Tuesday, July 29, 2025

Bzzzzz!

I have plenty of BUMblebees in our garden, and thank you, Boru, for reminding me to tell you about them. Hungry flying insects first appeared when the scarlet runner beans that I have on two trellises on either side of the dining room window started to bloom. When the oregano came into flower, more bees came to feast. But now that the globe thistles are showing tiny blue flowers all over their prickly surfaces, the bees are really having a ball.

Speaking of thistles, I've been watching the Scottish thistles in the garden next door.


They are growing in an area that was once a vegetable bed for the lady next door and her granddaughter. The little girl is now grown up and the tomatoes have been replaced by goldenrod, ragweed and tansy -- until this year, that is. Thistles have taken over completely, and some are about three meters (10 feet) tall! Their purple tops are now turning white and the fluffy seeds are drifting our way. Oh dear! The house was sold recently, but the new owners don't seem interested in the garden. I hope that once they complete their indoor renovations they will put a little effort into the wilderness that was once a neat and tidy back yard.

 

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, July 28, 2025

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 27

What is your favourite (or least favourite) implement?

Jack: It depends on who is giving the spanking. My wife/mommy or as she recently told me she used a hairbrush until her mother gave her a bathbrush. Long handle she was told does wonders. It is the bathbrush I hate. My mother-law who has spanked me prefers the hairbrush; hers is large and heavy. 

Roz: This is a great question. There is just something about the belt that sends a thrill. I think because it's a personal item. It can be sensual or hurt like hell depending on how it is used. I also love our leather paddle.

Norse Cavalier: I've mentioned it before, but my favourite implement is a heavy clothes brush I own. It's the first implement I bought, and spankees tell me it's surprisingly painful. One woman said it was cute and wanted to feel it on her bare bottom, but quickly nicknamed it "Satan" once I started using it. I now only use it for punishments.

I've tried using floggers, but they never feel satisfactory.

Ronnie: Mine without a doubt is the rose leatherthorn paddle but I thought I share P's favourite implement.

It's just a small simple wooden paddle (gifted from Bogey and Bacall). l can tell you that size may well matter but it's definitely not everything; it's also the way it's made, what it's made of and how it's used that counts and on all three criteria my bottom can testify to its effectiveness. It's sharp, packs a punch way above its inches and leaves a lasting impression on my bottom...and my mind.

P's favourites because he says it's fast and well suited to OTK as it doesn't need much room to swing but still produces excellent results (from his perspective). He also knows I genuinely dread it so am unlikely to be able to convert the experience of receiving it into a sensual one, certainly not at the time of use anyway.
  

FL: The hairbrush, with the belt as a close second. Both are perfect for domestic discipline, my preferred scenario. And of course a hand spanking is extremely intimate, though not as painful.

Dan: For me, the answer is more complicated than the simple question suggests. Aesthetically, it's an iconic heavy ebony hairbrush I bought on eBay a few years ago. There also is a strap from London Tanners that is a classic. But, the former isn't that effective and, since we started using OTK as our go-to position, the strap hasn't been used much. I also have a sentimental attachment to a couple of leather paddles I received from the husband of the DWC's "Aunt Kay." I admit I get a kind of perverse little thrill from the instruments that have been used on other butts. (I don't know that the ebony hairbrush has, but have any of those ever been REALLY used to brush hair?)

My wife's favorite is, by far, her bath brush. I hate that thing, though because it is so effective.

A.J.: My hand. (Yes; I'm boring.)

If my hand starts to hurt and there is more "work" still to be done, MAYBE a small strap.

And I'm with Roz on the belt! Not its actual use, but the mind-messing it can do! Having her bent over something and her HEARING that belt being pulled through the belt loops of my jeans, building her excitement/anticipation/fear, "It's coming. I'm going to get the belt!" - (French kiss!!!)

How do I use it? Lightly. About the same as using my hand. But in her mind she is the bad girl, getting the spanking she deserves. (All in fun!)

Prefectdt: least favourite is a delrin cane, I hate that thing so much but just can't bring myself to throw it away. Most favourite type of toy is always a rattan cane. But the toy that means most to me, in my toy box, is a cheap braided flogger that was purchased as a prop for a vanilla costume party and then got properly played with on another occasion and turned out to be a worthwhile toy. It is not that it is the best toy that I own but it is one that brings back good memories, both kinky and vanilla.

Bonnie: My favorite spanking implement is a flexible leather teardrop-shaped paddle. It reliably delivers the necessary heat, sting, and redness without doing any serious damage.

Randy prefers a more substantial OTK-style wooden paddle because he says it is perfect for those corporal punishment spankings.

My least favorite is flimsy novelty paddles that split. I love the concept of owning, displaying, and using paddles with clever sayings, but it would be a whole lot more fun if I could actually get a real spanking.

I have no idea what Randy's least favorite implement might be. He's tried just about everything. I can tell you that a frying pan spanking hurts more than you might think.

Spanky53: My favorite implement is a belt that I have named Turk. It's a supple 2 1/2 inch wide light brown belt with a turquoise belt buckle that I bought in Spain. I've had it now for 25 years and it is the most sensual toy I have.

Loki_Darksong: For myself, my favorite implement is The Cane. Both giving and receiving.

To be more specific, the levels of the canes would be Junior, Senior, Reformatory and whatever level the American Horror Story Asylum Cane is. I still have yet to give the one I own a proper trying out!

I have always loved canes, thoroughly enjoying all the movies that they were used in. I believe the first time I saw one in film was the 70's version of Tom Sawyer.

Unlike many other implements, a cane doesn't numb one's butt during a caning. You are made very aware of what it is doing to you from the first stroke to the last.

Also the use of a cane requires skill and attention so the wielder does not cause any unwanted harm to the person being caned. A well caned backside does not, nor should not, come with a bloody mess. Just a nice level of soreness that lasts for a couple days!
 

Wendel: The favorite implement is the old belt. We just love the sound, the sting and the marks it makes. Also easy to transport. 

Hermione: My favourite is the dogging bat. It produces a nice sting and a very loud sound. My least favourite, and I suspect Ron's favourite, is a foot-long wooden shoehorn. It's light, but produces an unholy sting, especially at the tops of my thighs. Ron gets it out nearly every week, so it must be at the top of his list.

      

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 27, 2025

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #601

It's been a busy week, so now it's time for some relaxation and good conversation over brunch. This week's question came to mind as I was hanging up some of the implements that we hadn't used for a while, and had stored away in a drawer. It's an oldie but a goodie.

What is your all-time favourite implement? Please describe it and tell us why you love it so much. If you prefer, what is your least favourite?

Leave your reply as a comment, and I will publish the results of our discussion when the weekend is over.



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Wednesday, July 23, 2025

I Protest!

Many protests are occurring in the United States these days, and while I can't join in personally, I'm joining them in spirit.
















Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Monday, July 21, 2025

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 20

What's the future for blogging and other spanko social media? 

Anon: No doubt, people are opening up more with social media, learning their desires, lifestyle is common. Social media has been a positive influence, nothing one should hide any more, it is just a part of who we are.

KDPierre: I believe the death knell for blogs has already been ringing for a while now. When the remaining holdouts give up or are censored out of existence, that will be it.

As for other forms of social media? I haven't a clue. However, I believe with the growing use of AI in the future, what does show up will become less and less personal or reliably authentic. I also believe short, banal, attention-grabbers will utterly replace anything of depth or substance.

The one exception may be the podcast-type feature. Those may be the only place in the future for lifestyle people to share anything of substance in depth...but even here I must emphasize 'may'. They just as easily could go trite and sensational, since many already do.

This may sound depressing, but it won't be, because anyone who would lament the passing of substantial lifestyle discussion (like me) will be gone by then and the new generations won't know anything different.
  

CEM: Most things are cyclical. People lose interest in certain things over time, jump to newer technology, that becomes passé, they go to other forms of media, literature and entertainment. Blogs were huge for years, then other social media came about, people jumped to that, now a lot are growing tired of it and seeking out other forums or venues, which may (or may not) mean blogs increase. I don't think anyone can predict what the future will hold, but it will endlessly evolve, rotate, fluctuate and change. And fetish interests change to some extent with time as well, and also cycle around too. Human beings are fickle and unpredictable. Anyway, congrats on the success. 

Roz: Wow, congratulations on your 600th brunch Hermione!

Gosh, I have no idea what the future holds in terms of social media. The number of active blogs in the spanking community has vastly reduced over the years, and censorship isn't helping, but perhaps the blogs may make a comeback? Censorship may be the biggest barrier to meaningful conversations over any platform.

Dan: Congrats on 600 spanko brunches!

I don't think social media forums related to spanking will go away, but as for blogs in particular, it's not pretty. When I started my blog twelve years ago, there were quite a few blogs focused on M/f disciplinary spankings. Now, it seems like I'm the last man standing.

On the other hand, Tumblr is chock-full of channels with that focus. But, that doesn't mean the same content is still out there. Tumblr is largely a visual medium. Very few Tumblr "blogs" have more than a snippet of text (at most) under whatever picture or drawing they're sharing. Maybe that reflects a younger audience that is very visually-oriented but won't read a book to save their lives.

And, KD is right that those blogs that don't run out of gas are still subject to arbitrary censorship from the platform providers like Blogger and WordPress. Often, blogs in his genre disappear not because their authors gave up but, rather, because censors at Blogger or WordPress took them down.

One other platform I've been exploring lately that is kind of blogging is Medium. I like it as a platform, and so far I haven't seen much in the way of censorship. But, because people can't comment without a Medium account, and since most of the users have a profile linked to their real identity, it is virtually impossible to have a conversation, because people won't leave comments revealing their identity. I've published articles that have gotten several thousand reads but few of them get any comments at all.

Prefectdt: I don't think that blogs are done, but the type of blog around is changing. The more heavily written blogs and story blogs are flourishing but they are often not as informative as blogs of old. From personal experience, it looks like explicitly illustrated blogs have the clock ticking. It is a shame that a lot of the newer blogs do not have blog rolls, as they are still the best way of spreading the love and creating a spanking, linkup, blog network. I do hope that another form of adult-only  platform might come along, but it might be inadvisable of us to hold our breaths. Perhaps we should all go back to the printed word :)

Bonnie: Congratulations on brunch #600. That's excellent! And happy moon landing day too.

I may have originally posed the question, but sitting here today, I don't know the answer. I think people will continue to find ways to discuss their shared interests despite growing censorship. It seems like traditional blogs will retain a role, though a diminished one.

Podcasts and vlogs are hot, but many in our community cannot be that out. I never liked Twitter/X because it feels more like a series of strafing runs than an authentic dialogue.

Reddit is an interesting platform, but some of the users (and bots) who inhabit it are idiots. Maybe someone could start an invitation-only spanko discussion subreddit. That could provide an open forum like we once had in Geocities, Delphi Forums, and Yahoo Groups.

I guess that's my long winded way to reiterate that I don't know.

Hermione: When I first started blogging and even before, there was a multitude of blogs focused on D/d relationships. Bloggers used to  have virtual surprise parties for one another, and there was a real sense of community. As George Harrison once said, all things must pass, and the golden age of blogging is now over.

Reddit is a good idea for having spanko conversations, and Substack is an idea for podcasts, although that would necessitate being "out".

I guess we just need to enjoy the remaining blogs while they last. 

Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, July 20, 2025

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #600

Welcome one and all to our six hundredth brunch. We've talked a lot about spanking over the past eleven years that I have hosted brunch here. Now let's think about the future. This question was suggested by our dear friend and former blogger Bonnie.

What do you think is the future of social media for the spanko community? Will blogs continue to be a community and a source of spanko information? 

Please give this one some consideration and leave your thoughts as a comment. Once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish a summary of our discussion. 

 



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart

Friday, July 18, 2025

Decorating Idea

Would you add this to enhance your home decor?

 A big thank you to S for finding the perfect touch for an otherwise plain sofa.



Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine

From Hermione's Heart