Sunday, November 27, 2016

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #152

The kitchen was closed last weekend because of the Love Our Lurkers celebration, but we are now open again and the coffee is hot. Help yourself to a yummy turkey sandwich and let's discuss today's topic.

Is the spankee in your relationship allowed to ask for a longer or harder spanking? If not, why not? If so, is this a verbal request? Are there non-verbal ways of indicating the need for more? Does it happen often?

Leave your response as a comment and I will publish a summary of our discussion after everyone has had a chance to join in.
From Hermione's Heart


Sir Wendel Jones said...

If the Misses wants a longer spanking then she will usually question the length. “That’s it?” or “I don’t think I’ve learned my lesson.” are her favorite comments.

Anonymous said...

Its mostly non-verbal . . raising her lovely ass toward me as I spank her and or making noises that tell me to really keep it up or even increase the pace. What follows is the final proof of her pleasure as well as mine.

Roz said...

I have on the odd occasion after a spanking said that it didn't get me where I want to be. It has sometimes resulted in a do - over but not always.

Anonymous said...

When we first began my wife said she was going to spank me until.... until to her meant then
and still means today until she sees tears! She has never gone back on that.


Michael M said...

My Mistress decides when I have had she wants to give me. No requests permitted.

Wilma Rubble said...

When we first started Dd years ago, Barney (in addition to the rare punishment,as I am such an would give me a reset spanking about once a week. During those times he would ask me how I was, or we would talk about the effectiveness after. I suppose that 'trained' him to see what my body language was telling him. He isn't always perfect at is, as we all change depending on the circumstances, but he is pretty good about it 4 years later.

Often he will ask me questions near the end if he is unsure~ not questions about the spanking, but about me. Depending on my tone he decides if he is going to continue or not. In a way I suppose you could say I am allowed to ask because of the responses I give. There are times where he flat out tells me my body physically cannot take anymore regardless of where my mind is at however.

On the flip side, there have been times, (during a reset) where I have asked him to stop. Often it is due to the fact I am in a better place, and I am afraid if he switches implements I will become frustrated/angry and he will have to spank through those phases again, and I suspect he will stop due to physical limitations before I return to the better spot.

Our Bottoms Burn said...

Asking for more, or less, is common. She will wiggle it around to let me know she wants more. I really like it when she says something like Is that all you've got? Other times, she will tell me she is having a sensitive day.

Downunder Don said...

After I think she has received a sound spanking I always ask..."Is that enough" and usually it is, but sometimes "just a few more" or a specific weapon request squeaks out

KB said...

I'm the spankee and when I'm not ready for it to be over I'll usually make some snide comment about her not eating her wheaties that morning, or is her arm tired or about her having a noodle arm. Works like a charm!!! I have also on some occasions just come out and asked for more.

Anonymous said...

I am always the one who asks my wife for a spanking and I say what implements and how hard, although her normal spanks are quite hard. She's not into it at all but still does it for me (she is definitely a keeper) and I love her for it.

Happy Spankings


ronnie said...

Yes I can ask for a longer spanking though I don't always get them. Sometimes I just raise and wriggle my bottom and P knows I want more.


Katie said...

Hi Hermione, :) Late as always! I need to work on that one! ;) Sorry!

I can definitely ask for longer, and harder. How I ask is important. Rob gets to decide. Although once, a few years back, I think it was, I pulled down my pants on the bed and well... it was quite the asking method. LOL! I'd have to go back and find that post about that one. But I do remember it working. :) Many hugs,

<3 Katie