch between her favored implements, but if it only takes a few
seconds I don’t think of it as a separate spanking.
Our “dates”
usually involve 2 or more spankings, between 10 minutes and up to a hour
apart, along with bondage and other discipline, followed by more
traditional sexual activities. Last time I think it was 5 spankings for
which I don’t have the right word.
Hermione: For us, a spanking is completed in a single session, with changes of implement but no real pauses. If another spanking happened after several minutes or hours, it would be a separate spanking or one of a series depending on the length of time between.
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My goodness! The week went fast for us, and I'm glad for the chance to relax with you. Our good friend Rosco submitted this question around defining a spanking:
Do you define a spanking as a series of whacks on the bottom with a hand, paddle or other implement? If so, is there a word for a series of spankings with breaks in between? Do you and your partner typically engage in a single spanking as defined above, or in a series of spankings?
Please leave your reply as a comment, and I will publish the results of our discussion when the weekend is over.
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These items are not really commercially available, but they do exist, and were surreptitiously displayed on the shelves in various stores.
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