Tuesday, August 11, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for August 9

What do you do if your spanking partner is away?

Bonnie: We’ve been fortunate to not have that problem, at least not for an extended time. Even when Randy was sick, he could still swing a light implement.

Robert: Recently, my wife was away for a "Girl's Weekend," including the day I usually receive my maintenance spanking. She isn't interested in me spanking myself, but she did have some "maintenance" tasks to remind me she's in charge even when away.
For example, I have one pair of nylon panties that are two sizes too small, usually worn on days when I'm to be spanked later. However, in this case, the first full day she was away, I was to wear those panties...uncomfortable all day, but a nice remind.
Other days, I was assigned corner time. It's odd standing in the house all by myself, pants and panties at my ankles for ten minutes, but it's what you do when your wife tells you to do so.
She made up for lost time when she got home and I went to bed with a VERY red bottom.

Wendel: Luckily the Misses has a job that is fully remote. If I leave for a project she will tag along. If I am only going only for a day or two and she does not join I will paddle or whip her bottom good so she has something to remember me by. 

When the Misses goes on a girls' night out excursion she is usually back the follow evening. Before leaving the Misses will give me a rather sound paddling to ensure I behave while she is away.

CEM: I just put everything for the future into the...spank bank. 😁
Sorry, couldn't resist. 😬

Roz: We have had occasions back in the day where we have been apart for a period of time. Regular communication which includes phrases like "you will" or "I want you to" help alongside regular checking in. In regards to spanking alternatives, things like chores, corner time (bleah lol), set bedtime. Of course these can be used whether together or apart.

Ronnie: P hasn’t been away for a long period so not had that problem. 

Rosco: We’re in the midst of a bit of a drought right now. Neither of us is away, but there are numerous distractions and anomalies in our schedules.

When Irene was away and I was missing the attention, I got into bed, pulled a pair of her panties over my face and listened to a Missjenndavis podcast as I drifted off into a nap.

Irene will be eager to reengage when we have an opportunity but that might not be for another 10 days - unless we find time this afternoon. Absence does my the heart grow fonder!

Red: Fortunately, we have almost never had extended periods apart from each other. More than 50 years of seeing each other almost every day. No wonder I need to be spanked at times. 

Prefectdt: My partner is never here, because I do not have one. However, there are often times when I cannot get spanked. During these times, self spanking, with various implements, does help me keep my rear end in condition, but is not at all satisfying. There is an EMS/TENS unit that I have found can give me a half hour electronic spanking, and that helps to keep me in mental balance.   

Hermione: Like others, we are together every day, and neither of us is away overnight, so there is no need to go without spankings.



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Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, August 9, 2026

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #655

Welcome to our weekly spanko brunch. Today's topic was inspired by a message from a regular reader. Their question is one that many of us have struggled with from time to time, and they would like some suggestions from you on how to handle it.

How do you cope when your partner is away for extended periods? What substitutes for spanking do you use? How do you keep up domestic discipline, if that is part of your lifestyle?

Leave your reply as a comment and I will publish your suggestions once everyone has had a chance to contribute.

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Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, August 3, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for August 2

What is the longest time you have been without spanking?

Bonnie: Randy didn’t want to spank me when I was pregnant. He was worried for the safety of our baby. I got that concern, but I was less certain. There were zero spankings for many months. I can’t remember a time when I needed it more.

Even after our daughter was born, I had to convince him that beating my bottom would not affect my breast milk. In any case, the baby was fine and she now has her own college-age daughter.

Jack: I had messed up at a visit to a friend, we got home late, I knew what was to come, but my wife/mommy said nothing. The next morning I got up after she did, and took a shower. As I was stepping out of the shower she stood there, pointed to the front room, I had dried off and naked went to the front room. I was told to stand, and wait. It was a half hour and finally she took me over her lap and the bath brush was applied hard and fast. This is the longest time I can recall.  

Wendel: We both got the flu that lasted a week and 3 more days before we really felt good again. It was the longest we ever went without spanking each other. 

Donn: Well, so far I think I hold the record for longest period:

Discontinuation: Junior High School football coach was last person to swing a paddle for many years. That was back in 1972.

Resumption: My current wife was the next person, with one of her rubber straps. That was back in 2004.

I think that makes 32 years! (That's a "record" I never again want to come anywhere meeting!)
  

Why so long?

Basically, I don't thing I'm really a "spanko." I don't have a spanking "kink" or "fetish."

I do, most certainly, have an empowered female fetish. I've know that for many years since roughly Junior High School. However, it was always felt and express in non-spanking ways.

Back in roughly 2002 I discovered the Disciplinary Wives Club website, which supercharged my  empowered female urges, and linked them to reality, with "Good Old-Fashioned Discipline" and all the accoutrements (mostly spanking and butt thrashing); so easy -- so natural - SO REAL!
 

Roz: When we had a dd dynamic back in the day we used to have weekly maintenance so there was that anticipation every week. There were also a few occasions a spanking was 'due' but Rick was away so there may have been a wait of just over a week.

Prefectdt: It was back in the 90s, I gave up for nearly four years. The reason? I mistakenly thought that I could choose to be or not to be a spanko, and it was time to stop this childish thing. I was wrong. It was upon some heavily dropped hints from a psychologist that I ended up seeing on a regular basis, I took up getting spanked again and all became better.
  
A.J.: Twenty (20!) years? From the time I first knew spanking fascinated me as a young lad to the time my GF tricked me into spanking her. Does that count?

(Why? Because I believed that anyone who took pleasure in 'hitting' a woman was a perversion worthy of prison.)

Reversing laps...a year?
 
Dan: It's probably the period I'm in right now, in which it's been over three months; probably more like four at this point. It was the result of an injury that's going to take a while to heal. We had another period, two years ago, in which we went about three months. That too was medically related.
 
Red: Never really kept track of time between spankings. Spankings in the past usually went in spurts of two or three weeks without and then maybe three in the space of a week. We are now doing more often regularly, and if I feel stressed, I ask to be spanked. We are about to try twice a week to see how that works out. 
 
I am spanked while on vacation, and we do not worry of how thin the cabin walls on a cruise ship, nor in a hotel or airbnb. We will never meet the people again that are the opposite side of the wall. However, we do put music on to muffle the sound a bit, but our love-making creating an orgasm is much louder, and we do not muffle them. Neighbors can choose which they like best! 
 
Rosco: Irene has been spanking me consistently since 1980. The longest break during that time has probably been 3 weeks or so due to travel, houseguests etc. when the kids were growing up I came home for lunch, spankings and more.

Before 1980, the only successful spanking was in 1969 which I administered just prior to my first French kiss.
 
Fondles: I think we're down to maybe a handful of spankings a year now. It's hard when there are people in the house! Those waffles looked delicious! (It's the other thing I'm weak for besides scones!)      

Hermione: The longest we have gone without spanking is 18 months. We adopted a rescue dog who hadn't been crated in years and objected to being incarcerated while we were still obviously in the house and he was missing all the fun. He made such a fuss that we eliminated spanking from our bedroom activities until Ron got access to an apartment after a family member had vacated it. We enjoyed spanking for three Sundays in a row, realized how much we had missed it, then resolved to either put up with the dog's fuss or rent a motel room. By then the dog was used to being crated and didn't make a peep.

More recently, Ron had minor health issues that put spanking on the back burner for three weeks. 



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, August 2, 2026

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #654

I hope everyone's hungry, because the waffles are hot and ready! No waiting for them to cook. And speaking of waiting, that brings us to today's topic.

What is the longest period of time you have waited between spankings? What was the reason for the long delay?

Leave your response as a comment and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, July 30, 2026

Our Friend is Back

Our good friend and blogger Jean Marie is back with a new blog on Substack. Do you call it a blog if it's on Substack? No matter, she's back with many stories about spanking and life.

I hope you will drop in and wish her well. You won't be disappointed. 



Slava Ukraini
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From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, July 28, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 26

Sports and spanking. How do you combine them?

Bonnie: My dear husband has a hundred permutations of the “Oops, you lose, now bend over” game. They all end more or less the same way. Card games, board games, sporting contests, dice, wagers on future events - my poor butt always eventually pays the price.

Now I appreciate a good spanking as much as the next gal, but it doesn’t seem fair that even when I win, l still end up over his lap. He offers to skip the paddle if I win, but that doesn’t seem quite right either. I want him to take me out for a nice dinner or go with me to an arts fair or a bookstore. If he did that, I wouldn’t mind all those spankings.

Wendel: Just like Bonnie we can convert any game into a loser gets spanked game. Big difference is that we spank each other, so the loser really does get the spanking. 

Anon: Ditto. Card games, word games, ping pong, pool, etc.

Rosco: I would probably do this kind of thing, but Irene likes to be spontaneous.

We did play a memorable (suggestive to me) game of ping pong in 1979, having snuck away from our erstwhile partners at a party. We got together 6 months later, and she’s been spanking me ever since.

Roz: There may have been a few light-hearted wagers over the years but it hasn't seriously been part of our spanking activities.     

Prefectdt: Can't really think of any vanilla games that have been played in my spankings. I used to know one pay to play Top who used to incorporate mind games into the play. She had me so confused once that the first thing I did, when I got back in the real world, was to buy a newspaper (pre smartphone era) to find out what day of the week it was. I have never really thought about actual physical games to include during a spanking. Something new to consider. 

KDPierre: We have a set of spank-oriented 'tournament rules' for our occasional private games of 8-ball. Needless to say they are ridiculously slanted in Rosa's favor and result in literally hundreds of smacks being delivered to me over the course of the games and after (depending on how well I play). 

Hermione: Ron is a big football fan, so when his team loses, I get spanked. Of course, when his team wins, I get a celebratory spanking.  

Red: Never incorporated anything with spanking . (no sports, or activities). Guess we are a little bland. 



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From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 26, 2026

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #653


Welcome one and all to our regular weekend spanko brunch. If you are new here, please introduce yourself, and the others will make you feel at home in no time.

I am exceptionally pleased to be hosting brunch today because earlier this week,  our modem gave up the ghost and we were without internet for two days until a new one arrived. Talk about going cold turkey! We each had one game on our iPads that didn't require a connection, but the rest of the world was cut off to us. It's amazing how many little jobs can be completed around the house to fill in the time not surfing the net. We are back to normal now, and making up for lost time.

The FIFA World Cup was enthusiastically watched my millions around the world, and it inspired today's topic. It was first posed by Bonnie in one of her early brunches, and I think it's worth revisiting.

Do you ever incorporate otherwise vanilla sports or games into your spanking repertoire? If so, please describe how these competitions operate in the context of your relationship. If not, are there other spanking games that you play? Is this something that you would like to try if you haven't already done so?

As always, leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to contribute their thoughts, I will publish a summary of our conversation.



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, July 21, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 19


First of all, I want to thank my readers for their concern regarding the horrendous forest fires here in Canada. Please be assured that we are well away from the actual fires, although the air has been pea soup thick for a couple of days. Unfortunately, a certain president has decided that our fires are a good reason to implement yet more tariffs on all our goods imported by the US. Go figure! Anyway, let's move on.
 
How do you protect your devices from prying eyes?
 
CEM: Someone would have to literally break into my home, and/or hack into my PC to be able to see anything so, I'm not that worried about it. 
 
Dan: I don't do much to secure that kind of material from prying eyes, separate and apart from what I use to protect everything else. My laptop is where I keep almost all such material, and it requires a password or fingerprint access to open.That's really about it. If someone were to get access to my laptop, it would be very easy to stumble on spanking-related material without looking very hard. One browser almost always has tabs open for my blog and the Google mailbox my blogging profile is registered under. There's also a tab open for my Tumblr account, where many of the things I follow are spanking-related.

In addition to my fairly casual approach to guarding my electronic spanking trail, if anyone looked in my bedroom or office closet, they'd find spanking instruments or spanking-related material, and I have a package of old Disciplinary Wives Club videos that I received from one of the co-founders.

So, it wouldn't be hard to find myself "outed" if someone did get a look at my computer or my personal space at home. If that were to happen, at this point I think I would just own up to it and shrug it off. That is a big change from when we started 20+ years ago. Back then, I was very paranoid about anyone learning about this aspect of our relationship. I kept all our spanking instruments, and anything else that was kinky in nature, in a locked trunk, and I did things like posting to my blog only from the Tor browser. Honestly, it was overkill, and I'm at an age where being "outed" would have no impact on anything important, so why worry about it?
 
Jack: The only devise that has such picture is my wife/mommy phone. She has a picture of me facing the wall, with a well spanked bottom. She said she has the picture to remind me to behave and she has shown a few close friends and of course her Mother. To me it is a continuation of the punishment for being naughty, knowing others have seen and worse knowing that my wife/mommy wears the pants in the family.
 
Rosco: Most of my salacious browsing etc. is on my iPad. No one else uses it, but I do usually clear history etc before visiting my kids and older grandchildren. I have a few telling files that are unlikely to be accidentally found.

I have a few things I’ve written on my computer but again they are in folder that nobody would likely stumble onto.

I did get a virus a few years ago and told the tech guy that I’d gotten it at an adult site. I wasn’t embarrassed and figure that happens often.

Again, it’s my kids and grandchildren that I worry about in this regard.

My wife Irene has her own different ways of finding titillation on the internet.
 
Roz: To be honest, I don't do anything above what I do to protect anything anything else. Password and pin protection on my phone and tablet. There is very little chance of anyone else accessing my devices. If anyone should however stumble across something I really don't know what I would say.
 
Red: My computer is password protected, and I rarely have it on when people are in the house. I always watch it turn in sleep mode so a password is needed to get in. The spanking information I have on the computer are buried deep within folders,but now Internet Explorer keeps bringing up files you saved recently. As I am the one that is spanked, I have less fear of us being outed in any way by my computer.
 
Prefectdt: I cannot say that I am too bothered about people seeing the stuff on my computer. I came out years ago and only one person, in my vanilla circle, believed me. Apparently I am not the type. So if any adult saw my stuff, it might help me to be believed. I would not want any children seeing what is on my computer, but there are two codes to keep them out.
 
Wendel: We have one computer that is used for spanking related stuff and nothing else. Personal business, regular surfing and such is done on other computers. The hard drive is encrypted and cannot be accessed if taken out of the computer. The screen locks after 30 seconds of inactivity so there is little chance of anyone seeing anything. 
 
Robert: My wife and I live alone and our computers never leave the house, so we're okay with that. But it's probably important to share that I can only visit sites, blogs, and the like which my wife has pre-approved. When I discovered this one, for example, I immediately sent her the link and asked if I could please visit here regularly. She read it over and, obviously, gave me a thumbs up.

She will look through my browser every week or so (I'm not allowed to clear memory unless I've been banking) and if there's a naughty site I've not been given permission to see, down go my pants/panties and out comes the paddle.
 
Hermione: Like Dan, I am less concerned about being outed now than I was years ago when I was working in an office. We use a desktop computer for our daily activities, and I keep a separate browser just for blogging. Since it's only the two of us, it is not password protected. Our grandchildren are not allowed in the room where it resides. I also have spanking sites on my iPad, which I put away if we have visitors.
 
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Sunday, July 19, 2026

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #652

It's the weekend, and that means it's time for another spanko brunch. When something goes wrong with our computer or laptop, I do everything possible to fix the problem myself. I never like the thought of taking it to a professional who, while fixing the issue, would also be able to see what I have been up to and find out about my spanking interests. That brings us to today's topic.

What steps do you take to ensure that your computer, tablet or phone is safe from the prying eyes of people who shouldn't find out about your interest in spanking?  What would you say if someone accidentally saw your blog or looked at your browser history? Would you make a joke, deny any knowledge, or tell the truth and explain?

Leave your reply as a comment and I will publish a summary of your thoughts once everyone has had a chance to contribute.



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Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, July 14, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 12

Do you have any school-related fantasies to share with us?

Bonnie: Randy and I have played many frustrated teacher / naughty student corporal punishment scenarios. A slow, deliberate sequence of paddle swats delivered while I am bent over and grabbing the desk always improves my attentiveness. At least for a while.

Graham: Indeed, bending over for many swats from a female teacher is a recurring fantasy. Either with a paddle having holes or pants down for a caning. Almost instant erection, if you'll forgive my frankness.

Roz: Never had the experience IRL but it has been the subject of some fantasies and the occasional role play.

Red: Was a fantasy of mine with a beautiful elementary school teacher. Cannot remember what grade but one of the upper elementary school years. Played right into the fantasy of being spanked and then more, that I had read earlier as a youth. She had red hair, was tall, and had a beautiful face and body. I still remember her name, but that is not something to post. 

KDPierre: My story "The Raffle" (at the LSF then search for my name in Authors)) deals precisely with this. It is a fantasy story based around a very real teacher I had and my thoughts about her.

Jean Marie: I dated a college professor years ago (not a teacher of mine) who came home at the end of a semester saying that a female student had come to his office during conference times to say, "I'm failing, Is there any earthly, physical way I can pass your course?" He thought that she was offering sex, but he just told her that it was too late, her grade was so low that even a 100% on the final couldn't help her. Later that night, I came to bed role-playing that student, saying that exact phrase, "Is there any earthly, physical way you can pass me?" He spanked me for my lack of efforts and fucked me in a variety of ways as quid pro quo. We used that phrase throughout the rest of our relationship as a way of introducing strict teacher/errant student role-play, a scenario I LOVE! 

Rosco: Other than my powerful fantasy inspired by Miss Johnston as I described in response to the picture Hermione posted a few days ago, none of my teachers provided both the requisite attractiveness and authority - though I’ve tried.

With Irene, almost all of our activities involve role play and she is very often the teacher. Frequently girls in the class have reported on my misbehavior. Irene has strict rules under various pseudonyms and is not afraid to enforce them. Sometimes she invites the girls to watch a spanking or to observe my corner time.
      

Dan: Where I grew up, teachers giving spankings was an all-too-common reality, not a fantasy!

When I was in high school, I did have crushes on teachers, including one that developed into something bordering on an inappropriate relationship. But, while I was developing a thing for older, in-charge women, I didn't connect the dots, and I wasn't into spanking at that time. I had a friend whose mother was a teacher and an incredibly hot one. We all had crushes on her. She was quick to discipline my friend. It was always with grounding, not spanking, but she was very strict about it. If he was grounded for a week, she wouldn't budge by even an hour. Although I sometimes felt bad for him, something about her strictness and resolve was attractive even back then. Now that I'm older and HAVE connected the dots between my thing for older female authority figures and my disciplinary spanking scenes, I definitely fantasize about either of those real-life teachers putting me over their respective knees.
 

Prefectdt: When I first started consensual, adult spanking, I very often donned my old, but genuine school uniform, to be corrected by a strict Ms. In my pre-play days, a lot of my fantasies were school based, but never college or university based. I no longer fantasize about that sort of thing now, the age play thing gives me a bit of an “ICK” feeling now. I suppose your mentality changes as you age.

A.J.: 9th grade. Wonderful social studies teacher. But if central casting ever got a call for a 40-something female teacher who looks like she's capable and willing to take a deserving bad boy OTK - that was her!

But my fantasy was a 4-way! Ms. Social Studies addressing the failures of myself and two cute classmates, a blonde and brunette on whom I had severe crushes. Two fantasy scenes:
1. We are all spanked together, same time, cheek-cheek, on bare bottoms.
2. They were the guilty ones, but I volunteer to take their spanking for them that they observe, thus making me a gallant knight.

In each fantasy, they are soooooo appreciative of my gallantry they "reward" me (if-you-know-what-I-mean-and-I-think-you-do.)

Because THAT is how 15-year old boys think!!!

KDPierre: To keep the discussion going, I wanted to observe that there is a definite difference between a "student/teacher fantasy" and a fantasy about a particular real-life student or teacher. And, even with the real-life teacher, there is a huge difference between having a kinky fantasy based on a crush of devotion, and a kinky fantasy triggered by something else. I was wondering if any of those with a real-life inspiration, held that fantasy while not particularly 'liking' the teacher in it?

Rosco: I’d say yes. I didn’t particularly like my literature TA - I was always frustrated by those who expected us to write about deep insights from books.

Many of my other fantasies are being spanked by girls that were not particularly friendly to me - rather arrogantly so, and I thus didn’t like them much.

Robert: Ah, memories of Ms. King, who taught Music Appreciation when I was a freshman in college 55 years ago. Who can forget how she'd use her cello to teach us basic theory. I'd sit close, hoping to catch a glimpse of her panties when she'd get into position. I wasn't as into spanking then as I am now, but the idea that she'd catch me trying to peek up her skirt and call me to her office... well, you can just imagine how sorry I'd be standing in the corner with a red bottom while she played the cello! 

Hermione: In grade seven, I had my first male teacher (aside from two student teachers and the weekly music teacher) who taught us science each day. He was a large, well-built man probably in his thirties. During one class, he admonished us that if we did not turn in our assignment on time, "I will spank." Yes, those were his exact words. I squirmed in my seat. It wasn't the only time either. A week later, he said to another student something to the effect of, "And if you are late, what will I do, Ann?" Ann replied quickly, with a smile, "Spank." "That's right." Phew! Those encounters fed fantasies for the rest of the year.

In grade eleven, our male algebra teacher called on me to supply the answer to an equation he had written on the blackboard. He was probably in his sixties, quite a formidable figure who called us all by our surnames. I gave him an answer, but it was the wrong one. He turned to me and said, "[Surname], sometimes I want to spank you." I'm sure I blushed and wanted to crawl under my desk. For days after, I replayed the scene in my mind, with various endings involving rulers and corners.

Spankings didn't really happen at school, but boys would get the strap across their hands from the principal, or the ruler on their hands from a teacher. Girls got lines and detentions. 



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From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 12, 2026

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #651

A couple of days ago I posted an image of a magazine cover featuring a poor student receiving a spanking from her stern professor. Our good friend Rosco left a comment that inspired this week's topic.

Have you ever had a spanking fantasy involving a teacher, professor or student? What about a real-life encounter with one of them, dare I ask?

Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion after everyone has had a chance to contribute. Everyone is welcome at our weekly discussion time, so I hope you will all join in. You may remain anonymous if you wish.



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From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, July 9, 2026

Back to College

I first saw this picture when I was still at university. I was off for the summer and didn't have a job, so my upstairs neighbour lent me his collection of National Lampoon magazines to pass the time. I was a fan of MAD magazine, so I gladly accepted his offer. I was pleasantly surprised, although i confess I was shocked from time to time. National Lampoon is somewhat like MAD, but much edgier.

Then I found the issue with the above cover. OMG! Really? I was so tempted to keep it, to neglect to return it along with the rest of the issues. Surely the lender wouldn't miss it. 

But maybe he would. So I drooled over the cover for several days, then finally returned it, along  with its fellows. Now, thanks to the miracle of the internet, I can enjoy it whenever I like, and you can too. 



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From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, July 7, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 5

What about wet spankings? Read on:

Bonnie: Yes, we do sometimes. Yes, wet spankings definitely hurt more than dry. Some sessions might be planned in advance, but not by me. More often than not, I think it’s spontaneous. We have a spray bottle that is used to dissuade a cat from causing trouble. Occasionally, when I am over Randy’s lap getting a spanking, he will turn the spritz on me..

At least once, he decided that the ideal implement for a wet spanking was a solid wooden bath brush. He gave me something to think about for a long while afterward.

I don’t encourage this technique, but neither do I resist it. My motto is “Spankings Happen.”

Jack:  Wet spankings hurt the most and knowing you're getting a spanking is just adding to the punishment.

Wendel: Getting spanked in the rain is exciting. It is always fun breaking out the paddle on a hike in the rain. The Misses’ wet bare bottom turning red is quite the turn on. Since the nearest neighbor to our home in Ireland is about ½ mile away the Misses will take me outside on the patio in the rain for a good paddling.
We both agree it stings a lot more when the bottom is wet. 

Roz: Happy belated Canada Day to our Canadian friends and Independence Day to our American friends.

I'm afraid my answer is rather boring. From memory I don't think we have ever had a wet spanking. If anything maybe just after a shower.

Red: No wet spankings have occurred.

Mija: I've only had a few - mostly during or getting out of baths. MO, yes they sting more. In fantasies, I do always imagine them around swimming pools.

CEM: Yes, sometimes. Her, right out of the shower/bath. 

Prefectdt: My planned, wet flogging with my chamois leather flogger got aborted after one very messy stroke. Perhaps one day, if a suitable venue can be found. I have had some genuine, but rare, punishment spankings, involving tight-fitting boxer type undercrackers that have been soaked around the buttock area, not the front. These do make the strokes more painful and have the effect of having strokes delivered very hard, without breaking the skin, which had a good chance of happening if the punishment had been delivered to a bare bottom.

A.J.: From either side of the lap - no. Never happened. God, I’m boring.

Anon: Yes! If my wife needs to apply a really significant punishment --- wants to make sure I REALLY get the message!

She'll order me to kneel on a towel at the side of our bathtub, the bend over the rim and place my forearms and head down in the tub, with my butt raised high, waiting for her.

She'll fill a bucket with cold water and a good measure of dish-soap to break the surface tension, then sponge-down my butt and back of thighs.

Finally, she'll go to work with her rubber tawse. It's everything I can do to stay quiet and maintain position.  Mostly staying quiet, as bent of the rub-rim like that, I have almost no leverage to raise myself back up; she can easily hold me down with one hand while working the tawse with her other arm.

In my experience, a wet rubber strapping is comparable to the worst possible caning; almost as bad as being butt-thrashed shortly after sexual release/relief. (I don't EVEN want to think what a wet rubber strapping WITH sexual release would be like!)
 

Hermione: We have a spritz bottle in the bedroom, and Ron likes to spray my spanked bottom to indicate the spanking is over. But it's never used beforehand, so I must say I haven't had a wet bottom spanking. 

Robert: I've gotten a couple of wet spankings, neither planned but, as you not, just happened because I was getting out of the shower. Yes, it hurts more than a dry spanking.
Each time it was because I was in the shower when she learned that I'd failed to complete one of my morning chores such as putting out her lingerie, making the bed, and the like. Rather than let it wait, as soon as I came out she had me bend over, gave me about five or six with her hairbrush, and told me to get dressed and do what I should have done.
Do I recommend it? Well, I do if it works for you!


Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 5, 2026

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #650

Welcome back to another weekend spanko brunch, when we get together to discuss all things spanking. First of all, I want to wish all my Canadian friends a belated Happy Canada Day. To all my American readers, Happy Independence Day.

This is a topic that has been addressed a few times in the past, but in view of the hot weather, it might be nice to cool off.

Do you ever have wet spankings? Is it true for you that they hurt more? Is it planned in advance, or is it the unintentional result of a bath, shower, or swim? Is it something you encourage or do you try to avoid it?

Leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of our discussion.



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, June 30, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for June 28

Mirrors in your spankings? Let's see.

Bonnie: Yes. Here’s an episode with mirrors that I logged twenty years ago this week.

Since then, my dear Randy has gone digital. He has video recording equipment that can be set up to stream to my tablet in real time. He enjoys this sort of fun a bit more than I do. But who am I to interfere?

I still frequently employ our mirrors to survey the damage my bottom has absorbed immediately after he spanks me.
 

Wendel: No mirrors here. Everything left to the imagination during and surprise after the spanking.

Rosco: At our new house there’s a sliding glass door mirror, so I’ve watched Irene spank me on occasion. More to the point, she’ll often instruct me to look at my hot bottom after a spanking as she teases and mocks me - all in great fun.

Roz: No mirrors during a spanking but I usually take the opportunity to use the mirror afterwards to check out the evidence 😊

Norse Cavalier: I've wanted to spank a woman in front of a mirror so that she can see her own face during the spanking, as I've told it makes it extra embarrassing for them, but haven't had a chance to actually do it yet. One more for the list of "If I ever have the opportunity..."

A.J.: We have all seen pics and clips (mostly) of the face of someone being spanked, but I can't recall where the spankee got to see her own face.

It was a British media photo I found while recently cleaning up my computer; a lovely thing bent over a stool as she is corrected in the timeless fashion.
Nothing special or unusual - until I noticed the LARGE (guessing 18x18") mirror on the floor. She could see HER FACE as she was spanked! And I had never heard or even thought of that! A mirror against a wall or a mirrored door so the victim can witness their spanking, sure (Never did that either.) But flat on the floor?

The owner of that spanked tush could see her (his) own facial reaction to each spank for the duration. Not an every-time thing; but the occasional, "Go get the mirror" might be a bit of fun.

I don't know if this is physically possible, but it also has the advantage of the spanker able to look at the poor victims face as he spanks, better able to judge limits and effects.

Anyone want to try it out and let us know?

Donn: AJ: Read my own description below of how my wife sometimes sets me up. It seems pretty close to what you describe, excepts the mirror is usually angled enough so that I can see my wife's face -- angled too much to see my own face, but my wife can certainly see it!

Yes, we sometimes use a mirror, most commonly when I'm restrained.

It's positioned so that when I'm being thrashed I can look in the mirror and observe my wife behind me -- her face, and her demeanor. She's usually has a very "serious" and "determined" expression! Of course, with that position, she can easily see my face while she works-over my butt -- she's never told me what my face looks like, but I suspect she uses my expressions to guide her thrashing and intensity.

Sometimes my wife will also place me into the "diaper position," with my arms/hands tied wide to either side of me, and my legs/ankles pulled high-and-back. She'll stand near my waist, lecturing and scolding me as she thrashes down on my butt. (If it didn't hurt so much, and was so effective, us watching each other like that would be quite arousing [maybe she does get aroused -- she certainly can work up a sweat!].)
 

Red: Remember once in our hotel their was a mirror, but barely looked at it, because my head is usually downward OTK, and thus not easy to see. Plus, rather distracted by the spanking than trying to watch it. The idea of a mirror on the ground is quite a unique thought. We might try that. I am always instructted to look at my spanked bottom in a mirror after the spanking. 

Prefectdt: A lot of pay to play spankings that I have experienced have taken place in rooms with multiple mirrors. Sometimes so many that the only way of not looking at one was to close my eyes.  

Jack: No mirror, but one time my mother-in-law took a short video of my wife/mommy spanking me and making comments how I was acting like a little boy. I was kicking, squirming, pleading with Mommy to stop. She still has it and every once in awhile I have been told by my wife/mommy she shows it to some of her friends. The best part is me facing the wall with my spanked bottom on display.

Barrel: We have never used a mirror but I love the idea, especially when we do a session. I commonly try to look over my shoulder to see what implement is coming next...not sure why because I have a pretty good guess after the first stroke. But I really like the comment about watching my wife's facial expressions. Not sure how that works in otk, but I'm up for trying it.  

Hermione: There is a mirror in the bedroom positioned behind me as I'm benr over the bed. I can't see my tush in it without turning around, so maybe I should invest in a large hand-held mirror so I can see my reflection in the other mirror. 
    

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, June 28, 2026

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #649

Welcome to our weekly discussion time. Today I have an exciting topic suggested by our good friend A.J. I hadn't thought of this before, so I wonder what your observations will be.

Have you ever used a mirror during a spanking? If so, is it placed so that the spankee's bottom is visible to them? What about placing the mirror so that the spankee can watch their face? If you haven't tried this, does it give you any ideas?

Please leave your reply as a comment. When everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of our discussion. 

 



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, June 25, 2026

Look Who's Back

 

I have some great news for you. After a well-earned vacation and some world travelling, our very good friend Red is back. His new blog is "Fun Thoughts on The Thing We Do". It's a must read for fans of spanking, and yes, Cindy still wields the paddle very effectively.

Do drop in to read his latest posts and leave a comment. You will receive a warm welcome!



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, June 23, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for June 21

Do you ever engage in age play?

Red: No age play here! Simply a spanking for misbehavior, or relieving stress, or a reminder of how to participate when seeing other couples (talk less, listen more).  

Dan: Not age play per se, but we do talk quite a bit about a "maternal" dynamic, with her disciplining me like a mother a generation or so back might have a misbehaving teen.

CEM: Negative. Never have, never will. 

Roz: We did have a very mild Daddy/lg dynamic for a period years ago. It was never serious and surfaced occasionally. It was never incorporated into spanking.

Jack: The reason I call my wife Mommy is she stated she would not be a Mother to me, but my Mommy, there is a difference she states. Mommy rules the house, and her mother told her males are little boys in adult bodies. I will call her Mommy until told otherwise. 

Anon: In a way, yes, we do. We don't consciously try to act like a child, but we do assume the roles of parental authority figure and the young person under that authority being punished. The purpose of the spanking is to punish for something done growing up that went unpunished at the time. We do not call it age "play" because the crime was actually committed and the consequences are now deserved. We follow rituals that are similar to how we were punished by our parents years ago, so it feels like going back in time to what might have happened if fate had been different. We do not wear costumes per se, but the spanker does dress the part. My wife has a retro-like dress and attire that makes her look matronly, and I wear a suit like her father wore when he got home from work. The important thing is getting into the mindset and making it real. Afterwards, fate has been altered, and we can never again say we got away with that misbehavior.

Rosco: Pretty much every time. We never mention a number but I’m about 14. Irene is anywhere from 14 to 40.

She’ll dress as a sexy little tart, then punish me for looking. Or she might be a teacher, dressed prim and proper, lecturing and spanking me. Or a million other personalities. Sometimes she’ll change her clothes several times over the course of a few hours.

Activities subsequent to discipline take place under her skirt or dress, something that seems to work for me.

Wendel: The Misses bought a school girl costume years ago. If I come home and she is wearing it then we pretend she was bad in school and needs to be spanked.

Prefectdt: Way back in history, when dinosaurs roamed the earth, and I was still a bright and shiny 18-year-old, new to adult spanking, I would very often don my genuine school uniform. Along with my genuine prefect's badge (note my name). I would joy in playing the errant schoolboy in need of disciplining. This ended when my uniform started to wear out, and I was faced with the task of buying replacement clothes. I was in my early 20s by then and decided to leave the school boy thing in the past. If a play partner wants to do an age play related scene, I am happy to play along, but no longer seek age play shenanigans.

A.J.: No. Not a fan of it. And no one ever asked me to. (God, am I dull....)

Does this count...?

I remember once trying to teach a woman I had been spanking to return the favor and spank me. Give/take. Fair's fair, right?

She was terrible!!! I told her to imagine I was a 5th grade bad boy who needed one and she was the adult in the room who was responsible for giving one.

She was terrible. So bad we stopped, I put her otk and delivered her 10 firm one, "Like that." Then switched positions with her.

She was still terrible! She didn't know what spanking a "bad boy" was because she had never given/seen/heard of one! And she was old enough to have teen children!

I gave up.

Hermione: It's not for us. At one time I might have enjoyed the fantasy of an older, stern father figure spanking me, but those days are long gone. Spanking for us is purely for enjoyment.          



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, June 21, 2026

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #648

Welcome back, one and all, to our regular weekly spanko brunch. This weekend is Father's Day in many countries, and that inspired today's topic.

Do you ever engage in age play as part of your spanking experience? That is, does the spanker ever assume the role of a parent or other adult authority figure, and the spankee the role of a young person? If so, does it include special costumes or rituals?

Please leave your reply as a comment. When everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of our discussion.

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, June 18, 2026

Three Word Meme

Our dear friend Ronnie posted this meme last week, and I want to try it too. The answers must have only three words, and that's not as easy as it sounds.

1. Where is your cell phone?  - In my purse

2. Boyfriend/girlfriend? - Ron's the one

3. Hair? - Needs a touchup

4. Your favorite item(s)? - My own iPad

5. Your dream last night? - Shopping in Toronto

6. Your favorite drink? - Earl Grey tea

7. Your dream guy/girl?  - Changes every night

8. The room you are in? - Our computer room

9. Your fear? - Heights and spiders

10. What do you want to be in 10 years? - Able to blog

11. Do you have pictures of your spanked bottom - No way, Jose

12. What's outside your window? - Busy bird feeder

13. One of your wish list items? - German chocolate cake

14. What time is it? - Exactly eight fifteen

15. What are you wearing?  - Tee and leggings

16. Your favorite book?  - Pride and Prejudice

17. The last thing you ate? - steak and mushrooms

18. Your life? - Just fine, thanks

19. Your car? - lovely blue Lexus

20. What are you doing at this moment? - This silly meme

21 Your summer? - Not started yet

22. Travel plans? - Staying at home

23. What is on your TV screen? - MS NOW news

24. Last time you cried? - Can't remember when

25. School? - Had to go

26. Sport at school - Not an athlete

27. Least favourite spanking implement - Hand made switch

28, Who did you hang out with last night - Ron and dogs

29. Favourite colour - Blue, baby, blue

30. Lake or Ocean - Lake (no sharks!)



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Tuesday, June 16, 2026

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for June 14

Broken implements? Read on!

Bonnie: I still love this question. My dear Randy has become more selective when choosing the implements he uses to spank me. I get fewer opportunities to gloat over spanking contest victories. There are several items in our toy box that outlast my bottom every single time.

But it happens. While decluttering our basement, he found a wooden wall hanging that used to be in his mother’s family room. His twisted mind immediately concluded it needed to be a paddle. And so it was, for about ten hard swats. When I heard it split, I burst into giggles. So much for that punishment session and any semblance of seriousness.

I still got spanked after he found a more reliable paddle, but his best efforts did little to mute my amusement.

Roz: I love this question too! We had a novel flogger years ago that slowly deteriorated so we discarded it, along with a novelty crop.

There was an occasion Rick was using a cane for a serious spanking and was giving quite the lecture during when I heard snap. That was it, we were both in fits of laughter. He did recover enough to continue, but, as Bonnie said, the spanking lost any seriousness at that point.

Barrel: Nope, despite thorough use over 30 years. The only evidence of deterioration our toys show are fraying leather at the end of a strap and two riding crops.

CEM: I've broken wood spoons/spatulas, paddles, canes, switches, knocked the tip off a riding crop, so, yes. But, being "dedicated" as I am, I just grabbed some other implement, and carried on.

Wendel: We bought a Mickey Mouse hand spatula in a gift shop when we visited Disney World a few years ago. I gave the Misses a few whacks with it in the hotel room and it broke. We did not have the nerve to bring it back for a refund.
The real implements designed for beating butts have held the test of time. 

Red: We had a leather metal studded paddle that had a heart shaped hole in the middle. It sort of came apart after many years of using, and the spanking ended. We loved that paddle, as Cindy liked using it in the same spot to make a white heart on my red bottom.   

Rosco: Several times, and yes the spanking continued each time. A couple of riding crops have fallen apart, a leather ping pong paddle.

And several hand cut switches of course - they’re not meant to last.

Ronnie: Ha, yes we have had a couple of implements break. Not serious ones. One was a thin paddle (don’t think it was made of wood) that broke in half that made us both laugh. The spanking didn’t carry on.

Prefectdt: More toys have met their end, coming up against my buttocks, than I care to remember. Mostly it has been pervertables. The last one was a spatula, but my bottom is the legendary graveyard of hairbrushes; they seldom stay the course, once the game is on. Several rattan canes have lost their tips encountering my spanked zone, and one shattered once, but it was over 20 years old (I purchased it in the 1980s). I usually laugh when this happens and yes, the spanking always continues, sometimes because I laughed.     

A.J.: “Had an implement break?”

That would be my hand, so no. (Or her hand if laps are flipped.

We avoid using implements preferring the more intimate hand. On rare occasions a LIGHT strap might be used if my/her hand starts to hurt, a strap picked more for its “slap” sound than anything else.

Yes. Boring. Need to get out more.

Graham: A paddle from a curiosity shop broke. Switches wear out, as mentioned above. Nothing else that I can recall. 

KDPierre: Yes, a lucite paddle we had thought was indestructible broke off at the neck. The spanking continued with another, but not without a good laugh in between. Rosa also took a picture of the broken paddle lying on my beaten butt for posterior posterity. Naturally I made her a new one (with an improved design) and that one has been in faithful service ever since.   

Hermione: We have broken several implements, but the funniest time was when Ron used a wooden spoon on my bare bottom. Afterward, we were in the middle of some erotic activity when we heard a loud "Crack". Ron had left the spoon on the bed and he had lain on it and broken it. He said there were plenty more in the kitchen, and we carried on, giggling.

He has also split a hairbrush and broken a rattan carpet beater while spanking me. The spankings didn't stop; he merely switched to a different implement.  



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart