It's Thanksgiving weekend here in Canada, so have a slice of pumpkin pie and let's give thanks for the ability to discuss spanking in a comfortable environment. Our good friend Bonnie suggested this week's topic.
Spankers: Do you prefer an obedient spankee or one who resists before ultimately complying?
Spankees: Are you obedient or do you try to resist?
Leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has spoken, I will publish an edited summary of our conversation.
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It has never occurred to me to be anything other than obedient and contrite. Maybe it's time for a change?
Mostly obedient, but occasionally a back problem preventing a spanking. Someone who likes being spanked (except during the spanking), could never be reluctant, no matter how severe it might be.
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Obedient whether top or bottom unless we've agreed to some "special" scenario. :-) Graham
Obedient. I want to stay focused on the task at hand.
Happy Thanksgiving Hermione, hope you are having a wonderful long weekend.
Great question! I would say I ultimately comply. Although at times there may be token verbal resistance beforehand.
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Roz
Whether giving or receiving punishment with me it's only done for fun so at heart anybody being spanked by me is essentially obedient and similarly I'm being a willing recipient. However it is always fun if a lady pretends to be unhappy about her punishment and vice versa it's fun to act as an unwilling spankee,
I am very obedient... Except when I'm bratting. But bratting is like Topping, I only do it with the informed consent of the other party involved and I respect their hard limits on that.
Prefectdt
For us, it depends upon the scene. I almost always want to be spanked, so I wouldn't want to miss out because my resistance was mistaken for disinterest or dislike. But there are some punishment scenarios where reluctant and delayed compliance fits.
I am generally obedient now. When I was younger, I used to resist more, thinking that my husband should “force me” or make rules and enforce them, but he didn’t. So now I kind of enforce my own rules, like staying in position and calling him “sir.” The early resistance does mean that he’s only tried the diaper position on me once — I think that one requires a compliance that I wasn’t willing to give at the time. - Wendy
For me it depends on what type of spanking it is but for the most part I like a little resistance from the spankee at first. It seems to spice things up and makes it that much sweeter when they are finally over my knee getting their bottom spanked.
I agree with several others, it depends on the type of spanking. For the most part, I am submissive and compliant. But when the session will be severe, I am often hesitant and reluctant. My wife is very encouraging and supportive in helping me get mentally prepared and physically restrained. Thereafter, I am prepared for the duration.
We like spankings so there is not much resistance. The Misses will fuss occasional in hopes of getting extra spanks which I am happy to oblige.
Generally, our roleplay routine is that Irene scolds me for some transgression - peeking in the women’s locker room, peeking up skirts, sniffing panties - that sort of thing. Often someone has snitched on me. I deny it. Then I claim entrapment. As the spanking proceeds and intensifies, I break down, confess and apologize. But it’s too late.
Sometimes I’ll write the note for the aggrieved woman or women, sign their names, and leave it for Irene to find.
Rosco
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