Yum yum! Who doesn't love Brussels sprouts? Oh...that many of you. Well, that means there's more for the rest of us, and dessert's on the way. In the meantime, lets discuss a topic suggested by our good friend Bonnie.
Does the spankee in your relationship have a phrase or non-verbal signal that tells the spanker that a longer or harder spanking would be appreciated?
As always, enter your response as a comment below, and once everyone has had time to answer, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
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There are several good alternatives depending upon the degree of response I seek to trigger. An exaggerated stage yawn always brings a swift intensification. So does the classic phrase, "Why, you wouldn't dare!" A slightly more subtle hint is the rare but useful pseudo-safeword, "Green." I like Erica's line, "Feel free to start any time you're ready," but there are consequences to consider. Randy seems to be sensitive to being asked to use a specific implement. He'll use it all right, with zero mercy!
At our house "Stop spanking me, it hurts" is code for give me more.
Excessive thrashing about means I am close to my limit and Irene should slow down. I have never in 40 years used our safe word - "enough".
Rosco
No phrase as such, however my physical reactions usually give the clue lol. There have been occasions in the past where I just wasn't in the right headspace afterwards which resulted in extra swats
Hugs
Roz
There have been a few times when the Misses has just asked me to spank her again.
Not in this household. Spankings are punishment only, and I want it over long before she starts to swing the strap.
The quant old English phrase "Give it some welly" springs to mind but I very seldom actually say that. If I am playing with someone who does not know me so well, I usually just ask straight out for a little more gusto. When playing with someone who knows me better, I usually thank them for being so kind an considerate/lenient with me, This is my normal code for I could handle a higher pain level
Prefectdt
This reminds me of an old cartoon of mine where a spankee who is obviously struggling to make it through the end of her punishment reacts when it concludes by angrily confronting her Top with "Is that it?!?!?!?"
I think a sarcastic "is that it?" might work pretty well in real life too. LOL But here we are just very open and if I feel a bit 'unfinished/unresolved', I'll just tell her so and she always obliges with a bit more.
No, we do not have one, but I will suggest it. Thanks Bonnie and Hermione.
bottoms up
Red
I only spank/get spanked for the sexy fun of it, but...
If she is the one getting spanked, when she arches her back, grinds into me, and moans
"Mmmmmmmm, yes...!", and I'll pick up the pace/intensity just a little bit. (Too much kills the mood.)
If I'm the one getting it - well son-of-a-bitch! The same damn thing!
A.J.
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