Welcome to another weekend spanko brunch. Grab a sandwich, pour yourself a cup of coffee, and take a seat on one of the padded chairs.
We all spank for different reasons, and not everyone engages in them for punishment. However, there are times when only a spanking will do.
Did you ever feel you really deserved a spanking, but didn't get one? Was there an alternative punishment, or did the issue get resolved in another way?
Leave your reply as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of our discussion.
Slava Ukraini
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When Irene is truly annoyed with me, she ignores me. I don’t think it’s intentional punishment, but it feels that way.
Spankings are generally for imaginary infractions like being distracted by schoolgirls or maybe not doing my homework (ageplay, they call it). Occasionally she’ll threaten a spanking for not doing something around the house, but I don’t think it ever happens.
I fantasize about real discipline, but I don’t think I’m interested.
There have been a few occasions when I thought a spanking was forthcoming but it didn't happen.
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Roz
If I think I will not be spanked and got away with it, I know I'm kidding myself. My wife/mommy has told me she needs to 'cool' off and just calm down. I recall one of the worse spankings was when it took place a couple of days later. Saturday morning, slept in, enjoying a shower, my wife/mommy watching me dry off, smile on her face, notice my erection and soon after her gentle strokes was gone. It was when she took a grip on my arm, and soon was in the front room, a chair in the middle of the room and of all people my mother-in-law sitting on the chair. I quickly said Mommy, she said I did not forget nore my mother your behavior this past week and I was soon over my mother-in-laws lap getting a spanking with her hairbrush. When she stood me up and asked if I was going to be a good little boy I said yes Mother Carson, it was when my wife/mommy took the seat I said please Mommy, I'm sorry, Mommy did not listen and over her lap I went and seeing the bath brush I pleaded, beg, to no avail. When the spanking was over I stood, hands at side before both, promising to be a good little boy. I wanted to cover myself but knew it would mean another spanking. I stood facing the wall, finally getting myself under control. When my 'Mommy' told me to put my jamies on, it was ten in the morning, I knew the punishment was not over, it meant an early bedtime, a spanking prior to bed, and worse of all squirming in church the next morning and others will know. Jack
I think this happens to just about everyone (in a disciplinary relationship) over time. It's just how life works. Things pop up, get in the way, and then the moment is lost and you either try to revisit it another time or just move on. Living this type of lifestyle is complicated, especially over the long haul, so I think it's best to focus on the positives and let go of the occasional, and inevitable, "what could have beens".
The problem is for me that, although I pretend to see spankings as punishment, really I see them as a reward. So yes there have been lots of times, when I have achieved hard to do or difficult things, when I feel that I have truly earned a “Well done” spanking, but there is no one around to give me one. Just life, I suppose.
Prefectdt
We don't really use spanking as punishment, although our sessions do take on a stern and reprimanding tone. There have definitely been times when I deserved discipline and didn't get it right away. We tend to work things out but remember to reinforce the outcome at the end of her cane when we schedule a session.
My experience is similar to KDPierre. Many (most) of my spankings are disciplinary, but sometimes we just continue doing what we are doing, and by the next day, although I might remember why (or not), Cindy has forgotten. Cindy's spankings have become really effective and strong, similar to what you used to describe for your spankings. At that time, Cindy felt they were too strong, but if she would read them now, she would realize they are the appropriate level needed, and what she gives me, or ours are even stronger..
Absolutely! But not everything in life is perfect. And spankings are hardly the only important thing in our lives. Graham
Yes, definitely. But I usually get that spanking eventually.
Did you ever feel you really deserved a spanking, but didn't get one?
No. But did really WANT a spanking, but didn't get one?
Yes.
Give a spanking, but didn't get to?
Also yes.
Was there an alternative punishment, or did the issue get resolved in another way?
I don't believe in punishment spanking unless it is part of playing so, not a good question for me.
Yes, definitely. But things get in the way and the spanking doesn’t happen
Love,
Ronnie
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