We discussed the advantages and disadvantages of long spankings. Here's what you said:
Bonnie: My answer is an unqualified yes. Just as it's quite possible to make
love for an hour, couples can certainly engage in spanking activities
for an extended interval as well. This is not to say that we have
continuous swatting (or non-stop intercourse) for the whole time. There
are many other ancillary aspects of a spanking session or a lovemaking
session (or both together!) that enhance the experience for both
participants.
For the marathon spanking, we might add massages,
costumes, oils, kissing, unveiling, lotions, corner time, photos,
quizzes and games, role play, changing implements, changing positions,
changing rooms, aftercare, toys, and improvisational fun.
Another
variation is where I position myself across Randy's lap on the couch
while we watch a movie or sporting event. When he feels like spanking,
he lifts my nightgown and spanks. If he feels like rubbing, he rubs. I
love it all.
I think the the biggest challenge is available
time. Our schedules have not always been compatible, especially when we
had a kid in the house. But the pandemic has created more together
time and so we have lots of opportunities now.
Roz: I think it depends on the situation. If the situation is as Bonnie
mentions above, and the spanking is for enjoyment then yes. We have had
extended sessions in the past with other activities intermingled with
the spanking.
If, however, we are talking purely spanking, or it
is for discipline then I think there is a limit at which point the
purpose may be lost.
Joe: We have had some very extended spanking sessions were as stated before other activities were included. Sometimes T likes to spank me hard for a while and then gently touch me and rub me, then resume spanking changing implements and intensity. The various sensations are incredible. Just one example long playful sessions are great.
Wendel: We do not spank non stop for very long. The longest might have been 10 minutes.
Similar
to Bonnie, when we have movie night on commercial TV we take turns
laying across each others lap naked from the waist down during the
entire movie. A spanking is given during the commercials we dislike. I
will spank the Misses during insurance and cell phone commercials. The
Misses spanks me during drug and fast food commercials. As soon as the
commercial is over the spanking stops. There is great anticipation and
excitement when the breaks start knowing that any second you could get a
spanking. Possibly multiple spankings during one break.
Yorkie: We don’t go for long at all as my wife gets bored easily. Personally, I’d love a marathon spanking but I’m afraid my limits outweigh hers. It’s one reason I’m getting some heavier toys so she can pack more of a wallop with as little effort as possible.
Fondles: I wonder if a too-long spanking ends up numbing the bum more than anything else.
We
often only have spankings that last a few minutes. anything longer
would mean there were lots of breaks in between for other fun stuff.
*wink*.
Ronnie: Answer is yes as Bonnie mentions. We have done extended sessions on occasion, fun spankings not discipline.
Lena: As others have mentioned, we do have spanking sessions that can take
several hours, but it's more like several individual spankings with
different implements and in different positions with breaks for other
things in between. There is almost always some corner time and my
partner loves to make me do lines sitting on a hard chair with my
already sore bottom.
I think the longest continuous spanking I
received was about 15 minutes, though it felt a lot longer. My partner
used a wooden spoon and we both were pretty exhausted after that
experience. I probably could take a longer hand spanking but I doubt my
partner would have the endurance to do it. Also it would probably get
pretty boring after a while, I do need a certain level of pain for a
spanking to do anything for me.
Jack: Depends on what I have done, how long since the last spanking, and if someone is present.
Minelle: We haven’t ever done a super long spanking session but the ideas above would be good when we have more privacy!
Barrel: I have been the beneficiary of several spankings that approach 45
minutes. But they have all included a bit of a respite for me, secured
to the bench at the bottom of our bed, while my wife leaves me alone and
enjoys a glass of wine. These breaks are always align at the end of an
intense and extended thrashing, and then a restart with a new
implement.
The most recent event was my 65th birthday. I asked
for, and received six and a half minutes of spanking starting with her
hand, then the hairbrush and finally the rubber paddle. After a break
for lunch, I was secured to the bench, and received 65 lashes with the
strap, 65 with the tawse, concluding with 65 strokes split between the
heavy and thin delrin canes, which took about 30 minutes.
While
my wife benefits from the release in frustrations from my behavior and
moodiness, I benefit by releasing tension and satisfying my yearning for
a stern session.
Graham: Like most of you, we've had many sessions that last over an hour. These are definitely fun, fantasy and romantic spankings -- not disciplinary. Like many have said, these are interspersed with other activities including lots of cunnilingus to both our delights!
Hermione: In the stories I read, long spankings were strictly that: whacking away for 30 minutes or more. As much as I enjoy being spanked, I would find that rather boring. In addition, my bottom becomes numb after 10 minutes or so, so a long punishment spanking wouldn't have much effect if I wasn't feeling it. But the variety that many of you describe sounds delightful!
Willie: At the risk of sounding unbelievable, due to comments above we have
often had spankings that have lasted an hour. B has taken a few minutes
break or, as he puts it, ' resensitize the area' (hate that word lol).
There is no rubbing or fun during that time. These are reset sessions
not punishments. I tend to have a very hard head at times so this
explains the length. They start off less intense than a punishment but
are by no means playful ( unfortunately my mind doesn't work with
playful and spanking- I wish it did!)
I wasn't going to comment
because I have mentioned this before,years ago in a chatroom and was
told I exaggerate, but then I thought what if there was someone else out
there who reads here and felt they were a fish out of water because
they too experience lengthy and yes intense spanking sessions? There are
ways to not get numb-bum. The point doesn't have to get lost, and on
rare occasions sub space can happen- at least that has been our
experience. Unfortunately/ fortunately due to Covid and lack of alone
time it has been a long while since I've experienced a lengthy session. I
certainly don't miss the pain of it but I do miss the after feelings.
Thank you all for sharing your thoughts. Stay safe!
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My bottom will get a numbness but once it wears off, my bottom is truly warm, feels like bees have stung it, and worse of all my wife will not allow me to rub it at all, just face the wall, no talking, no rubbing, or get another spanking. Jack
All of us have a very deep secret, we protect it, but at times it consumes us. I let the secret out on several occasions, thinking it would be understood, it was not. I was to the point of keeping it secret, it is me getting a spanking. Your sight has helped very much, especially prior to getting married. Diana Specht has been very helpful, her videos, have kept me out of trouble. It was a particular woman I was seeing, gave up on the young ones, and a few months into this relationship, laying in bed, she said, we are both naked, we have made love, so what better time than to tell your deepest secret. I looked at her, started to play with her breast, and told her of my desire to be spanked, she understood. Her deepest desire was to be in charge, previous relationship she was not listen to. That evening, I brought up our conversation and then showed her a video by Specht. Is this what you want she said when it was finished. Yes I said, but only when you decide, no safe words, a true spanking. Well the following week I did something stupid, she looked at me, stern voice, said your getting a spanking. I said nothing, she said, no safe words, her way, and I softly said yes. She pulled a chair from the kitchen table and sat down and told me to stand before her. My pants, underpants down and my erection on display. You might think this is going to be fun, and then over her lap. Her hand soundly spanked my bottom and I held back until I started to squirm and said enough. Young man she said, your rules and I will decided when enough. She finally stopped, I stood up rubbing, I'm not done, and you best have those pants off, underpants, also by the time I get back. I stood there, doing as told, she returned with a hairbrush, sat down and back over her lap. Such a naughty little boy you have been she said sternly, Mommy spanks naughty little boys, I said Yes Mommy. The hairbrush landed fast, hard and I was a mess when she stood me up. I had other spankings and she introduce me to the woman I married. I had to tell her about my spanking desires, how I wanted them. She looked at me, said she knew already, reason she would date me, but when it comes to a spanking, her terms, understand. I said yes. We dated for a year, her spankings were hard and always over her lap. When we got married the lady I was seeing gave us a gift of one week at a mountain cabin resort. The cabins were spread out, and that second day, the first night was great, I was told I was going to get a spanking, and was to remind me of who was in charge. She sternly told me to undress, place clothes on couch. I was given a sound spanking, hairbrush from the begging and from that first spanking in our marriage I do as told, quickly, no talking back. I feel so stress free, I just find being a naughty little boy is just who I am.
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