Sunday, September 22, 2024

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #558



This weekend heralds the arrival of fall, and with it comes a time for introspection. This is a topic we have discussed before, and the time is right to revisit it.

Do you have a spanking bucket list? Will you share some of the items that are on it? Are there any that you have been able to cross off?

Leave your reply as a comment and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to find their lists and check them twice. Everyone is welcome to contribute, so if you haven't joined in a brunch conversation before, now's your chance.

 

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18 comments:

Mija said...

Something on my spanking bucket list is doing an immersive school role-play that lasts a weekend or more. I'd like to do it more than once, maybe as both a top and a bottom.

More meta, I'd like to start an image-free (because I'm kinda a prude about seeing p0rn) forum for long-form discussion about (almost) all things spanking and stories.

Something I've done recently is go to a F/M party as a top. It was such a different perspective. Maybe there is some latent switch in here somewhere after all.

Mija
https://mijasroom.net

Anonymous said...

Interesting question, since my wife/mommy spanks I had to show her this. She said she has filled her bucket list when it comes to spanking me. The first was the spanking she gave me at her Mother home. Her Mother had said I needed one and so what better place than at her Mother's. She really enjoyed my protest, the squirming, facing the corner. The one other bucket list was in a hotel. The walls were thin so no doubt I was being spanked, but the best part was going to dinner and those who heard, especially the women, smiled when they saw me. My wife/mommy saids both places made it clear who wore the pants in the family. She did saw really not a bucket list, but two places she was most satisfied with after I was given a spanking. Jack

FL said...

I've always wanted to visit a professional (female) disciplinarian. It's something I've thought about doing for many years but for various reasons was unable to follow through before now. There are two women in the Greater Toronto Area who provide the type of services I'm interested in, so I've narrowed it down to choosing one of them (unless anyone knows of another suitable candidate in the GTA!). To say I'm nervous about it, for all kinds of reasons, is a massive understatement. Anybody have any advice?

Chronic Excessive Manliness said...

My bucket...runeth over. Repeat performances? Sure, I'm up for that, and will do so for years to come. But as for anything new or unexperienced, all has been completed. :)

Dan - A Disciplined Hubby said...

We haven't been particularly adventurous in this area. The top 2 that actually could happen probably are being spanked outdoors and in a car/RV. A much less likely one would be being spanked in front of a witness.

WendelJones said...

No bucket list for spankings here. We pretty much do the things that have always interested us.

Anonymous said...

I’d like to be spanked by the women’s tennis team at the local university.

Well, that’s a fantasy. I have others and would like to write a book but don’t have time to do it right.

I’ve been spanked in the great outdoors in many places as well as in a tack room at a riding stable. Hotel rooms are fun.

Realistically, Irene and I are close to 70 and our “dates”, roughly weekly, are intensely satisfying. I’ve been spanked in


Rosco

Roz said...

No real bucket list here.

Hugs
Roz

Anonymous said...

Be very clear what you are wanting, traditional otk spanking or if you want to go further. Remember this your paying and they will provide the service you want. Jack

Anonymous said...

A spanking party for me.
Love,
Ronnie
xx

Anonymous said...

I have lots of my spanking bucket lists, but I will just give two now. First, I would like to attend a spanking party in Las Vegas. I think it would be amazing to be around so many like minded people where I could indulge in spanking to my heart's content. The second is I would really cherish the opportunity to give Erica Scott a good old fashioned over the knee bare bottom spanking so that she is unable to sit down for a week.

Prefectdt said...

I have a list of desires, but not a hard and fast Bucket List. I would hate to end my life, cursing because I did not tick off all the things that I had put on a list.

Prefectdt

Mark said...

I would like to be spanked in front of one or two of my wife's friends.

Anonymous said...

I would love a courtroom scene where I stand convicted in front of a jury of 12 women. The sentence would be carried out in that room and witnessed by them.
I’d be stripped of all clothing and secured to a spanking machine device. It would strictly be a punishment spanking with no emotional involvement. A female judge would pass sentence of 100 strokes and the machine would be engaged to deliver each one with a paddle in a very firm , slow steady pace, coveting every inch of my bottom, till completed.
I then would be released but made to stand and present my blistered bottom to the jury for approval. If not met, I’d have to endure another round.

Barrel said...

Being whipped with the single tail is as far into our bucket list as I think we will go. I have a fantasy to be secured to our whipping bench and thrashed by my wife’s exercise instructor…but I don’t think my wife could ever go that far.

A.J. said...

Sure.

#1. GO! Do it! You have done your research now pick one and make the appointment.
#2. When you do, tell her you are new to this, don't know what to expect, and - can you TEACH ME?
When you get face-to-face there will be time before the fun starts where the two of you will talk. Tell her again you are new, don't know what to expect much less why you are there at all; help me.

And she will! And during, if she has not pushed all your right buttons, tell her. She won't bite, and will appreciate the feedback.

In the MANY HOURS after you will, with a pink and tingling tush, think about what happened, whether it met your expectations, and would you do it again.

Wait a couple of months, and then do it again. It will be different. This is now your friend who knows you and what you want and wants to make it enjoyable (getting spanked is enjoyable? Yup!)

After, again reflect. What you expected?

Maybe you will find out it's not for you. And that's OK. It may not be, but at least you found out.

For kicks, start all over again with the other woman you found. Compare. Maybe you will find two friends!

A.J. said...

In my list of Well-that-ain't-gonna'-happens is to have never-ever-to-be-forgotten sex with GF while another girl instructs the both of us what to do, how to do it, and encourages us both on to peak performance with her hand or small strap. Both of us wind up exhausted, and smiling with red bottoms! All followed by using that strap and whatever else is handy on the friend to thank her. Really thank her! Three red bottoms on exhausted bodies! Whoo-Hoo!

See? That-ain't-gonna'-happen.

Loki_Darksong said...

I wouldn't call this a bucket list, I really don't have one. Just an opportunity that I missed out on many years ago and still regret it.

Some years ago during a all male spanking party one of the guests had a Louisiana Prison Strap. A very impressive and intimidating implement I will say.

I was very curious about it. Unfortunately I didn't go up to him and see to the curiosity. Now if he had come to me I probably would have said yes to trying it out. Sadly that never happened and the party ended with me always wondering about it. That wonders made worse by seeing various videos, M/F, where the strap has been used and used very effectively.

It has been a while since I've attended one of those banking parties due to the pandemic which is made things rather difficult. However if things change in the future and I do wind up at such a party and there is a top with that strap, I believe that I will take him up on experiencing it