Come on in out of the bad weather that many of us are experiencing today, and let's talk about spanking. Our dear friend Ronnie suggested this week's topic, and I know you will have some interesting comments to make.
Do you have a fantasy that you would like to happen in real life? Is there any possibility that it might?
Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish an edited summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.
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If we talk spanking fantasy then mine is to be spanked with the strap in the grand hall of a old time castle by the Princess.
My non-spanking fantasy is to fly in space and orbit the earth. Maybe in years to come it might become reality.
Yes,
I'd like to serve tea to my wife and her friends dressed in a pink petticoat and maid's outfit. Or be the towel boy for the women's tennis team. Or be a naughty college boy at a sorority initiation. Or taught to behave by my girlfriend's bitchy roommate.
In all cases, I am forced to serve and then spanked by all. At some point, I am tied to a bed with my hands over my head and the women come in one by one, whip my bottom again, then mount my face so I can lick them properly. Some get even more wild and vicious after an orgasm and thrash me yet again.
In the morning I make lattes for them all and cook breakfast.
Irene tells me stories about these events and plays the various parts herself, changing voices and often clothes several times over the course of our encounters. But it is highly unlikely we would ever involve someone else - possibly if we met a trustworthy stranger on vacation nut never with someone we know.
- Rosco
For some reason I had always wanted to do a cruise up around Alaska, though in recent years given the current situation that fantasy has vastly diminished, cruise ships being a hotbed of covid and other issues lol. However, in keeping with this fantasy perhaps a spanking on a cruise ship.
Another fantasy would be a spanking while on holiday to some exotic location.
Hugs
Roz
Wow. We've managed to live out or at least try out many scenarios from our normal-to-weird spanko fantasy spectrum. One we have talked about lately is to go out somewhere with me wearing cutoffs that almost cover my fresh red marks. We've done something similar before, but never so deliberately. The biggest challenge, other than my sheer embarrassment at possibly seeing someone we know, is that we are still avoiding large gatherings due to COVID.
I think fantasy is best left inside the head. On a couple of occasions I've acted out my fantasies and the reality does not match up. (There is an old joke that the scenery is better on the radio.) I suppose being into spanking and having a willing partner for many would be acting out the fantasy, so I am lucky really.
I always fantasized about having my bare bottom spanked over the lap of a schooteacher. But I think the only way I could approximate that IRL would be with a professional. And I am deterred by Fred Bloggs's point: the fantasy may be a lot more enjoyable than the reality.
Oh, so many! Let me narrow it down to one far-fetched one, and a more realistic version.
I'd say that a long-held fantasy would involve the happiest place on earth, Disney World. Everyone knows about Cinderella's castle just inside the front entrance. Many people are learning that private accommodations can be made if people are willing to pay for it, such as closing down the park for a private party, or eating in exclusive venues. I'd like to go up inside the highest turret in that fantasy-like castle. I'd like to bend over, to look out the window, lean out the window, look down on the crowds far below, as my lover bares my lower half, and spanks me, turns me on, takes me sexually from behind. That'd make me the happiest woman in the happiest place!
More likely, I've always wanted to safari in Africa. Don't know if that'll happen, so going to Disney's Wild Animal Park in a top-drawer manner, awakening daily to a savanna of wildlife below our balcony, being bared in the sunlight, spanked privately in a way that feels publicly, again enjoying uninhibited sex. I'd feel wild, would probably yell aloud like fictitious Tarzan brought to life!
Even when life is great, one can always have fantasies especially surrounding spanking. Mine generally involve being spanked before (very willing) witnesses. That's occurred a couple times at the big parties, but I'd like it to occur on a more intimate level. The couples' weekend scenarios at Aunt Kay's DWC particularly appealed to me. The men got passed around for some good spankings, then each got a particularly hard session for a "sin" confessed in private. This event could only happen with people that one trusted, and it could be a mix of male/female bottoms. I don't expect this fantasy to be realized, but it is recurring nonetheless. Best to All. Graham
We've talked about giving a spanking demo. The idea of it has me tingly. But I'm probably NEVER GOING TO BE ABLE TO DO IT.
There are many women in the spanking world I'd like to play with. I'd like to bump into one of them somewhere and strike up a friendship. I don't think it's realistic for that to happen, but I'm happy just to have the fantasy.
On the other side, I sometimes fantasize about meeting a stranger who finds her own reason to spank me. I'm kind of on the knife edge of whether that would be a good thing or a bad thing. Would I like the results or would not? Do I even have the courage to take a real punishment from her? Perhaps this is another place where I'm happy to just have the fantasy.
Hermione, thanks
I'd loved to be spanked after a riding session, I would have to be correctly attired and so would he, I would have failed to impress in some way, or been disobedient or lazy not tending to my horse properly, something along those lines. It would perhaps have been a repeat offence for which I'd been warned and now I'd gone too far. He would deal with me firmly in the stable, bending me over a hay bale or something and giving me a good cropping. I'd definitely go through with it. Just need all the props.
Love,
Ronnie
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I would love to spend a weekend as my wife's 50's era wife. No male clothes, cleaning the house and fixing meals. Getting the belt to remind me of my place and to punish me if I screw up.
My wife has a older friend, Motherly Type, since I got my first adult spanking from an older woman have thought about how I could get her to spank me. She knows that I'm spanked, tells my wife all males are little boys and need a sound spanking at times. She has looked at me in such a way that tells me she would enjoy giving me a spanking, even mentioned it a couple of times. There is just something about an older woman giving a spanking, that first time, boy do I remember it, would like to relive it. Jack
If I had to pick one, it would to be locked in stocks while nude in public, perhaps at a lifestyle resort, with a variety of paddles, canes and straps available with an invitation to any passers by to give me what I deserve.
I have two, but one true possibility.
The first, most likely, is to be spanked by my wife’s exercise instructor. Her name is Ann. She is strong willed, has been married several times, and a wild spirit. I visualize my wife sharing a hint at class that we had a tiff, but that she resolved it quickly. Ann picks up on that comment with a suggestive question privately, “do you discipline your husband?” My wife is not likely to answer truthfully, but if she were to pause or just smile, Ann would connect the dots, wherein Ann would offer her extensive experience with other lovers, to reinforce the lesson I had been taught by my wife. Ann would then push for a time to show up at our house, lecture me why I should be punished further, with my wife ordering me to prepare the restraints for the bench at the bottom of our bed. Once secured, Ann would severely thrash me with the most intense toys we have as my wife looks on approvingly.
The second is to somehow meet the girl I was dating in college, who wanted to spank me for drunken stupor during an pledge initiation. She told me I needed to be spanked with a hairbrush by her and her roommates. I was slow on the uptake and blind to my predilection for spanking.
The first is only possible if my wife takes another step out. She frequently tells me while we are out that something I just did is cause for me to be whipped. But I doubt she will ever take the next step to hint or share that she does spank me.
Great topic this week. Thank you.
Barrel
My wife's two oldest friends are rather lovely. One is a beautiful "high maintenance" corporate lawyer's wife, the other is a divorced lovely strapping farm girl type. We are all in our mid 50s. My wife is slowly taking on the responsibility of advising what is acceptable around the house, and punishing me when I fall below the line.
I would love to be pulled up for a failing in front of her friends and be thoroughly scolded, and beaten before being ordered to the corner to display my red bottom.
So many fantasies, better choose one.... I want to be part of a Spanking Flash Mob. It would have to be a strictly F/m affair, to avoid criticism for promoting violence against women in public. Man thongs should keep us modest enough. I am thinking of five couples coming from different directions to a communal area of an indoor shopping centre (mall). Suddenly all five couples start arguing and then the female participants produce easily concealed spanking toys, de bag the men and hand out simultaneous spankings for about 4 to 5 minutes. Then as suddenly as it started, it ends and all the couples go off in separate directions. Could it ever happen? It is possible, but highly doubtful.
Prefectdt
I'd love to come out of the shower in the morning and have my wife dress me in some provocative female attire. Bra and thong, thigh high stockings, short tight skirt, and a sheer blouse. Every once in a while throughout the day I'd be bent over some furniture, have my skirt pulled up and be given a good hard spanking. By late afternoon a butt plug would be put in and would stay that way through dinner. The evening's activities would be at her direction and total control.
It might actually be possible after all these years. I'd just have to find the right moment and courage to ask.
Than ks for asking, Hermione!
Oh, boy.
Do you have a fantasy that you would like to happen in real life?
Nah. Who would have something like that?? Other than "everyone?"
Is there any possibility that it might?
OK. Mine:
Fantasy #1
This actually happened so the answer to your follow-up question is: "YES!"
Two women work in the same office and #1 complains about the poor behavior of her new boyfriend, and "I wish he was as well-mannered as your boyfriend..."
#2 says they have to be trained. What you need to do is spank him when he steps out of line.
#1 I couldn't do that.
#2 Sure you can. I'll show you. My BF is overdue; you can watch and learn.
#2 brings #1 home and tells her BF - A.J.!!! - that he is going to get it, and that #1 is going to watch and learn.
A.J. is going to be a teaching aide!
Protests ignored. Taken otk, bottom bared. Spanked.
As A.J. is spanked, #2 teaches #1:
"Do this, do it here, this hard or worse, not here, not this, etc. Then...
"Now you try it."
A.J goes over #1 knee and practices under watchful eye of #2.
A little more, then back otk of #2; than back over #1's knees.
Nice! And a bright pink bottom!
Then is is discovered that #1 and #2 aren't so pure, so they spank each other and A.J. spanks both of their bare bottoms!
It actually happened. All in fun.
I got spanked by them, spanked both of them, and watched them spank each other.
My fantasy: Oh, Gawd!! To do it again!
Fantasy #2
We go to a "relationship counselor" where my GF complains that I have been an inattentive and careless lover. (Told you it was fantasy.)
Shocked, the counselor says that had to be addressed with a spanking - right now!
OTK I go.
After a few minutes I am "ordered" to satisfy my GF right now and while under the counselor's supervision to be sure I'm "doing it" her with proper enthusiasm and vigor!
Fun, eh?
During the act, my decencies are immediately corrected with the counselor's strap, urging me on to new heights of performance.
When the counselor determines it may not be all my fault when she notices the GF - is not doing her share!
So in the Cowgirl position, the counselor's strap is applied to the GF's bottom urging her to "Put your ass into it!"
All leading to toe-curling orgasms you only read about in the best porn!
While the counselor as "instructing" us, she was also "paddling her pink canoe™", if-you-know-what-I-mean-and-I-think-you-do.
Post orgasms and seeing how the counselor is unfulfilled and in need of relief, her grateful students give her a 4-hand/2-tongue massage until...!!!!!!
Hey! It's my fantasy!
Fantasy #3
Just like Fantasy #2, but both are at fault and receive "instruction" from the counselor and her strap while bent over and cheek-to-cheek!
A.J.
Something there sounded pretty judgmental.. I don't know where it was directed. If toward me I'm sorry I offended you. I thought this was a safe haven for folks of our ilk. I'm going to have that conversation with my life partner, tomorrow. I'll let you know the result, if Hermione will publish the answer.
Mark dream spanking, been there, had the same desire, but no idea that my wife would insure I would be kicking, squirming, pleading, while her two best friends watched, made comments. My wife when done insured her friends knew she was in charge when asked who gave you a spanking. I said rubbing my bottom Mommy, and then said what does Mommy want you to do, I then say Mommy wants me to put my jammies on, stand in the corner. Best be quick she said and I said Yes Mommy and return shortly in my jammies, facing the corner and she pulled down the bottoms to display a very sound spanked bottom. Just think twice, your wife or girlfriend will shock you. Jack
Where I work there are several female co-workers whose friendship makes the work day go by a lot easier. I do contemplate what type of spankings would suit them best to match their different body types and their personalities.
It's bittersweet because I know it will never happen. The only time that were possible was with one young lady who was curious about spankings, BDSM and domestic discipline. Unfortunately before any inroads occurred her other job schedule had changed and she was forced to focus on that and left the company. Whether or not another opportunity like that occurs well anything is possible. But some things maybe for the best to be left in the realm of fantasy.
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