Sunday, January 24, 2021

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #367

Welcome back to another weekend discussion. We all enjoy spanking in one form or another -- or you wouldn't be reading this and I wouldn't be blogging about it -- but sometimes fantasy does not turn into reality.

Has there ever been a time when your need for a spanking fell far short of your expectations?  How did you deal with your dissatisfaction? Did you express your disappointment, and if so, how was it resolved?

Leave your response as a comment. I will publish an edited summary of our conversation once everyone has had the opportunity to join in.

From Hermione's Heart

8 comments:

WendelJones said...

Not really. It is a spanking, my backend is sore, what's not to enjoy.
If the Misses complains about the quality of the spanking then I just spank her again.

Roz said...

There have been a few occasions when a spanking wasn't quite enough, either in intensity or duration. If the spanking was of the fun variety I have happily moved on to other activities. If, however the spanking was for discipline or to reinforce our roles and it hasn't been enough I'm afraid I have been prone to being moody or pouty. We have had the odd do over. I think the difference is the emotions involved.

Hugs
Roz

kdpierre said...

Absolutely. With several people too. The solution is simple enough, just be honest and say what you're thinking. I can't recall any time when such a confession didn't lead to a more satisfying conclusion.

Fondles said...

Definitely. Sometimes I have to tell BIKSS in advance that I'm feeling extra needy and could he possibly assist (read: don't go easy) in getting me back into the right emotional space.

Sometimes a combination of spanking and other activities / exercises help get me back in the right submissive mindset where the spanking itself would have been 'not enough'.

Anonymous said...

i wish that was the case, my wife insures that I'm finally just laying over lap and pleading, begging, and promising to be good. My bottom is stinging, very warm and I know red. My wife feels a spanking is not over until I stop my squirming and kicking and promising to be a good little boy. Jack

Anonymous said...

Of course. With 40 years of at least once a week, there’ll be a few hiccups.

Two kinds:

We’ve been interrupted a few times.

Occasionally I’ll really crave a thorough spanking, but Irene will decide she’s ready for oral attention, after which she’ll want intercourse.

Rosco

ronnie said...

Yes there has. If the spanking hasn't been long or hard enough and I needed more, I have been known to cheek and say something like - I thought you were going to spank me and that leads to getting what I want a longer and harder spanking.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Barrel said...

Yep. In most of our sessions, which are intended to be prolonged and serious, I am left short of what I expected. I have told my wife that I could have gone longer. The usual response is that she got my backside to the color and texture that she wanted, and that was enough. She has said, “good to know”, leaving me thinking the next one might click up a notch, but I haven’t felt it yet. I do think it is all about communication and managing expectations.

Barrel