Why do women spank?
Jack: Thank You for posting this, appreciate, and look forward to the comments.
Roz: This is an interesting question. I am on the receiving end of a spanking so can't really comment much, except to say I have spanked Rick on the odd occasion in play. At times I did enjoy being on the other end (so to speak), but ultimately, not 100% comfortable.
Rosco: I’m a submissive man and will try to answer for my dominant wife, Irene.
At
first, she spanked me because it was important to me. But she got
totally into it after several years, escalating into other forms of
discipline that push me to the limit. But spankings (with whip, strap or
paddle) are a constant, and she’s more into it than me. We don’t take
it seriously but she confesses she likes to make it hurt.
Prefectdt: Again, I am not in a position to give you a personal answer, but I have asked a lot of spankers this question over the years. And received a wide range of answers. Some examples are "Because I like getting paid for doing this", "Because it turns me on and my husband is not going to know why, but we are going to have a really special time, two minutes after I get through the door" and from an older first-timer, "I have wanted to do this my whole life and just can't suppress it any more". Not exact wordings, but you get the idea. I do hope that some spanking women take part in this weekend's brunch. I suspect there are as many different answers as there are female spankers in the world.
Nele: n the beginning I mostly did it because it was something that my husband
needs to be happy. I wasn't really into it, but I also didn't mind
doing it if it was something he wanted. He has done a lot of things he
doesn't really care about to make me happy, so I was willing to give it a
try when he opened up about it.
Making him happy is still a huge
part of it, but over time it also became a way to vent my frustrations.
Feels really great to let him have it, after he pissed me off with
something or after a bad day at work. I struggled with this for while
once I realized that is what was going on, but decided it's fine as long
as I make sure not to be excessive and respect his limits. He also
didn't seem to mind when I told him about it, he even admitted he kind
of likes it when I'm a bit angry for a spanking because it makes the
spanking feel more real.
Hermione: Since I am on the receiving end, I can't add much to the conversation. I can think of only one circumstance, and that is a professional dominatrix. I imagine they do it because they enjoy it and are good at it and/or it's a way to earn money.
Nick N: Surely if my Mistress told me for what she is going to belt me, it would be much better. Moreover, if she kept telling me something like "You must obey me!" or "Don't forget about ever!", it would allow this simple idea to easily go to my brain because during the spanking my brain is busy with pain, so any simple idea said loudly can smoothly go to my mind and my subconsciousness. But my Mistress prefers me to count aloud the number of strokes. Well, really it's important, too.
Any other female spankers are more than welcome to add their opinions to his post. Happy Hallowe'en!
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Surprised at the low response, my wife said it could be that males don't want it known they are spanked, and as for females she said it is hard to know. I'm spanked as I have said because I may have wanted it at first but need it. My personality at times needs a 'Mommy', the spankings hurt, do what they are suppose to do. Each to their own and so I once again Thank-You for this post, it truly is appreciated. Jack
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