How the week has flown by! It's time to relax and enjoy a pleasant discussion about that thing we do. Today's topic isn't about an actual spanking, but what follows.
What is your favourite form of aftercare?
Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish an edited summary of our conversation. Thank you, Bonnie, for the topic.
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It could be two things, when I've been really naughty, wife/mommy gives a very sound spanking, she will have facing the wall have me sit on her lap, hold me tight and saids she loves me, but love hurts sometime. Not often, but there have been times while facing the wall she has applied cream to my sore spanked bottom. It helps eases the pain and shows she cares about me. The spankings are punishment spankings which I have earned, and yet she shows the caring side. Jack
After a good paddling or whipping a cold wet rag applied to the bottom always feels good. The Misses likes cream applied after I whip her and of course lots of hugs.
My favorite is definitely lovemaking. It's the whipped cream on top of the sundae.
The cuddles and hugs afterwards and I love you's afterwards. Snuggling as close in to his body as I can
Hugs
Roz
Interesting. I don't do aftercare. I don't need it because I'm not into serious pain. We make love after, mostly because I have convinced my vanilla partner that spanking me is foreplay. I realized I could get him to spank me as often as he wants sex. So that is working well for me. I like making love, but not as much as being spanked. I like the cuddling after, a lot, but I never think of it as aftercare.
The naughty young lady sits on my lap for cuddles and forehead kisses. A lovely end to a lovely event.
I've heard lotion should be good, but haven't found one that the spankee actually finds cooling. Any tips?
Again, when we were in our WLM most of my punishments were across her lap as she sat up against the headboard of our bed. When she was done she allowed me to lay across her lap to calm down then she would offer, "you may suckle my breast if you would like". This was the only time I was allowed to suck her breast, she prefers licking and kissing. She would caress me as I suckled one breast then the other.
Like others said, sex afterwards was the best. However, toward the end of our WLM we no longer had intercourse but I was required to pleasure her orally and I was not "rewarded" with being allowed to receive my own pleasure.
I often ask for some alcohol gel to be spread on the affected areas, to take care of any micro lesions, that the spanking may have caused. Strangely, I find this one last ouchy hurrah, before the body lotion goes on, very invigorating.
Prefectdt
WLM means what?
Ours has always been intimacy. However, after prostate surgery last year, ED has stopped that. We are working through the alternatives and have hope we can return to that engagement. Hell to grow old, but I don’t have that damn “C” word any more.
Cheers, Barrel
I always perform oral sex on her until she climaxes. Most often, but not always, we then have intercourse. Sleep usually comes soon after all that!! Graham
These days, most of the times I’m tied to the bed face up after a spanking - sometimes gagged and or blindfolded as well. Irene will return after 30-60 minutes (just guessing) for reverse cowgirl cunnlingus followed by intercourse.
Sometimes after she has an orgasm, Irene will grab me and scratch me like crazy.
Then she’ll make dinner. Is that aftercare?
Rosco
Hugs, cuddles and the sex after it.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Ideally, being held, cuddled, comforted, and allowed to suckle.
It's when I am required to kneel before Mistress K., to apologize for whatever infraction I am being punished for and to thank you for my spanking. Both are required each time and if I should forget either, the spanking resumes until she feels like I can remember. While kneeling and with my head/face on her tummy and arms wrapped around her tightly, Mistress will rub my head and tell me that it is all over now and that the slate has been wiped clean.
Wife-led marriage, I think
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