Do you have any tips for spanking sensitive areas?
Rosco: I never
would have predicted it, but Irene spanks my balls and I like it.
Obviously a little discretion on the implement and intensity is
necessary. Once in a while she’s a little too enthusiastic but there've
been no lasting physical or emotional scars.
Roz: What comes to mind when it comes to sensitive areas is be careful and deliberate with your aim and watch the intensity.
Barrel: We do, which
prompted the question. There is an area just above the crease at the
bottom of the buttocks and on either side of the vertical separation
between the cheeks. Extending out 2" (5cm for those of you using
metric) from that intersection, we call the golden triangle. I find it
the most sensitive area my wife spanks. We have a small, blue slapper
that works well in those tight quarters. But when I am bent over and
restrained, my wife likes to try to land the tips of the xh tawse in the
golden triangle. I wear a protective cup for obvious reasons. When
she is successful, I find it...memorable.
I just bought an 18"
(45cm) cane that is 1/4" (6.35mm) in diameter for use when we travel, as
we have a cruise planned next year. It fits in our carry-on roller
bags and is relatively quiet when applied. While she is still
practising with it, she finds it easy to land in intimate areas.
FL: The classic
"sit spots" do it for me. I've also had my hands tawsed and my erection
flogged, both of which I quite enjoyed but wouldn't classify as
spanking.
Wendel: The sit spot for us.
Bonnie: When my
husband smacks me with a serious implement, it's all sensitive.
Striking my bits is an absolute hard limit. We're not into torture.
There's plenty of available skin back there for him to punish.
His
favorite spots to spank are the under curves of my bottom. He wants to
make sure that it hurts every time I sit. Believe me. It hurts. He
often works over the tops of my thighs in back for the same reason. I
have less padding there which makes this technique worse than swats on
my butt.
He has one cruel practice that I dread. My bottom is
pretty tough thanks to our regular sessions with the paddle. But there
are places where he can lay down vivid marks and bruises with relatively
little effort. When he decides I am a particularly bad girl, my love
spreads my cheeks and beats my inner surfaces repeatedly using the solid
wooden hairbrush. This kind of punishment stays with me long after the
spanking is over.
Prefectdt: I once was
an uptight, bottom, thighs only spanko. But after many years of
compromising, with more mainstream BDSMers, I have some limited
experience with CBT. I can only recommend that the fleshier part of the
thigh and not the actual knee is used when “putting the knee in”. And
that kicking only happens with the middle part of the foot and not the
toe.
Rosco: Weighing in
for the second time, I haven’t delivered a spanking since the Carter
Administration. My wife Irene is all to happy to do the spanking in our
relationship. It’s worked out wonderfully.
I did deliver 3
spankings, a few minutes apart one evening at a time when I had never
even made out with a girl (we did so afterwards). We were on the beach
at night and had wandered away from the others.
We began to
wrestle playfully. At one point I turned her over in what we call the
diaper position (to keep her face out of the sand) and slapped her
bottom a few times. I stopped only because I didn’t want to be accused
of being weird.
But she seemed to like it, and a few minutes
later I did it again. The third time, I slapped either cheek several
times then went for a spot in-between and little lower down. I didn’t
smack hard, but she was wearing a onesie with loose short pants that had
ridden up so the whole thing was quite a thrill for me - and I think
for her as well.
Making out ensued, as well as third base at her behest.
A.J.: God, I'm such a wimp.
I
read Ronnie's treatise on caning. And what hit me (Was that a pun???)
was understanding what a caning is, the types of canes, the length of
canes, practising on objects before you dare use one, the tip speed,
warnings on the target areas. Whew! That's a lot of work! That I
don't want to do. And Mark's line: "instant clarity of pain," pretty much said "No" to me.
Side
note: Many years ago I met this woman for the first time for some
strictly OTK fun. Talked to her for almost two hours she was so
fascinating! Took me on a tour of her place before the main event.
Along a wall were hung many of her "tools of the trade." And at the end
- a bullwhip! A fer-real bullwhip!
"You use that?"
"It's rare, but yes. I charge a lot more. And need a couple weeks to prepare."
"Why?"
"Because
I use it so rarely and the damage it can deal out is so great I have to
practice for hours over several days in advance, before the
appointment."
I passed.
And I'm still not interested in caning.
Hermione: Just the sit spots for us. I'm not interested in being hurt in any other areas.
Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine
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