Monday, December 14, 2020

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for December 13

How vocal is the spanker in your relationship?

Roz: Back in the day when we had an active dynamic Rick would lecture before and during a spanking, depending on the reason for the spanking. If the spanking was not for discipline the dialogue would be more reminders of our dynamic and expectations.

Now that any spanking is purely for fun his dialogue is more light and fun. Comments on how he enjoys spanking me, that I'm his etc. 

Joe: It varies by her mood, sometimes T is very vocal about whatever happens to be on her mind and other times very quiet at which time the spanks are a little slower but firmer and may last longer YAY. When talkative and I am in the right position of exposure some mild ball paddling may be involved. 

Wendel: I do not say much when I spank the Misses. The smacks on her bottom say it all. The Misses paddles me before she leaves for a girls' night out. She lectures how I need to behave while she is gone and that the spanking will remind me to do so all evening. 

Simon: Usually it's just an announcement of how many strokes I'm about to receive. The punishment itself is normally given in silence apart from the occasional grunt of effort, my groans and the sound of whichever implement she has chosen swishing and impacting. Sometimes though if she is very pleased with her efforts she may say something like "that's a good one". Afterwards she may compliment me on how well I took it.

Jack: My wife is vocal, very stern, scolding vary in length. I'm always spanked on the bare bottom, she will either have me undress in the bedroom and wait or will pull down my pants, underpants, scolding me the whole time, and over her lap no matter where. She scolds while spanking. 

Anon 1: Once I'm called into the room , she does all the talking and is always well prepared.
She will ask me questions but usually the answer will require only a "YES Ma'am!" or a "NO Ma'am!"

She scold as she spanks and gives me updates on how red my bottom is (as if I didn't know).
Afterwards she will tease me about the spanking and my reluctance to sit.

 Rosco: Irene never fails to lecture me, although she often adopts another persona. She has been a sorority girl, a senorita, a southern belle, a classmate, a teacher etc. Most recently, she’s Mrs. Robinson and I’m the boy delivering groceries.

Generally there’s some imaginary offence such as peeking through the keyhole into the girls locker room or rummaging through her lingerie. Never anything real (not good for the marriage we’ve agreed).

Sometimes I’ll make lame excuses until she orders me to be quiet and gags me.

Anon 2: Lecture before. Then just me howling.

Graham: It varies a lot depending on the situation and our moods. It can range from playful banter, serious lecture before and/or during, counting, etc. I react to verbal stimulation, so I like it when she's more vocal. 

Barrel: As many have shared, it depends on the reason, level and hype during the foreplay. On most spankings, she only comments about the color that she has not yet attained, so on we go. However if we are in a serious punishment session, where she wants to correct me for something I have done, she will give me a stern lecture between sets and then lay on the instrument as hard as she desires.

Prefectdt: I have experienced words from tops in many different styles of delivery but the ones that make my spine shiver are the quiet and calm instructors who mostly get close up and whisper their commands to you.

 Bonnie: My husband likes to change up our spankings to keep things interesting and to avoid getting into a rut. His vocalizations are part of this strategy. Sometimes, he will strive to create a specific headspace. Other times, he will remain mostly silent and make me wonder what is next. From my position, it's all good.

Hermione: Ron is the strong, silent type. He doesn't say much, although sometimes he will become playful and make jokes about the colour of my bottom, or the sounds I am making.

Stay safe and wear your masks!

From Hermione's Heart

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