We talked about spankings that send a message, and here's what you said:
Bonnie: Yes, absolutely. There are lots of messages. Examples include "I want
you to listen to what I'm telling you" or "I'm going to be in charge
now" or "You need some guidance" or "I'm going to resolve this problem
right now."
He delivers his message through spankings. He
forcefully strikes my bare bottom many times with a paddle. It hurts and
I get his point.
Wendel: Pretty much like Bonnie said. The paddle and the belt does all the talking.
Rosco: Pretty much that she wants her pussy licked. Sometimes Irene means to spank longer and harder but can’t wait. She orders me to turn over and smothers me with her ample bottom and precious pussy.
Roz: Oh yes, there is often a message behind the spanking. Either addressing an issue, or it could be making it plain that the spanking is for fun. The message is delivered through the words Rick uses, his general demeanour during the spanking and how he spanks, how hard, whether there are pauses to rub etc.
Rich Person: Yes. As the spanker, the message I'm sending usually, "Don't do that again".
The subtext is, "You are submitting to me." Sometimes that's the text, but usually it's the subtext.
Obviously, there's another message, too. "Your bottom is lovely!" (Especially with this nice red color.)
Prefectdt: I have never been in that kind of relationship, but I am interested in reading everyone else's answers.
Jack: My spankings are for being a naughty little boy even though I'm the husband. It depends on what I did, for it is not just the spanking but afterwards. Just the normal would be facing the wall with bare bottom on display.
KDPierre: I don't think we've ever done a spanking without SOME sort of message.
Naturally on the behavioral end, the message is usually one to behave in
the future and to be currently contrite for whatever already happened.
And Rosa has also done preventive warning spankings where the message is
kind of "Your sore butt will help remind you to behave while we're
out."
I'm very big on understanding what a spanking is for. Even a
requested spanking is asked for with a reason. I can't imagine enduring
the pain of a spanking without knowing why, even if the message is one
of play or fun. In whatever case the message is conveyed verbally for
clarity, and then punctuated with smacks for reinforcement.
Barrel: Absolutely! When a session is spawned by bad behavior or disrespect, my wife uses the opportunity to send a message. Spanking is usually a prelude to her use of the strap, tawse and two delrin canes. She uses each to deliver a different lesson, often times asking if I “understand” her message, after which she tells me she doubts that I do and I get a long volley of what ever she has in her hand. I have to say when she is using the thin cane, it is eye watering. After years of these thrashings, I do believe her messages are opportunities for me to learn and improve. Great question this week. Thank you.
A.: All my spanking, giving or receiving, is for the sheer fun of it, and always leading to amorous activities! I don’t think that qualifies as “sending a message” (or does it?), so I’m going to say no.
Ronnie: Pretty much as Bonnie says. P delivers his message through the spankings, Bad behaviour, not listening to him, fun.
Hermione: I'm in the minority here, along with A. Our spankings are purely foreplay, and there is no message other than looking forward to what comes next.
Thank you all for sharing. See you next time!
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