Welcome back, everyone. I see we have some newcomers with us today. Please don't hesitate to join in the conversation, although today's topic might be a bit "revealing".
What role does nudity play in your spanking relationship, or in your day to day activities? Is nudity something you are very, sometimes, seldom, or never comfortable with?
Please leave your response as a comment. Once everyone has voiced their opinion, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
Slava Ukraini
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All of our spankings are on the bare bottom. It is about even for pants down or naked spankings. Almost always if the Misses sends me to the bedroom I will have to strip and await the spanking. When the Misses has a girl's night out evening, she will give me a paddling to ensure I stay out of trouble while she is out. I have to wait naked in the bedroom while she showers. When she comes out she will drop her towel and paddle my bottom until it glows in the dark. I do love a naked Misses going across my lap and then paddling her while she squirms.
I’m the spankee, and often naked. Sometimes Irene will put me in girly panties or make me take nap in a pink nightie between spanking.
I would never wear socks. Never.
Irene is normally dressed, and will sometimes change clothes a few times during on of our “dates”. She’ll wear skirts and dresses that you might see on the street or at a casual party or maybe costume stuff like a dirndl or tennis player or a Mexican thing. If she’s wearing panties, they’ll come off for cunnlingus followed by intercourse but almost always she’ll leave the skirt or dress on.
Rosco
We've been to a number of clothing-optional events over the years. Many of them were either spanking parties or regular (public) dungeons. We are pretty casual about nakedness.
We've also been to clothing-optional places (like Lupin), and we were to the nude beach cleanup once or twice. We've also been to nude beaches.
And, we were to Lifestyles, which is pretty clothing optional, of course.
Nudity has played a part in spanking for us over the years to varying degrees. Semi to full nudity. At one point we used maintenance spankings which included naked kneeling beforehand.
I have never been that comfortable being naked so hated the naked kneeling. I have got a lot more comfortable over the years though.
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Roz
I have no problem with getting nude in a private situation. Which is lucky, as in Belgium, mainstream BDSM is far more common than Spanko culture and a lot of women that I play with, both professionals and fellow amateurs, seem to like the CFNM (Clothed Female, Naked Male) power dynamic. I don't think that this has anything to do with a desire to see me naked, as I ain't young and pretty no more :) If nudity is required of me, as part of a fantasy play scene, again I have no problem with that, in private.
As for the Top, getting naked with me, this has happened. With some professionals, it was sometimes a practical thing. Not wanting to get cloths sweaty on a hot day. I did use to have one amateur play partner who liked to get naked to spank me, I never worked out why, as no sexual interaction was ever asked for or offered by either of us. She just seemed more comfortable about playing that way and it never bothered me, as long as she was happy with the situation.
Prefctdt
PS - I do like to wear a man thong, when allowed to, but have no problem doing without this, if ordered to be totally Au Natural.
Prefectdt
Well, that PS was to a comment that totally disappeared. I am sorry but I do not have time to rewrite it now. If you could check your spam folder for it, Hermione, I would be very grateful. I will try to find time to come back later and do it again. But I am making no promises, as I have plans for the rest of the day.
Prefectdt
Prefectdt - not to worry. I have the comment. it was flagged as spam.
At our house, spankings are delivered on my bare bottom. It may start over clothes sometimes, but those are shed along the way. We also enjoy nude spankings (just me far more often both of us). Being deprived of clothing changes the punishment dynamic.
I don't mind being nude around Randy, especially for the purpose of spanking/lovemaking but that's as far as it goes.
I don't mind being naked if not for feeling cold all the time. But I've always had a problem with standing up naked and being looked over. That just feels terrible to me. Being naked for anything else is fine.
(Also, I'm adding a small note to say that I've unpublished my blog for a few days until Blogger can calm the F down, cos it's flagging all my old posts one by one and I'm getting email spam for adult content. I've put up the sensitive content warning but it's still going on... so I'll pop back online in about a week maybe. Sorry for hijacking this comment thread.)
"What role does nudity play...in your day to day activities?"
Day to day nudity? Why, Hermione! What ever do you mean?
As for the Q:
If I'm spanking her, it is her bra and panties then nude.
If she is spanking me, I am in boxers while wearing a t-shirt, quickly leading to bare bottom.
The t-shirt is because the room is too hot, or it's more comfortable.
If she wants the 'full Monty," fine with me.
What is she wearing when spanking me? Her choice; as long as a SHORT skirt is involved.
One more! Roscoe's comment: "I would never wear socks. Never."
That made me laugh!
Some years ago I found the British comedy "Coupling." (Think: a British version of "Friends," with a lot more.) In one of the episodes Jeff, who sees the male-female relationship with remarkable insight, tells the the two other male leads about the danger of "The Sock Gap!" during foreplay.
Jeff: "I mean, where exactly do you take your socks off? My advice is to take them off right after your shoes, and before your trousers. That's the sock gap. Miss it, and suddenly you're a naked man in socks. No self-respecting woman will ever let a naked man in socks do the squelchy with her."
My then GF, watching the show with me and hearing that line, exploded in laughter! And said, "That's so true!"
A.J.
Thanks, Hermione :)
Prefectdt
Nudity from my spanker never happens. She is almost always in a full corset and stockings. Me, it depends on what she wants. But that ranges from pantyhose, thigh high’s to panties to nada. She usually likes by behind clear of any obstruction, not that pantyhose does much. With the addition of her new single tail whip, I am looking for a padded male thong for protection. Any suggestions?
I enjoy nudity…think “Failure To Launch” with Terry Bradshaw’s naked room. While on vacation, I will sit naked on the balcony or terrace enjoying an adult beverage. My wife tolerates that but won’t go that far with me.
Loved this week’s topic. Thanks
Barrel
For myself, I'm not super-comfortable with my own nudity unless I'm in a romantic/sexual relationship with someone. I will, however, take my pants down to receive a spanking.
For bottoms I spank, I always like spanking on the bare bottom, but the bottom can negotiate how much they want to wear in terms of clothing and I will always respect that. With my romantic partners it's almost always bare bottom when we're in private.
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