We've all come through another busy week and now it's time to relax. Last week we discussed helpful tips on wielding a cane.
Do you have similar tips, perhaps more “impactful”, on how and where to spank the most sensitive areas? Are these reserved for special spankings?
Please leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of your helpful hints. Thank you, Barrel, for suggesting this follow-up topic.
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I never would have predicted it, but Irene spanks my balls and I like it. Obviously a little discretion on the implement and intensity is necessary. Once in a while she’s a little too enthusiastic but there've been no lasting physical or emotional scars.
What comes to mind when it comes to sensitive areas is be careful and deliberate with your aim and watch the intensity.
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Roz
We do, which prompted the question. There is an area just above the crease at the bottom of the buttocks and on either side of the vertical separation between the cheeks. Extending out 2" (5cm for those of you using metric) from that intersection, we call the golden triangle. I find it the most sensitive area my wife spanks. We have a small, blue slapper that works well in those tight quarters. But when I am bent over and restrained, my wife likes to try to land the tips of the xh tawse in the golden triangle. I wear a protective cup for obvious reasons. When she is successful, I find it...memorable.
I just bought an 18" (45cm) cane that is 1/4" (6.35mm) in diameter for use when we travel, as we have a cruise planned next year. It fits in our carry-on roller bags and is relatively quiet when applied. While she is still practicing with it, she finds it easy to land in intimate areas.
The classic "sit spots" do it for me. I've also had my hands tawsed and my erection flogged, both of which I quite enjoyed but wouldn't classify as spanking.
The sit spot for us.
When my husband smacks me with a serious implement, it's all sensitive. Striking my bits is an absolute hard limit. We're not into torture. There's plenty of available skin back there for him to punish.
His favorite spots to spank are the under curves of my bottom. He wants to make sure that it hurts every time I sit. Believe me. It hurts. He often works over the tops of my thighs in back for the same reason. I have less padding there which makes this technique worse than swats on my butt.
He has one cruel practice that I dread. My bottom is pretty tough thanks to our regular sessions with the paddle. But there are places where he can lay down vivid marks and bruises with relatively little effort. When he decides I am a particularly bad girl, my love spreads my cheeks and beats my inner surfaces repeatedly using the solid wooden hairbrush. This kind of punishment stays with me long after the spanking is over.
I once was an uptight, Bottom, Thighs only Spanko. But after many years of compromising, with more mainstream BDSMers, I have some limited experience with CBT, I can only recommend that the fleshier part of the thigh and not the actual knee is used when “putting the knee in”. And that kicking only happens with the middle part of the foot and not the toe.
Prefectdt
Weighing in for the second time, I haven’t delivered a spanking since the Carter Administration. My wife Irene is all to happy to do the spanking in our relationship. It’s worked out wonderfully.
I did deliver 3 spankings, a few minutes apart one evening at a time when I had never even made out with a girl (we did so afterwards). We were on the beach at night and had wandered away from the others.
We began to wrestle playfully. At one point I turned her over in what we call the diaper position (to keep her face out of the sand) and slapped her bottom a few times. I stopped only because I didn’t want to be accused of being weird.
But she seemed to like it, and a few minutes later I did it again. The third time, I slapped either cheek several times then went for a spot in-between and little lower down. I didn’t smack hard, but she was wearing a onesie with loose short pants that had ridden up so the whole thing was quite a thrill for me - and I think for her as well.
Making out ensued, as well as third base at her behest.
God, I'm such a wimp.
I read Ronnie's treatise on caning. And what hit me (Was that a pun???) was understanding what a caning is, the types of canes, the length of canes, practicing on objects before you dare use one, the tip speed, warnings on the target areas. Whew! That's a lot of work! That I don't want to do. And Mark's line: "instant clarity of pain," pretty much said "No" to me.
Side note: Many years ago I met this woman for the first time for some strictly OTK fun. Talked to her for almost two hours she was so fascinating! Took me on a tour of her place before the main event. Along a wall were hung many of her "tools of the trade." And at the end - a bullwhip! A fer-real bullwhip!
"You use that?"
"It's rare, but yes. I charge a lot more. And need a couple weeks to prepare."
"Why?"
"Because I use it so rarely and the damage it can deal out is so great I have to practice for hours over several days in advance, before the appointment."
I passed.
And I'm still not interested in caning. But, maybe a future brunch question for Hermione....?
If your partner wants to feel the cane, and you don't want to do it and, quoting Ronnie: "No-one should receive a hard caning from someone who doesn't know what they're doing," would you take him/her to a pro who does? A birthday present!
On the reverse: "If YOU were offered that, would you accept that offer and go?"
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Prefectdt
Fear not, Prefectdt. I rescued it from the Spam folder.
Thank you :)
Prefectdt
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