Hermione's Heart: Poll - Safewords

Saturday, May 24, 2008

Poll - Safewords

8 comments:

Terpsichore said...: We have no need for safewords yet but we have discussed them...we laughed about it together and decided that any ridiculous word not in context with a spanking would be our safeword ex. penguin...now it has occurred to me that in the heat of the moment I may not be in the position to think so we also said the good ol "safeword" or "code red" as a safewood would also hold true. "ouch" or "stop" would probably not be effective...cuz I say ouch with even the littlest of swats sometimes and can imagine myself staying stop without intending to... :-); May 25, 2008 at 8:30 AM
Michelle said...: Our safeword is eggplant because its jarring enough for him to take notice.
But personally I like to play without safewords; May 26, 2008 at 10:33 PM
Hermione said...: Terpsichore - 'Penguin', That's a good one! But you're right, it might be hard to remember a word like that.

Michelle - Yes, that would certainly get his attention.

We don't use a safeword. Ron's pretty perceptive and would immediately notice if I were in any real distress.

Hugs,
Hermione; May 27, 2008 at 9:02 AM
Rio said...: Don't forget that all participants can use a Safeword to stop play. Not crossing personal emotional or physical boundaries is an essential part of building trust.; May 27, 2008 at 10:38 AM
Rio said...: Oops forgot to mention our safeword 42 for just us, when playing with others we use colors, green, yellow red; May 27, 2008 at 10:46 AM
Hermione said...: Rio - I had never thought about a safeword being used by a top. That's an interesting concept.

Hugs,
Hermione; May 27, 2008 at 4:12 PM
Anonymous said...: I just yell ouch thats enough thats enough, then my partner starts giggling; May 28, 2008 at 12:55 PM
Anonymous said...: The 'traffic lights' is always a good way to introduce a safeword that way you also get a way to get it a bit harder if you want to.

Hugs
Mina; May 31, 2008 at 11:42 PM

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