Our very dear friend Ronnie has published a post with a wealth of information on caning. She should know what she's talking about, as she sells a variety of canes and has had much first-hand experience being on the receiving end.
Here is her advice. While you are visiting her blog, please do take the opportunity to order a cane or two.
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I do love canes, but it took me a LONG time to get there. I witnessed to may unskilled players doing way too much damage to make it appealing to me. For me I do not use them for punishment but for more senstaion and sensual play. Rhytmic play is my favorite. My suggestion to most people is don't overgrip or use your forefinger to guide. I found that over time you're creating a weak spot that will eventually break your cane. The suggestion to practice before actually hitting a human is invaluable cans as in floggesr and whips to me requires you learn to control your strokes. When I firsst started I would press my can onto a pillow and try to hit the impression left behind. Once I could hit that with some consistancy was when I played with my first live bottom. And my final part is simply let your can fall with ease by utilizing your wrist. Relax, have fun and enjoy the stripes.
The idea of caning is enticing, but I think I (we) will pass. Doing it right requires to much formality and precision which I don’t think would work well. It does remind be, however, to be on the lookout for a good switch.
Hermione:
Many members might have missed the link that Ronnie posted here to her blog (posted here about 12 days ago). Maybe you could post a direct link to here essay?
"ronniesoul.blogspot.com/2025/11/the-cane.html"
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Hi Hermione, such wonderful advice. Thank you for re-posring here.
Hugs
Roz
Hermione, you are great. Thank you my friend.
Love,
Ronnie
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