Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 19

First of all, I want to thank my readers for their concern regarding the horrendous forest fires here in Canada. Please be assured that we are well away from the actual fires, although the air has been pea soup thick for a couple of days. Unfortunately, a certain president has decided that our fires are a good reason to implement yet more tariffs on all our goods imported by the US. Go figure! Anyway, let's move on.

 

How do you protect your devices from prying eyes?

 

CEM: Someone would have to literally break into my home, and/or hack into my PC to be able to see anything so, I'm not that worried about it. 

 

Dan: I don't do much to secure that kind of material from prying eyes, separate and apart from what I use to protect everything else. My laptop is where I keep almost all such material, and it requires a password or fingerprint access to open.That's really about it. If someone were to get access to my laptop, it would be very easy to stumble on spanking-related material without looking very hard. One browser almost always has tabs open for my blog and the Google mailbox my blogging profile is registered under. There's also a tab open for my Tumblr account, where many of the things I follow are spanking-related.

In addition to my fairly casual approach to guarding my electronic spanking trail, if anyone looked in my bedroom or office closet, they'd find spanking instruments or spanking-related material, and I have a package of old Disciplinary Wives Club videos that I received from one of the co-founders.

So, it wouldn't be hard to find myself "outed" if someone did get a look at my computer or my personal space at home. If that were to happen, at this point I think I would just own up to it and shrug it off. That is a big change from when we started 20+ years ago. Back then, I was very paranoid about anyone learning about this aspect of our relationship. I kept all our spanking instruments, and anything else that was kinky in nature, in a locked trunk, and I did things like posting to my blog only from the Tor browser. Honestly, it was overkill, and I'm at an age where being "outed" would have no impact on anything important, so why worry about it?

 

Jack: The only devise that has such picture is my wife/mommy phone. She has a picture of me facing the wall, with a well spanked bottom. She said she has the picture to remind me to behave and she has shown a few close friends and of course her Mother. To me it is a continuation of the punishment for being naughty, knowing others have seen and worse knowing that my wife/mommy wears the pants in the family.

 

Rosco: Most of my salacious browsing etc. is on my iPad. No one else uses it, but I do usually clear history etc before visiting my kids and older grandchildren. I have a few telling files that are unlikely to be accidentally found.

I have a few things I’ve written on my computer but again they are in folder that nobody would likely stumble onto.

I did get a virus a few years ago and told the tech guy that I’d gotten it at an adult site. I wasn’t embarrassed and figure that happens often.

Again, it’s my kids and grandchildren that I worry about in this regard.

My wife Irene has her own different ways of finding titillation on the internet.

 

Roz: To be honest, I don't do anything above what I do to protect anything anything else. Password and pin protection on my phone and tablet. There is very little chance of anyone else accessing my devices. If anyone should however stumble across something I really don't know what I would say.

 

Red: My computer is password protected, and I rarely have it on when people are in the house. I always watch it turn in sleep mode so a password is needed to get in. The spanking information I have on the computer are buried deep within folders,but now Internet Explorer keeps bringing up files you saved recently. As I am the one that is spanked, I have less fear of us being outed in any way by my computer.

 

Prefectdt: I cannot say that I am too bothered about people seeing the stuff on my computer. I came out years ago and only one person, in my vanilla circle, believed me. Apparently I am not the type. So if any adult saw my stuff, it might help me to be believed. I would not want any children seeing what is on my computer, but there are two codes to keep them out.

 

Wendel: We have one computer that is used for spanking related stuff and nothing else. Personal business, regular surfing and such is done on other computers. The hard drive is encrypted and cannot be accessed if taken out of the computer. The screen locks after 30 seconds of inactivity so there is little chance of anyone seeing anything. 

 

Robert: My wife and I live alone and our computers never leave the house, so we're okay with that. But it's probably important to share that I can only visit sites, blogs, and the like which my wife has pre-approved. When I discovered this one, for example, I immediately sent her the link and asked if I could please visit here regularly. She read it over and, obviously, gave me a thumbs up.

She will look through my browser every week or so (I'm not allowed to clear memory unless I've been banking) and if there's a naughty site I've not been given permission to see, down go my pants/panties and out comes the paddle.

 

Hermione: Like Dan, I am less concerned about being outed now than I was years ago when I was working in an office. We use a desktop computer for our daily activities, and I keep a separate browser just for blogging. Since it's only the two of us, it is not password protected. Our grandchildren are not allowed in the room where it resides. I also have spanking sites on my iPad, which I put away if we have visitors.

 

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #652

It's the weekend, and that means it's time for another spanko brunch. When something goes wrong with our computer or laptop, I do everything possible to fix the problem myself. I never like the thought of taking it to a professional who, while fixing the issue, would also be able to see what I have been up to and find out about my spanking interests. That brings us to today's topic.

What steps do you take to ensure that your computer, tablet or phone is safe from the prying eyes of people who shouldn't find out about your interest in spanking?  What would you say if someone accidentally saw your blog or looked at your browser history? Would you make a joke, deny any knowledge, or tell the truth and explain?

Leave your reply as a comment and I will publish a summary of your thoughts once everyone has had a chance to contribute.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 12

Do you have any school-related fantasies to share with us?

Bonnie: Randy and I have played many frustrated teacher / naughty student corporal punishment scenarios. A slow, deliberate sequence of paddle swats delivered while I am bent over and grabbing the desk always improves my attentiveness. At least for a while.

Graham: Indeed, bending over for many swats from a female teacher is a recurring fantasy. Either with a paddle having holes or pants down for a caning. Almost instant erection, if you'll forgive my frankness.

Roz: Never had the experience IRL but it has been the subject of some fantasies and the occasional role play.

Red: Was a fantasy of mine with a beautiful elementary school teacher. Cannot remember what grade but one of the upper elementary school years. Played right into the fantasy of being spanked and then more, that I had read earlier as a youth. She had red hair, was tall, and had a beautiful face and body. I still remember her name, but that is not something to post. 

KDPierre: My story "The Raffle" (at the LSF then search for my name in Authors)) deals precisely with this. It is a fantasy story based around a very real teacher I had and my thoughts about her.

Jean Marie: I dated a college professor years ago (not a teacher of mine) who came home at the end of a semester saying that a female student had come to his office during conference times to say, "I'm failing, Is there any earthly, physical way I can pass your course?" He thought that she was offering sex, but he just told her that it was too late, her grade was so low that even a 100% on the final couldn't help her. Later that night, I came to bed role-playing that student, saying that exact phrase, "Is there any earthly, physical way you can pass me?" He spanked me for my lack of efforts and fucked me in a variety of ways as quid pro quo. We used that phrase throughout the rest of our relationship as a way of introducing strict teacher/errant student role-play, a scenario I LOVE! 

Rosco: Other than my powerful fantasy inspired by Miss Johnston as I described in response to the picture Hermione posted a few days ago, none of my teachers provided both the requisite attractiveness and authority - though I’ve tried.

With Irene, almost all of our activities involve role play and she is very often the teacher. Frequently girls in the class have reported on my misbehavior. Irene has strict rules under various pseudonyms and is not afraid to enforce them. Sometimes she invites the girls to watch a spanking or to observe my corner time.      

Dan: Where I grew up, teachers giving spankings was an all-too-common reality, not a fantasy!

When I was in high school, I did have crushes on teachers, including one that developed into something bordering on an inappropriate relationship. But, while I was developing a thing for older, in-charge women, I didn't connect the dots, and I wasn't into spanking at that time. I had a friend whose mother was a teacher and an incredibly hot one. We all had crushes on her. She was quick to discipline my friend. It was always with grounding, not spanking, but she was very strict about it. If he was grounded for a week, she wouldn't budge by even an hour. Although I sometimes felt bad for him, something about her strictness and resolve was attractive even back then. Now that I'm older and HAVE connected the dots between my thing for older female authority figures and my disciplinary spanking scenes, I definitely fantasize about either of those real-life teachers putting me over their respective knees. 

Prefectdt: When I first started consensual, adult spanking, I very often donned my old, but genuine school uniform, to be corrected by a strict Ms. In my pre-play days, a lot of my fantasies were school based, but never college or university based. I no longer fantasize about that sort of thing now, the age play thing gives me a bit of an “ICK” feeling now. I suppose your mentality changes as you age.

A.J.: 9th grade. Wonderful social studies teacher. But if central casting ever got a call for a 40-something female teacher who looks like she's capable and willing to take a deserving bad boy OTK - that was her!

But my fantasy was a 4-way! Ms. Social Studies addressing the failures of myself and two cute classmates, a blonde and brunette on whom I had severe crushes. Two fantasy scenes:
1. We are all spanked together, same time, cheek-cheek, on bare bottoms.
2. They were the guilty ones, but I volunteer to take their spanking for them that they observe, thus making me a gallant knight.

In each fantasy, they are soooooo appreciative of my gallantry they "reward" me (if-you-know-what-I-mean-and-I-think-you-do.)

Because THAT is how 15-year old boys think!!!

KDPierre: To keep the discussion going, I wanted to observe that there is a definite difference between a "student/teacher fantasy" and a fantasy about a particular real-life student or teacher. And, even with the real-life teacher, there is a huge difference between having a kinky fantasy based on a crush of devotion, and a kinky fantasy triggered by something else. I was wondering if any of those with a real-life inspiration, held that fantasy while not particularly 'liking' the teacher in it?

Rosco: I’d say yes. I didn’t particularly like my literature TA - I was always frustrated by those who expected us to write about deep insights from books.

Many of my other fantasies are being spanked by girls that were not particularly friendly to me - rather arrogantly so, and I thus didn’t like them much.

Robert: Ah, memories of Ms. King, who taught Music Appreciation when I was a freshman in college 55 years ago. Who can forget how she'd use her cello to teach us basic theory. I'd sit close, hoping to catch a glimpse of her panties when she'd get into position. I wasn't as into spanking then as I am now, but the idea that she'd catch me trying to peek up her skirt and call me to her office... well, you can just imagine how sorry I'd be standing in the corner with a red bottom while she played the cello! 

Hermione: In grade seven, I had my first male teacher (aside from two student teachers and the weekly music teacher) who taught us science each day. He was a large, well-built man probably in his thirties. During one class, he admonished us that if we did not turn in our assignment on time, "I will spank." Yes, those were his exact words. I squirmed in my seat. It wasn't the only time either. A week later, he said to another student something to the effect of, "And if you are late, what will I do, Ann?" Ann replied quickly, with a smile, "Spank." "That's right." Phew! Those encounters fed fantasies for the rest of the year.

In grade eleven, our male algebra teacher called on me to supply the answer to an equation he had written on the blackboard. He was probably in his sixties, quite a formidable figure who called us all by our surnames. I gave him an answer, but it was the wrong one. He turned to me and said, "[Surname], sometimes I want to spank you." I'm sure I blushed and wanted to crawl under my desk. For days after, I replayed the scene in my mind, with various endings involving rulers and corners.

Spankings didn't really happen at school, but boys would get the strap across their hands from the principal, or the ruler on their hands from a teacher. Girls got lines and detentions. 

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #651

A couple of days ago I posted an image of a magazine cover featuring a poor student receiving a spanking from her stern professor. Our good friend Rosco left a comment that inspired this week's topic.

Have you ever had a spanking fantasy involving a teacher, professor or student? What about a real-life encounter with one of them, dare I ask?

Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion after everyone has had a chance to contribute. Everyone is welcome at our weekly discussion time, so I hope you will all join in. You may remain anonymous if you wish.

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Back to College

I first saw this picture when I was still at university. I was off for the summer and didn't have a job, so my upstairs neighbour lent me his collection of National Lampoon magazines to pass the time. I was a fan of MAD magazine, so I gladly accepted his offer. I was pleasantly surprised, although i confess I was shocked from time to time. National Lampoon is somewhat like MAD, but much edgier.

Then I found the issue with the above cover. OMG! Really? I was so tempted to keep it, to neglect to return it along with the rest of the issues. Surely the lender wouldn't miss it. 

But maybe he would. So I drooled over the cover for several days, then finally returned it, along  with its fellows. Now, thanks to the miracle of the internet, I can enjoy it whenever I like, and you can too. 

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 5

What about wet spankings? Read on:

Bonnie: Yes, we do sometimes. Yes, wet spankings definitely hurt more than dry. Some sessions might be planned in advance, but not by me. More often than not, I think it’s spontaneous. We have a spray bottle that is used to dissuade a cat from causing trouble. Occasionally, when I am over Randy’s lap getting a spanking, he will turn the spritz on me..

At least once, he decided that the ideal implement for a wet spanking was a solid wooden bath brush. He gave me something to think about for a long while afterward.

I don’t encourage this technique, but neither do I resist it. My motto is “Spankings Happen.”

Jack:  Wet spankings hurt the most and knowing you're getting a spanking is just adding to the punishment.

Wendel: Getting spanked in the rain is exciting. It is always fun breaking out the paddle on a hike in the rain. The Misses’ wet bare bottom turning red is quite the turn on. Since the nearest neighbor to our home in Ireland is about ½ mile away the Misses will take me outside on the patio in the rain for a good paddling.
We both agree it stings a lot more when the bottom is wet. 

Roz: Happy belated Canada Day to our Canadian friends and Independence Day to our American friends.

I'm afraid my answer is rather boring. From memory I don't think we have ever had a wet spanking. If anything maybe just after a shower.

Red: No wet spankings have occurred.

Mija: I've only had a few - mostly during or getting out of baths. MO, yes they sting more. In fantasies, I do always imagine them around swimming pools.

CEM: Yes, sometimes. Her, right out of the shower/bath. 

Prefectdt: My planned, wet flogging with my chamois leather flogger got aborted after one very messy stroke. Perhaps one day, if a suitable venue can be found. I have had some genuine, but rare, punishment spankings, involving tight-fitting boxer type undercrackers that have been soaked around the buttock area, not the front. These do make the strokes more painful and have the effect of having strokes delivered very hard, without breaking the skin, which had a good chance of happening if the punishment had been delivered to a bare bottom.

A.J.: From either side of the lap - no. Never happened. God, I’m boring.

Anon: Yes! If my wife needs to apply a really significant punishment --- wants to make sure I REALLY get the message!

She'll order me to kneel on a towel at the side of our bathtub, the bend over the rim and place my forearms and head down in the tub, with my butt raised high, waiting for her.

She'll fill a bucket with cold water and a good measure of dish-soap to break the surface tension, then sponge-down my butt and back of thighs.

Finally, she'll go to work with her rubber tawse. It's everything I can do to stay quiet and maintain position.  Mostly staying quiet, as bent of the rub-rim like that, I have almost no leverage to raise myself back up; she can easily hold me down with one hand while working the tawse with her other arm.

In my experience, a wet rubber strapping is comparable to the worst possible caning; almost as bad as being butt-thrashed shortly after sexual release/relief. (I don't EVEN want to think what a wet rubber strapping WITH sexual release would be like!) 

Hermione: We have a spritz bottle in the bedroom, and Ron likes to spray my spanked bottom to indicate the spanking is over. But it's never used beforehand, so I must say I haven't had a wet bottom spanking. 

Robert: I've gotten a couple of wet spankings, neither planned but, as you not, just happened because I was getting out of the shower. Yes, it hurts more than a dry spanking.
Each time it was because I was in the shower when she learned that I'd failed to complete one of my morning chores such as putting out her lingerie, making the bed, and the like. Rather than let it wait, as soon as I came out she had me bend over, gave me about five or six with her hairbrush, and told me to get dressed and do what I should have done.
Do I recommend it? Well, I do if it works for you!

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #650

Welcome back to another weekend spanko brunch, when we get together to discuss all things spanking. First of all, I want to wish all my Canadian friends a belated Happy Canada Day. To all my American readers, Happy Independence Day.

This is a topic that has been addressed a few times in the past, but in view of the hot weather, it might be nice to cool off.

Do you ever have wet spankings? Is it true for you that they hurt more? Is it planned in advance, or is it the unintentional result of a bath, shower, or swim? Is it something you encourage or do you try to avoid it?

Leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of our discussion.

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