Monday, May 19, 2025

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for May 18

We discussed the first encounter with an implement.

Jack: My wife/mommy when we were dating used her hand until her mother showed up when I was being spanked. She knew her daughter had spanked me and it was a week before the wedding. I was over her lap, thankful to still have my underpants on. My future mother-in-law did not even sit down, she reached in her purse and it was a large hairbrush which she handed to her daughter and then she told her daughter spankings are on the bare bottom and she removed my underpants. That hairbrush hurt like hell and it was landed hard and fast. I danced around not caring all was on display until told to face the wall. A wedding gift from my mother-in-law was a bath brush, that long handle really warms my bare bottom today.

Rosco: I’m not certain, but I remember early on going to the Western store and buying a riding crop. There were no kink friendly shops in the early 80s.

I was trying to casually peruse the basket of crops thinking about what I might say if asked why I was purchasing it, when a buxom salesgirl approached. She told me the longer leather model was not necessary and the the small nylon crop hurt plenty. Then for a brief moment she lifted it as if to swat me before laughing it off.

It wasn’t a missed opportunity/fantasy as her serious looking boss was not far away, but it’s still something I think about now and then.

I bought both crops.

Norse Cavalier: The first item I ever used on a spankee was a paddle or strap or something at a BDSM event. I don't remember what it was and I didn't own it, so I have no idea where it is.

The first implement of my own was a clothes brush, purchased especially for this use. I still own it and use it as often as I can - though only for punishment spankings, since it's too severe for fun play.

Prefectdt: The first implement used on me during an adult spanking, which happened during my first spanking as an adult, was a tawse. This was a bit of a tradition in my hometown in the UK, as the schools in that town used the tawse rather than the cane, for corporal punishment. Even though I come from England rather than Scotland. It was not purchased especially for that incident. The owner had had that particular tawse, as well as a few others, for several years.   

Barrel: Like Rosco, ours was a 16" riding crop. I think they called it a bat, purchased from a western store. It has since given way to items with more impact.

A.J.: "The first implement, other than a hand, that you used...?"
My hand hurt (her tush was like leather!) so I had her get off my lap and find something in her apt. for me to use on her. Her panties were still at half-mast and I told her to leave them there. The sight of her duck-waking away from me - what a memory! She came back with a small leather strap thing. Never used it again - unless my hand hurt.

"...or had used on you?"

I was being a wise-ass (and stupid) in a rural antiques store and found an ancient small paddle once used to put bread into fireplace ovens. Loud and proud, I told her I could use this on her to protect my hand. Not amused. Bought the paddle; and as soon as we got home...!!!
 

S: The first spanking implement I made was a wooden paddle made from some thin tightly grained light wood. It was very stingy and I remember it broke when I was paddling a particularly naughty woman. 

Roz: Our first spanking implement was a heavy wooden spoon purchased with spanking in mind. This was then followed by a leather paddle.

KDPierre: A yellow plastic bath brush that eventually broke at the neck, but which I saved as a nostalgic token/souvenir of my first step into what became a very long lifestyle. And while a common, seemingly vanilla item, it was bought for that purpose.

FL: A hairbrush, still my favourite. Can't beat the classics!

Anon: Paint stirring stick.

Donn: When the Wife and I were just getting started, she wanted a paddle to practice with. I fabricated a paddle out of 1/2" thick black nylon plank, about 16" long by 3" wide at the business end.

Yes, it was very effective, especially with an thin extended handle that gave her a lot of leverage. (Kind of like a nylon-shaped bath brush, without the bristles.

In the end, it cause her chronic wrist-injury too much discomfort. (The paddle was transferred to the scrap-plastic bin in my workshop, and eventually cut into smaller pieces for other miscellaneous projects.) 

Hermione: We were doing some redecorating, and when we bought the paint we were given a free paint stirrer. The more I used it during our painting sessions, the more I wanted to feel it on my bottom. So the next time we went paint shopping, I put the new stirrer aside. When the time was right, I told Ron of my desire, and he happily complied. He eventually painted it gold and called it the "Golden Paddle". We still have it, although it's pretty tame in comparison to most of our current implements.     

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Sunday, May 18, 2025

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #591

Greetings everyone, and welcome to another weekend spanko brunch. Here's a blast from the past; the reprise of a brunch we enjoyed ten years ago today. Most of us started on our spanking journey with hand spankings, then eventually progressed to implements made of wood, leather, or other materials. So I'd like you all to think back to your early days of spanking.

What was the first implement, other than a hand, that you used or had used on you? Was it purchased especially for that reason, or was it an existing item that was repurposed? Do you still use it?

Leave your answer as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion when everyone has had a chance to walk down memory lane.



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Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, May 12, 2025

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for May 11

What does the spanker say to indicate the spanking is over?

Bonnie: Frequently, Randy will finish with a flourish (imagine the grand finale of a fireworks show), announce "OK, you're done," straighten my skirt, and then help me back to my feet

Once in a while, he will ask me whether I need another spanking/harder spanking/the hairbrush/some other diabolical bottom beating punishment. I almost always decline so as not to insult his previous efforts. Well, that, and I am already plenty sore by this stage.

Norse Cavalier: If it's a punishment spanking, I can say something like "Shh, it's over now. You took that very bravely. Come here," followed by a hug.

If it's a fun spanking, she lets me know when it's enough, usually by saying "That's enough" or "I'd like to stop now" or something like that. I tend to like clear communication.

Rosco: Irene will give me some sort of instruction.

Last night she gave me a bedtime spanking. I’d already gotten in bed, she told me to get up and onto the massage table (which we often use for such purposes), spanked me with a leather strap then told me to get back in bed.

Sometimes Irene will order me to stand in the corner. More often she’ll demand that I massage her feet, which might include filing down her sexy callouses.

When she’s ready, Irene will simply order me to turn over, whereupon she will plant her luscious bottom and perfect pussy on my face for a bit of reverse cowgirl cunnilingus.
  

Jack: Since all my spankings are punishment, It always start with Mommy wants my naughty little boy to... and it could be to the corner, put on his jammies, or get to the bathroom your getting a bath and to bed... it ends with do you understand, and my response is Yes Mommy.

Anon: As the spankee, I have nothing to say about ending it other than normal pleading which is entirely ignored. She has no routine for stopping. It just ends when she's done.

KDPierre: There are no nuanced or cute codes with us. She will either tell me we're done or stop long enough for me to ask if she is. Sometimes she says 'yes', and other times she will say, "no, just taking a break" or worse, "we're done for now, but you have more coming". 

Wendel: If the Misses says anything it will be stuff like “You’re done” or “That will teach you.” Most times it just ends. I do not have sayings or comments. When I am done spanking her it is over.  

CEM: I simply tell her to stand up and to go stand bare bottom exposed, facing the corner...I like the view. :)

Roz: For us it varies, often times it's actions rather than words that signal to me the spanking is over, such as pulling me back up to stand, or it may be some instruction that indicates the spanking part of proceedings is over.

Dan: It's usually something simple like, "I think that's enough," or "You can get up."

Prefectdt: There have been so many spankers over the years, and they all called the end in their own way. Every thing from a simple “You're done now” to one spanker who would go really hard, with an American style paddle, until I was forced to safe word. There are just too many variants to list them all.

Hermione: Ron doesn't say anything. He just puts the paddle down and begins the logical follow-on of intimacy.      

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From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, May 11, 2025

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #590


Welcome back for another weekend spanko brunch. If this is your first time here, this is when we get together to discuss a topic related to spanking.

Some spankings are short, others are long, and still others seem to last forever. The time may vary, but all good things must come to an end. Sometimes it isn't easy to tell whether the person holding the paddle has stopped for a rest, or has finished spanking.

In your spanking experiences, what words does the spanker use to indicate that a spanking is over? Does the spankee also have something to say?

Leave your reply as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had an opportunity to speak. You may remain anonymous if you wish.



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Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, May 5, 2025

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for May 4

Is there an article of clothing that simply cries out "Spank me"?

KDPierre: No, nothing we currently own would instantly trigger a spanking, but I imagine if I purchased a T-shirt that read: "My wife is a crazy bitch!" and put it on before going out with her somewhere that I wouldn't end up driving to whatever rendezvous we had planned in an entirely different shirt and sitting on a stinging bottom. ;-)

Rosco: Many.

I’ve bought Irene several items of clothing for our role play. A dirndl, a matching tennis outfit, a fifties style country girl dress, a leather bra etc. if she puts on any of these I know what’s to follow.

And sometimes she’ll instruct me to put on a pair of lacy panties or my nightgown. A spanking might ensue immediately or I might wear the panties all day and be spanked in the evening. I also bought a hat for regular use, but Irene decided it looked like it belonged to a German schoolboy and so it has inspired a few spankings.

Wendel: The Misses has one particular pair of jeans that makes her butt scream “Spank Me Now!” Also, when she walks around the house without pants her panties tend to cry out for a spanking. In both cases I am eager to oblige.

Roz: No specific item of clothing, but wearing some sexy lingerie usually does the trick 😊

Prefectdt: Not really. It works better the other way round for me. If I am guaranteed a spanking, I will almost always wear one of my man thongs. Just so that that bare bottomed thing can go on without my boy bits bouncing around. As most of my spankings are for play rather than part of a sexual interaction, it just seems like good manners. I am happy to get spanked without them, if the Top or Domme so requests it.

Jack: I showed this to my wife/mommy, she said clothing plays no part when I need a spanking. She then reminded me that when she says to get my pajamas on no matter time of day means what? I say a spanking. 

Anon: A woman in a pair of boldly patterned skin tight bell bottoms always makes my palm itch and sometimes I cannot resist giving her a sharp smack on her lovely hiney.

Hermione: I have sweatpants that are two sizes too small for me. When I wear them...you can guess the rest. 



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From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, May 4, 2025

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #589

Welcome, dear friends, to our weekly get-together. Our good friend S came up with a fun topic for us today.

Is there one item of clothing that you or your partner might wear that almost certainly guarantees a spanking?

Please leave your response as a comment. After everyone has had a chance to participate, I will publish a summary of our discussion.



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Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, May 1, 2025

Silly Signs

A random assortment of silly signs to brighten your day.

 












Have a good one!

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Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart