Autumn is in full swing here, so I just might ask you for some help in raking leaves after we have had our discussion. Normally, our giant red oaks do not drop their leaves; they turn gold then brown, and cling on over the winter. But this year, for the first time, the leaves are falling off, and the back yard is covered with them. It must be climate change.
One of my most faithful brunch attendees is Jack, who provided this week's topic. I'll let him present it in his own words.
"As a male who wanted to be spanked, we have not heard from the females as to why they spank. I would like to hear from them, especially when a male is wanting to be spanked, or when the female knows that a spanking is needed."
What do you think? Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has offered their opinion, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
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This is an interesting question. I am on the receiving end of a spanking so can't really comment much, except to say I have spanked Rick on the odd occasion in play. At times I did enjoy being on the other end (so to speak), but ultimately, not 100% comfortable.
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Roz
I’m a submissive man and will try to answer for my dominant wife, Irene.
At first, she spanked me because it was important to me. But she got totally into it after several years, escalating into other forms of discipline that push me to the limit. But spankings (with whip, strap or paddle) are a constant, and she’s more into it than me. We don’t take ir seriously but she confesses she likes to make it hurt.
Rosco
Again, I am not in a position to give you a personal answer, but I have asked a lot of spankers this question over the years. And received a wide range of answers. Some examples are "Because I like getting paid for doing this", "Because it turns me on and my husband is not going to know why, but we are going to have a really special time, two minutes after I get through the door" and from an older first timer "I have wanted to do this my whole life and just can't suppress it any more". Not exact wordings, but you get the idea. I do hope that some spanking women take part in this weekend's brunch. I suspect there are as many different answers, as there are female spankers in the world.
Prefectdt
Thank You for posting this, appreciate, and look forward to the comments. Jack
In the beginning I mostly did it because it was something that my husband needs to be happy. I wasn't really into it, but I also didn't mind doing it if it was something he wanted. He has done a lot of things he doesn't really care about to make me happy, so I was willing to give it a try when he opened up about it.
Making him happy is still a huge part of it, but over time it also became a way to vent my frustrations. Feels really great to let him have it, after he pissed me off with something or after a bad day at work. I struggled with this for while once I realized that is what was goin on, but decided its fine as long as I make sure not to be excessive and respect his limits. He also didn't seem to mind when I told him about it, he even admitted he kind of likes it when I'm a bit angry for a spanking because it makes the spanking feel more real.
Surely if my Mistress told me for what she is going to belt me, it would be much better. Moreover, if she kept telling me something like "You must obey me!" or "Don't forget about ever!", it would allow this simple idea to easily go to my brain because during the spanking my brain is busy with pain, so any simple idea said loudly can smoothly go to my mind and my subconsciousness. But my Mistress prefers me to count aloud the number of strokes. Well, really it's important, too.
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