Have you ever felt embarrassed while either giving or receiving a spanking? What was the reason for the embarrassment?
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I don't think we have ever been embarrassed while spanking in private. However a few times when we have been out and about in public and we have given a playful swat to a butt we have either been seen by a vanilla passer by or one of us just thought that the situation was inappropriate then we get embarrassed.
Embarrassed...no. We have never 'played' in public, I would probably feel 'shy' about that. We have spanked in the great outdoors...but lucky enough to not be interrupted. hugs abby
The Misses was a little embarrassed once after I paddled her bottom just before her parents arrived for dinner. She was slow moving around and slow sitting down. She told her mother it was muscle pain from exercising earlier in the day. Our outdoor spankings are usually in places where it would unlikely to run into anyone. So no worries there.
Getting spanked unleashes a whole bundle of emotions. Embarrassment isn't at the top of that list, but it's buried in there somewhere. I remember a time when Randy and I were upstairs finishing a well executed spanking. We suddenly became aware of someone banging loudly on our front storm door. We froze. Did they hear us? We don't know, because we didn't answer the door. But at that moment, my face was just as red as my bottom.
If I could only not have an erection, but no matter what, once my underpants are pulled down, out popped my penis. I'm reminded with a smile that it will be gone shortly. If I really messed up I must go to the bedroom, undress, hands on head and wait. When my "mommie" finally comes she hands me a towel, and I must kneel and masturbate for her, knowing that the spanking will hurt from the first spank. I do not understand females, but I do know this, when "mommie" tells me I'm getting a spanking I do as told and as quick as possible. Erections don't even matter to her, it is the spanking. Jack
An ex spankee was once, in a hotel, when she saw a smirk from a housemaid who she suspects heard part of a hard , long, mainly hairbrush spanking. We, of course, do not know if she was correct, and I was still in room when she passed housemaid in hall. I had put "Do Not Disturb" sign out during otk and it was normal cleaning hours as we took late checkout.
We had ESPN on at a fairly loud volume, but we likely were among the few rooms occupied mid-morning Sunday.
Ex spankee was also embarrassed first day we met, as ten minutes after leaving, she went to add gas for drive home, and started rubbing outside and quickly caught herself and stopped!
No, but I came close once. The day after a night session (when the kids were younger we’d wait until we knew they’d be asleep) our eldest said something about a clapping noise last night. We just mumbled “don’t worry about it” and the matter was dropped...
Yorkie
I can't say I have been embarrassed as such, but there have been a couple of spankings that have felt a tad awkward such as our first 'real' spanking when we started dd. We had been spanking for fun previously but the first dd spanking was a little awkward for both of us as the emotions etc behind it was so different and I don't think either of us were quite sure how to proceed that first time.
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Roz
A few years ago Anna and I spent a weekend with friends at resort. That evening Anna took my belt
from my jeans and ordered me to bend over a chair. She gave me a hard long spanking and towards
the end, I let out a loud plea " Please stop, !" and broke into tears.
The next days our wives played tennis, we were sitting on bleachers watching them. I guess I sat down
too cautiously because my friend leaned over and said" Can I get you a pillow to sit on? It sounded like
you had a rough night.!" He chuckled and smiled. " Don't worry only I heard you last nite, my wife was
asleep."
peter
We live a DD lifestyle openly. As such, it is not unusual for a spanking to occur within hearing (though behind closed doors) of members of our household. It is very difficult to be led to our room with an open proclamation from Rosa about what is going to happen and then have people be able to hear it. Emerging from the room afterwards is very embarrassing even though no one has ever made a big deal about it.
As a result of a really stupid thing on my part my GF invited a couple of her friends to witness my punishment. I was blindfolded and stripped before they arrived then put over Cs' lap. To this day I am not sure who they were, no talking just giggling and laughing. It was a real spanking that I will never forget nor will the spectators.
Irene likes to make me look at my red bottom in the mirror, teasing me all the while. And she’ll take me shopping or to a restaurant when my bottom is burning up.
We both fantasize about her spanking me in front of other women/girls and how embarrassing it would be - but we don’t seem to know anybody we’d like to share with, so it’s unlikely to happen.
Rosco
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