Welcome, dear readers, to our first brunch in spring. I had thought that winter was truly over, but yesterday was spent shovelling out from a last-minute snow dump. The robins must be quite puzzled!
Our good friend Rosco has come up with an excellent, multi-faceted brunch topic, for those of you who fantasize about spanking with someone other that your regular partner.
Is it someone you know, a celebrity or just some mysterious stranger?
Do you imagine a whole scene, including behavior leading up to a spanking, or just the spanking itself?
Is there conversation involved? If so how much and how specific is it?
Does your fantasy take place in a particular place?
Do you try, in your mind, to make it realistic at all? (i.e. not a sexualized activity between consenting adults)
Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary
of our discussion after everyone has had a chance to contribute.
Slava Ukraini
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I have in the past thought about having someone else spank me. When we were actively in a WLM and on occassion my wife would speak to other women around the WLM topic I thought/fantisized about my wife leading/teaching another woman and using me as the spankee to teach the other woman how to truly deliver a spanking.
A dream that I have is dating and the person is not my wife, it is the mother that is a friend of my wife. In this dream the mother has rules for her daughter and one is when to be home, not pass 10pm. We broke this rule several times and arriving late the mother told her daughter to get to her bedroom and wait for her. Young man she said sternly to me, my daughter is going to get a spanking, you can leave anytime or get a spanking. I said nothing, the mother was soon giving her daughter a spanking. The bedroom door was opened and I saw my girlfriend over her mother's lap, her bottom bared and the hairbrush landing hard. I went to the front room, and can not explain, I took off all my clothes and stood there. When the mother saw me, she smiled, saved me some time. Over her lap I went and that hairbrush landed fast and hard and I was soon kicking, pleading. When I woke up the next morning my bottom felt like it had been spanked, my wife looked at me, I said nothing. The dream felt real. Jack
I do not really have a regular partner, but I do fantasize a lot about getting spanked by strong-willed, female characters, that I see on TV or in the movies. So many, that if I told you about them all, this comment would be as long as a book. There have been a lot over the years, the earliest character that I can remember getting a fantasy spanking from was Colonel Wilma Deering, in the 1980s version of Buck Rogers in the 25th Century. Lip gloss, Lycra, a high military rank and she was a space fighter pilot. How could a teenage submissive resist? Most recently I have had Hetty Woodstone, from the American version of Ghosts, playing on my mind. But there must have been hundreds in between. I fantasize about the characters and not the actors who play them. As to details, of the spanking and sexual content in the fantasy, that varies greatly from character to character. And a Gentleman Sub would not go into individual details. :)
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That last comment was from me. I don't know why my identity did not show.
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My wife has a female exercise instructor who has been married several times. She works out with the class, is extremely fit and runs the class like a drill sergeant. Plus she can party like a rock star, having hung out at our house during a Christmas party for the class until midnight, drinking wine. I fantasize about my wife hinting I was a jerk during the week and she had plans to deal with me. The subsequent discussions led to the instructor accompanying my wife home and announcing an immediate session. The rest goes as usual except that the instructor won't back off with the caning and I am punished way past normal. Hmmmm
Those familiar with my old defunct blog may recall my very real conversation with my mother over my lifestyle, and her not just politely accepting it all, but enthusiastically endorsing it! it blew me away and was a very powerful and humbling experience. Unfortunately, this conversation preceded a decline in her health and ultimate passing. I often wonder, given how she reacted to what I told her, what might have transpired between us had she lived longer. I have shared these feelings with both my wife and stepdaughter, and both said they believed that had my mother gone on for several more healthy years, that if the circumstances were right, that she might well have taken me in hand and delivered her own discipline as she had in my very early years. I think I would have liked that very much and truly wish it could have happened.
In subsequent years I wrote a trilogy of a fictionalized take on an adult son coming to his elderly mother for a return to their earlier days of discipline and authority as a kind of therapeutic alternative to this actually happening.
Well, I'm married, and my Wife periodically checks my computer, and knows about your website Hermione -- so, I'd better post this "anonymously!"
My most common fantasy is really imagining what some real women would be like as spankers. It can happen anywhere (grocery store, mall, etc.), but is most common outdoors on the tennis courts or racquetball courts.
I'm a great admirer of the female posterior and legs. Out "on the courts" you'll see a lot, LOT of women with highly developed legs and butts, swinging hard with their rackets. I can't help to imagine what almost every one of these women would be like if she was actually swinging a paddle or strap: Doing her full windup with her torso, swinger it (racket) back, then letting loose with a powerful, full-body stroke and lots of "follow-through!" Over and OVER again!
Considering the percentage of women who spank (one way or another), I always wonder which of these athletes actually take "their game" home to their hubbies!
Most of my fantasies are based on past encounters which, with enough imagination, I’ve turned into detailed fantasies. (I’ve a few fantasies involving celebrities and female tennis players, but these are the exception.)
One example involves running into Susan at a party. I hadn’t seen her in a few years, but had always found her attractive. She was dressed up more than most. Fixed hair, lipstick, black leather boots and a blouse unbuttoned just enough to see a bit of her black lace bra. (This part is all true.)
We spoke briefly but I was distracted by others for all the wrong reasons.
The fantasy begins “You look great, I love your hair, your lipstick and everything you’re wearing from your shiny black boots up to you lacy black bra.
Thank you she replies, but you’re really not supposed to comment on a girl’s lingerie.
I replied I wondered if she was wearing matching panties.
Susan turned stern. You are a naughty boy. You need to learn some manners. I should put you over my knee and give you a spanking.
I asked if that was a threat or a promise.
She said it was a promise and further she promised me that when she was done I wouldn’t be so impudent.
We left the party forthwith.
I’ve constructed conversations like this oodles of times, tweaking them occasionally as time passes. They almost all start with a real encounter with someone I knew but never had any real interaction with.
I’ll add a couple of more fantasies and imagined conversations. I delivered a successful spanking to an eager recipient at a young age (I was more interested in receiving than giving but it’s easier to initiate than to ask). At few years later I was quickly seduced by an older schoolmate who said she’d try “anything” but she quickly shamed me for asking about spanking. I didn’t raise the issue again until I was 23 and had gained a little confidence. Until that time I missed a few opportunities when the subject came up - here are two with the real beginning plus how I could have and should have responded.
On my 20th birthday I was walking home from the bus stop with college friends - Bianca, Margaret and her boyfriend James. Margaret opined they should give me a birthday spanking. James scoffed who’s going to hold him down - obviously not wanting his girlfriend to have any part in the idea. I should have said if Bianca (who was single) wanted to spank me, I wouldn’t resist.
But the most obvious missed opportunity was hooking up with a former casual college girlfriend Mary a year after we graduated. We’d gone to different schools in nearby towns, and enjoyed each other but it had always been sporadic due to the distance. I’d gone to her apartment and was drinking wine with Mary and her roommates Suzanne and Julie. Julie had a short dress on with pink lace pantries and I couldn’t stop looking. Suzanne noticed and announced I needed a spanking. Mary brushed off the idea by saying I’d probably like it. This all happened. I could have responded in a million ways and maybe gotten a real spanking, but I flinched and said nothing. I think about this one all the time even though it’s been almost 50 years.
Thanks to Hermione for posting this question and hosting this blog.
I played a fair amount of tennis during my formative years and had plenty of opportunities to ogle. A couple of courts were elevated a few feet off the ground - during tournaments one could sit in a chair behind the baseline and get great views of firm round bottoms - especially as the received serve.
In my fantasies I am caught for such ogling, and soundly punished. Sometimes it goes beyond a mere spanking.
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