Bonnie: When I read this question, I was curious what my answer was ten years ago and whether I agreed today. Back then, I said it was the element of voluntary submission. I had to choose to be spanked.
That still works for me today, but there is another element. I am enthralled by the whole punishment headspace. When Randy tells me that I will now be spanked for my misbehavior, my pulse races. A hundred memories flood my consciousness. My hands involuntarily reach back as if it were possible to prevent the coming onslaught. When the paddle appears in his hand, I gasp, even though I have seen (and felt) it many times before. As I take my place over his lap, I feel small and yet fully deserving of the fiery discipline he is about to dispense. Afterward, I am sore, but totally ready for just about any adult fun he wants to explore.
QBuzz: I think the intimacy of it - being close to my partner and feeling our bodies against each other, along with the pain and heat we deliver to each other's bottoms.
Windy: His words and the way he touches me during the spanking........ YOWZA!
abby: The sound/tone of His voice, the feel of His hand...as He claims every inch of me before the spanking starts...and when it is over, being pulled in close to Him....
Yorkie: I don’t think there is only one thing that turns me on but if I use my body’s reaction as a guide, it would have to be the spanking itself. We don’t do punishment or role play so it’s just the act itself that supercharges my libido for the inevitable lovemaking afterwards.
Anon 1: The fact that he is in control.
Wendel: Taking the pants down and baring the bottom is one of my favorite parts.
Roz: This is a great question. The biggest turn-on's are the anticipation then my pants being removed/pulled down.
Anon 2: The waiting, standing there, scolding, the pants and underpants pulled down. My girlfriend is so good, that my erection is throbbing, she really enjoys that. She spanks just enough for me not to come and still with a warm, stinging bottom, she reaps the rewards and so do I. The turn on for me is being a naughty little boy and my girlfriend being the Mommy who spanks her naughty little boy.
Rosco: I’m not sure exactly how to answer, but giving up control for me is wonderfully relaxing.
After a spanking, Irene will generally leave me for awhile (to reflect on my behavior etc). I’ll often doze off while waiting and I rarely otherwise nap. Sometimes I’m lying on the bed and sometimes I’m tied to it. Last Thursday she instructed me to sit in a chair in her dark closet with my hot bottom. Even there I kept falling asleep.
Some people relax by meditating. I relax by getting spanked.
Ronnie: There isn't just one but a combination. The anticipation, his voice, his hands and the way he touches my body during the spanking.
Hermione: I too went back to my original answer and it's pretty much the same today. Thinking about being spanked is actually more of a turn-on than the actual act which, you have to admit, is quite painful!
This topic was just as much fun the second time around!
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definitely for me there is more than one answer to the question...the very possibility or idea of a spanking, the head space that I am not in control and submitting to my husband, the anticipation, the sound of his voice, the words, but also the sound of the spanking itself, the physical reaction of my body responding, the deep connection, and the intimacy...
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For me is the anticipation. For example friday evening i accidentally erased a message left on your phone.
I was sent to our room and ordered to strip... kneeling on the edge of the bed legs spread, and to be honest
semi erect until she attacked my bottom with m y thick leather belt.
When it was finally over, being sent to stand in the corner of our bedroom naked with nose against the wall.
I stood there for over an hour as Beth's friends were having coffee in the next room. Hearing their voices
and mind wandering wondering what they might say if they entered the room and saw me standing there.
tim
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