Once upon a time there were two bloggers, Daisy and Davey. They lived on separate continents and, although married, they were unable to live together because of immigration restrictions. Nevertheless, they maintained a loving DD relationship. They would talk regularly via Skype, Daisy would confess her transgressions, then Davey would tell her to self-spank. It worked for them, although I haven't heard from either of them for a long time so don't know their current situation. Would it work for you?
Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship that included spanking? If so, how did you cope? If not, can you see yourself in such a relationship? What would you do differently?
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We haven't been apart for long stretches of time, so I'm not certain how we would adapt. If the past year has taught us anything, it is that there are lots of things that can be done remotely if necessary. Who knew we could all be so flexible? So I think we would have to find a way to manage.
I was in two. They work fine if your mind can accept parameters. If you are rigid in what you want/need they will not be satisfying, but in certain circumstances, they can be quite rewarding. The positive is that you are still dealing with a person.....a real, living breathing, human individual. That is already a big step beyond fantasy. So while the logistics can be challenging, with some adaptability and imagination, a lot can be achieved that can end up mutually satisfying.
I haven't been in a long distance relationship. During times we have been apart we have managed to adapt and find ways to keep ttwd alive.
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Roz
I think we would be able to do other things to keep the dynamic alive, altho self-spanking is not something I would sign up for.
Haha - we can't always keep it going even though we live together in our empty nest! But maybe couples work harder when they're apart.
Never been in a long distance relationship so not sure how we would adapt but I'd like to think we would be able to find ways to manage it if we had to.
Love,
Ronnie
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Never been in a long distance relationship. I am sure we would figure something out.
I have travelled far to play but I have never been in what I would think of as a long distance, long term relationship. I'm not sure how I would handle that. Just make the decisions as the need arises I suppose.
Prefectdt
I am in one now, though not in a different country. Lockdown, and my dominant having to deal with some major issues, including a family bereavement have made it very challenging. However before this I had given up on ever having this kind of relationship, so we have persevered. I had to self spank once and hated it. I also don't deal well with a spanking being threatened when I have no idea when it will happen! While he's been dealing with so much I've tried to maintain a submissive mindset to show that I care but it's not easy. I think respect and trust are very important.
Alice
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