Welcome to another weekend spanko brunch. Grab a sandwich, pour yourself
a cup of coffee, and take a seat on one of the padded chairs. Let's take a stroll down memory lane and see what we were talking about ten years ago today.
We all spank for different reasons, and not everyone engages in them for
punishment. However, there are times when only a spanking will do.
Did you ever feel you really deserved
a spanking, but didn't get one? Was there an alternative punishment, or
did the issue get resolved in another way?
Leave your reply as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of our discussion.
Slava Ukraini
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10 comments:
I think I deserve a spanking most days, but I don't always get it.
The only time spankings are not given is if one of us is sick. Otherwise, if a spanking is deserved, needed or wanted it is given.
Wendel
I can't remember specifics now but there have been a couple of occasions I really thought a spanking was forthcoming but it didn't happen.
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Roz
Punishment spankings don't really work for me. Even ones that were far too severe at the time give me fond memories later. This has left me curious about in DD and Ds relationships and how it works for them. I hope that one or two of them might take pert in this week's brunch. It would be interesting to hear their take on this subject.
Prefectdt
If Irene is really annoyed with me, she’ll ignore me. Spanking is the last think she’ll do.
All my spankings involve fictional transgressions pretty much related to ogling schoolgirls as a teen - guilty memories that I’ve shared with her. She’s adopted these fantasies as her own it seems, and maybe there’s a bit of real anger mixed in with the sexual as she spanks me. She likes to make it hurt, she admits - and indeed it does.
But there have been times when I’ve really craved a good spanking and she’s busy or distracted or just not in the mood. Now that the kids are grown and gone, there’s no pressure to squeeze activities into a narrow time slot, so it hasn’t been a problem lately.
I probably deserve to be spanked everyday, but it never happens.
Did you ever feel you really deserved a spanking, but didn't get one?
Oh, boy. Good question. Years ago and looking for someone to have me otk I found this wonderful woman. Had a great talk beforehand then she said:
"Everyone has done something in their lives that was wrong; something they should have been punished for but was not, something they 'got away' with. That's true for you, too, isn't it?"
Yes.
"I'm going to leave you alone for a couple of minutes and I want you to think what that was, and what your punishment should have been."
She left me alone. I thought. And came up with one. When I was about 12 or 13. Something I did to a girl in my class. Something that haunted me for a LONG time.
Ms. E comes back into the room, asks what it was and I tell her.
I got "the look." The, "Oh, you didn't..?" look. For real.
"What was her name?"
Susan.
"And if Susan was standing here, what would you tell her?"
I was wrong. Endless apologies. A regret I had held for years. Forgiveness.
"So this is long overdue. And it needs to be addressed. Today. Now. For your sake. Now, am I to be your mother - or Susan?"
Susan. (God - not my mother!)
She holds me by my elbow and takes me to a row of implements, considers what I did, and picks out a small paddle and a small strap.
"Susan" led me to her spanking chair, took me OTK, bared my bottom, and hand spanked me. I'm guessing 250-350 smacks by her (hard) hand. I was a nice red-pink. After the hand-spanks, a pause, small talk...then:
Susan: "And this is for what you did!"
"Susan" picked up that strap, held me tight around the waist - and let fly with that damn thing!
Vicious? No. Hard? YES!
By the second stroke with that strap I'm buckin' and rearin' with each one and I didn't know how many were coming.
Dear reader: I got strapped! Royally strapped! .
After about 25 or 30 with that damn strap, "Susan" stopped. I slid off her lap and immediately began to furiously rub my tush!!
Ms. E: "There. That should atone for what you did! And no whining - you deserved it!"
Smiling, I told her I did.
Did it help? At the moment, yes. On reflection, no; it should have come from actual "Susan." But it had to do.
Part 2:
"Was there an alternative punishment, or did the issue get resolved in another way?"
I'm going to flip this and bring up "issues resolved in another way."
Years ago. From early November, thru Thanksgiving, the Christmas holidays, New Years, travel, job, finances, friends, family and it all became overwhelming. Mid-January I'm thinking that what I needed was to be taken otk and spanked to a nice pink - and that might, at least, get my mind in order.
And, given the time and place - I had no one to provide that "therapy." Nothing happened. In a couple more weeks it all went away. The world was back to spinning in the right direction.
So, questions, Hermione:
1. Ever think a spanking would help you get out of a funk/your problems?
2. Did you ever actually get that spanking, and did it help or not?
I've been spanked a couple of times when I've been moping around a bit blue, not knowing what to do next, and she's got sick of it... But, there have been many more times when she didn't but she should have! In each instance it would have been good for both of us.
There were many times that I deserved a spanking and did not get one. Usually that meant that she didn't feel like giving me a spanking and it was more of a silent treatment. Also, most times when I did get a spanking it wasn't as much as I deserved. Looking back I would say I was just at the point of wishing it was over when my wife stopped; that is probably when she should have doubled her efforts.
To answer your question Perfectdt...I was in a WLM with DD and punishment spankings worked. However, thinking about a spanking beforehand got me aroused and later thinking of the memory aroused me. But I assure you if I was aroused and hard before the spanking I was no longer aroused and there was no more erection.
A.J., this story resonates with me. It’s similar to the roleplay my wife and I engage in although she’s not interested in the precise details, including names, of girls and women I did not treat properly.
Also, I’ve gone through pretty much everyone I dated and some I didn’t but might have, and thought about who might have been into giving me the spankings I needed. I can see it in some cases but not others - but I can’t really be sure at all.
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