How creative are you when it comes to incorporating spanking into games or activities?
Anon: Let me
count the ways! Billiards, ping pong, Scrabble, Cribbage, gin rummy,
Mancala, etc. We're not golfers, but nothing prevents you from coming
up with a system. Given that my butt is tougher than hers, the losing
margin for me is a multiple of what it would be for her. Surprising as
it may seem, we are usually able to complete several games/rounds before
succumbing to the inevitable climax, as it were!
Roz: What a great, fun question! Nothing currently but the possibilities are endless. Great food for thought.
Wendel: Incorporating
spanking into golf might not be good for us. We have only played once
before and suck really bad. Our butts would be so sore by the 3rd hole
that we could not keep pants on or walk.
As for part two: Spanking makes all activities better.
Mark: Dinner party with close friends...
Luvinhub: We ride
bicycles and currently ride tandem bike on bike trails more than
anything else. I have thought/fantasized my wife whipping me with a
riding crop to pull more of the weight on the tandem or for whatever
reason was to come up to stop and have to find a switch for her to use
to punish me with my bike shorts down.
Prefectdt: One of my
main hobbies is photography. So I could go round taking pictures of
people getting spanked... Oh! Wait a minute. There are a lot of people
doing that already, so that is not much fun. I do love walking in
nature. It would be a lot of fun exploring an area, with a willing
spanker, to find places to use freshly cut switches. Also, not very
unique, but it is something that I would like to try.
S: I like to
workout with weights. Sometimes I pretend if I do not do a specific
number of reps, I get paddled for the shortfall. It helps to keep me
motivated.
FL: Failing to
do the housework to her exacting standards. It turns a boring but
necessary chore into a delightful game. Of course I do a proper and
thorough job but might just deliberately leave a table undusted or a mop
and bucket not put away. The house ends up spotless, my backside not so
much.
CEM: Pretty much
anything and everything around the house. But nothing (for the most
part) outside the home in public. Too worried about public exposure and
someone misconstruing the activity, legal issues, etc.
Barrel: I agree with Roz…endless possibilities.
On
my 60th birthday, I crafted a session around the number 6. My wife
spanked 6 minutes with her hand, 6 minutes with the hairbrush, 6 minutes
with the paddle…all followed up with 60 strokes, at her choosing, split
between the tawse, thick and thin delrin canes. Very memorable. My
70th is not too far off and I’m thinking of the possibilities.
Jean Marie: I thought
of sports first. I've never played cricket, but their bat resembles the
worst of heavy fraternity/sorority paddles. I'd love to know what a
solid wallop with a cricket bat feels like. Then my mind went to
paddleball. I have played this game with some female (non-spanko)
friends. The whole time I played, I was swatting my palm with that
paddle, imagining what it'd feel like with my tennis togs pulled down. I
used to have a boyfriend in college who had a table tennis or ping pong
set-up. I was spanked with one of those paddles. It had a rough rubber
coating that REALLY stung!
As for non-sporting endeavors, I love to
cook. It's romantic to cook with a partner while wearing only an apron;
it's sexy to cook and spank at the same time! I've had many recipes
ruined because our spanking play got carried away, burned both the dish
and my derriere!
Doon: My wife
does not allow any fun or erotic thrashings as part of our dynamic.
My thrashings are solely to improve our relationship, either through my
own behavior, our interactions, or for our joint or individual stress
management. That said, I will talk to my wife and suggest there are
ways she could improve my performance in various areas that might be game-like or sports-like and which she might enjoy (immediate, and
long term improvements).
I suppose these performance enhancing
thrashings could be based upon my improvements in either the mental or
physical realm. I would, however, want them to be based upon my own
performance and ability to improve that performance, and not
(particularly) upon random chance.
I suppose competing against my
wife in games of Scrabble(R" could be used to enhance my verbal /
vocabularly performance, with x-many slashes from one of her rubber
straps for every point I fail to earn above some premium + past average
(10 games). That way, I would always be working from behind my
previous score, and would absolutely, continuously have to improve my
skills to avoid a serious thrashing. PRETTY STRONG MOTIVATION!
Something
similar could be done with chess, along with a player move timer. I
have to win, and do it under some past average (10 games) - premium.
That way, again, I would always be playing behind, and have to BOTH
win and win faster to avoid a thrashing.
In sports, I could be
required to run a fixed course, carrying a weighted ruck-sack, in a
certain minimum time. Once again, the penalty cut-in would be any final
time more than past average (10 runs) - premium. Once again, I'd
always be behind, forcing continuous improvement to avoid the PENALTY.
This could be made even harder by my not being allowed to have a
stopwatch with me during the run -- having no way to know whether I was
ahead or behind the required pace; made even harder by basing the
penalty upon the number of minutes I fail to meet the newer, faster pace
(30 strokes of strap / minute slow).
I suppose that now that I
have suggested this, I should tell my wife, before she reads it for
herself, and comes up with some ideas of her own.
KDPierre: We have a
pool table in our living room and every so often, Rosa and I play a
private tournament of 8-ball that is absurdly one-sided and slanted in
her favor. I play naked while she is clothed and there are penalty
spanks for just about everything in differing amounts. No matter how
well I play there simply is no escaping an extremely sore bottom! The
last time we played I actually tallied up what I ended up getting and it
came out to over 800 whacks!
Hermione: In the summer we play lawn darts, a game that Ron loves because he is so much better then I am at aiming for the tiny circle way off in the distance. So I would obviously be the one getting swats for losing. I hope the neighbours aren't watching! We also both play Klondike solitaire on his iPad, and if I let the % won go below 50%, I get a spanking.
Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine