Well, well, a disturbing week, to be sure. However, let's enjoy each other's company and think of happier times. This is a repost of a topic we discussed exactly ten years ago today.
Depending on personal preference, we all enjoy giving and/or receiving
spankings, but there's always room for improvement, right? Would a
change in intensity, frequency, implements, talking or not, location, or
some other adjustment make the experience even more enjoyable for you?
What one thing related to spanking would you like to change? Is this change something that is possible?
Please leave your reply as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance
to speak, I will publish a
summary of our discussion.
Slava Ukraini
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8 comments:
More. That would be my answer and it would be applicable to all questions or relevant topical issues or concerns. More... :)
More frequent overall and a greater emphasis on creating headspace, I'd say. Not role-play, but setting a tone, really focusing, etc. Taking more time - for my husband (who is my primary play partner), it doesn't take as much for him to feel play is complete.
More! The rest is a good blend of everything we enjoy so no changes needed.
Greater opportunities to indulge in spanking.
Hugs
Roz
Considering we are not in a WLM any longer more is definitely a change. Would love to step back into the WLM/DD. Besides that, from the past I would say intensity of strength and time, maybe even implements. But, all of that is scary when it comes down to it.
I would like to get spanked more often. Outside of that, I would like to rely less on travelling and staying away, to get spanked. Finding one or more local spankers would be a big improvement to my play life.
Prefectdt
"intensity," No.
"frequency" a bit more.
"implements", God, no.
I would like to play with more women, though, who think spanking is fun and sexy. And to live (one more time!) having a woman watch as another woman has me otk - and then we all switch! (Oh, yeah; I'm not crazy.)
Spanking is role play for most of us, i.e. we are pretending to engage in discipline (yes, I know, not everybody). Irene and I take it a step further - usually she creates a detailed pretext and often dresses for her part.
So it doesn't work well to simply say can you do this not that or do it harder or here not there etc. - we have those discussions after the fact once in a while. It works well.
But the one thing Irene does not really understand after almost 45 years is the first dozen or so whacks feel very differently that those that come later. She "knows" it, but since she has never been spanked she does not "understand" it. For me the first onslaught hurts like the dickens, then I slip into a euphoria where there is still pain but it is deeply satisfying.
Rosco
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