The holidays are almost over, but this is your chance to try a slice of king cake while we discuss this week's topic.
Do you and your partner have a secret phrase that only you know refers to spanking?
Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has had a
chance to speak, I will publish an edited summary of our conversation. Thank you, Bonnie, for the topic.
Slava Ukraini
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About the only one is: “Take down your pants, you are getting a spanking”. No codes or hidden messages in this house.
Wendel
Randy has lots of signal phrases he uses in vanilla scenarios. Here's a sample, with numerous variations of each:
I hear there's a heat wave coming
You'll be sitting pretty
We haven't had a roast lately
We have much to discuss
Bonnie is "old school"
Then there's "the look." It's kind of a side-eyed glance, often accompanied with a smirk. He might be saying something innocuous, but I know I'm in for a session with the paddle later.
Not really. We don’t have any kind of code we use when others are around.
When we’re alone Irene will tell me I’ve been naughty or have misbehaved and need to be taught a lesson things like that.
We do talk about whether we’ll have a “date” at a certain time, meaning usually spanking, bondage, more spanking, maybe a foot massage, a third spanking - then reverse cowgirl cunnilingus followed by intercourse. Sounds mundane when I describe it so, but it’s also powerful.
Fun question! We don't really have secret messages or signals, however, if Rick says we will discuss or talk later I know it usually means talking with an implement in his hand lol
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Roz
'Time for a Talking To' and sometime followed with 'Better do as Mommy Said', what follows could be a trip to the bedroom, or the spanking will happen then and there. It is no secret that I'm spanked. Jack
Not these days, no. The small group that I used to play with, back in the 1980s, when I first started with adult spanking adventures, used to call this thing that we do Corporal Punishment Roleplay. Usually shortened to CPR, in conversation. This was useful if overheard by unwanted ears, because we could just claim to be talking about a First Aid course, that we had just done or would be doing. As, it is also the acronym for cardiopulmonary resuscitation.
Prefectdt
No.
But I did get a kick out of Bonnie's response where she said:
"Then there's "the look." It's kind of a side-eyed glance, often accompanied with a smirk."
I used to do that! At dinner with GF one night and she is talking, and talking, and talking and I'm just looking at her not hearing a single word, staring at how beautiful she was, and giving her "the look" with an evil smile. Finally she notices:
Her: "What? What?"
Didn't say a word, just "the look" and smile.
Light comes on.
Her (head in hands): "Oh, God..."
Then a big smile. All followed by my telling her to go to ladies room and take off EVERYTHING under her sexy dress. And she did! Came back to the table with a wry smile of her own, feeling so...slutty!
The night ended with her "warm." And comforted. And satisfied, thank, yew!
A.J.
Had only occurred once when she said "We'll discuss this later at home" and I knew exactly what she meant! Graham
We have two code phrases: " We have a meeting scheduled," which means she has decided to spank me and is putting me on notice. It is a phrase she has used in public, but not often. The other phrase is "You are in trouble", which means I am probably going to be spanked, but she hasn't made up her mind for certain and she is going to give me an opportunity to explain. This one, she never uses in public, unless we are out of everyone's hearing.
Alan
Yes and no. Rosa tends towards using variations of the phrase "take care of it" when referring to a punishment for some behavior or misbehavior she is displeased with. "I will take care of that later." "We'll be taking care of that." or to someone else about me, "Don't worry, I'll take care of that when we get home." or "Yeah, he really pissed me off, but I took care of it." So yes to the question, in that the 'spanking' word is not used directly, BUT, in nearly every case, given our openness, that person is highly likely to know exactly what phrase means. So in that way she may as well say, "I'll be spanking him for that." Besides, I can't tell you how many times a friend in the know will just see Rosa getting upset, and warn me themselves that I better be careful, given the likely consequences should I persist in whatever I'm doing.
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