It's the weekend, and that means it's time for another spanko brunch. This topic is a repost from ten years ago, but it's still relevant today.
Recently I've been thinking about what a diverse community we are. We
all derive different kinds of satisfaction from spanking, and we all
spank for our own personal reasons. So I thought it would be interesting
to compare notes.
What are the three main benefits that you get out of spanking?
Whether you are a spanker, a spankee, or both, I invite you to reply by
leaving a comment. Once everyone has spoken I will publish a summary of
our discussion.
Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine
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11 comments:
It relaxes me like nothing else.
My wife really likes to spank me.
Spankings are usually followed by pussy licking and intercourse.
Spanking for us has led to a deeper connection, greater intimacy and better sex life in general 😊
Hugs
Roz
When we were in our WLM spanking led to greater connection, a clearing of the air/wiping the slate clean, helped us both in understanding our position for me it was submissive and obedient
My wife/mommy spankings are more out of Love she tells me. I tend to get carried away, tend to as she states act more like a naughty little boy. From the day we got married I was told spankings would be a part of our lives and I best do as told and accept. Besides showing her love I feel less stress, less worries. Jack
I agree with Roz only throw in a dash of fun.
Our spankings are exclusively disciplinary. Within that framework, it does help make me better disciplined. I think more about consequences before doing things I know I shouldn't. I grew up without many rules and, while it seemed great at the time, I think it left me more than a little neurotic and in a constant state of heightened vigilance. Being subject to my wife's discipline gives me a sense that there are some guardrails in place and that I don't have to constantly impose them on myself. Finally, I think it has enhanced my view of my wife as a powerful, confident person, which is good for us both.
Stress relief, my wife enjoys wielding various implements and when used for discipline we have a satisfying resolution
Spankings are the way we connect as our true selves. I can be a mouthy brat. So he gets to exercise his right hand across my bottom and flex his Dominating muscles, I get my demons exorcised, get put in my place. When we both agree that I've learned my lesson, we transition to the most intense and truly intimate love-making. His giving and my getting a spanking restores the balance in our relationship, while simultaneously turning us both on like no other form of foreplay. This usually happens every few days, but once, due to circumstances beyond control, we had to go for a week. When we finally did it, he used my hairbrush and his leather belt along with his hand, and I ended up having the most incredible climax of my life.
I like the high, that my body chemicals give me, from most spankings.
The memories and mentally re-living a recent spanking means that a spanking is more than just the fun at the time.
Finally, after I have gotten over the sub drop, I get a few days when I can think so clearly and analyse things a lot better than in a not recently spanked way. If I have a big life decision to make, I always try to get spanked a week before the decision deadline is reached.
Prefectdt
I'm a regular spankee and get the following benefits from being spanked. My wife uses it to discipline me for certain poor behaviour, anticipating or receiving a spanking gives me a heightened sense of being alive (everything is more vibrant), and it provides me with a special fantasy. If I'm allowed four... I like the sensation of a sore bottom afterward too...
Intimacy, stress relief, incredible sex! Graham
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