A Blast from the Past

From 1990 to be exact.

The lady knows what she likes.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for March 16

What three words describe your emotional state before a spanking?

Jack: My first three words are always 'I'm Sorry Mommy'. My wife learned from her Mother that husbands could be little boys and especially naughty little boys and should be punished like naughty little boys. When I know I'm getting a spanking I just want to let her know I'm sorry. She said she knows but I will really know once I get off of her lap.

Wendel: Before every spanking, paddling, whipping: Oh Yea Baby!
When The Misses makes me strip to whip my bottom: Oh My God!
When she makes me strip for a paddling before a girl’s night out: I’ll Be Good.
After every spanking, paddling, whipping: I Love You.

Roz: Three words that describe my emotional state before a spanking are, excited, nervous and aroused.

FL: Roz captured it perfectly: excited, nervous, aroused. And it goes between all three leading up to the moment of, "Get over my knee."

Prefectdt: Fear, Joy, and Adventure.

Fear - Of that first part of the spanking, when it is just a lot of pain, before the magic starts happening.
Joy - If I did not think that it was going to be fun, I would never do it in the first place.
Adventure - Every spanking is different. You never know how it is going to go. It is always an adventure.

Dan: Anxious, nervous, and yet aroused.

Rosco: Relaxed, aroused, grateful.

I do know it’s going to hurt, but I know that’s temporary. The relaxation comes from the elimination of all distractions. Some people meditate. I get spanked.

Barrel: Anxious, relieved and appreciative.
Anxious about the pending sensation; relieved the time has come and appreciative that I am about to get spanked.

A.J.: "In anticipation of a spanking..." The implication - I'm the one about to "get it!"

I don't have three words, but I do have six:
"I can't believe I'm doing this!"

And that's when she smiles and tells me to get otk.

When it's reversed and she's the one otk, I do have three: "God, I'm lucky!"

Bonnie: Just three? A hundred would be so much easier.

How about excited, concerned, compliant?

Mark: Excited, scared, nervous.

Hermione: Aroused, anxious, appreciative.

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #582

Top of the morning to you! It's a fine day to talk about all things related to our favourite percussive activity. Some spankings are quite unexpected, but most of the time, we know they are coming.

In anticipation of a spanking, what three words describe your emotional state?

Please leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak I will publish a summary of our discussion. 

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for March 9

This week we discussed birthday spankings.

Barrel: Forgive me as I may have shared this previously. On my 60th birthday, I planned out the birthday spanking I wanted...I know, topping from the bottom. 6 minutes with the hairbrush, alternating with the hard plastic paddle. Then 20 strokes with the strap, followed by 20 with the riding crop, topped off with 20 from the cane. It was one of our most memorable thrashings.
But this year I turn 70...hmmm. The topic this week has me thinking. I am hoping others will share their experiences and I can use them in a few months. Great question.

Graham: Wouldn't be a real birthday without a good spanking...or maybe two...or maybe more! Bare bottom, of course. Hopefully some intimate fun with my wife after.  

Roz: Happy Birthday and Blogiversary Hermoine! Wow, 17 years. I'm sorry I have been awol lately. I have had a lot on my plate here.

We don't generally celebrate birthdays with a birthday spanking. We often try to have a nice meal out.

Glad to see you back, Roz. I was worried!

Prefectdt: Happy Birthday and Blogiversary, Hermione.

No, I do not celebrate life milestones with spanking celebrations. I have often fantasized about getting a hard Birthday caning. But as I am approaching 60 now and taking one extra to grow on, that could be a bit of a challenge, if administered cold, like in my fantasy.

Rosco: Yes, birthday spankings have been a regular thing for 45 years now. Irene is a wonderfully creative, whimsical and strict disciplinarian, but normally not much of a planner. So it’s an anomaly that she’ll count the strokes on my birthday.

When we were first together, I summoned up the courage to talk about spanking. (My attempts with previous girlfriends had been rebuffed, embarrassingly so, after an initial memorable experience at the tender age of 13). Irene responded positively, that she’d give it a whirl, but then she didn’t follow through. So I took the occasion of my birthday to remind her and tell her this was a serious interest of mine. It worked. These days, I think she enjoys dishing it out even more that I relish receiving.

S: I love the idea of birthday spankings. Sadly I don't get to give them out.

Wendel: Happy Birthday and Blogiversary, Hermione. I hope a good spanking was part of the birthday celebration.
We spank each other with a paddle on our birthdays. It is very traditional so the birthday suit must be worn. The spanker counts off the whacks. One whack is given for each year old and then many more for various reasons. One for good luck, one for good health, one for no reason whatsoever and so on. Followed by sex and then cake. 

CEM: For me, her behavior, mood and temperament determine things, not a calendar. 

Betsy: Happy Birthday and Blogiversary, Hermione! Wishing you many more years. I always get a birthday spanking. My husband really looks forward to them.

Ronnie: Hermione, Belated Happy Birthday and Blogiversary.

Yes I get a birthday spanking and I get one when it’s Ps birthday. 

Hermione: For me, the ideal birthday would be nice presents, a tasty cake, then a trip to the woodshed for a birthday spanking - one for each year plus one to grow on.     

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #581

In this past week I celebrated both a birthday and my 17th blogaversary. There was quite a celebration, but I managed to save some cake for you, dear readers. 

We've discussed this question in the past, but I think it will be fun to try it again.

Do you celebrate birthdays, anniversaries or other special occasions with spanking?  If so, do tell! If not, please describe how you wish your special day could be celebrated.

Please leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak I will publish a summary of our discussion.

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Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for March 2

What is your favourite fantasy?

Dan: I tend to have a lot of fantasies about being taken to a literal woodshed or barn and given a very hard punishment spanking.

Rosco: I have several with very similar themes, usually involving girls I knew between ages 15 and 25. I’m caught peeking up their skirts or maybe in a locker room. Then I’m spanked, lectured and otherwise punished by the group of them.

Some of these fantasies take place in a single afternoon. Others are played out over many months. I may write some of the up some day but I don’t know how much interest there would be.

Wendel: For the last year or maybe more my fantasy is to be taken to the kitchen by 3 naked older ladies (65+) and paddled with my pants down by each one.

The Misses mentioned that her fantasy spanking is to be spanked naked at the top of the Eifel Tower. I am thinking it is more of a dig to take a trip to Paris than a desire to be spanked. 

Mark: Mine is to be pulled up on something by my wife when she has her two best friends visiting, and be forced to get naked and take a hard caning. Ideally be put into the corner afterwards while they carry on their socialising.
This is not a fantasy that I have when being punished, definitely other times... such as when awake in the middle of the night, or when said ladies are visiting.

Prefectdt: I have a lot of fantasies that tend to come and go, as my fancy changes. Recently, ever since I got a butt plug tail, that I still have not used in play, some have revolved around this. Mainly, they go along the theme that the tail is symbolic of myself being temporarily owned by the person spanking me. Myself becoming some spanker's “Bit of Tail” for a defined period. Meaning that I must follow every whim and instruction of my Top, from the time that the tail is inserted, until it is pulled out, when I regain the right to free will.

FL: The scenario details change from time to time but the underlying theme is always strict maternal-style discipline.

A.J.: Fantasies are all (almost all) fine. We all have them. As long as you don't frighten the dog!

I think what triggered this was a common fantasy by many woman I know to be taken otk, bottom bared, then "spanked like a little girl." My first spanking GF had this fantasy.

Here are two of mine:

1. Being spanked by a woman with another woman watching, enjoying it, and then getting in her turn. On the flip side, me spanking both of them as the other watches.
That's not so hard/freaky is it?
And one shared by Roscoe, Wendel, and Mark above.

Fun fact: It happened! Twice! Two wonderful women let me live that fantasy. Both spanked me, I spanked both them, than I got to see them spank each other! In between - we talked. It was enlightening!

2. A girl I was with asked about my fantasies. I told her I wanted my GF (her) to TAKE ME to a pretend couples therapist for counseling because I was a neglectful of her sexual needs. (See? Fantasy.)
In her office and after hearing I was neglectful of her needs, the therapist was shocked and - there is only one cure for that! And she would spank me as the GF watched.
Then she would spank the GF for also being neglectful for not doing this herself!
Then the therapist would have us make love as she directed, her instructions encouraged by her use (on both of us!) of a small strap.

The GF loved the idea! (I can still hear her voice go deep and looking right at me, "I would so do that...!")

Now to find a playmate! GF then pulls out her iphone and goes through the photos of her GF's, trying to find one who might play.

(I pointed out one really cute I liked and was told no; While she would be perfect, but she would want to jump in and and be "serviced" too. And I'm looking at her saying, "Yeah...And? And the problem is...?")

It was left for her to pick on of her friends and sound her out.

Sad fact: It never happened. She found a couple girls, but they were "rules" and conditions, then life got in the way. It never happened.

There will be tears on my pillow tonight.

 Ronnie: To be spanked after a riding session, I would have to be correctly attired and so would he, I would have failed to impress in some way, or been disobedient or lazy not tending to my horse properly, something along those lines. It would perhaps have been a repeat offence for which I'd been warned and now I'd gone too far. He would deal with me firmly in the stable, bending me over a hay bale or something and giving me a good cropping.

Hermione: I have several variation of my favourite fantasy, which I hope to put into print and submit to LSF someday. They all involve being spanked by a parent OTK. There is almost always a third person in the scene: Aunt Mary. She usually provides the hairbrush for the finale, and sometimes she is the disciplinarian. 

MrBill: I have soooo many spanking fantasies but reading Ronnie's horse riding fantasy reminds me of one of mine from long ago. I was dating a young lady at the time who worked at a local horse stable. I had a strong fantasy about taking her to the stable, stripping her naked and putting a bridle/harness on her head and using the "cross ties" in the stable that were used to keep the horse in place, attaching those to the bridle on her head and then cropping her body front and back. Getting excited just thinking about it!! 

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Spanko Brunch 2.0 #580

Welcome to March! I'd say it came in like a lion, with plenty of snow last night. But the pizza delivery came through, so it's all good.

Today's topic was suggested by our good friend A.J.

What is your favourite spanking fantasy? Is it something that you imagine during a spanking? Or is it for other times?

Leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak I will publish a summary of our discussion.

 

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