Hello and welcome back to our regular readers. If you are a newcomer, we are all happy to see you here. Today's topic is one that might make you stop and think before answering.
What, if anything, do you dislike about spanking?
Please leave your response as a comment, and I'll publish a summary of our discussion in the next post.
Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine
10 comments:
"Dislike"? I don't understand the question. But it *might* just be...blasphemy. :)
When the spanking ends.
Ooh, great question! Um, not much to dislike. Maybe the anticipation if a spanking is anticipated but we have to wait for one reason or another.
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Roz
The long scolding, standing there, my pants and underpants around my ankles, all on display, seeing the bathbrush in wife/mommy hand. If someone is present I really want it to be over quickly, it never is. Jack
The very start of the spanking, when it just hurts a lot, before the magic starts happening. It is just something that has to be endured, until that wonderful, mental conversion from pain to "Dancing with the fairies", kicks in.
Prefectdt
Something I truly dislike, but also appreciate, is when the number of spanks in a decreed punishment is so large that it necessitates breaking up the total into somewhat smaller, but sequential spankings. For punishments I get spanked hard (as anyone who used to frequent my old blog knows LOL) and the soreness the next day is significant. Having to then get spanked all over again on that very tender bottom is pure hell. Multiply that by another day or more? Well, as much as I like "spanking" I am absolutely dreading being called to the room for those next installments.
BUT......BUT....and this is important...... while I do truly dislike the very intense pain involved, I very much admire my Honey for sticking to her guns, and spanking without much regard to prior soreness. (She sees that as part and parcel of having earned a long, high-numbered punishment. And also knows that while it absolutely hurts way more getting spanked on a sore bottom, it doesn't really cause any more damage than any other spanking.) These are PUNISHMENTS after all.....and are supposed to be dreaded. So, yeah, a person (even me) can love "spanking" as a thing and still 'dislike' a particular spanking. ;-)
I love everything about spanking. The thing I do not like is that since I think about it everyday all day, it takes up a lot of time and energy. I always wonder what I could have accomplished in life, if I had channeled all of that energy into something productive.
Like everyone else, I love spankings - being spanked that is. (The last spanking I delivered was in 1979.)
As a submissive, I savor the experience. Sometimes I get two or three spankings a half hour apart, before cunnilingus followed by intercourse. Mostly, I just go with the flow as a submissive but sometimes I’ll whine or complain to encourage a harder or longer spanking.
Sometimes an errant blow will fall on the far hipbone or nether parts that hurts simply way too much.
It’s hard to enjoy the spanking fully if I’m not comfortable. I like my bottom elevated at least a little and my face down, but my nose gets in the way. If I haven’t set up the pillows right, it can be tough on my neck. And if the spanking causes me to thrash around, it can be hard to regain that comfortable position.
Finally, as long as I’m whining about minutia, the perfect spanking would allow me to breathe, to exhale after each blow. Often they come fast and furious. I enjoy the intensity but cannot savor each whack the way I’d like to.
But i don't want to diminish Irene’s passion with too many specifics. It’s wonderful the way it is.
Rosco
The stigma. It would be so wonderful to come out as a spanko on a first date and not be judged as a weirdo, just have it accepted.
I wrote an entire post about dastardly spanker tricks. I have experienced all of these and they are unpleasant.
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