Welcome one and all to our weekly spanko brunch. I hope you all had a safe, fun Hallowe'en and have responsibly disposed of all the candy wrappers. This week we discuss a topic suggested by regular reader Barrel. It's something we have considered before but I think it's worth revisiting.
Do you ever use a gag, bit, or other item to reduce the verbal response to a spanking? How does this change your reaction to the spanking? Is it something you enjoy, simply tolerate, or really detest?
Leave your response as a comment and I will publish an edited summary of our discussion once everyone has weighed in.
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14 comments:
I never gag my partner. She sometimes makes me wear a ballgag when she's in charge but it's really just for the look as it doesn't actually stop me making noise, just stops me being intelligible
never tried one, but always willing for a new experience.
bottoms up
Red
Irene does fairly frequently- often gagging me with a pair of worn panties, Esperanza after she’s been working out.
Sometimes she’ll do it while she spanking me, sometimes when she’s tying me down after and ordering me to take a nap.
And she’ll pin me down with panties or a bra or whatever stretched across my mouth when she’s mounting me cowgirl style - which usually makes me come pretty quickly.
Rosco
Never used a gag. We like the sounds each other makes when the smack on the bottom hits.
We don't use a gag and it's not something I would handle well at all.
Hugs
Roz
I've been gagged during a punishment and I really don't like them. Gags I've discovered make me gag and feel nauseous. I wouldn't gag a lady I was spanking either, after all she might feel the same way as me and anyway I like to chat to the lady over my knee or bent over whilst her bottom turns a delightful shade of pink and then perhaps red.
Never. At first, I was my own gag. I'd keep quiet so as no to scare my wife but lately I've been quite vocal during my spankings and wriggling quite a lot more (as well as the usual sticking my butt out for the next swat ;)).
Yorkie
I should also mention that my wife prefers it when I'm expressing myself during the spanking.
Yorkie
Happy Weekend, Hermione!:)
Rob and I have never used anything like that. I'm guessing that it is not something that we would do. I have a sensitive gag reflex anyway, so that might not be pretty! Many hugs,
❤️Katie xoxo
Part of the punishment is being heard my wife states. So she insures that I'm heard. if not the walking afterwards don't give it away that I've been spanked. Jack
We do use a ball gag but only during longer, punishment sessions. It has a hole in it to allow easier breathing as I have learned controlled breathing is essential during any of her spankings. Breathing helps me remain still in order to avoid getting “extras” which are always nasty. The ball gag is also part of the mental build up to a punishment session, which I like.
The one time I wish I had a gag was the first first to my mother-in-law. She knew I was spanked while dating her daughter and knew it would continue in our married life, and she approved. On this visit I was not in a good mood and my attitude showed. Let have a talk young man my wife said to me. We went to the bedroom and I said what do you wish to talk about. Off with your pants and underpants she said sternly, I said here, she then said enough everything off and now. I did as told, went over her lap and she spanked me very hard and yes I could be heard loud and clear. When she finished I was told to put my underpants on and she took me to the front room. Loud little boy you have dear, yes he is very loud. Face the wall I was told and did as told. How red did you make it dear, let me show you mother and my wife pulled my underpants down to my ankles. Oh very nice, very nice indeed. I just wanted to hide but knew if I left the wall, it would be back over my wife lap and I did not want that. I just wanted to be gagged during the spanking, but my wife wants to insure the spanking is effective and it is. Jack
P once used a pair of my knickers. Don't think I would handle a ball gag very well and not really interested in trying.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
I have never been gagged during my spankings but always willing to try new things. Have mentioned to my wife she should try tying me down for a harsh spanking one day and a gag would seem very appropriate.
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