It's great to see you all here again. You're just in time for brunch. Today we have a topic that first appeared on our dear friend Bonnie's My Bottom Smarts waaay back in 2012, and I thought it was high time for it to reappear.
Do you or your partner ever deliver extra spanks to one side in order to "even up" the spanking? If so, is this a regular practice or an exception? Does the use of "evening up" swats depend upon the position, implement, or purpose? How does the spankee feel about this technique?
Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has had a
chance to speak, I will publish an edited summary of our conversation.
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Irene is spontaneous. She probably evens up but doesn’t thing about it.
When she’s used switches or birches or certain whips, sometimes the wrap around on the far side gets the brunt of the action - she doesn’t like to leave much in the way of welts or bruises. But mostly she’s been using a leather strap or paddle and things come out pretty even.
Rosco
I'm confused. Wouldn't adding extra to one side "uneven" things up?
Anyway, to answer the question.....no. We do equal numbers 'while spanking cheek to cheek'.
In general Rick spanks evenly as a matter of course rather than a deliberate action I think. There has been the odd time he has added extra to one side, but it's generally been done in a light hearted way. I may have commented on thinking one side took more than the other for instance. There have also been times he has deliberately directed most or all spanks to one cheek for various reasons, such as position and access, or just because.
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Roz
Let me add that some implements whack only one cheek at a time. Irene’s leather paddle, most hair brushes, the hand etc.
Irene’s strap inflicts a pretty equally across both cheeks. So would a sorority/fraternity style paddle I imagine.
Switches and riding crops tend to be more severe on the far cheek, but it depends on how they’re used.
Overall right handed spankers may therefore end up concentrating more on the right cheek under normal positioning. Some photos of severe discipline on the internet will show such results from caning for example. In our case the difference is slight.
Rosco
My wife/mommy once done with the spanking, it doesn't matter which side is spanked more or less, I have a very sore and red bare bottom to display facing the wall. If she decides we are going out to eat, I squirm no matter what and this is just part of my punishment for being a naughty little boy. Jack
Some play partners don't, but most do. I appreciate this, as it is not pleasant to be “Lop Spanked”. This is especially necessary when very flexible, usually leather, toys are involved, that tend to be a bit “Endy”.
Prefectdt
When it comes to hand spanking or paddling it is pretty even. I think the control just come naturally. The belt or strap is different. During a whipping the implement lands where it lands on the bottom and we do not try even out the sides.
I have paddled the Misses on one cheek only. She seems to like it and will occasionally ask for it. I enjoy watching her standing in the corner after or squirming in a chair trying to get comfortable.
Wendel
My wife tends to spank for color, welts and wales rather than count. Having honed her skills over 40 years, she is adept in getting what she feels is appropriate. She does alternate where she stands when she uses the strap, riding crop and tawse although she is quite proficient with her backhand strokes. I agree with Rosco, the cane tends to wrap when vigorously applied, and she will add strokes to get the welts she wants evenly distributed. While I do not like cane strokes that wrap, I don’t have any say in it. My role is to breathe, let it in and cherish the moment, no matter how difficult that may be.
Great oldie question. Thanks. Barrel
I think evening up is important and necessary. The more distant cheek tends to receive fuller and therefore harder swings. For a right handed spanker, that means the spankee's right buttock gets the worst of it.
When I am being punished, I don't get a lot of say about what happens, but Randy knows uneven spankings are an issue for me. It's so easy to fix with a half dozen good hard swats on my left side. There's just no excuse for not doing the whole job.
WOW! Whata' question! Had me smile!
I know I have mentioned my first spanking GF, and that she tricked me into spanking her. My first time spanking a girl, her 1st time as an adult getting spanked.
After, she, now embarrassed by how it turned her on - and my noticing her getting turned on to a volcanic orgasm, and her embarrassment!!! - she finally admitted she like to be spanked.
Our relationship began anew with more fun and surprises to come!!!
Fast forward a couple months.
I'm coming out of the shower and there she is with this "look" on her face an glint in her eye. Said that she had always wanted to spank a boy, and - here I was! And reminded me that I had told her that the last and only time I had been spanked was at least 20-years earlier, and that no way in hell was I a "good boy" all that time. I must had "gotten away with it!" And,
"You're overdue. Today's the day; AND NOW Is the time!"
Fair's fair, amiright? You give you better be able to take. (Privately I had known this for a long time. Thought I was going to "get away with it." Nope!
OTK I go!
And she's like a giddy school girl! For a first-timer, on a scale of 1-10: a 7?
She was pretty good. Using just her hand. But in her first 75 firm smacks - were overwhelming applied to the outside cheek. And it started to really hurt. Sitting after would be PAINFUL! So much to starboard I finally turned back and in a loud voice:
"HEY!!! I've got TWO cheeks!!!"
She saw the problem. And this wonderful woman apologized, sweetly chalked it up to inexperience, and that it would never happen again. (There's going to be another one????) And then:
Cheerily: "Let me even it up for you!!"
And did so. And we both laughed. She "rewarded" me after. (Or did I reward her? Could go either way.)
To me one-cheek spankings are for the punishment I never do because it really hurts. "In all things, balance."
One other quick one.
Saw a short video clip of a woman taking a man otk and spanking him. Straight backed chair, the woman late 30's to mid 40's. Never got a good look at the woman, but got a good look at "the lap of justice," and my first thought: "Me next!" She looked that inviting.
And all business.
In the first 4-5 seconds: "Drop your pants!"
As he did, she sat down.
His shorts on the floor - OTK
Shorts pulled down.
And the spanking began.
1-2-3! It was that fast.
Not a particularly hard spanking of the lad, but each smack of her hand was delivered firmly; giving him what I call "a good spanking!" At a two firm smacks per second.
Then the cljp ended. After about 100 smacks she paused. There was going to be more, but I was not to see it. (Seeing that woman spank, my eagerness to be "Next!" subsided a bit. But just a bit.)
I watched it a couple more times and noted/counted, of those 100 firm smacks, 80 of them were to the lad's outside cheek!
80% to one cheek!
And it showed! Right cheek visibly RED; the left just a bit pink.
And there I was, in my mind, telling her from personal experience - "He's got TWO cheeks!"
He would have difficulty sitting for quite a few hours; more so if her hand hurt and she switched to hairbrush/paddle or strap! (And I'm guessing she did.)
Love to see that clip again. And share it with you.
A.J.
Absolutely! On the receiving end, I hate it. :-) Graham
My wife/mommy reminded me that equal spanks maybe what some may think but when one side gets more spanks, means more squirming, and that adds to the punishment. Jack
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