Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for March 27

How do you identify?

Anon 1: My wife has begrudgingly spanked me over the years, but she recently has accepted my need for regular spankings. She’s not into discipline, even pretend, so we’ve adopted a Maintenance Day style practice where the dice rules. Two dice rolled for how many sets of a dozen swats I receive and one die cast to determine how any days until my next session. Long story short, she recently referred to our practice as “that thing we do”, and I’m quite certain she’s never visited a DD site.

Dan: DD with a dash of FLR.

Roz: I suppose we identified as a mesh of all sorts over the years lol. We started out with spanking for fun. We never called it BDSM, but perhaps a very light version of? We then decided to extend this beyond the bedroom and incorporated DD. The DD aspect fell away after a time then later, there were some elements of Daddy/lg.

Bonnie: Labels are tough for those of us who don't easily fit. We have some aspects of each of these acronyms, but all the elements of none of them. If that seems confusing, then you understand perfectly.

If allowed just one word, I would say that we are spankos.

Rosco: Irene calls me PB, for pussyboy. That's about it.

I am familiar with many of these acronyms but suspect she does not. Irene does peruse erotica, but different stuff.

Morningstar: Lordie!!! I guess I had better answer this one seeing as my innocent question prompted this topic (grinning)

I think I have 'dabbled' with a lot of those letters in your alphabet soup Hermione. I have tried TPE - M/s - D/s - and of course TTWD. But none of the labels quite fit. Now I am just me - morningstar loved by Sir Steve

BUT if you want a label - let's say K.I.N.K.Y 

Rich Person: D/s and a bit of SM.

Prefectdt: I do TTWD. FLR and TiH sound good to me, but have never actually happened. I think that the label I like the most does not need an acronym, it's BRAT :)

Ronnie: No I don't, I'm just a lucky lady whose husband loves to spank her.

Anon 2: DD, FLR and HOH

Jean Marie: I Don't Know but it seems that acronyms are taking over our lives! As a Serial Monogamist who is Not Currently Coupled, I've dabbled in lots of these. But at heart, I'm a spanko who has some other kinks beyond Impact Play. It's fluid, it's complicated, I'm in-between, so I don't feel like acronym labels work. I simply LOVE TTWD!

Wendel: We probably fall under TTWD - That Thing We Do and TiH - Taken in Hand. Our spankings are meant to be fun and when one of us decides the other needs to be spanked we just do it.
It always ends with HCMBH – Holy Crap My Bottom Hurts.

Barrel: We are probably 80% TTWD and 10% each of DD and D/s. But in my opinion, I would prefer we dial up the frequency and intensity of each. So does that make me a TFTB (Topping From The Bottom)? Probably not, since I haven’t been successful amping up our play in 44 years of marriage. But we are happy where we are. 

PK: We were just plan old TTWD, This things we do - or did.

Windy: We started with just a little spanking as foreplay in the bedroom and it grew to a bit of D/S. Then we added DD when we found out it was a thing. Currently, we've taking a new look and re-evaluating, so TTWD probably is the best description for whatever this is that we're doing! 

Jack: FLR, my wife is totally in charge, knew that from the beginning and that she loved me that taking the lead was not going to be a problem.

Hermione: I would say that our relationship is D/s. Ron is very much a dominant, and I am naturally submissive.

Glory to Ukraine